FabSwingers.com forum: GUSSING

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry about the heading.

GUSHING!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am gussing yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry about the heading.

GUSHING!"

Too late lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nun is surprisingly a huge gusher

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

It does seem very popular and many guys will claim they can help or make any lady do it

Personally I'm not that bothe_ed to be honest as long as the lady is enjoying what I'm doing

Just my 2 cents of course

Mickey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven"

It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just something you either can do or you can't

To be honest it's no big deal don't go out your way to try and do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven

It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it."

How do you stimulate it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven

It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.

How do you stimulate it? "

From my experience of men trying to do this by finger bashing

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry about the heading.

GUSHING!

Too late lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

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yeah had that with no sucess just hurt

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

The joys of porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The joys of porn."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven"

Hi Raven

This is most favourite like, but I'm my experiences over the years, a gushing female / Squirters can be coaxed / massaged in right area on her pelvis area which aids it, but I am no expert I just adore being on receiving end ......I have managed to make a women squirt whilst licking her clit that was cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven

It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.

How do you stimulate it?

From my experience of men trying to do this by finger bashing

You use 2 fingers in a stroking motion back and forth then speed it up apply more pressure then gush

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I have no desire to try it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Agree!

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

Pahahaha

many can't even do that right either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no desire to try it"

Gutted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven

It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.

How do you stimulate it?

From my experience of men trying to do this by finger bashing

You use 2 fingers in a stroking motion back and forth then speed it up apply more pressure then gush"
easier said then done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that.

It's not an orgasm

It does not feel great

Honest don't stress it

I stop guys if they try and make me gush, I dislike it so don't let them do it

All it is is a few mins of finger ramming and a wet feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants to be a performing seal?

When it happens, it is quite an experience but I would suggest it is more likely to happen (and be lot more fun) if both parties are relaxed and enjoying each other's touch; rather than worrying about the mechanics of things.

Go with the flow!!!!!!! (Pun intended).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in theory any woman CAN, but few WILL. For various reasons.

A lot of guys as stated previously believe they can bring it out of any girl, and to an extent they may be right, a large number will squirt with enough brute force and the right technique, but that doesnt necessarily mean its a pleasurable experience when done that way.

Producing a more "Natural" squirt/gush is far more about the girls level of comfort with the guy involved. As is her orgasm in general really.

Dont get me wrong, a woman can, and will cum and cum hard with a guy she has no prior experience with if he knows what he's doing, and ive experienced plenty of that. And some girls are just naturally p_edisposed to squirting so that can happen too.

But in terms of bringing it out of a girl who hiterto has not been a squirter; a proper squirt, not an unpleasurable brute force thing requires time and raport.

In my life sadly ive had fairly few of them, partly because most of the girls ive committed to long enough to develop that level of connection have been very vanilla and would never have allowed themselves. I had one girl who squirted on demand near enough, from the first meet and that was fun but i think it was more about our respective sizes, she was beyond tight and even my average equipment stretched her out and brought about that brute force thing. But she was into that so it worked.

My escort ex used to gush towards the end of our time together, but some of her clients produced a full squirt, main reason i didnt is that i dont really use toys. Again this was primarily about comfort, allegedly she had never previously gushed from penetration.

And L... well, L has been the most exciting squirter ive had, not because she squirts all the time, or because its huge when she does, but because it was such a shock. When we got together, honestly while we had an amazing sensual connection i genuinely didnt think i was getting the job done, had massive worries. And apparently she generally doesnt cum through penetration, let alone squirt.

But as our connection has grown we've gone from her cumming penetratively maybe 1 in 4 times to it being every time and our record being 7 in a single session. And then one day, she's on top, riding with a shallow depth, and all of a sudden she goes absolutely stiff, breathing goes insane, and before i know it my cock is ejected like a toaster from her pussy and im cove_ed by a stream of it. We both look down like "Did that just happen?"

We'd never have imagined she could be a squirter before that. Since then its become semi-regular. So yeah, it can definitely be developed, and its largely about her feeling comfortable.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I have no desire to try it

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If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares. Why are men putting themselves and us under so much pressure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made afew women gush in the past but found it to be women who have had children? I know this may be strange but girls I have been with who haven't I've not made gush but then again I don't set out to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me twice with the same guy, nothing forceful at all, it was done gently but I was horrified that it did happen, 1 minute I was building up to the big O and the next thing we were both slightly wet (small amount)

Stopped my orgasm tho lol

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

What no bed?!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Never had it happen,despite people insisiting on trying.It doesnt bother me,its more about both of us having fun .Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no desire to try it

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If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

What no bed?! "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares. Why are men putting themselves and us under so much pressure?"

Well to be fair thats a bit of a daft question, im presuming that its the female half of the couple thats posting because i cant imagine a man ever asking it.

Men are putting themselves under so much pressure because they are in the weaker market position when it comes to this game. We are the selected, not the selector. So its all a competetive open market and its us who have the pressure on to complete and succeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

completely agree!

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

I'll gush on u no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares. Why are men putting themselves and us under so much pressure?

Well to be fair thats a bit of a daft question, im presuming that its the female half of the couple thats posting because i cant imagine a man ever asking it.

Men are putting themselves under so much pressure because they are in the weaker

market position when it comes to this game. We are the selected, not the selector. So its all a competetive open market and its us who have the pressure on to complete and succeed. "

So you thrusting about trying to make the lady gush makes for great sex?

How many times have I read in different post how sex was crap.

If a chap wants to impress then go with the flow. Make the sex impressive not a goal. A woman can't be forcefully made to gush!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

What no bed?!

Nope

Not even a mattress?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

I'll gush on u no problem

Can you reach Chester from Dublin ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you thrusting about trying to make the lady gush makes for great sex?

How many times have I read in different post how sex was crap.

If a chap wants to impress then go with the flow. Make the sex impressive not a goal. A woman can't be forcefully made to gush!"

Well ultimately what makes for great sex varies completely from woman to woman. Different strokes (Literally) for different folks.

But ultimately how is a person meant to make sex "impressive" but not a "goal"

Im not suggesting that men should absolutely focus on this one factor to the detriment of all others, but that doesnt mean i cant understand their thought process. Ultimately a lot of men, myself for a time included, presumed that a squirt was the ultimate expression of female pleasure, that it was a different category of orgasm and must therefore be infinitely more pleasurable than otherwise. I understand now this is not necessarily the case, but its a nuonced understanding that many men simply lack, especially those who havent a great deal of experience either in sex or in holding open dialogue with their sexual partners.

But at the end of the day, particularly a first meet with a girl is effectively an audition. She's Simon Cowell, he's the person standing behind the mic. And if he believes that a squirt is the ultimate orgasm, and that in essence his ability to please her is going to be the factor that gets him through to the next round; which it will be; of course he's going to make it a goal.

As for your final sentence, whether a woman can be forcefully made to gush, i respectfully disagree, she absolutely can, might take a lot but it can be done. Thats just a very distinct question from whether it SHOULD be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

What no bed?!

Nope

Not even a mattress?!

Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

I'll gush on u no problem

Can you reach Chester from Dublin ? "

I can try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

I'll gush on u no problem

Can you reach Chester from Dublin ?

I can try

I will let the window open

and wait for it

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

What no bed?!

Nope

Not even a mattress?!

Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet

Your homeless aren't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

What no bed?!

Nope

Not even a mattress?!

Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet

Your homeless aren't you

And full of shit, no pun intended

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

What no bed?!

Nope

Not even a mattress?!

Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet

Your homeless aren't you

And full of shit, no pun intended

This thread is about gushing not poo poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok

Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is

My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle

What no bed?!

Nope

Not even a mattress?!

Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet

Your homeless aren't you

And full of shit, no pun intended

This thread is about gushing not poo poo

Shall I shut up then ?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

And full of shit, no pun intended

This thread is about gushing not poo poo

Shall I shut up then ?

Yes,poo talk is not allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that.

I'm a gusher / squirter and tbh it's not something that happens everytime we have sex and I'm pleased it's not. My hubby can make me gush by either using his fingers or simply through penetration - but it all depends on the situation and how horny I am as to whether I will gush.

It's not an orgasm and I rarely have an orgasm if I gush and definitely prefer to come lol

I tend to stop other guys trying to make me gush as they usually use the finger bashing method and it's not always pleasant.

Men probably can make girls gush but think the situation has to be right and all involved need to be completely relaxed and comfortable with each other x

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"I have no desire to try it

Gutted

I'll gush on u no problem

Can you reach Chester from Dublin ?

I can try

I will let the window open

and wait for it

Grand ha

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I don't squirt or gush. I don't care I get nice and wet

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By *ohn Wilson96Man
over a year ago

from inside your wardrobe

So we have to give a woman an orgasm and make her gush now?? That's me f#$ked I can't multitask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we have to give a woman an orgasm and make her gush now?? That's me f#$ked I can't multitask "

And you must have a big cock as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we have to give a woman an orgasm and make her gush now?? That's me f#$ked I can't multitask "

Lol

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By *ohn Wilson96Man
over a year ago

from inside your wardrobe

"So we have to give a woman an orgasm and make her gush now?? That's me f#$ked I can't multitask

And you must have a big cock as well "

That's definitely me f$#ked lol

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven

It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.

How do you stimulate it?

From my experience of men trying to do this by finger bashing

Takes away the fun when a man thinks he can make you when you've already said u cantons they proceed to punch your fanny in trying

And I maintain its pee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares. Why are men putting themselves and us under so much pressure?"

Sorry, just sent this privately to you in error (engaging brain and pressing right button):

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every girl I have been with has orgasmed (or done a bloody good impression of an orgasm, lol) so I'm pretty confident I could claim to be able to make you cum.

Several girls I have been with have "gushed" periodically and one squirted as often as she liked. I have absolutely no idea how I would make you "gush" or "squirt"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that.

Don't worry about it. I didn't do it until a man bashed the fuck out of my urethra through my vaginal wall. I ended up with a 6 week kidney infection and a weakened uretha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't."

My orgasms sometimes leave a damp patch,because the natural fluids my body secretes have oozed out during penetration. No soaked beds when I orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't.

My orgasms sometimes leave a damp patch,because the natural fluids my body secretes have oozed out during penetration. No soaked beds when I orgasm. "

Exactly..it's funny but I've spoken to loads of female friends who fake orgasms when they squirt because they think that's what they are. Once there was 20 of us in the pub having a joke and a laugh and it turned out that less than half of us had ever had a proper orgasm. Most had faked it and hardly any of them had toys. I ended up being the group sexpert! Now all of them them have love honey accounts and learnt to climax themselves.

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

Lol.

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

I'm not a fan either

Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like

Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard

It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't."

Victims of popular propaganda I'm afraid.

Gushing / squirting from a medical point of view is the release of fluid from the bladder. Nothing to do with orgasm other than loss of muscle control in that area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men.

Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.

Raven"

Well I was made to gush for the first time by one of my early lovers on the swing scene. Then after a few more times I figu_ed out how I did it, so I was able to bring it on faster. Now it's me teaching men how to make me gush. The man must have long fingers though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun little contribution to this discussion, opened up a dialogue with L on squirting/gushing just now after a fairly substantial one last night. Seems her experience tallies somewhat with others on here in that a squirt is not in and of itself an orgasm. But for her it's something that happens about 2-3 seconds BEFORE orgasm. And usually she can tell it's coming and it only comes if the orgasm is huge.

Possibly because hers aren't induced by finger bashing. She can squirt that way but it's not what we do generally. With us it's from a slowish shallow penetration. Usually with her on top and me stimulating the clit with my thumb. Though it has happened in missionary a few times.

So while it may not be an orgasm, it's very closely linked to them :D

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

so many men think its an achievement cos its visual i suppose however for some ladies its not as great as an orgasm..so dont substitute one for the other, would be my imput

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Gussing...

Thought it was something to with gussets ..

Got me a bit excited lol

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush.

Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!

This!

Gushing appears to be the latest 'thing'! From what I can gather from conversations I've had with other women, some guys seem to see it as a challenge or a badge of honour, and sometimes don't even bother asking if a woman enjoys it or wants to try it.

Personally, I've never gushed and have no compulsion to try...besides which, being punched in the cunt isn't exactly my idea of fun!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..? "

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..?

Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed."
... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..?

Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed.... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?.."

Usually by very vigorous finger jabbing

It's not nice

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..?

Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed.... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?..

Usually by very vigorous finger jabbing

eh.. I am not concerned about vigourousity..

It's not nice "

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..?

Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed.... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?..

Usually by very vigorous finger jabbing

eh.. I am not concerned about vigourousity..

It's not nice "

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..?

Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed.... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?..

Usually by very vigorous finger jabbing

eh.. I am not concerned about vigourousity..

It's not nice "

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

Yes it's possible to be taught....taught my girlfriend. It's basically a g spot come and you don't need to squirt to experience it. Better I guess to look upon it as a new way of receiving pleasure than keeping up with the squirters.

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

Finger jabbing? No wonder lots of women hate fingers.

Most men don't take the time to learn how to give pleasure this way.

It's an under appreciated art...mostly wielded by underly hung guys like me.

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

I tend to um gush/squirt way way much and not stop but the more slower and more intent the guy goes the more I get wet..

I remember yrs back I was first told not to hold back as I was so embarrassed for doing it and the more he did the more relaxed I became and no going back since

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

"I tend to um gush/squirt way way much and not stop but the more slower and more intent the guy goes the more I get wet..

I remember yrs back I was first told not to hold back as I was so embarrassed for doing it and the more he did the more relaxed I became and no going back since

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I am gussing yes

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"so many men think its an achievement cos its visual i suppose however for some ladies its not as great as an orgasm..so dont substitute one for the other, would be my imput "

This....I would rather Cum from.clit play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that.

As you will see from here....some women can. Some women can't. Some women really really don't want to. It isn't the same as an orgasm...though for some women it often accompanies it.

Like another poster here I have been the one who caused a few women to do this for the first time....but that by no means means I can do this for all women. Any guy who says he can is a liar.....delusional. Plain and simple.

Just enjoy what you enjoy. Enjoy your orgasms and if it happens it happens. But make sure you protect your mattress!

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By *tongueMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Hi its an art but would happy to show you. I have made 5 Ladies gush who did not know they could. They all loved it.

Ady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have made afew women gush in the past but found it to be women who have had children? I know this may be strange but girls I have been with who haven't I've not made gush but then again I don't set out to do this "

I have had two children and have never gushed ha ha. I'm not complaining as I do have several orgasms during an intimate session. Happy with that!

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By *ellowbabesCouple
over a year ago

newport/cwmbran

I cannt gush.I prefer to have orgasam then fingers ram up me ..everyone different

mrs

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