FabSwingers.com forum: bisexual

By *inkykouple2016 OP Couple
over a year ago

moray

Quick question. When looking at couples profiles, why are most of the females bi and most of the males straight?

Not many couples on here have bi guys.

Just curious....like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of mails from couples who say they are straight on their profiles but bi in messages.

Most say the same, it puts people off if they say they are bi on their profiles. Whether that's true I don't know, it puts us off them not being honest about it, as we look for fully bi couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's different but I think men are more harder to be bi really it was a long time before I came out as bi where with women it's sexy if there bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both bi curious as neither have dipped our toes in the water yet so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to have u both In a threesome

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Quick question. When looking at couples profiles, why are most of the females bi and most of the males straight?

Not many couples on here have bi guys.

Just curious....like me. "

There are loads trust me..most will only say I'm a message to you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're both bi curious as neither have dipped our toes in the water yet so to speak

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Never even crossed my mind to list myself as anything but "bi-curious" - we make it clear in our profile that we're happy playing straight if anyone we play with aren't bi and if people overlook us because we're listed as bi, then it's frankly their loss.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a gay stigma thing.

I accepted myself and the shit it came with, but I understand the vast confused population of fab.

Most guys have a presumption about being straight and being masculine. It can effect their sexuality and openness'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of guys want to see their wives lez it up. Be they bi or just eager to please.

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By *inkykouple2016 OP Couple
over a year ago

moray

I just think that if you are on Fab you'd be better being honest about yourself. I agree. I'm bi. Take it or leave it!

The amount of messages we get from straight guys is mind boggling!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"The amount of messages we get from straight guys is mind boggling! "

I feel your pain

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just be honest

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Just be honest

Honest?

There's sooooooooo much dishonesty round here it's Fab's national sport!

(other than fucking, of course)

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I would like to meet a male from a bi couple but bi couples are rare on here and very rare that bi males in a couple meet one on one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get what you mean as soon as we get a message off somebody claiming to be straight but then they say they're bi it pits us right off them we prefer honesty right from the start!!

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By *layful CplCouple
over a year ago

We would rather be honest than dishonest, the way we see it is if we're upfront and honest then at least there's a level of trust right from the beginning of a meet, we are what we are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found quite a few of the ladies put bi-sexual on there profile as it's there partners fantasy to see there lady with another woman.

This is why we are extreamly fussy when meeting couples as Shaz likes to be with a woman that genuinely is enjoying the fun with her and not just doing it for a show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree if you like playing with both you should say and be honest .

If and when your profile is looked at and someone doesn't like your a bi male then it's their option to move along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a lot harder of a bi curious male on here.

I'm only interested in females and couples. But curious to play with a male. But only as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've stopped talking to people who don't have it in their profile. Not having it on we see as lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've stopped talking to people who don't have it in their profile. Not having it on we see as lying. "

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We got over 3000 messages at the weekend when we put a few bi pics up and over 90% of them said straight on their profile.

We just presume every one is actually bi these days and that some just can't find the drop down menus .

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By *ntoonCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

"We've stopped talking to people who don't have it in their profile. Not having it on we see as lying. "

We usually talk to them emphasizing the cock sucking and putting on a mm show for the ladies, seems to work

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

Ive clearly labelled my profile as bi for this reason. . Also I seem to get endless messages from 'straight' guys! Haha weird!

If you're too shy to put you are bi on your online profile, it doesnt bode well for the bedroom!

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"Quick question. When looking at couples profiles, why are most of the females bi and most of the males straight?

Not many couples on here have bi guys.

Just curious....like me. "

All is a question of testosterone, although it doesn't know anything about naughty and wet parties

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

"We got over 3000 messages at the weekend when we put a few bi pics up and over 90% of them said straight on their profile.

We just presume every one is actually bi these days and that some just can't find the drop down menus . "

A world full of bi people,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi on my couples profile.

We just barely ever use our couples profile though

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

"We got over 3000 messages at the weekend when we put a few bi pics up and over 90% of them said straight on their profile.

We just presume every one is actually bi these days and that some just can't find the drop down menus .

A world full of bi people,

Now wouldn't that be nice....imagine the choice!!

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have both of us as bi on our profile because we wouldn't show up in searches if we didn't!

in the end we're not overly put off if people don't have it down. after all we use this site to try to meet strangers for casual sex. what real expectation of honesty can we expect or demand? and some people have an issue with labels but they're kind of necessary here if you're looking for something specific. just be aware that I'd you claim to be bi either openly or covertly, we can sniff out a pretender very quickly indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you are a bi curious male. But Havant tried yet and have no interest in meeting single males.

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"What if you are a bi curious male. But Havant tried yet and have no interest in meeting single males.

I'm the same. I'm more than happy to suck a guy off or be sucked off as part of a threesome. Not faking it for sex, just love it. Makes me bi, as far as I can tell. So I originally put bi male in my profile then in the description I added VERY clearly that I was only interested in bi fun with couples.

Result? Hundreds of requests from single males.

So now I'm bi-curious but probably not turning up in people's searches. Can't win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've said before in the forums, I think the only label that everyone should have is 'sexual'. Then when it comes to specific enjoyments/pleasures then people can find that out as they meet and talk with each other. Sadly people's preconceptions deny them the opportunity to meet some wonderful people on the scene. For example, just because I put bisexual on my profile doesn't mean that I want man on man action in every meet.. and it doesn't mean i can't control myself around men like a cock hungry whore lol. In fact I often prefer 'straight' meets with couples and don't make the guys feel uncomfortable in the least. But alas, I'm bi so I must want only cock all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are honest in our profile what we are as a couple. Roxy is bisexual and as such we search for bi guys, I'm straight have no interest in women.......however show me a hot cd/TS with femininity looks and a cock then HELLO!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys us so much that bi men feel it's ok to say they are straight so they can still meet women and couples who do t want to meet bi guys. How disrespectful to ignore their preferences and lie just for a fuck, and makes you wonder what they are lying about to meet us! That's why we only meet single guys when they are honest on their profile.

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By *nDeexXxCouple
over a year ago

Rossendale

"We got over 3000 messages at the weekend when we put a few bi pics up and over 90% of them said straight on their profile.

We just presume every one is actually bi these days and that some just can't find the drop down menus . "

Some very sexy pics you have there guys

Dee xXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have moved on from being bi_curious and now admit i am fully bi. Still prefer oral only but i have dabbled in going further.

I am in no rush to get fucked, but it does seem that there is a bias about bi males. Straight guys in couples seem to think that because i am bi i will jump on them and so i am sure i have lost out on meets because of this.

Still i am honest, no point lying just to get my dick wet.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"It annoys us so much that bi men feel it's ok to say they are straight so they can still meet women and couples who do t want to meet bi guys. How disrespectful to ignore their preferences and lie just for a fuck, and makes you wonder what they are lying about to meet us! That's why we only meet single guys when they are honest on their profile. "

I desagree. It's not lying. I can play straight or bi without problems, adapting to the lady/couple's preferences. Actually, even playing bi with her husband, I consider the lady as the center of the attention. This is not a straight/bi contradiction, but a continuous line in sex desire.

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By *nDeexXxCouple
over a year ago

Rossendale

Same situation for us. We feel your pain lol

Dee xXx

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We do get the message from straight guys I am bi but when it comes too they chicken out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think that if you are on Fab you'd be better being honest about yourself. I agree. I'm bi. Take it or leave it!

The amount of messages we get from straight guys is mind boggling! "

This x 100.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm talking about couples and women who don't want to meet men who are bi. There are quite a few and they have their own reasons for this, reasons that should be respected no matter what.

They should know if someone has played no so they can make their own decisions, and yet it is a lie, as many men have told us themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Played bi, not no - that should have said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seam very odd, on a web site that by definition is for open minded sexually liberated people that guys can't own up to being bi or bi curios, prejudices perhaps or insecurities!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does seam very odd, on a web site that by definition is for open minded sexually liberated people that guys can't own up to being bi or bi curios, prejudices perhaps or insecurities! "

I think that terms like "own up" gives the impression that its something to be afraid to "own up too"...

We have found that since we have both put that we are Bi curious we have been approached and met the most open, friendly and honest people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more socially acceptable for women to be bi.

Disclaimer: I'm not saying it's right. It's just how it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on Faguys, it funny as most of the "straight men" on here appear to be "Bi" on there? And the "Bi" on here are "gay" on there.

I get messages from straight men with only female friends wanting to play, they also want MMF which suggests to me its to just play with the guy under the pretence of saying they want a women.

Many seem to have male friends too which when you look at their profiles are gay yet you cant message the st4aight ones? Its sadly hypocrital and in todays world people should be honest

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