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By *orderboyblue OP   Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Sorry to be a bit thick, but what exactly is a 'social' in swinging speak?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

social as in meet up for a drink and a chat- one or two or a huge group thats been organised -

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We don't really do the social thing although we have used the who is near feature and found a couple in the same pub as us and had a great night....should do that again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sorry to be a bit thick, but what exactly is a 'social' in swinging speak?

Thanks"

It's best if you plan to meet someone for a social to just confirm that you both understand what you mean by it because people do assume different things. We always meet socially first and that means a drink and a good old chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a meet in public where the person is interested in you but wants to check you out properly before even considering sex with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us a social is meeting someone to see if we all get on and want to play, sometimes a social can be purely social, sometimes it can be what we call a social and see which means if we all get on and want to go play we can, we usually meet at a pub or occasionally at someones house but we prefer to meet in a public place, usually a nice pub that way if the other people are no shows we can still enjoy the night ourselves!

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By *orderboyblue OP   Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

So it's a kind of no committment, check each other out meeting before anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's a kind of no committment, check each other out meeting before anything else"

Pretty much sums it up

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So it's a kind of no committment, check each other out meeting before anything else"

That's one type of social. The other is a social gathering orgainsed by one or more fabsters where you get together and socialise

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we always meet potential partners for a coffee/social before considering sex. We have progressed same day on occasion. Never been lucky enough to attend a large group social event, well not yet!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Meet someone for a drink without any expectations on either side of anything further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah it means that for me.

a fair amount of men think a social is a guaranteed fuck, i don't meet these men and stop talking to them.

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

Checking your not a minger in real life or that your not 10+ years older than your pictures.

Jokes...

just checking they definatley want to fuck you.

Princess xx

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney


"So it's a kind of no committment, check each other out meeting before anything else"

That's how we see it!

We also attend the organised socials

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst

Social for us is a meetup, have a drink, a chat and (hopefully) a laugh with no expectations ( or pressure) of play, a way to see if we click. Or a evening filled with 70 fellow swingers in a pub every other month and lots of hard work getting everyone to behave themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting up for a drink or coffee - with no intension of playing. It's to out the fakes on here.

Firstly to make sure they are who they say they are - genuine

See if there a connection between both parties

If they turn up for the social and everyone gets on it only adds to the excitement for the next meet.

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We should of had our first social tonight but have been let down again, been chatting for 4 weeks now with no meet or pics might be time to move on

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst


"We should of had our first social tonight but have been let down again, been chatting for 4 weeks now with no meet or pics might be time to move on "
your more patient then we are 4 weeks ! If someone can't supply face pics within a few days ( if they are new it's understandable they might take some time but not weeks) then more likely they are fantasising or fake. You can always look in your area for organised social events, it's a way to network and ask questions about the local scene as much as find potential playmates

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"We should of had our first social tonight but have been let down again, been chatting for 4 weeks now with no meet or pics might be time to move on your more patient then we are 4 weeks ! If someone can't supply face pics within a few days ( if they are new it's understandable they might take some time but not weeks) then more likely they are fantasising or fake. You can always look in your area for organised social events, it's a way to network and ask questions about the local scene as much as find potential playmates "

Yeah know what you mean alarm bells are starting to ring a little bit he has been on here for almost a year. Maybe it's just down to us being new on here at the time we have gave him the benefit of the doubt so many times looking back now it's maybe a little to good to be true we just thought that he was perfect to join in with our fantasies always said the right things, nether of us had done it before so both new to it but will to experience it. By social events do you mean club ? As we have never been and wouldn't know what to expect sorry for all the questions but still very new

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