FabSwingers.com forum: Showing your Pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello Fab Members. This is csfantasies. I have an issue that needs to be discussed.

When you set up your profile, we don't need to see another dick or pussy, unless you want people sitting at home jerking off to it. If your a true swinger, post a pic or 2 of both of you, face and body. Does not have to be nude. You are a guy, or are hiding something. Rejection is part of the game. I am tired though of always having to ask to see pics. If you want to be noticed post body and face. If your not a swinger, keep posting your dick or pussy.

This is easy as 123. You look at the pics, find attraction, move on to some getting to know each other, if that works plan a date. Don't be afraid. Swinging is the ultimate fantasy, but just do it right.

Thank You

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So not having a face pic on display means im not doing it right??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wish you'd said that earlier!

I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.

Fap ya cock out, men!!!

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

*bites lip*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Apparently these guys know the right way to do things.

I'm taking notes here....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yup. Apparently these guys know the right way to do things.

I'm taking notes here...."
ya gonna flap ya cock out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are entitled to post whatever pics they want. Its their profile and choice, true swinger definition has nothing to do with what type of pictures you upload. Unfortunately there is no way to filter 'graphic' avatars so you will have to live through it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummmm ... Let me think... No. I'll carry on ordering my pics exactly as I do now. You carry on though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup. Apparently these guys know the right way to do things.

I'm taking notes here.... ya gonna flap ya cock out?

A little bit yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True swinger shows all. Your a wimp if you just show your junk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"

There's the magic word...opinion

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Not everyone wants their mugshot on show for all to see

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By *un43Couple
over a year ago

hull

We would have face pics if we were in another countries fab like yourselves OP.

Easy to judge people 3000 miles away. We like things just the way we have them thank you

We get your point to a degree but each to there own and there is no right or wrong way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True swinger shows all. Your a wimp if you just show your junk"

I feel approved by you now

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"

Actually, that's not true. Everyone's 'junk' is different. I just think that suggesting that I'm not a 'swinger' based on my differing profile approach is based on erroneous assumptions. Anyway, if I'm not a swinger, I'm a twat and guess what? Suits me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Funny all men replying opposite. Not real couple swingers

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"

I like a nice face pic of a man but demanding they be on show is a bit OTT.

Not all swingers are unemployed and proud to be outed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True swinger shows all. Your a wimp if you just show your junk"

Maybe your junk ain't worth showing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll do as I please, thank you kindly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well mine are there to be seen. Face not bad but hey each to there own.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"

Some people really can't post public face pictures. For myself personally, working in a school means I would be stupid to post public face pics. If our swinging as public knowledge I would certainly lose my job.

Cal

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Here's my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny all men replying opposite. Not real couple swingers"

Awww now i don't feel approved by you because i'm not replying from my couples profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/07/16 21:01:50]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following this thread. Love a lively discussion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Keep jerking off buddy

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

There is no right or wrong way!

It's up to individuals, what pics they're comfortable with posting. How they approach swinging & meeting people in general.

We personally get fed up with others telling us how things should be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same

Cal"

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Ah feck, we haven't been doing it right. Best delete our veri's, that show we are real, true swingers, and just pop a selfie up instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would god say

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

"Here's my face

No OP... I bet my junk is very diffrent to yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/07/16 21:07:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no right or wrong way!

It's up to individuals, what pics they're comfortable with posting. How they approach swinging & meeting people in general.

We personally get fed up with others telling us how things should be done.

^^^^^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll post whatever i like thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish you'd said that earlier!

I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.

Fap ya cock out, men!!! "

Oh goodness its still out Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want my face up could be awkward if my son or anyone I knew saw me and knew I was a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on"

The opinion of someone who can't grasp the reply and quote function..

Nah..i'll make my own mind up ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's my face

No OP... I bet my junk is very diffrent to yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol! All woman and men responding. "

The hermaphrodites will be along shortly

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

"Lol! All woman and men responding. "

A couple here- no face pics up. See previous post that you seem to have chosen to ignore as well as the other couple that commented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol! All woman and men responding. "

Would you prefer if I replied from my couples profile

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Lol! All woman and men responding. "

Oh dear, you're one of those couples who think only couples can be swingers?

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By *un43Couple
over a year ago

hull

"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on"

And yet hide there verifications!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Lol! All woman and men responding.

Would you prefer if I replied from my couples profile

Good point, I could do that too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I wish you'd said that earlier!

I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.

Fap ya cock out, men!!!

Oh goodness its still out Steve

I have to provide proof to complete strangers that I'm not a swinger. Otherwise, my whole social life is invalidated and worthless.

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By *ust Us TogetherCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We would both lose our jobs and would be subject to the most vile abuse from people around where we live......

And I don't really want my kids knowing what we do......

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

"Lol! All woman and men responding.

Would you prefer if I replied from my couples profile

Good point, I could do that too

here I am Hi (waves)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on"

Ooo goodie swingers top trumps!!! I laugh at your poxy 5 years and give you 25 years that tell me your opinion is worth jack shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish you'd said that earlier!

I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.

Fap ya cock out, men!!!

Oh goodness its still out Steve

I have to provide proof to complete strangers that I'm not a swinger. Otherwise, my whole social life is invalidated and worthless. "

Well don't leave "da beast" out too long its making me feel all funny

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've changed it to a glass of Merlot.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I've changed it to a glass of Merlot.

I have been know to drink Merlot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish you'd said that earlier!

I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.

Fap ya cock out, men!!! "

Yes flop it out, definitely XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed it to a glass of Merlot.

Could you not change it white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed it to a glass of Merlot.

And you can't beat a good glass of Merlot like you can your junk

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

We don't keep our face pics in our public gallery. We send them with messages, on request or on the occasion we partake in face-pic-Friday.

Couldn't give a fuck whether you or others consider us to be wimps. We will continue to post our pics the way we want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Remember. Just my opinion. This is what We look for all else get deleted. No need to get angry.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

"I've changed it to a glass of Merlot.

Rosè for me please... Nice and cold for this warm evening

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've changed it to a glass of Merlot.

And you can't beat a good glass of Merlot like you can your junk

Hahaha!

I think proper swingers need a sense of humour based on my 4 years of shagging about in Brighton

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Yes Sir!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steve, have I converted you to a cock pic? Lol

Mine is away and hiding again now, the thread I made didn't go down too well! Haha

Regarding the OP question, it's up th the individual what pics are displayed on profile, and seeing as we have HUNDREDS of 'swingers' round near us, we prefer to keep our faces hidden.

If we speak to anyone and we get along, we may send a pic via message, but Deffo not on public display.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"True swinger shows all. Your a wimp if you just show your junk"

'True' swinger...

How about if you have a lot to lose by being outed.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Remember. Just my opinion. This is what We look for all else get deleted. No need to get angry. "

With freedom of speech, which you get in this public forum, also comes an expectation of maturity insofar as responsibility regarding not denigrating others who don't follow what you think is right. An example, calling people 'wimps'. I think rather than getting angry, people are hooting with laughter.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Hello Fab Members. This is csfantasies. I have an issue that needs to be discussed.

Thank You"

Or people run their profile how they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Fab Members. This is csfantasies. I have an issue that needs to be discussed.

Thank You"

In your opinion only. This thread is wrong, it gives the impression that you are fab admin rule makers and newbies might think this is what they have to do.

Sorry but we all have the right to have what we want on our profiles picturewise, so tough to try to you. If you don't like what you see move along. Sounds like you are the Fab police some of us don't want face pictures public, I don't, I go into a school every school day.

So swing off xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Remember. Just my opinion. This is what We look for all else get deleted. No need to get angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on"

Stating your opinion is one thing, and yes you are entitled to it but calling out others that don't agree with you is asking for an argument. Many people do not have face pics on display to minimize the risk of discovery by people they don't want to be discovered by. I held a very visible position within a small town recently that, had they dicovered this profile, I would have lost it. Don't know about you but I cannot afford to lose my job. And though the risk may be low, if I can discover this site from my little corner of Kansas, then so can others, and not everyone comes to sites like this with good intentions. Carry on swinging your way and we will do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remember. Just my opinion. This is what We look for all else get deleted. No need to get angry.

I just deleted mine as yours was more of a true swingers answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on

The opinion of someone who can't grasp the reply and quote function..

Nah..i'll make my own mind up ta

Haha I was thinking exactly that! If you don't reply and quote you're not a real swinger....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your right in that respect. I just had a couple go off on us for asking for a face pic. Got a bit frustrated. Sorry.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Your right in that respect. I just had a couple go off on us for asking for a face pic. Got a bit frustrated. Sorry."

You definitely need to see one before meeting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Your right in that respect. I just had a couple go off on us for asking for a face pic. Got a bit frustrated. Sorry."

Wine is there just for situations like this.

Hardly anyone will meet without a face pic first but they don't need to show it in public.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Your right in that respect. I just had a couple go off on us for asking for a face pic. Got a bit frustrated. Sorry."

So you decided to preach to all.

This makes no sense as you gave pictures so why wold they ask for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger so I'll carry on doing my own thing

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

"I've changed it to a glass of Merlot.

All this thread has done is made me want a glass of Merlot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a swinger so I'll carry on doing my own thing

I think your right if you want to show other pictures you have to build up a trust there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we show pics in the open gallery other times we choose not to. We pay the fee monthly and as this is our account with Fabswingers we will do what we choose to do, as and when we choose to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot show my face for personal reasons.

What's funny tho is if it's a very public & open practice why are the clubs all quite hidden?? Hmm maybe it's to not draw attention & also the clientele feel more comfortable going into them without necessarily being seen.

And the end of the day. When you've got your mouth round a guys cock or his heads between your legs you ain't seeing much of the face are you?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Damn, I wondered where I was going wrong in choosing not to be approached when I'm at work or out in my home town on my daily non-swinging business. I wasn't aware that choosing who I share my actual identity with made me less of a 'swinger'. I'll tell the people I meet I'm sorry they didn't see me before they spoke to me. And the regular squeeze I swing with on occasion that I'm not doing it properly.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

PS welcome to the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True swinger shows all. Your a wimp if you just show your junk"

I'm neither. Thank fuck for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure it's fair to expect face pics on public view. We have ours in our 'friends only gallery', in order to give us a little privacy.

But what is your definition of a 'true swinger'?

The urban dictionary describes swinging as 'a lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple'. I suspect this is a good description for most couples on this website.

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

"Funny all men replying opposite. Not real couple swingers"

Do we count as real couple swingers and not a photo of any sort in sight?

I notice you hide your verifications though, is that to do with wanting some sort of privacy or are you not real swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"

Keep your opinion to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never claimed to be swingers, real or faux.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Following the recent press invading swingfields and derogatory commemts in the media, and knowing they probably have access to this site. I prefer not to show many pics on my profile.

If you want to tell people they are not true swingers if they don't show their faces, I might just tell people how foolish they are having any photos at all displayed.

But how people run their own profiles is a personal thing and I would not dream of trying to tell people that my opinion is the right way to do things.

I think you are jolly silly !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your right in that respect. I just had a couple go off on us for asking for a face pic. Got a bit frustrated. Sorry."

It can be a frustrating place. If people are abusive report their mail.

If people won't send face pics they aren't compatible with me so I just stop mailing them and move on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"PS welcome to the forum

Crikey! A baptism of fire for sure. One thing we've all learned from here is that everyone thinks their own opinion is important, that a glass of wine is better than a cock for a photo and that the past tense of 'learn' is 'learnt'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These Americans are trouble makers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS welcome to the forum

Actual lolling going on here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"One thing we've all learned from here is that everyone thinks their own opinion is important, that a glass of wine is better than a cock for a photo and that the past tense of 'learn' is 'learnt'. "

It's learned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*bites lip*"

Beautiful xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"One thing we've all learned from here is that everyone thinks their own opinion is important, that a glass of wine is better than a cock for a photo and that the past tense of 'learn' is 'learnt'.

It's learned

And this *THWAPPP!!!* is a spank on your bottom

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