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where have all the genuine guys/women gone

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By *etnwildmilf OP   Woman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

I'm getting sick of being let down.I plan a meet and get ready and they either don't message or they message 10 mins before saying they can't make it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting sick of being let down.I plan a meet and get ready and they either don't message or they message 10 mins before saying they can't make it...."

At least your getting that far..further than me

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By *etnwildmilf OP   Woman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

I'm sure u will get there in time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another reason why I stopped meeting

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I'm getting sick of being let down.I plan a meet and get ready and they either don't message or they message 10 mins before saying they can't make it...."

Have you tried going to clubs instead

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

I guess there's always people who will always do that: agree to a meet to just cancel at the very last minute.

Best luck next time sweetie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the problem of meeting women on here and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're all busy shagging each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure u will get there in time x

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Thanks. I hope so x

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By *etnwildmilf OP   Woman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

Thanks hun x

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By *etnwildmilf OP   Woman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

I do go 2 clubs x

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By *etnwildmilf OP   Woman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

I am actually considering it x

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I do go 2 clubs x"

there ya go then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped meeting, got a bit bored of meaningless vanilla sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking the same lol

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Another reason why I stopped meeting "

Not even socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuine. I have met, will meet.

You just have to take the rough with the smooth.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We were let down at late notice by a guy yesterday (agreed to meet then went UNLOS ) so mailed someone else off here who stepped in at very short notice. So it does happen, but as others say, take the rough with the smooth, a healthy dose of scepticism about people very keen to meet is starting to help us.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Contrary to popular belief, there are a lot of genuine people on the site. You just have to refine your search criteria and tune into the red flags.

Just look between the lines and see who is actually serious on the scene by their verifications, experience and how they look for what they want. I think it's a shame that the OP has decided not to meet anymore cos of a few bad apples. What's the point of being here if you don't want to meet anymore.

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Yes very fustrating and annoying. Just makes your next meet more special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP as I can imagine how frustrating it must be - but if it's happening frequently rather than on an exceptional basis then maybe your QC / filtering process needs to be better?

I can understand the odd one here or there letting you down but nobody has ever cancelled when I've met people so if it's a regular thing then are you happy you've done all you can to validate they're the 'real deal' before agreeing to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting sick of being let down.I plan a meet and get ready and they either don't message or they message 10 mins before saying they can't make it...."

We are lucky, we have had many many meets and only 2 no shows......always pick verified folk and speak on phone that day m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine guy here. Would happily fuck your tight "cunt" (not pussy lol!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine fella here. But hey..I get overlooked. Not much I can do about it, I get on with life and smile along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a minority that get alot of meets and a very big majority that dont get any meets . I have been on here for a number of years and only had one meet that didn't go well at all . So im not going to bother renewing my membership . Waist of time for single guys . Had more fun off my facebook account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been stood up a couple of times. Feels horrible, just sitting in a pub on your own, waiting for someone that doesn't show up as the excitement slowly turns to depression, then boredom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine fella here. But hey..I get overlooked. Not much I can do about it, I get on with life and smile along the way. "

Ahem! Pardon??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been stood up a couple of times. Feels horrible, just sitting in a pub on your own, waiting for someone that doesn't show up as the excitement slowly turns to depression, then boredom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One reason im not meeting is due to being let down too many times ideally only looking for social meets atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im SPARTACUS

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've not been stood up... I've had cancellations, I've had to cancel real world stuff happens its never been a last minute thing though.,

If it's happening a lot to you Op .. the common denominator is your selection process / choices ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im SPARTACUS"

Don't you mean 'I'M Spartacus'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im SPARTACUS

Don't you mean 'I'M Spartacus'?"

NO! I'M SPARTACUS!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There are plenty of genuine people, they get verified. Just the ones that aren't tend to cause angst in the forums.

It has been said before, perhaps it should be a prerequisite to have a wank before arranging a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuine and reliable and I get this all the time.

Single women are the worst they want the ego boost , being told how sexy they are,knowing they

Could meet , but it was just the ego boost they wanted, when meets are arranged they go offline or don't reply. Even when I arrange a meet now I don't expect it to happen

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"There are plenty of genuine people, they get verified. Just the ones that aren't tend to cause angst in the forums.

It has been said before, perhaps it should be a prerequisite to have a wank before arranging a meet. "

You owe me a new keyboard; this one's full of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine here, if we do agree to a social or meet we will be there! We haven't had anyone cancel or not turn up, I'm hopefully that this will continue as our time is very limited.

Good luck to all for exceptional socials and meets.

Dreams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuine. .. always turn up if I say I'm going too. It's just the people I'm meeting don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting sick of being let down.I plan a meet and get ready and they either don't message or they message 10 mins before saying they can't make it...."

did you speak to any of these people on the phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a genuine single guy and would definitely turn up for a meet if it was arranged. I would only cancel if it was a genuine emergency.

However I don't find myself in that situation as I've had very little luck on here, but at least I've been verified thanks to my play sessions in the club I go to; it could be worse I suppose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of genuine people on here. If it's a common occurrence then you have to reassess your selection process.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Going to clubs is far easier, then if they don't turn up you've not wasted your time getting ready and getting excited about what may or may not happen later as there will be other people there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting sick of being let down.I plan a meet and get ready and they either don't message or they message 10 mins before saying they can't make it...."
I am right here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry deleted the last post because of the predictive text.

Genuine one here too and I do turn up. I have been lucky and not had any no shows. I have only had cancellations from those I have previously met. Those meets were rearranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another reason why I stopped meeting "

Same here..arrange a meet then "boom" like magic they disappear. Give up

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Genuine guy here who always turns up for meets. Neve once let anyone down. Don't let timewasters bother me anymore.

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