FabSwingers.com forum: How many meets in one week?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what works for you?

Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do what works for you?

Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!"

I'm not slut shaming myself, just curious after chats with a couple of other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what works for you?

Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!

I'm not slut shaming myself, just curious after chats with a couple of other people

Hm love to have like 2 but maybe like meet those two and have fun nearly everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what works for you?

Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!"

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

We would do as many as we wanted providing we had the time. Its about enjoying yourself and who cares what anyone els thinks tbh

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No limits

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious

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I have ranged from nil in a week to three in one long night in three different locations . They were all couples whom I had meet before .

I did not feel sluttish , just needed some rest aferwards .

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Hoping for 3 this week but 1 of today's is already quiet having been asked to confirm, time will tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least three , and up to 9 , depending on what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 dogging meets this week already..Im keeping a tally this year so ill post late in Dec how many meetups I had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have one meet though which is a hang bang/greedy girl event: does that count as one still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoops gang bang.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I used to strive for the perfect week....a different meet each day....but the weekends kept screwing me over. I did meet 7 guys in 4 days once. Each a 1-2-1 meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell is slut shaming?

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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We would like more but never goes to plan

Some people arrange and has no intention of turning up

Some msg you till you say can you meet tonight only to be told sorry we can arrange for another time...

I think that slutty talk wrong

Coz if men does it they become studs so why should it be slutty for women..

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

We once had five 1-2-1 meets in a week, which included three in one day!

All included an element of play except the second one on the Saturday which explains the hasty meet later that day! lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are very busy during the week so make up for it when we go to the club....one event but numerous "meets"

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"At least three , and up to 9 , depending on what we are looking for

Yet, pretty much the same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 per week would do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be luck if I get one a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be luck if I get one a month

Well if you need help getting numbers up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone

So my weeks planned activities aren't too bad then

But I'm not ashamed/embarrassed about what I do, was just very curious about others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what works for you?

Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!"

That is a really rude thing to say!

So what if she wants 3 meets every day it's got nothing to do with anyone she just asked a simple question.

Who are you to judge her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious

Meets a week?

I'm lucky if I get one meet a month

Never had to worry about more than one meet a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what works for you?

Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!

That is a really rude thing to say!

So what if she wants 3 meets every day it's got nothing to do with anyone she just asked a simple question.

Who are you to judge her"

I think she's saying don't call yourself a slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to have 3 different meets within a 24hr period and I have also gone months without having a meet at all.

Do whatever feels right (and if it's not 'right' make sure it's fun).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious

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lucky to get 1 a year lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 if I am not greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious

I have had three in one week. MMF first then MF then MMFF. Now that was a good week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what works for you?

Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!

That is a really rude thing to say!

So what if she wants 3 meets every day it's got nothing to do with anyone she just asked a simple question.

Who are you to judge her

I think she's saying don't call yourself a slut.

I was saying that the number and frequency of partners and sex that you have being referenced as 'sluttish is a societal concept- of them out there, and not us in here!

Being female and having a strong sexual appetite does not equate to being a 'slut' in swinging, although there is a 'kink' for it as part of BDSM x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, a year or two ago had two 3somes within an hour of each other.

Had arranged to meet the first couple when another couple I had been chatting too wanted to meet too. The second couple had been trying to meet for a while, so when I told them I already had a meet that day asked me to come anyway. Finished with the first couple, drove 30 minutes to the second and 30 minutes after that was playing with the female while her partner watched.

Not something that has happened since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week lol

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

When P went home for a week and stayed in her sisters empty flat she met 9 guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally we have a minimum threshold but no maximum expressed.

We aim to have a minimum of 1 meet every 90 days, however we have booked 2 in the same week before. One went UNLOS before the day, the other we did proceed with.

Generally because we have scheduling issues and cant always be sure when we are going to be free we are perfectly happy to have a couple in the same week if thats how the timing works out. Wouldnt necessarily do more than that.

But its horses for courses, if you are a single female, or in a couple where your partner is happy with the frequency, do what makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy with one - ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd like to say I have a busy week every week but it's more have to take the opportunity when I'm free of children! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am free everyday as I just go to the gym, so one different meet everyday would be the fantasy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be happy to get 1 a year ... lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The most I've done (outside group sessions, although this included a couple of 3sums) was 12 in 5 days before Xmas last tear.

Went for 7 fucks in 7 days for a birthday a couple of years ago and the total body count was 11.

Don'tyajustluvit?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a good few years ago, before I was married, I went on holiday to spain with a girlfriend and slept with 7 different men on 7 consecutive nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to have 2 or 3 a day...sometimes more if i got the chance.

think i burnt myself out haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nov to be negative on this post, and I'm sure I don't need to count how much sarcasm has been posted here. I'm having to keep the laughter in whilst I answer.

I could manage 2 or 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be able to dictate how many a week I could have lol... Been a while off this site but could do 4-5 if time allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nov to be negative on this post, and I'm sure I don't need to count how much sarcasm has been posted here. I'm having to keep the laughter in whilst I answer.

I could manage 2 or 3. "

Strange response

Are you saying people are lying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

minimum of 1 a week could go more depending on my mood have done 2 r 3 in one night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nov to be negative on this post, and I'm sure I don't need to count how much sarcasm has been posted here. I'm having to keep the laughter in whilst I answer.

I could manage 2 or 3.

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Are you saying people are lying?

Sorry. I've not met anyone. I put that answer above as I laughed thinking how many I could manage if s meet WAS offered. But to be creative, I could have gone with...

1 meet a week would be nice...

1 meet a MONTH would be great...

What is a meet?....

People meet people on here?

But others had already done that kind of thing. I didn't think anyone was lying.

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Dont know I go for quality rather than quantity.

Does a gangbang or greedy girls event cout as one meet? If not one meet every now and again and I keep logging in on here whilst I have some work in progress.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I've met between one and ten a week depending on what I have wanted. But more normal for me is a couple a week. I have one or two established I see regularly

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have had 3 in last 7 days

A mf, mmf, and a mf and 2 different events of and a greedy girls as well but didn't shag on that

So I have had a fulfilling week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0.5

She was small.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies massively for me! Occasionally I may have two or more meets in a week - but at least one will often be a social - and some weeks I don't meet at all!

The kids break up soon, for instance, so meets will be few and far between during the holidays! That's the beauty of fab though I think - that you can pick it up and put it down at leisure - without hurting anyone/letting them down!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Meets in a week? I'm lucky to meet every few months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most for me was the tail end of June for me 5 women, 6 meets in 7 days..... Never again though as I was absolutely wrecked by the end of it.

Normally I see a regular playmate at the weekend then An occasional midweek meet as well, 2 a week is fine for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do something on average about once a month. Usually a party, but sometimes a private meet. We've got kids so it's impractical to meet more frequently than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad for this post. I turn loads down. Mainly due to time but also due to feeling like I'll end up going through a lot.

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By *hris501965Man
over a year ago

chertsey

Pmsl I would like one meet i never get any from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pacing myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never feel slutty for the frequency of my sexual encounters. I can go months without meeting anyone from here,although I do have regular partners I met away from here,who I started see. Most men I had sex with was 7 in 9 days; including a mmf and two separate men in one day. I couldn't do that now,I'd keel over.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Had a lovely week of different types of meet once.

Just 6 though as Sunday let me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious

lucky to get 1 a year lol"

Lol... now I don't feel as bad....thought it was just me x

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