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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm skinny and have no hair on my chest. Do you lot think that's why I struggle here? Sounds silly but all I see is pics of fat hairy guys having a whale of a time. I'm young. I'm fit. But have no belly and no chest hair?... is that my problem?.... (serious question)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the problem is the men outnumber the women about 300 to 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the problem is the men outnumber the women about 300 to 1. "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

do you honestly think by comparing yourself to others in such a way is constructive and going to make the difference.

you have met 3 times, what did they see in you and what attracted them

that's actuals, rather than hypotheticals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the problem is the men outnumber the women about 300 to 1. "

It's simply as above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a mixture of a few things, having a good mixture of pics on your profile oh and the way people come across on here and the way you've come on saying that fat guys with hairy chest seem to do well won't go down well on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. I'm 59 and I have a cple of bellys lol I don't have a hair on my chest but what the fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that do ok are the ones that sell themselves best. Irrespective of bellies and hair

You haven't asked specifically for a profile critique so I won't give one but ask yourself if your profile is the best representation of yourself that you can give?

You seem a decent good looking chap that the ladies would find attractive - and you've had meets before so you must be doing something right!

Sell yourself positively and proactively both in your profile, on the forums and for that matter in your PMs you send to people you're looking to meet and I'm sure the meets will follow!

Good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the problem is the men outnumber the women about 300 to 1. "

it's about 10-1, but thats a very useful cop out.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I'm skinny and have no hair on my chest. Do you lot think that's why I struggle here? Sounds silly but all I see is pics of fat hairy guys having a whale of a time. I'm young. I'm fit. But have no belly and no chest hair?... is that my problem?.... (serious question)"

Yes it must be that!

Serious answer... Men that do well are those that generally 'sell' themselves the best. Both in their profile & pics and by their messages & forum posts.

It's not because they have chest hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm skinny and have no hair on my chest. Do you lot think that's why I struggle here? Sounds silly but all I see is pics of fat hairy guys having a whale of a time. I'm young. I'm fit. But have no belly and no chest hair?... is that my problem?.... (serious question)"

No. Your problem is that you run other people down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry didn't mean to be horrible in any way lol. Was just using fat an hair as an example. Oowell to late.

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Dont put yourself down op most of the photos your comparing yourself with are web finds

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney


"I'm skinny and have no hair on my chest. Do you lot think that's why I struggle here? Sounds silly but all I see is pics of fat hairy guys having a whale of a time. I'm young. I'm fit. But have no belly and no chest hair?... is that my problem?.... (serious question)"

Insulting other guys won't help your case!

More pics on your public profile would help, as would some actual profile text that isn't a rant!

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