FabSwingers.com forum: Veris - reading between the lines

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Silly post really but does anyone else read between the lines of veris?

We haven't seen people display a bad veri but we have noticed some patterns that flagged things up to us. For example we saw a guy who had the word kinky in a few of his veris and we thought it was just people searching for words to use and perhaps copying previous veris for inspiration. We thought it was just general description but he was in fact genuinely kinky (we know - surprise!) and too strange for us.

Lots of short veris also make us think (from experience) that maybe people are going through the motions of a veri and the meet wasn't actually great.

Anyone else noticed this or see any flags that give you more information than is actually in the veri?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Silly post really but does anyone else read between the lines of veris?

Lots of short veris also make us think (from experience) that maybe people are going through the motions of a veri and the meet wasn't actually great.

Anyone else noticed this or see any flags that give you more information than is actually in the veri? "

Oh yes, you can glean an awful lot from them, and you are right - as much from what is not said as what is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of short veris also make us think (from experience) that maybe people are going through the motions of a veri and the meet wasn't actually great.

If a meet wasn't great I wouldn't verify and I have refused to as well; being the cow that I am I was very honest and just told him he was shit and I had nothing to say except 'he is real'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read mine and see if you can tell what kind of meet it was!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've displayed bad veris......have a look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Read mine and see if you can tell what kind of meet it was!

Short and to the point but good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've displayed bad veris......have a look.

We couldn't find one

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've displayed bad veris......have a look.

We couldn't find one

The one that says I'm a shit shag, another that says I'm slightly better than a wank and another that says I'm better than watching paint dry?!?!

Anyway, they are joke ones from repeat meets.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I once read a veri that just said in capitals,met him .That one made ne chuckle.Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read mine and see if you can tell what kind of meet it was!

Short and to the point but good

I didn't want any sex to be mentioned because I'd met another guy Sunday that was just a social, but Monday I ended up shagging the guy in the back of his car and met him again Tuesday!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've displayed bad veris......have a look.

We couldn't find one

The one that says I'm a shit shag, another that says I'm slightly better than a wank and another that says I'm better than watching paint dry?!?!

Anyway, they are joke ones from repeat meets. "

See if you're going to have bad veris displayed then bury them in another 50 good veris ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are all bad hence why I hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read mine and see if you can tell what kind of meet it was!

Short and to the point but good

I didn't want any sex to be mentioned because I'd met another guy Sunday that was just a social, but Monday I ended up shagging the guy in the back of his car and met him again Tuesday! "

Are your men allowed to meet others now then as well, or does the exclusivity thing still apply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We read between lines differently,depending on how we see things. You could be very wrong with your assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too fussed for veries, don't display them and don't leave them very often unless we're left one first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A veri is just to prove you are real and you turned up so short an to the point is how they should be, i seen one that was like a page out of a mills and boon book

every detail was giving I thought i was there watching the deed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't give a bad verification.I just wouldn't give the person one and block. Had a few meets that they were nothing like there pics or verifications. It's always there opinion when they leave a verification. We all have different opinions. But now been on a year ,and I'm more cautious it's best to ignore verifications and make your own mind up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read mine and see if you can tell what kind of meet it was!

Short and to the point but good

I didn't want any sex to be mentioned because I'd met another guy Sunday that was just a social, but Monday I ended up shagging the guy in the back of his car and met him again Tuesday!

Are your men allowed to meet others now then as well, or does the exclusivity thing still apply? "

No I wouldn't want any guy I'm having sex with to be meeting anyone else for sex. I wouldn't either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read mine and see if you can tell what kind of meet it was!

Short and to the point but good

I didn't want any sex to be mentioned because I'd met another guy Sunday that was just a social, but Monday I ended up shagging the guy in the back of his car and met him again Tuesday!

Are your men allowed to meet others now then as well, or does the exclusivity thing still apply?

No I wouldn't want any guy I'm having sex with to be meeting anyone else for sex. I wouldn't either. "

excellent, seems like you've found 'the One' then

hopefully he feels the same way too. Good luck to you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read mine and see if you can tell what kind of meet it was!

Short and to the point but good

I didn't want any sex to be mentioned because I'd met another guy Sunday that was just a social, but Monday I ended up shagging the guy in the back of his car and met him again Tuesday!

Are your men allowed to meet others now then as well, or does the exclusivity thing still apply?

No I wouldn't want any guy I'm having sex with to be meeting anyone else for sex. I wouldn't either.

excellent, seems like you've found 'the One' then

hopefully he feels the same way too. Good luck to you both "

Haha noo! I don't think he's arsed now he's shagged me, should've gone with the other guy!

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