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How would my bf feel if I told him I want to try a more endowed guy

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By *poolnerveycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say you want to try a variety of sizes.

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By *ime for me21Man
over a year ago

skeg

Try and say it's a fantasy of yours x

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Your profile asks for VWE men so surely he already knows?

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?"

That's a tough one, proceed carefully. I imagine he'd get hurt as would most blokes I'd say.

It's like him asking you if he could try a girl with bigger tits or a tighter pussy. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you need to???? It says on your profile that you are looking for VWE guys so I think he might have a good idea already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would my bf feel ?

Only he could tell you

How would I tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?

Watch some porn with vwe men in them and tell him you would like to try 1 or 2 yourself, Use some extra large dildos and say something similar,

In short talk to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let him read this thread

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?

That's a tough one, proceed carefully. I imagine he'd get hurt as would most blokes I'd say.

It's like him asking you if he could try a girl with bigger tits or a tighter pussy. Good luck "

Yeah..bang on...put yourself in his position mentally. Unless you have a potential cuck as a boyfriend or one who might have bi tendencies then he will be hurt whatever way you put it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably would feel the same as you, if he wanted to try bigger boobs.

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby


"Your profile asks for VWE men so surely he already knows?"

Good point.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Don't, just arrange a meet with a bigger guy and presto, job done?

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By *ark074Man
over a year ago

nottingham


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?"

You can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?

That's a tough one, proceed carefully. I imagine he'd get hurt as would most blokes I'd say.

It's like him asking you if he could try a girl with bigger tits or a tighter pussy. Good luck "

This....... some are comfortable in their ability irrespective of size...many struggle with it.

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By *poolnerveycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

Yeah he's 8 inch himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?"

Three ways to find out.

1) Ask the fab audience

2) Phone your boyfriend and ask him.

3) Go 50/50. Just do it. It's 50/50 whether be will be upset

Number two might be the best option!

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Your profile asks for VWE men so surely he already knows?"

Shhhhh, I don't know yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes some things are best left unsaid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are in an honest trusting loyal and loving relationship and have experience with 3sum and/or group fun together then there should (in theory) be no reason why you can't tell him what you want. It doesn't mean you have to go ahead with it. Because if you loved and respected him and he didn't want you to do it then you won't. But at the very least you can both discuss it openly and honestly and respect each other's views

That's what me and my ex girlfriend did and we had a great time!

I shared her with guys who were more well endowed than me but I never felt jealous or insecure.

Maybe try bringing it up when you're watching porn together...

Good luck x

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"If you are in an honest trusting loyal and loving relationship and have experience with 3sum and/or group fun together then there should (in theory) be no reason why you can't tell him what you want. It doesn't mean you have to go ahead with it. Because if you loved and respected him and he didn't want you to do it then you won't. But at the very least you can both discuss it openly and honestly and respect each other's views

That's what me and my ex girlfriend did and we had a great time!

I shared her with guys who were more well endowed than me but I never felt jealous or insecure.

Maybe try bringing it up when you're watching porn together...

Good luck x "

spot on, i don't need to type now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are in an honest trusting loyal and loving relationship and have experience with 3sum and/or group fun together then there should (in theory) be no reason why you can't tell him what you want. It doesn't mean you have to go ahead with it. Because if you loved and respected him and he didn't want you to do it then you won't. But at the very least you can both discuss it openly and honestly and respect each other's views

That's what me and my ex girlfriend did and we had a great time!

I shared her with guys who were more well endowed than me but I never felt jealous or insecure.

Maybe try bringing it up when you're watching porn together...

Good luck x

spot on, i don't need to type now! "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By writing a thread about it

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

If he's cuckold, you're fine. Otherwise....

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah he's 8 inch himself "

Google is your friend: "This study found the average penis size to be as follows: Average size for an erect penis is 14.2 cm (5.6 inches) Average circumference of an erect penis is 12.2 cm (4.8 inches).18 Mar 2016". So if you want more than 8 inches you will be waiting quite some time....

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By *igshaft30Man
over a year ago

wigan

Well I'd imagine if you where trying to be discreet you did the wrong thing asking on your couples profile, which he presumably has acces to

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By *ilver Bra.sCouple
over a year ago

Aberdare

Let's be honest if he already got 8 inches en he ain't exactly gonna feel like he ain't big enough. He already knows he's big jus tell him u want massive and make a joke of it.

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By *poolnerveycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

Yeah your so right, thank you x

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?"

He'll get rock hard and fuck you senseless x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?"

He'd probably love it so long as he could give it a squeeze too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's anything like most men, myself included, you cant ask without offending. Just not going to happen.

Most men, unless they have a truly insane size (10"+) dont actually percieve their size to be all that great, and are never happy with it. Ive never had a single complaint about my size to justify my own insecurities, but they persist regardless.

If he's got subby or cuck tendencies, he may get off on the humiliation, but if he hasnt that humiliation is pretty much unavoidable in this question.

If L were to broach such a question with me, it may well terminate the relationship. Thats how seriously id take it. Not entirely out of malice but because i wouldnt stay with someone who needed more than i could provide in that area. I'd let her go and move on.

Its also one thing to play with a larger male, its another to specifically seek it out. Seeking it out implies its a serious deficiency in him that he cant meet. I'd approach this with extreme caution and be prepared for unforseen consequences...

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By *indingDeemoMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Well your already stating looking for vvwe men so depending on the size of your bfs tool that's a big clue.

But since you are looking for men all you really need to do is search for a candidate with the desired size and speak with bf to organise the meet.

Wheather he realise or not about his size it ties into what your looking for and also long ad you and bf are cool with the meet the bobs your uncle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be more than happy to let mildred try big cock. I love to see her enjoying herself. So anything she wants is fine with me.

I am average. But I don't have a problem or phobia with guys bigger than me

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

yr boyfriend is on here asking if /how he can bring up the subject of bigger boobs and a tighter pussy ....x

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

I'd love to see K taking a nice big cock, it's finding one that actually looks like the photos on their profiles that hard

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By *poolnerveycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol"

Just ask him

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Just tell him that although you really like his, you'd like to try different lengths and girths

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Yeah he's 8 inch himself "

Smallest man in the world

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

Break it too him gently im sure he be fine

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"If he's anything like most men, myself included, you cant ask without offending. Just not going to happen.

Most men, unless they have a truly insane size (10"+) dont actually percieve their size to be all that great, and are never happy with it. Ive never had a single complaint about my size to justify my own insecurities, but they persist regardless.

If he's got subby or cuck tendencies, he may get off on the humiliation, but if he hasnt that humiliation is pretty much unavoidable in this question.

If L were to broach such a question with me, it may well terminate the relationship. Thats how seriously id take it. Not entirely out of malice but because i wouldnt stay with someone who needed more than i could provide in that area. I'd let her go and move on.

Its also one thing to play with a larger male, its another to specifically seek it out. Seeking it out implies its a serious deficiency in him that he cant meet. I'd approach this with extreme caution and be prepared for unforseen consequences..."

Well L you know which question not to ask!, or ask when you choose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is tricky but my bf would be trawling the single guys profile searching for a suitable size lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?"
Gently ... Stress equals soft dick

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"How would i tell my bf I want to try someone bigger without offending?"

Your profile says "j is quite large himself but wants to see c with something bigger" so you have obviously already discussed it and he is happy with the idea.

Sally

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