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By *methyst01 OP Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common

So after having been on here a while now and a number of other sites, I have had a few perceptions or findings if I may.

Now this is my opinion which im entitled to but you also know what they say about opinions right?

They like arseholes, everybody has one.

Why is it that very often, most of the people on the hot pics (which is very often the same people) "never currently meeting"?

As a single male I can attest to the very frustrated guys out there, however I will not complain or moan, I chose to be here.

Truth is its a numbers game, you dont need an awesome profile with the best pics ...........though this does help your cause.

Its about the market place, supply and demand and in this swinging culture here in the UK, if you 6"2 ripped and even better, you a BBC you stand far better chance.

I say this as I have seen profiles of above that have nothing more than BBC looking for fun. A torso pic and a dick pic and the guy has loads of veri's. Not just social ones.

Guys you need to get out to clubs and meet people, which leads me to my next point. When in a club that does not have any armbands, am i allowed to approach the couples even though im not sure what they seeking. I did this on Saturday night and the guy refused to greet me back.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Interesting observations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after having been on here a while now and a number of other sites, I have had a few perceptions or findings if I may.

Now this is my opinion which im entitled to but you also know what they say about opinions right?

They like arseholes, everybody has one.

Why is it that very often, most of the people on the hot pics (which is very often the same people) "never currently meeting"?

As a single male I can attest to the very frustrated guys out there, however I will not complain or moan, I chose to be here.

Truth is its a numbers game, you dont need an awesome profile with the best pics ...........though this does help your cause.

Its about the market place, supply and demand and in this swinging culture here in the UK, if you 6"2 ripped and even better, you a BBC you stand far better chance.

I say this as I have seen profiles of above that have nothing more than BBC looking for fun. A torso pic and a dick pic and the guy has loads of veri's. Not just social ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after having been on here a while now and a number of other sites, I have had a few perceptions or findings if I may.

Now this is my opinion which im entitled to but you also know what they say about opinions right?

They like arseholes, everybody has one.

Why is it that very often, most of the people on the hot pics (which is very often the same people) "never currently meeting"?

As a single male I can attest to the very frustrated guys out there, however I will not complain or moan, I chose to be here.

Truth is its a numbers game, you dont need an awesome profile with the best pics ...........though this does help your cause.

Its about the market place, supply and demand and in this swinging culture here in the UK, if you 6"2 ripped and even better, you a BBC you stand far better chance.

I say this as I have seen profiles of above that have nothing more than BBC looking for fun. A torso pic and a dick pic and the guy has loads of veri's. Not just social ones.

Most people on here don't go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was there a question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The market is for the women, men needs patience lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are right it is a numbers game, and i would say you do the right thing by attending clubs etc. It can take a while but eventually your face will be recognised and people will open up to you.

My advise to any single that cant get a meet or find suitable people is to find someone you can share this with, then a whole new world opens up before you. So until then, then yup it really is a waiting game.

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By *methyst01 OP Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common

"Was there a question?"

More of a statement. Alot of people say do this. Do a profile write up.

Put pics up. It does not always matter as i have alluded to.

Again i am not bitching, these are just my observations.

If people just took a step back there is so much to notice.

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By *methyst01 OP Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common

"You are right it is a numbers game, and i would say you do the right thing by attending clubs etc. It can take a while but eventually your face will be recognised and people will open up to you.

The problem at clubs is that couples think every guy is trying to get into their pants. Sometimes we being social and trying to have a chat but get treated like dirt.

Or they tend to be very cliquey. Im trying to break the barriers and breaking the barriers i shall.

The armband system should be introduced as a staple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was there a question?

More of a statement. Alot of people say do this. Do a profile write up.

Put pics up. It does not always matter as i have alluded to.

Again i am not bitching, these are just my observations.

If people just took a step back there is so much to notice.

Then that is a fine statement.

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By *methyst01 OP Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common

Glad you agree.

Maybe people down at the coast are more understanding.

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