FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for a Dom female

By *urious_essexcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

upminster

I know they are probably as rare as rocking horse shit but here goes !!! We are looking for a Dom Fem who will be happy to play with Mrs whilst Mr watches and then maybe direct us and getting as to do as she says !!! A big ask but worth a shot

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By *imandlinCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Shame you are so far away!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't think we're as rare as you believe but a lot of us don't advertise the Domme aspect on here for various reasons.

I tend to keep D/s and BDSM to a couple of other sites. On here I tend to look for vanilla or kinky sex but without a D/s aspect.

Sometimes men (rarely women) ask me about Domming but after chatting with them only a relatively small number actually appeal.

You may find what you're looking for here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What other sites do you use? You said you advertise yourself more as a dom on other sites

Might be helpful to advertise on those sites as well

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"What other sites do you use? You said you advertise yourself more as a dom on other sites

Might be helpful to advertise on those sites as well"

Me? I'm not allowed to name other sites here.

I do use other sites and I identify as a Domme on those sites. When I'm looking for BDSM or D/s I tend to look there rather than here.

From here I've met several "sub" guys who have a fantasy of being sub in their head but don't actually want to sub.

I'll do something, I don't know, like tell them to put stockings on and 5 minutes later they'll just take them off again, without even asking.

Now I could punish them, restrain them and stop them doing their own thing but there's a limit to how much I can be bothered with battles of wills. I'll put up with a certain amount of bratty but if they don't actually want to submit, there's no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, male half here,

I know two, Charlie is/was one and so is one of her friends. I've sent C a copy of your message and we'll let you know what she says as her or her mate might be interested, although they may also want somebody there just for security, but definetly not joining in.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The mrs switches, not sure she would be happy in dual direction when she is in control.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I don't think we're as rare as you believe but a lot of us don't advertise the Domme aspect on here for various reasons.

I tend to keep D/s and BDSM to a couple of other sites. On here I tend to look for vanilla or kinky sex but without a D/s aspect.

Sometimes men (rarely women) ask me about Domming but after chatting with them only a relatively small number actually appeal.

You may find what you're looking for here."
this xx

i have 2 profiles elsewhere one as sub as on here and one for my domme side with no face pics. i have to have particular chemistry with someone i want to Domme and its a big responsibility as i don play casually with BDSM in general, so its rare for me, but it happens x i haven't had a couple yet, maybe one day..good luck with your search x

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