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"A short message relevant to my profile and a face pic is all I require ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's a myth that all women get bogged down with tons of mail... they just say that as an excuse not to read your pathetic attempt at an opening missive ![]() Ha ha, the ladies perspective! I'd try out my pathetic attempts on you but I'm sure you really are bogged down! | |||
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"A short message relevant to my profile and a face pic is all I require ![]() This is the same for me too... Then I read their profile and if I like it I will respond ![]() | |||
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"A short message relevant to my profile and a face pic is all I require ![]() ![]() Same here. I think those that demand all sorts in the introductory message are pandering to, and massaging, their own egos. | |||
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"It's a myth that all women get bogged down with tons of mail... they just say that as an excuse not to read your pathetic attempt at an opening missive ![]() it's not a myth for some of us. but yes half the time i cba to even open a message coz i can see how shit it is without opening it. | |||
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"A short message relevant to my profile and a face pic is all I require ![]() ![]() Same x | |||
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"It's a myth that all women get bogged down with tons of mail... they just say that as an excuse not to read your pathetic attempt at an opening missive ![]() Guess that makes the first 5 words critically important then! | |||
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"It's a myth that all women get bogged down with tons of mail... they just say that as an excuse not to read your pathetic attempt at an opening missive ![]() if there's even 5 words there, yes. ![]() | |||
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"It's a myth that all women get bogged down with tons of mail... they just say that as an excuse not to read your pathetic attempt at an opening missive ![]() ![]() Ha ha, less than 5 words hardly constitutes a message! Think maybe I'm too wordy! | |||
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"Thats how we approach it. Absolutely no point in expending significant effort in a fully tailored first message given that aroun 80% will be unread and most of the remaining 20% will be recieved by a timewaster or a fake profile. Frankly its egotism on the part of the people demanding it. Egotism they get away with because of their relatively higher position of privilege in this sphere. They expect others to invest their time before they are prepared to invest theirs. Personally, we send a nice polite little message, relatively generic. If we get a reply then we know we pass their physical threshold. And then by all means we will put significant effort into being charming and flexible and respectful and all of that. But why the hell should anyone go all out for someone who they havent even spoken to. If that costs us a few meets, well thats how the cookie crumbles." ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don#'t demand anything, but if someone has made no effort with me then i'm not interested. That goes for copy and paste messages, hi, x, people trying to order like a service, i want *whatever* can you provide it for me. Am honestly tempted to shove on my profile "if you're asking for a service offer me fucking money you ignorant, misogynist fucks"." That's so romantic. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's a myth that all women get bogged down with tons of mail... they just say that as an excuse not to read your pathetic attempt at an opening missive ![]() ![]() lol maybe. i do get a fair amount of decent messages as well but usually they haven't even read my profile and want something other than i do, which leads me to think they copy and pasted. having a list of demands pretty much is pointless. you should just ask for what you want, show what you have to offer, and not give anyone clues about how to get round your compatibility filters in place - if you keep them to yourself then you're less likely to have manipulative people to get you to message back and i feel that's the key to the best meets is finding truly compatible people. | |||
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"I don#'t demand anything, but if someone has made no effort with me then i'm not interested. That goes for copy and paste messages, hi, x, people trying to order like a service, i want *whatever* can you provide it for me. Am honestly tempted to shove on my profile "if you're asking for a service offer me fucking money you ignorant, misogynist fucks". That's so romantic. ![]() ![]() i'm not looking for romance. ![]() | |||
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"I don#'t demand anything, but if someone has made no effort with me then i'm not interested. That goes for copy and paste messages, hi, x, people trying to order like a service, i want *whatever* can you provide it for me. Am honestly tempted to shove on my profile "if you're asking for a service offer me fucking money you ignorant, misogynist fucks". That's so romantic. ![]() ![]() ![]() Me neither. ![]() | |||
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"I don#'t demand anything, but if someone has made no effort with me then i'm not interested. That goes for copy and paste messages, hi, x, people trying to order like a service, i want *whatever* can you provide it for me. Am honestly tempted to shove on my profile "if you're asking for a service offer me fucking money you ignorant, misogynist fucks". That's so romantic. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i'm looking for someone i can fuck up. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So many ladies profiles, rightly so, request an original and individual message as an approach with something of interest and often specify types of pictures preferred. And yet the ladies receive so many messages those tailored approaches often sit unread. For some this is frustrating and can lead to a lack lustre effort on future approaches. I guess you just have to play the numbers game?" The men we have met all wrote us personalised messages, therefore they would not be feeling their time was wasted on that occasion. I also know for a fact that these same men, have had many meets with other ladies/couples of their choosing. I guess if you're not fussed about who you fuck, you could play the numbers game. | |||
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"A short message relevant to my profile and a face pic is all I require ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Just imagine all those cock profiles are sweeties in a pick-and-mix. Slight variations, but still sweeties. And you have to choose a sweet. How do you choose? Well you can't really choose. You just have to pick one randomly. That's how it is for women looking at Fab. Just an array of very similar profiles predominantly represented by pictures of dicks. Firstly I don't think many women are likely to pick a profile randomly, but if they do, what are the odds that it going to a particularly man's profile. Those are the odds of this 'numbers game'. | |||
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