FabSwingers.com forum: Do you get nervous before a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just left work going home to bath and do my bits and pieces, organise the porn and toys, get the outfit, stockings and shoes sorted for later, I'm excited and really nervous how does everyone else feel before a meet? !-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every time, its all part of the excitement of actually getting a meet.

Embrace it, its a great feeling (most of the time).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, any Johnny bravo on here that says they don't is a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Very) Nervously excited.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, nervous and excited - be it social or meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes I do, but most of thr time it goes perfectly well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tell you when I'll have a successful one. So far 3 scheduled and 3 cancelled

Though the anticipation was there in 1 case

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Oh yes I do, but most of thr time it goes perfectly well

Tell us a time when it went horrendously wrong!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

I always have butterflies before I meet, I've been meeting the same guy for the last 14months and still get big fluttery butterflies and he still makes me tingle.

Nerves, excitement, butterflies are amazing and add to the buzz of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aww Lucas I'm sure someone will help you out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh yes I do, but most of thr time it goes perfectly well

Tell us a time when it went horrendously wrong!

He turned up direct from another meet and was smelly and horrible disgusting! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aww Lucas I'm sure someone will help you out! "

I'll drink to that, orange juice though as I'm a light head

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By *ohncukMan
over a year ago

london

Always, it's the excitement of what will happen, it never gets old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes I do, but most of thr time it goes perfectly well

Tell us a time when it went horrendously wrong!

Actually there was that one time !!

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By *illy big bolloxMan
over a year ago

Newark

always get nervous for a social or a play meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i would be worried about myself if there where no butterflies. or at least a few nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I always have social before any sexual meeting.So I don't get nervous. Hopeful in the next meeting I will be relaxed and will know what to aspect.I don't like bad surprises! All the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mia gets exited, me exited and nervous.

But it's the excitement and thrill of the not knowing what's to come if everyone clicks, flirting and eye contact the how it will start the first kiss, taste, feel,

Oooo ok any one want to meet us x

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

I get uber excited before a meet.

Love meeting new people,I'm told I make them feel less nervous as I'm a natural

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Nervous excitement. From when i start to get ready but if im travelling to a social i try and collect my thoughts

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We still get nervous,i had butterflies before our first couple meet .Its kind of exciting too though,have fun op.Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we do . It's all part of what makes it exciting

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Every time, plus I get nervous each time we go to a club. So much so I've taken to using Bach flower remedies which are supposed to calm you down and boost your confidence .... though I can't say I've noticed much, if any, improvement!

But my nerves haven't actually stopped me yet .....

Ms G

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't get nervous if it's just a social meet. If it's a play meet though yes, lots of nervous excitement. I love that feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm very shy. It's a bit of an ordeal to actually meet someone tbh.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Getting nervous before a meet is part of the buzz for us.... if it stops, we stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, excited nerves, my last meet super nervous

(first threesome, ffm,first time experience with a f)

But once things got going all those nerves soon disappeared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a meet of a kind I've had before, and it's not my first with a particular girlfriend, then no.

But if it's a new configuration, or a new girlfriend, yeah, massively. I'm pretty good at hiding it though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met 2 ladies and a couple for socials in the past 9 months. On all occasions I was pretty nervous and on every occasion I ended the night very disappointed as they didn't look anything like their profiles

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think when the anticipation has been built, the connection prepared, and the ... Prepared

Can't help it, fantastic feeling, before and after as you come down

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Of course, any Johnny bravo on here that says they don't is a liar

Not nervous at all, just excited.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided to not meet at the moment because I'd lost that excited nervous feeling ...hopefully it will come back soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being nervous is a good thing I believe, we certainly do get 'Nervous excited'.

And tomorrow will be no exception from this for so many different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I aint a liar and I don't get nervous!. the only times I do is if Im meeting them at their place. I dont if it's mine.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I still get butterflies even now years down the line - I'll worry when I don't

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

I do...I've just recently come back after taking an 18 month break, this includes me becoming way anti social ie not going out at all just do my routine and then home, anyways I decided I should come back and meet people,go to clubs and do meets, so I decided to try a club I saw 2 yrs back and I was that scared to speak or move from the sofa up the stairs for about 4 hours I think and just watched, im seriously shy and i might look or act snooty but when I get nervous of stuff I literally do...its why I worry at times lol

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Yay seems I manage to stop conversation threads..go me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just left work going home to bath and do my bits and pieces, organise the porn and toys, get the outfit, stockings and shoes sorted for later, I'm excited and really nervous how does everyone else feel before a meet? !-

Always a little bit nervous - especially if it's a first meeting - but always VERY excited.

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By *umpPumpyMan
over a year ago

London

Have my first meet tomorrow. Not nervous yet. But I'm sure I will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, but I like turning the little butterflies into horny little devils

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have my first meet tomorrow. Not nervous yet. But I'm sure I will be.

have a fantastic time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, but I like turning the little butterflies into horny little devils

Ooo I like this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get nervous. I even get nervous when I'm about to meet my lady sometimes. I love the feeling though. Same as when I'm about to do a gig with my band, or go on a rollercoaster. Those butterflies make you feel alive!

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By *umpPumpyMan
over a year ago

London

"Have my first meet tomorrow. Not nervous yet. But I'm sure I will be.

have a fantastic time

It's a day time meet. In a park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if that nervous feeling ever goes it means this has become normal and time to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if that nervous feeling ever goes it means this has become normal and time to stop "

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It's the excitement that I love most and meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was nervous on the first meet but never since x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even on my first meet I was never nervous ... Just not something I have experienced. I think it might be because, in a fashion, I don't care what this person thinks of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a social (albeit not on here as not met anyone in ages) I don't tend to get nervous, but getting down to some fun I do

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Nervous every time ,social or play but it's all part of the fun

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