FabSwingers.com forum: single guys messages

By *andy muncher OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

wright single guys how many messages do you send per day or week to cpls /single fems to try and get a meet or do you just sit back and wait for someone to make contact with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont go overboard with anything like that...very selective and just join in on forums....

Maybe I dont get floods of replies that some blokes are probably looking for but every now and again I do have the fun I'm after...lol

on here and for real too...

I think its all about your situation mate....I personally wouldnt keep on sending out generic messages...

look forward to seeing other replies on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have a 'rate' that I send messages. Sometimes I might not send any in a month, sometimes I might send 10.

I tend to just add people to my hotlist if if I think I like might like them and vice versa. Then I'll go through my hotlist, have a proper read and message the odd one every now and then.

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By *ixson-BallsMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

I'm in agreement with above posters...i can go weeks without sending any messages.Never been one to send loads of messages hoping to get a meet based on percentages etc.

If i see a comment or photo that arouses my interest, then i'll send a message.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I send none asking for meets ... never have, never will.

Prefer to meets at socials etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hardly any now only to a few friends i have got

newbies dont really bother with they dont seam 2 last

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Ive found it more effective to not email at all, reasons:

1. If a girl/lady or couple want to meet, they'd have hinted some interest. Unless the guy completely fucks up his chances doing or saying something stupid.

2. Vice versa if the interested party or parties are not interested, nothing on gods green earth will change their mind otherwise.

Simply fella, its not about what you do but rather if you've been noticed. Most women I find know what they want, which makes my part easier: I'm either wanted or not. Hence don't bother at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive found it more effective to not email at all, reasons:

1. If a girl/lady or couple want to meet, they'd have hinted some interest. Unless the guy completely fucks up his chances doing or saying something stupid.

2. Vice versa if the interested party or parties are not interested, nothing on gods green earth will change their mind otherwise.

Simply fella, its not about what you do but rather if you've been noticed. Most women I find know what they want, which makes my part easier: I'm either wanted or not. Hence don't bother at all."

although every now and then i send cut and paste...

Should be easy to type tho. only 3 words!!!

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