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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I am single guy who never had a girlfriend or been with a woman. Reason being I am quite shy and not confident. I am also hearing impaired which does make it difficult for me to socialise so I never went out much.

I have been on here before on fab but left the site for a bit. Now I am back on here. I know some of the advice that were given was to go to club but that is not my scene and not something I would be comfortable with.

I have now added pics to my profiles and my face pic is hidden as private / friends only.

Really looking for females or couples who do not mind my inexperience and who would actually prefers this. Also will be happy to make friends on here and people to talk with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope your find what you are looking for pal ^_^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope your find what you are looking for pal ^_^ "

Thanks

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

Better profile pics would help you. Perhaps, clothed, head and shoulders looking like the genuinely nice guy I'm sure you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Better profile pics would help you. Perhaps, clothed, head and shoulders looking like the genuinely nice guy I'm sure you are."

Ok thanks I will put up pics with myself clothed sometime soon....thanks

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP I think that you may have asked this question many times before, the responses are likely to be similar to the last time you asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I think that you may have asked this question many times before, the responses are likely to be similar to the last time you asked."

Ok, thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a look at your profile. You have acknowledged you have confidence issues which you feel are reason for your sexual inexperience. I feel it us vital that you resolve your problems with confidence first, and learn to have 'normal' relationships. I fear that being on Fab, will do you no favours with regards to your lack of confidence. Once you have had some relationships in the vanilla world, and you still feel that swinging is for you, then by all means pursue it. Good luck whatever you try to do.

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"I had a look at your profile. You have acknowledged you have confidence issues which you feel are reason for your sexual inexperience. I feel it us vital that you resolve your problems with confidence first, and learn to have 'normal' relationships. I fear that being on Fab, will do you no favours with regards to your lack of confidence. Once you have had some relationships in the vanilla world, and you still feel that swinging is for you, then by all means pursue it. Good luck whatever you try to do."

^^ excellent advice xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a look at your profile. You have acknowledged you have confidence issues which you feel are reason for your sexual inexperience. I feel it us vital that you resolve your problems with confidence first, and learn to have 'normal' relationships. I fear that being on Fab, will do you no favours with regards to your lack of confidence. Once you have had some relationships in the vanilla world, and you still feel that swinging is for you, then by all means pursue it. Good luck whatever you try to do."

Thanks for the advice...if im honest I am not looking for relationship. Just nsa fun....but thanks

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"OP I think that you may have asked this question many times before, the responses are likely to be similar to the last time you asked."
not necessarily maybe this time instead of putting him down for trying again some people might genuinely want to help him. he did acknowledge that he had asked before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a look at your profile. You have acknowledged you have confidence issues which you feel are reason for your sexual inexperience. I feel it us vital that you resolve your problems with confidence first, and learn to have 'normal' relationships. I fear that being on Fab, will do you no favours with regards to your lack of confidence. Once you have had some relationships in the vanilla world, and you still feel that swinging is for you, then by all means pursue it. Good luck whatever you try to do.

Thanks for the advice...if im honest I am not looking for relationship. Just nsa fun....but thanks "

Well if you are sure that this is right for you, then you need to design your profile so that you come across as sexually appealing. Women by and large use Fab to get sexually fulfilling NSA sex and achieve their fantasies. It's none of anybody's business how experienced you are, and I wouldn't focus on that. Focus on what you can give a woman. You will have to resolve problems with confidence though, and you might finding casual dating is a good stepping stone and gives you some of the skills required for the more faster paced swing scene.

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By *restlerPhilxxxMan
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

My best advice to you is to get yourself along to an organised fab social. Most are held at pubs etc and just chat with singles or couples it might not lead to anything sexual but they'll certainly give you a verification on how you came across etc which will back up your profile blurb. As for your profile blurb maybe talk about something like a kink that gets you off. I read your profile and got pretty bored rather fast, try and make it enthusiastically interesting. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a look at your profile. You have acknowledged you have confidence issues which you feel are reason for your sexual inexperience. I feel it us vital that you resolve your problems with confidence first, and learn to have 'normal' relationships. I fear that being on Fab, will do you no favours with regards to your lack of confidence. Once you have had some relationships in the vanilla world, and you still feel that swinging is for you, then by all means pursue it. Good luck whatever you try to do.

Thanks for the advice...if im honest I am not looking for relationship. Just nsa fun....but thanks

Well if you are sure that this is right for you, then you need to design your profile so that you come across as sexually appealing. Women by and large use Fab to get sexually fulfilling NSA sex and achieve their fantasies. It's none of anybody's business how experienced you are, and I wouldn't focus on that. Focus on what you can give a woman. You will have to resolve problems with confidence though, and you might finding casual dating is a good stepping stone and gives you some of the skills required for the more faster paced swing scene."

Thanks for the advice....i try and make the profile more appealling to woman but may struggle abit....i will give it a try.

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