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By *urtis63 OP Man
over a year ago

Hatfield

Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you suppose they do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say strip search for all ladies that join up. By me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And how do you think they will be able to do that? Bearing in mind that the majority on here wont meet for various reasons. Fab would end up being pretty damned empty. And even then... whoever remained might still not want to meet.

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By *urtis63 OP Man
over a year ago

Hatfield

Brilliant idea.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I propose a 6 month interview process that includes a criminal record check, full psychological assessment, undercover monitoring and GCSE styled exams on the life style... Or, you know, just ignore anyone that you would class as a 'timewaster'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I propose a 6 month interview process that includes a criminal record check, full psychological assessment, undercover monitoring and GCSE styled exams on the life style... Or, you know, just ignore anyone that you would class as a 'timewaster'

Thats me fucked then

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By *urtis63 OP Man
over a year ago

Hatfield

Yes....but then you'll be ignoring 75% of fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you suggest doing that? We use the tools provided by the site and they serve us well.

Personally we don't give out personal details like phone numbers etc on our profile a which we find helps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see anyone who isn't verified and been on over a few month I just block them, we are here to meet real people and our pics are for genuine swingers not for anyone to perv over...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x "

That's a bit mean

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean"

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

So what could they do to stop nutjobs and timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean"

Mean? Explain please...

If you are a genuine swinger why would have a problem being verified?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums? "

AND you're a lesbian?

Mumsnet?

You shittin' me?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Verified genuine function is good enough for us. Or at the very least an early phone call between the females.

If someone gets vague about female half then there is no meet, end of.

Different story for singles, but although i wouldnt be adverse to making photo veris compulsory, i would think it a bad business model for the site owners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine swingers can be nutjobs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

And then they would just rejoin.

Or you could just block unverified members?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

Mean? Explain please...

If you are a genuine swinger why would have a problem being verified? "

It's a catch 22 - everyone had to start from somewhere. Just remember that.

I can't speak for everyone's personal circumstances but sometimes life gets in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums?

AND you're a lesbian?

Mumsnet?

You shittin' me?!"

But this is a swinging site right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nutters are also able to photo verify.

You don't want non verifieds? Site allows you to bar them. Tadaa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

Mean? Explain please...

If you are a genuine swinger why would have a problem being verified? "

Maybe genuine swingers have only met other genuine swingers who arent verified either, the site give you tools to help meet "genuine" swingers but you have the biggest tool.. gut instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums?

AND you're a lesbian?

Mumsnet?

You shittin' me?!

But this is a swinging site right? "

So your only allowed on here if your shagging?? Cant you be allowed to have a break and only use the site as you wish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use filters wisely young Padawan and there's no need to worry about the time wasters and nutjobs

I never really feel comfortable with 'I'm a real swinger but I want to exclude everyone else' type posts. Live and let live, but filter out those that don't meet your requirements. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums? "

We would meet her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums?

AND you're a lesbian?

Mumsnet?

You shittin' me?!

But this is a swinging site right?

So your only allowed on here if your shagging?? Cant you be allowed to have a break and only use the site as you wish?"

Yes of course you can!

Thats not what I said, all I saying is that you should be verified genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums?

AND you're a lesbian?

Mumsnet?

You shittin' me?!

But this is a swinging site right?

So your only allowed on here if your shagging?? Cant you be allowed to have a break and only use the site as you wish?

Yes of course you can!

Thats not what I said, all I saying is that you should be verified genuine

But why though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone that has a profile on here is a genuine person. There are no computer generated profiles unlike on other sites.

Verifications mean sod all. They don't prove someone will turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums?

AND you're a lesbian?

Mumsnet?

You shittin' me?!

But this is a swinging site right?

So your only allowed on here if your shagging?? Cant you be allowed to have a break and only use the site as you wish?

Yes of course you can!

Thats not what I said, all I saying is that you should be verified genuine

But why though? "

The site advertising blurb is..... By swingers for swingers! VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

That what I am and thats what I'm looking for, so whats the problem in getting verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone that has a profile on here is a genuine person. There are no computer generated profiles unlike on other sites.

Verifications mean sod all. They don't prove someone will turn up. "

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By *maz.Man
over a year ago

Southampton / iford

If you start up numerous profiles but still use the same email address surely a flag should get spotted by admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone that has a profile on here is a genuine person. There are no computer generated profiles unlike on other sites.

Verifications mean sod all. They don't prove someone will turn up.

Your right you cant guarantee someone will turn up, but you definitely get the feel of the person through them, we have never been let down, we have good system and it works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you start up numerous profiles but still use the same email address surely a flag should get spotted by admin "

Yes you would hope so, but its equally easy to set up a new email as a new profile...

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By *xxxMan
over a year ago

Bedford & Chester

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

I've also thought a three strike and your out system to identify time wasters too

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? )"

Because they would lose advertising revenue if they did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i said before, i always use my gut instincts and the fab tools ive never met a crackpot or a non "genuine" person yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? )

Because they would lose advertising revenue if they did?"

^ we have a winner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums? "

Exactly this.

It seems OP wants fab to exclude a vast range of people who for many reasons may be coming from disadvantaged positions.

Hitler tried something similar..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

I've also thought a three strike and your out system to identify time wasters too

How do you incur a strike?

I mean we agreed to meet 3 times last week and you didn't show for any. I've reported you three times - You're out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the simple answer is, if fab doesn't work for you....leave!

There are plenty of other sites available, many you would pay a subscription to, but that in itself doesn't stop timewasters.

I have never had my time wasted, because I accept it for what it is. I am fully aware that my messages are mainly going to go unanswered.

Those that I have met, I have done so sometimes after months of chatting, rarely without a social beforehand and even those that I have met within a couple of messages, I have only done so after a phone call.

This might not work for anyone else, but it works for me. I think the trick is to get fab to work for you. There will always be timewasters and 'nut jobs', but if you are sensible then you can limit your time that is wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess the simple answer is, if fab doesn't work for you....leave!

There are plenty of other sites available, many you would pay a subscription to, but that in itself doesn't stop timewasters.

I have never had my time wasted, because I accept it for what it is. I am fully aware that my messages are mainly going to go unanswered.

This is spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very difficult to improve really, we got accused of being time wasters this morning and blocked by the accusers so couldn't even respond.

We know we are not time wasters and so do our friends.

How can you prove your not a time waster anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess the simple answer is, if fab doesn't work for you....leave!

There are plenty of other sites available, many you would pay a subscription to, but that in itself doesn't stop timewasters.

I have never had my time wasted, because I accept it for what it is. I am fully aware that my messages are mainly going to go unanswered.

This is spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the term "timewaster" is bought up way too often on the forum. There seems to be an attitude from some members that other members should be meeting different people very frequently. So if people chat and decide not to meet, that does not make one a timewaster. I for one am not going to meet Willy nilly and risk my health and safety, just to prove I am a swinger,I don't want to see the inside of a body bag thanks. I have one verification but on this profile have met 3 men, of those 1 verified me, 1 had no verifications so could not and 1 asked not to be verified, preferring to keep things private. Verifications are not the be all and end all.

I have 2 FWB s from another site.

I suppose I had better delete my profile OP as am not fking constantly???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very difficult to improve really, we got accused of being time wasters this morning and blocked by the accusers so couldn't even respond.

We know we are not time wasters and so do our friends.

How can you prove your not a time waster anyway"

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term "timewaster" is bought up way too often on the forum. There seems to be an attitude from some members that other members should be meeting different people very frequently. So if people chat and decide not to meet, that does not make one a timewaster. I for one am not going to meet Willy nilly and risk my health and safety, just to prove I am a swinger,I don't want to see the inside of a body bag thanks. I have one verification but on this profile have met 3 men, of those 1 verified me, 1 had no verifications so could not and 1 asked not to be verified, preferring to keep things private. Verifications are not the be all and end all.

I have 2 FWB s from another site.

I suppose I had better delete my profile OP as am not fking constantly???"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

open your own site and that way you can run it as you wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fake because I've been here 2 weeks and not met anyone yet, even though I'm photo verified. To be fair, I could still be at it because that doesn't prove I am who I claim to be, just that I'm female. I'm probably classed as a time waster now too based on the drivel I just spouted & the time you wasted reading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums?

AND you're a lesbian?

Mumsnet?

You shittin' me?!

But this is a swinging site right?

So your only allowed on here if your shagging?? Cant you be allowed to have a break and only use the site as you wish?

Yes of course you can!

Thats not what I said, all I saying is that you should be verified genuine

But why though?

The site advertising blurb is..... By swingers for swingers! VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

That what I am and thats what I'm looking for, so whats the problem in getting verified?

What's the problem with blocking unverified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block unverified members, had too many fakes and looney a contact us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of my best meets have been with new and unverified people

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By *xxxMan
over a year ago

Bedford & Chester

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

open your own site and that way you can run it as you wish "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block unverified members, had too many fakes and looney a contact us"

sorry just had to go and have a look lol, pretty dam sure your not fakes or time wasters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very difficult to improve really, we got accused of being time wasters this morning and blocked by the accusers so couldn't even respond.

We know we are not time wasters and so do our friends.

How can you prove your not a time waster anyway"

No need to prove anything to anyone, if they feel that that's their problem.. dont worry and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

If the joining process was complex the site would ONLY be nut-jobs and time wasters, genuine people would go elsewhere.

I think Admin do a pretty good job actually, verification by your peers so of works, as does photo verification. Lots of filters for you to customise your use of the site... what more could you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so of = sort of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

Works well for me in my quest for NSA sex. Maybe because I'm not a 'genuine swinger', I use the tools provided inconjunction with my instinct / brain.

However, I would assume someone who meets a lot probably stands the risk of coming across a higher number of fakes than I would do.

By the time I get around to looking / replying to message any fakers have usually gone UNLOS

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By *and5 SoloMan
over a year ago

Richmond

Surely that's a little unfair if they have paid for membership

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

How long did it take you to get a verification op? Don't know if you've already said...

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

The site advertising blurb is..... By swingers for swingers! VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

That what I am and thats what I'm looking for, so whats the problem in getting verified?

The veri system is there to prove that the gender of the person/s whos profile it is.

That the couples profile actually has a couple running it, that single fem is actually female. Also that they look like any pics they have on here.

It isn't to prove they aren't a timewaster (I love this overused word), a nut job, that they are meeting to fuck others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very difficult to improve really, we got accused of being time wasters this morning and blocked by the accusers so couldn't even respond.

We know we are not time wasters and so do our friends.

How can you prove your not a time waster anyway

No need to prove anything to anyone, if they feel that that's their problem.. dont worry and move on"

To be honest with you I was really pi**ed off about it to begin with, but I checked our contact with them, they had winked us, we messaged them, 5 days later they messaged back, and yes I hadn't replied to that message, but to call us time wasters and said they would report us to admin as fakes seemed a bit much.

If they had sent another message asking if we wanted to chat then ok but to block us with out being able to reply, well just cowards really.

And yes have moved on lol plenty of lovely couples on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site advertising blurb is..... By swingers for swingers! VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

That what I am and thats what I'm looking for, so whats the problem in getting verified?

The veri system is there to prove that the gender of the person/s whos profile it is.

That the couples profile actually has a couple running it, that single fem is actually female. Also that they look like any pics they have on here.

It isn't to prove they aren't a timewaster (I love this overused word), a nut job, that they are meeting to fuck others.

Not sure that reply is relevant to my views? Never used the word nutjob or timewasters.....I just font see what the big issue is with being verified if you are a genuine swinger? Using a SWINGING site

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

All new members should have to come round to ours and shag in front of us while we watch.

We will scare them accordingly and when we combine those scores with the scores we give them during the interview process that will follow we will then give them their FAB tattoo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long did it take you to get a verification op? Don't know if you've already said..."

Erm not long about 4 weeks I guess, we had some great socials and soon realised that actually if you use this site well you will meet some great 'normal' people, some we have played with and all we haven't but have become good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

Mean? Explain please...

If you are a genuine swinger why would have a problem being verified?

Maybe genuine swingers have only met other genuine swingers who arent verified either, the site give you tools to help meet "genuine" swingers but you have the biggest tool.. gut instinct"

This is exactly where we are right now, had a social and tonight a play meet with another couple, but neither of us are verified so we can't verify the other.

I could try and get webcam verified I suppose but tbh the chatrooms are so cliquey I'm not even sure mine work since I've never had a response to anything I've said there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get sick of these - if people dont get verified and it bothers you just bloody ignore those profiles - sorry but you will never get what you re asking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely that's a little unfair if they have paid for membership "

The terms should state that you must become verified with x amount of weeks/months then you know what your committing too...not difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

This is a great idea x

That's a bit mean

What if you're a one-legged, black/Jewish single mum, stuck in the arse-end of nowhere but quite like the forums?

AND you're a lesbian?

Mumsnet?

You shittin' me?!

But this is a swinging site right?

So your only allowed on here if your shagging?? Cant you be allowed to have a break and only use the site as you wish?

Yes of course you can!

Thats not what I said, all I saying is that you should be verified genuine

But why though?

The site advertising blurb is..... By swingers for swingers! VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

That what I am and thats what I'm looking for, so whats the problem in getting verified?

What's the problem with blocking unverified?"

Who said there was a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

I don't think this would solve the nutjob and timewasters issue....but it would have potentially put me off if it were difficult to join. I'm lazy like that....but but I'm neither a nutjob nor a timewaster......yay! No more lazy people

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Imposible to police is the simple answer..

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

define swinger? why not ask for a flter that only lets you receive messages from people who have

had 5 couple meets, 2 bimmf's 33 single men and 7 club visits...

seriously? get platinum membership its worth it..

course im not allowed it im only a unicorn, milf, cougar, swingle, forumite person or just plain promiscuous

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

The site advertising blurb is..... By swingers for swingers! VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

That what I am and thats what I'm looking for, so whats the problem in getting verified?

The veri system is there to prove that the gender of the person/s whos profile it is.

That the couples profile actually has a couple running it, that single fem is actually female. Also that they look like any pics they have on here.

It isn't to prove they aren't a timewaster (I love this overused word), a nut job, that they are meeting to fuck others.

You said - VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

No it isn't.

The veri system is to prove the gender of the person and that they resemble their pics, not to prove they are a genuine swinger.

How people use this site is down to them, if they wanna use only the forums, fine.

Just the chat rooms, great.

They like putting pics up for people to fab, go for it.

You don't have to meet and fuck people to be on fab.

Oh and I think you will find I never accused you of using the words nutjob or timewaster. I said the veri system won't prove that the person ISN'T a nutjob/timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

Because it would make it more difficult for people to join.

And what, pray tell, is a "genuine swinger?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure the tools are already in place for us to police ourselves efficiently in a grown up manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All new members should have to come round to ours and shag in front of us while we watch.

We will scare them accordingly and when we combine those scores with the scores we give them during the interview process that will follow we will then give them their FAB tattoo."

'Scare them accordingly'! I love this idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about a live cam with some one from admin to prove your 1.a female 2.a couple 3.tv/ts at least this way you know your talking to a confirmed sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how about a live cam with some one from admin to prove your 1.a female 2.a couple 3.tv/ts at least this way you know your talking to a confirmed sex "

And who will pay them for their time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how about a live cam with some one from admin to prove your 1.a female 2.a couple 3.tv/ts at least this way you know your talking to a confirmed sex "

How is that any different from the current photo verification system?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how about a live cam with some one from admin to prove your 1.a female 2.a couple 3.tv/ts at least this way you know your talking to a confirmed sex

How is that any different from the current photo verification system?"

the fact that you live cam with some one from admin not some photo just pulled from the internet

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

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Mr is the profile checker... I can be chatting to someone and he will say "time waster" or "picture collectors" he's normally right.. we are lucky the men/couples we have met have been lovely and the main reason we have stuck around! Our meets are few and far between due to work ect ect... We put meets up and no response as we want to meet in a club due to the numerous let downs. I think to police the site will be hard.. just block the time wasters and move on!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

Can we add journalists and reporters to the list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

Can we add journalists and reporters to the list?"
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But journalists will live cam for admin pop round to horny kinksters for a shag and a scare, then pop into a social or club for a verification, then turn up take pictures and invent a story on a slow news day.

All it takes to get what you want from this site is a bit of common sense. And the first thing that says is Admin can't do personal background checks on everyone for you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How do you suppose they do that?"

I'd be interested to know too. I don't think we'll get an answer though. Unless it's 'fibbly-diddly-doo'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is that any different from the current photo verification system?

the fact that you live cam with some one from admin not some photo just pulled from the internet "

Some photo pulled from the internet holding a bit of paper with your name and fabswingers.com on it?

If you mean to confirm that you're the same person that's in your pics, fair enough, but that's not how your post came across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site advertising blurb is..... By swingers for swingers! VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

That what I am and thats what I'm looking for, so whats the problem in getting verified?

The veri system is there to prove that the gender of the person/s whos profile it is.

That the couples profile actually has a couple running it, that single fem is actually female. Also that they look like any pics they have on here.

It isn't to prove they aren't a timewaster (I love this overused word), a nut job, that they are meeting to fuck others.

You said - VERIFICATION system to fine genuine swingers!

No it isn't.

The veri system is to prove the gender of the person and that they resemble their pics, not to prove they are a genuine swinger.

How people use this site is down to them, if they wanna use only the forums, fine.

Just the chat rooms, great.

They like putting pics up for people to fab, go for it.

You don't have to meet and fuck people to be on fab.

Oh and I think you will find I never accused you of using the words nutjob or timewaster. I said the veri system won't prove that the person ISN'T a nutjob/timewaster.

I didn't actually say that...that is what is on the fab website? But I must inform that they are incorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't Fab make it more difficult to join??? Gives genuine swingers peace of mind that no nutjobs or time wasters are on site

Because it would make it more difficult for people to join.

And what, pray tell, is a "genuine swinger?""
Ask admin thats what they are advertising the web site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

Anyone can verify there own profile. Its not hard to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

Anyone can verify there own profile. Its not hard to do."

How?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

Anyone can verify there own profile. Its not hard to do."

Only wankers do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

Anyone can verify there own profile. Its not hard to do.

Only wankers do that. "

Is that your professional opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

Anyone can verify there own profile. Its not hard to do.

How?"

If I tell you ill get the mods on my case.

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over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

Anyone can verify there own profile. Its not hard to do.

Only wankers do that.

Is that your professional opinion."

It's against site rules to verify your own profile or another profile you have I.e. couple to single one etc, it can result in your profile being deleted by admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wouldn't work. I have met people who haven't left verifications (not that I asked for one) just because I didn't click and,wouldn't meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that if you haven't been verified genuine with a certain time frame then your account should be terminated

Anyone can verify there own profile. Its not hard to do.

Only wankers do that.

Is that your professional opinion.

It's against site rules to verify your own profile or another profile you have I.e. couple to single one etc, it can result in your profile being deleted by admin. "

You are quite right it is against site rules but that doesn't stop many people breaking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is against site rules, to fake verifications, and quite easy to spot too.

I have not sought out a meeting on this profile, but had one delightful social, but we did on our previous couples profile, and not once were we fooled by fakes for more than a couple of messages, never suffered a time waster. Not only did we have success, but we seldom read verifications.

I suspect that those falling for fakes and time wasters are probably a bit desperate, so become vulnerable. As I have said above the tools exist to use the site sucessfully, you can't blame admin if you fail to use them.

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