FabSwingers.com forum: rules

By *orders-cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

middx cpl

we have 4 rules total shaven safe intercourse no anal no cumming in her mouth. guys seem very insulted by the fact we have rules we think we do this for our fun whats ur take on this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i reckon, if guys (and gals) are offended by your rules and personal boundaries, then they dont deserve to get anywhere near you.

No means no for a reason.

If they are not mature enough to handle being told no, then they shouldnt be in the lifestyle

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By *orders-cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

middx cpl

yes we think the same but i dont know wat the guys think we are in this for they can get very insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you feel insulted by peoples rules?

Dont get it

I must admit i have turned down meeting people because i have not wanted to meet them based on their rules, no kissing one mainly, but i respect peoples rules i just some times choose not to meet them bacause of it

I have never felt insulted tho

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By *orders-cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

middx cpl

dont know why they feel insulted by our rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't agree with, or get arsey about your rules tell them to fuck off and find someone else ..

That's the best way to deal with prats like that.

Having said that, we've yet to meet anyone who hasn't been accepting of our boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they dont like your rules tough their loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest the op's rules ain't exactly anything out the ordinary, many people have the same rules or boundaries, especially the first three.

And is it just me (steve) I would never cum in a playmates mouth unless it was obvious she wanted me too, I would never assume. I see that a lot of people see that as an intimate thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I find most people are happy to talk about boundaries/rules to be careful that they don't cross them and end up upsetting us

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

hike, a, take ...........

I would just tell them to rearrange the 3 words above...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

borderscouple, your boundaries are very reasonable. If anyone doesn't like 'em, don't worry, there will be plenty of other people to play with who WILL respect your boundaries.

Happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

boundaries are what need pushing arnt they

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"dont know why they feel insulted by our rules"

simple... if people don't like your rules... don't meet them...

as long as you are also aware that the same if going to happen in reverse.. if you don't stick by someone elses rules... jog on

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i think you are meeting twunts.

We have 2 rules,safe sex only,no bdsm(cos ppl get confused by my profile)anyone cant handle that they can bog off.

Oh and loads of women don't like cim.Thats why i'm popular at clubs lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"we have 4 rules total shaven safe intercourse no anal no cumming in her mouth. guys seem very insulted by the fact we have rules we think we do this for our fun whats ur take on this ? "

I would say.....tough to the people who don't like our rules

Don't they have any?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were to play with you (I am trimmed but would be shaven for our meet ) then I would totally abide and respect you rules and boundries...why wouldn't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of peeps have rules;no kissing and so on u just have to accept them if they wanna play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some for people who demand to see pits first before any questions ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pictures that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have 4 rules total shaven safe intercourse no anal no cumming in her mouth. guys seem very insulted by the fact we have rules we think we do this for our fun whats ur take on this ? "

We always tell people how it will be on first message.. that tends to get rid of people that dont want to play how we do straight off.. its just easier.. We wont budge on ours...

*on cam if Master not present

*maybe phone too

*not an alnight thing..

*Kissing on lips is very limited.

*nearly always late night meets.

We send that out and then its up the guys or ladies to decide if they want to.. starting to think I should add no spanking me..as had a few guys try..

Rules are there for you as a couple.. if people cant accept them find people that do..as there is someone for everyone on here... Even awkward gits like us..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like the guys giving u both shite for your rules are being a bit out of order!!

I agree with the above posts, ur rules are very common ones.

Which 'rule' did they get arsey about, the safe sex one???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you feel insulted by peoples rules?

Dont get it

I have never felt insulted tho "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird that. Most guys are not exactly in a position on here to be picky about rules!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Weird that. Most guys are not exactly in a position on here to be picky about rules!"

They should be, they should have some of their own.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Weird that. Most guys are not exactly in a position on here to be picky about rules!

They should be, they should have some of their own.

I always abide with my rule.....

when I meet, it is the first thing I take out.. if he's under 8''... it's a good bye and good night.

if over 8''...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am easy dont have much in rules

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I wouldn't call mine "Rules" per say, more of "the common sense approach", including (but not limited to):

1) Not accepting friend's invites from complete strangers (Result: delete!)

2) Not meeting without seeing a face pic (Sorry, but no facial attraction results in no promixity attraction as well).

3) Demanding I travel to you (I commute) and pay for the hotel (the entire share) 'cause you don't accomodate and can't come to me (Block!)

Some think am harsh or too fussy.

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