FabSwingers.com forum: Getting blocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why does someone block you when you send them a face picture as requested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they didn't like your pic but don't have the balls to tell you your not their type, so block instead to stop you re mailing them

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Why does someone block you when you send them a face picture as requested?"

1 because they don't like you

2 because they know you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's wrong with honesty?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because they didn't like your pic but don't have the balls to tell you your not their type, so block instead to stop you re mailing them "

You have a fantastic back tattoo.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"What's wrong with honesty? "

absolutely nothing

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No good trying to work out why people block you just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens best not to worry it and move on, shit I had people block me just because I wouldn't agree with them on the forums, never even chatted to them

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Keep calm and carry on swinging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to everyone, usually for no rational reason; all you can do is move on and think "ah well"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've had people leave the site when they see our face pictures, blocking is nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does someone block you when you send them a face picture as requested?"

Because they don't like you. It really is as simple as that. It is not an insult.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Why does someone block you when you send them a face picture as requested?

1 because they don't like you

2 because they know you "

3 because they know you, AND they don't like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it, no point, just move forward xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give it a second thought. Plenty more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our block list is huge... you're welcome to join it if you want to

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

"Don't worry about it, no point, just move forward xxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not worried just curious, we all have one thing in common and even if someone does recognise you I don't think either party will publicly announce it......."hey saw you on fab, great pictures didn't know you were into swinging".

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"What's wrong with honesty? "

Nothing. Unfortunately there are some on here who can't take a polite "not for me" ... some get abusive so maybe people find it easier to block

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not worried just curious, we all have one thing in common and even if someone does recognise you I don't think either party will publicly announce it......."hey saw you on fab, great pictures didn't know you were into swinging". "

Anecdotal evidence on the forum suggests otherwise. Women have been approached while with their family, in the supermarket etc. You'd be surprised!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you really need to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love getting block

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anecdotal evidence on the forum suggests otherwise. Women have been approached while with their family, in the supermarket etc. You'd be surprised!"

I can't believe someone would do that, how wrong of them. There's people on here I have mutual vanilla friends with but the vanillas don't know we know each other, even been to a function together and kept it totally discrete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a professional at getting blocked I think it's because I am a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it that we all have in common?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Anecdotal evidence on the forum suggests otherwise. Women have been approached while with their family, in the supermarket etc. You'd be surprised!

We met a guy at an organised social who it turned out lived in the next street and felt obliged to approach us in our local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a professional at getting blocked I think it's because I am a minger

I've Blocked you ain't because you're a minger because you'rea handsome pushy pest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked after a meet and sumtimes before or even when chatting so if am getting blocked for turning up to meets. What bout those who dont. Do they get blocked also?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is it that we all have in common?"

We're all members of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got blocked after a meet and sumtimes before or even when chatting so if am getting blocked for turning up to meets. What bout those who dont. Do they get blocked also?"

The wonder of some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's wrong with honesty? "

It sometimes generates abuse...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's wrong with honesty?

It sometimes generates abuse... "

Not my style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's wrong with honesty? "

Some people find it hard to tell others they aren't their type, I know myself it's not something I like to say to people, everybody is different and you can't dictate to people how they should handle a situation, so for some its easier to just knock

Plus some guys can get really nasty at rejection, the words no thanks can take you from being the most amazing women on the size to a fat ugly cunt they didn't want to meet anyway in 0.8 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's wrong with honesty?

It sometimes generates abuse...

Not my style.

May not be your style but I have never spoken to you how do I know that

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"We've had people leave the site when they see our face pictures, blocking is nothing

I have a good memory so know you're chatting rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's wrong with honesty?

It sometimes generates abuse...

Not my style.

May not be your style but I have never spoken to you how do I know that

You'll have to take my word for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's wrong with honesty?

Plus some guys can get really nasty at rejection, the words no thanks can take you from being the most amazing women on the size to a fat ugly cunt they didn't want to meet anyway in 0.8 seconds

With your curves and ink you're most definitely 'my type'

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Happens to everyone, usually for no rational reason; all you can do is move on and think "ah well" "

Rational?!! I truly struggle to understand why people take being blocked personally. Some block because someone has said something they perceive arsey on the forums, they live too close, they recognise you: a myriad of reasons.

The last bloke they sent a "thanks, but no thanks message" replied they were a used up poxed ridden slapper on a sex site and they wouldn't touch them with somebody else's: who knows.

One thing is clear: they have no interest in you...Make it mutual and move on!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Anecdotal evidence on the forum suggests otherwise. Women have been approached while with their family, in the supermarket etc. You'd be surprised!

Believe it or not, from reading the forums people have been approached outside school gates, their swinging discussed in front of colleagues, some even ask if there's a sign so they can recognise swingers in public with a view of approaching them!

Blocking is easier!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What's wrong with honesty?

It sometimes generates abuse...

Not my style.

And how are people to know that, considering you can be hotter than Kylie to erection killing Diane Abbott quicker than you can say presto changeo!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's wrong with honesty?

It sometimes generates abuse...

Not my style.

And how are people to know that, considering you can be hotter than Kylie to erection killing Diane Abbott quicker than you can say presto changeo! "

How are people to know anything about others on here unless they converse?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What's wrong with honesty?

It sometimes generates abuse...

Not my style.

And how are people to know that, considering you can be hotter than Kylie to erection killing Diane Abbott quicker than you can say presto changeo!

How are people to know anything about others on here unless they converse? "

They do...With people they're interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's wrong with honesty?

It sometimes generates abuse...

Not my style.

And how are people to know that, considering you can be hotter than Kylie to erection killing Diane Abbott quicker than you can say presto changeo!

How are people to know anything about others on here unless they converse?

They do...With people they're interested in."

My point is then, if you've been chatting fine and after a while they suddenly block you why can't they just say "actually you're not for me" or similar and if the person then gets nasty block them then and report them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it that we all have in common?

We're all members of fab. "

Quite right. And all for different expectations and reasons.

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