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"I've been meeting a lovely older woman for a few months for regular fun and although we're having a great time she's very inexperienced and quite vanilla. She's only ever been with one other bloke (married young, now divorced) and she's lead quite a sheltered sex life. I've been bringing her out of her shell and introducing a few new things to keep it interesting, some light anal play, restraints, and a little bondage. Nothing too heavy at all. Last night in the throes of passion ( ) I asked what her fantasies were and she didn't really have any. So I told her mine, a MMF. She looked a little shocked and later said something about it being a bombshell. The question is, do I bring it up again? And if so, how? " I dunno, but if you do manage to talk her round, give me a nod. Love mmf. | |||
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"I'd never done it before I met Tony. Make sure she has a say in everything because if she's not happy it's not going happen. We always do a social meet no booze. means I'm in control of situation. I'm very nervous of meeting new men, but Tony makes sure I'm safe. Marie x" Thanks Marie, I kind of want everything to be on her terms anyway if it's something we ever decide to try. Although it's my idea it's more for her so picking the guy, circumstances etc would all be her with my help and support - kind of along the lines you mentioned. | |||
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"Depends, you could either just straight up and ask, or take a more deceitful approach. A friend of mine had organised a none pushy guy to come and chat them both up. Personally I would just come out and say it. You obviously like the idea and if she isn't into it maybe it just not meant to be...." I wouldn't want to deceive her - I care to much about her for anything like that. Like I said, I did tell her so now I'm guessing she's pondering it. Hopefully positively and she brings it up again herself... If not I might just leave it as it probably means she's not interested. | |||
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