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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging

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By *ristolgent84Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I've been wondering the same lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No they don't. Some wag will be along in a minute to tell you its the sign of a fish on their car though.

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By *ristolgent84Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Fish on there car lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging "

You mean the secret wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look and if they look back I think, I bet their on fabs. Its a good game lol

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By *ristolgent84Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I just look and if they look back I think, I bet their on fabs. Its a good game lol"

Hasn't worked yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish there was a secret signal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink wink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they don't. Some wag will be along in a minute to tell you its the sign of a fish on their car though.

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Or pampas grass in their front garden

Mind you, my first apartment had some....maybe that was a sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They tap 2 times behind their ear lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most fabbers would baulk at the thought of being approached out in public, I would also, it's very much an invasion of privacy and awfully indiscreet. If you see someone then send them a message on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to hit them round the head with a pampas while shaking your ankle bracelet like a morris dancer and shouting "oh what a FAB time we're all having!"

Thought I'd get them all in at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to hit them round the head with a pampas while shaking your ankle bracelet like a morris dancer and shouting "oh what a FAB time we're all having!"

Thought I'd get them all in at once "

And there's us stood in asda, standing on one leg, left hand on our heads waiting for someone to come and do the secret handshake!

Wondered why we've not had any luck, we've been doing it wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha that would be ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a chameleons key ring x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they don't. Some wag will be along in a minute to tell you its the sign of a fish on their car though.

Or pampas grass in their front garden

Mind you, my first apartment had some....maybe that was a sign"

I have pampas grass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just flirt with woman of ever couple I see in the bar. Either I'm going to get beat up by the husband/boyfriend or I'm going to have some great sex

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We all wear our profile names in something;).miss

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"No they don't. Some wag will be along in a minute to tell you its the sign of a fish on their car though.

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Or a herring in 'er ear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will have to go round dropping the word fab in public an see the reactions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nudge nudge, wink wink, say no more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife wears an ankle bracelet

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"I just flirt with woman of ever couple I see in the bar. Either I'm going to get beat up by the husband/boyfriend or I'm going to have some great sex "

If it was us it might get a little rough but not violent...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will have to go round dropping the word fab in public an see the reactions lol"

Bit like a game of boogies x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

mention you like swinging...in the park

and see what happens

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By *luefish2009Couple
over a year ago

blandford forum

We are a hot wife with often chastity locked hubby. I, the wife wears an ankle bracelet with hubbys key attached when out in the pub or Club etc. A few knowing people have noticed this. And yes on rear occasions this has introduced us to new people

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By *luefish2009Couple
over a year ago

blandford forum


"I just flirt with woman of ever couple I see in the bar. Either I'm going to get beat up by the husband/boyfriend or I'm going to have some great sex

If it was us it might get a little rough but not violent... "

Perfect! Love watching the wife getting chatted up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They offer you cake, don't take it...

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"I just flirt with woman of ever couple I see in the bar. Either I'm going to get beat up by the husband/boyfriend or I'm going to have some great sex

If it was us it might get a little rough but not violent...

Perfect! Love watching the wife getting chatted up"

Me too...

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By *ucyandRogerCouple
over a year ago

watton

We have a chameleon on the caravan. ...front and back ..... And use fab a lot if we fancy a couple. X

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"We have a chameleon on the caravan. ...front and back ..... And use fab a lot if we fancy a couple. X"
i so want the chameleon to be the new swinger symbol..oh please id even have a tattoo..if this was the case...enlighten me is it your thing or does it stand for something? x

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Signs of a fab swinger in public - They'll be the touch screen phone droids incessantly updating their profile status message telling everyone how much of an amazing sexy time their having, updating their profile status.

It's no longer pampas grass or fems of cpls with ankle bracelets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They appear within 10 metres on the "See whos near" section. Or theres a woman flashing her lady garden while hubby takes pics

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..


"Fish on there car lol "

They are Christians!...trust me..

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

I wear my black leather rope gold clasp choker necklace that my Dom had bought for our D/s ceremony.

Very few would know of these x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I where my fabswingers uniform, and all of my verification badges on my sleeves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only I know the answer

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By *ucyandRogerCouple
over a year ago

watton

I think cos chameleons do change identity (colour) and blend in quietly with out shouting about it, and also the club chameleons but not entirely sure. Seem to notice it discreetly at house party's , on the wall or little ornament xx

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

We certainly do use a sign, we use it to advertise our parties. Its staying secret though!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've tried most things - Chameleons wristbands, black rings, the 'swingpin' symbol, but the only way we've played with strangers outside of clubs and parties has been to raise the subject of swinging during conversation. Obviously we don't come straight out at the start and say "do you swing?" but you often get the vibes that others may be swingers and steer the conversation around to the subject. Sometimes you get the reply "no!" but it's nice when the others say yes, and you go and play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a Mingles keyring, if lost return to the club

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging "

I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actually see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging

I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actually see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction."

You need a badge

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging

I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actually see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction."
love this description..thankyou for putting it into words xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging

I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actually see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction.love this description..thankyou for putting it into words xx"

A big badge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to hit them round the head with a pampas while shaking your ankle bracelet like a morris dancer and shouting "oh what a FAB time we're all having!"

Thought I'd get them all in at once "

Ok...how do I make that all secret.....going off for a think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there is a secret signal. But it is secret so you cannot tell anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging "

Certainly.

But they are secret.

So no one will ever know.

If they were public, everyone and his dog would know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually my Collar starts up a little bit of an interest in those that know and usually goes from there ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was her not me lol

Im still in trouble for my 'nip tat worse than childbirth' comment...oops

Re hidden symbols

We both have the BDSM symbol as tats in plain sight....

99.99999999% of people have no clue what it is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a big neon flashing sign saying "swingers"

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Check the Sun or the Daily Mail.

If it was a secret it'll be in there soon enough.

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging

I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actualloy see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction."

I do enjoy casual sex occasionally though if its hot and feels right.

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging

I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actualloy see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction.

I do enjoy casual sex occasionally though if its hot and feels right."

I believe its up to the individual to decide on their own boundaries, when they feel their having too much.

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