FabSwingers.com forum: From singles to a couple

By *rank Einstein OP Man
over a year ago

submarine club

Hey all, just wondering if many folk have gone from being a single/singles to a couple and how you found the transition?

Myself and my partner have been together a year now, we met through another fish related site and hit it off.

I accidentally sent her a picture I'd deleted but downloaded from here and forgot about the watermark (because I'm a dumbass) which led to a conversation about the site and modern swinging not being keys in a fish bowl etc.

Anyway, we've talked about creating a couples profile but not got round to it due to me working rotating shifts and we have 3 year old twins and an..... Energetic 10 year old to be interrupted by.

She's expressed an interest in certain things but isn't sure as she needs a connection to get turned on, which I suggested attending a social event unfortunately they are on Fridays here so my work pattern doesn't fit in

I think ideally we would be better finding people who would like an evening of drinks/dining/conversation but are happy to not engage if she doesn't feel comfortable.

Long story short we're finding it pretty complicated, how have your experiences been?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the best thing would be to set up a couples profile on here, and explain your stepping into it slowly and would like to start off with social meets rather than go straight in. And what you at looking for.

Many people are willing to just meet for drinks and see how it goes, there should never be any pressure to play if any party isn't feeling it.

The other option of course is clubs rather than organised socials. We have been to clubs and not played at all, just met people, chatted, maybe watched and they can be a good stepping stone.