FabSwingers.com forum: Fantasy better than reality...?

By *iss_Behaving OP Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Wondered if people have ever found that the fantasy side of a club night is often better than the real thing ?

Decided to go to partners last night and finally try for a fantasy of mine ( several guys at once)..

However, have to say, although it was rather busy with guys and couples, there didnt seem to be the 'guys' i had in mind for the fun and games, didnt expect it to be full of young well hung guys but...

I know its very very random who goes to the clubs and when etc but it really did bring it home to me just how hard it can be sometimes to 'live the dream' so to speak..

Has anyone else ever thought yep, tonight is the night i do the most sexiest things ever, then walked away feeling totally disillusioned with the whole club scene ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this before for sure. When i was with an ex, and we decided to try going to a club... it seemed very hard to actually get into things and communicate our fantasies/desires properly.

We came away very dissapointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I never expect anything apart from having a laugh when we go to clubs,anything else is a bonus

The fantasy stuff I arrange myself

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

clubs can be hard work just go with an open mind i do now if nothing happens if it does its a bonus

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I was at a party last night with probably about 50 people there. I ended up only having sex with one.

Nothing against the party or host at all, but everyone seemed to know each other and played together before, so I felt a bit out of the loop and didn't want to interfere when others were at play. Bit of a let down really.

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We would have to say that its true the fantasy is often better than the reality in regards to clubs.

We have been to clubs before on Friday nights seeking, nice fit guys for Miss to play with and have often been dissapointed with the club, it often depends who turns up on the night.

We are hoping to return to a club at easter but tend just to go with an open mind and little expectation, suppose if something good happens its a bonus if not just have to have the fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno, never been to a club, but the idea of using facilities which have been used by God knows how many people before us, and which have untold numbers of bodily fluids soaked into them certainly doesn't float our boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing i like about clubs and partys you never know ... been to some partys you think ooo very clicky and some thay are so much fun ....... same as clubs no telling people make partys and clubs its getting the right mix ... and its luck alot of the time ... jo xx

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Been disappointed with clubs the 2 occasions we've been (Partners, coincidentally!) so yes, we generally agree. But to date, parties have surpassed our expectations!

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a club a few times but became disillusioned with the club scene.

Mind you, we can be a bit backward in coming forward so it may have been partly our fault.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

People complain about people being cliquey, or not feeling confident about breaking into groups that know each other.

I do think this is largely in our own head. We assume b4 we have even asked that we will not be welcomed into a group. Certainly sometimes you'll get turned down, but that isn't a reason not to ask someone else, or another group.

In a club or a party, you have to open up to people and approach others. In general I believe most of us would entertain an approach and at least have a conversation.

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