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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering would any ladies ever be interested in a meet where it was just fem fem while my partner watches and also giving him some attention with me

But no sex with him?

Just playing with me and giving him some attention with me?

Anyone ever experienced this and how was it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a typical couple want a female to pleasure THEM scenario to me.

So you want someone to pleasure him but they can't have fk, why would a female want to do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a simple question and asking for advise

No girl would be fem fem and help give him attention with me

No idea why the snappy reply, I'm putting a question out to see if that's something anyone has done and if any females would be up for that

Which I'm sure there is some out there that this will interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also we would just be getting pleasured I'd be playing games with female

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I'd be up for it, but too far away sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd be up for it, but too far away sorry.

So you don't think it's out of the question to ask for a meet like this x

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"I'd be up for it, but too far away sorry.

So you don't think it's out of the question to ask for a meet like this x"

God no, not at all. Horses for courses and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like a typical couple want a female to pleasure THEM scenario to me.

So you want someone to pleasure him but they can't have fk, why would a female want to do that. "

Exactly. Why would you find a female willing to do this? What does she get out of it?

Nothing to stop you asking and lots couples do but I'd say you will struggle

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

Don't think it's unreasonable to ask for a meet like that, but I think a lot of guys would be reluctant to have their Mrs go off and be somebody else's entertainment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't think it's unreasonable to ask for a meet like that, but I think a lot of guys would be reluctant to have their Mrs go off and be somebody else's entertainment x"

It might be that the couple meets us

But would that situation happen in the meet do u think

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

You have to think about what you're asking. If you met the couple and then said during the meet btw we just want girl on girl and other f to help me please my man? I don't think you'd get what you were looking for. I'm sure there are plenty who would be happy with that, but I would personally identify that situation as being born out of jealousy or trust issues and would therefore decline. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I'd go for as a single lady but something I've done as part of a couple but both guys have received attention. Are you saying only your guy would?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not something I'd go for as a single lady but something I've done as part of a couple but both guys have received attention. Are you saying only your guy would? "

Yes both males would get some attention just a fantasy I want to fulfill x

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

Oh ok, it seemed like you were saying just your man would receive. We have done that before. Ladies had a good time

they both got a bit excited ad we about 30 mins and invited us to play anyway though haha

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

ff i would do but not with the mr present. if you want him to get attention for me hed have to give me some attention back..fair is fair..

occasionally i have done this..not that i knew it was going to be this way, before hand.

nothing more boring than watching a man fuck his woman, knowing full well you arent going to get any..its ok to ask, but dont expect a queue, i would say we have an aversion to being used as accessories x just my view x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not something I'd go for as a single lady but something I've done as part of a couple but both guys have received attention. Are you saying only your guy would?

Yes both males would get some attention just a fantasy I want to fulfill x"

Very doable then, I'd call that soft swap and there's plenty of couples who enjoy it. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it was a couple it would be see how things went if you get me

But looking to see if a single female would be interested as it's something we have wanted to do for a while x

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

Agree with Suzy completely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ff i would do but not with the mr present. if you want him to get attention for me hed have to give me some attention back..fair is fair..

occasionally i have done this..not that i knew it was going to be this way, before hand.

Yes I understand this deffiently don't think he would be fucking me

It would be watching the 2 girls and then him just getting attention x

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

I think ffm is very sexy and you'll find most people would want to do it at some stage, but like Suzy said fair is fair! I'm sure your man wouldn't like the reverse if a guy came and fucked you and he only got to "soft" play with you. It's the same here for the single f I would imagine. Best of luck though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put a meet up saying only soft swap if your after a couple no problems then xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think ffm is very sexy and you'll find most people would want to do it at some stage, but like Suzy said fair is fair! I'm sure your man wouldn't like the reverse if a guy came and fucked you and he only got to "soft" play with you. It's the same here for the single f I would imagine. Best of luck though x"

Yes I agree but don't think k he would be fucking me It would be fem fem and him getting some attention x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd be left frustrated in this scenario. Best thing about being part of a couple that even if you only soft swap you're still going to get fucked by your partner if not then, later. It would be like getting foreplay without the main event and it's feel used.

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

Having said that, I think it's doable. Just it would be very uncomfortable for the other f essentially being used for a live porno. You can't get her wet and then send her on her way imo haha x

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

There you go, dark eyes out it perfectly I think x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I'd be left frustrated in this scenario. Best thing about being part of a couple that even if you only soft swap you're still going to get fucked by your partner if not then, later. It would be like getting foreplay without the main event and it's feel used."

Yes I get this maybe we will have to look for a couple x

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

I think you'll have a lot more success if you do look for a couple, like I say we regularly have the ladies get to know each other first, so to speak. Then when they're ready they invite us fellas to give them a hand

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"ff i would do but not with the mr present. if you want him to get attention for me hed have to give me some attention back..fair is fair..

occasionally i have done this..not that i knew it was going to be this way, before hand.

Yes I understand this deffiently don't think he would be fucking me

It would be watching the 2 girls and then him just getting attention x"
why would i do that? i can go to a club and leave any old door open..im not a performing seal for your fantasy collection..what would you do for me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes we have had this before

Just hoping to find a lady to help us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ff i would do but not with the mr present. if you want him to get attention for me hed have to give me some attention back..fair is fair..

occasionally i have done this..not that i knew it was going to be this way, before hand.

Yes I understand this deffiently don't think he would be fucking me

It would be watching the 2 girls and then him just getting attention xwhy would i do that? i can go to a club and leave any old door open..im not a performing seal for your fantasy collection..what would you do for me?"

Again with the snappyness

Only seeking advise and people get there backs up I haven't personally asked

Just asking has anyone experienced this and how was it

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

I think a lot of people avoid this because they feel that it's all for the m of a couple. If it's genuine 3some then I don't see too much trouble if you're patient but if the f can't even get fucked then I don't see why they would bother.

Not only that, if you and this f are giving him attention, how long before he wants to fuck her? As a man id say not long! So someone always ends up disappointed. Either the f who can't get finished off, you because your fella wasn't meant to fuck her and has, or your man because he wants to fuck her but can't.

That's a recipe for disaster in my book.

Just my 2 cents

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"ff i would do but not with the mr present. if you want him to get attention for me hed have to give me some attention back..fair is fair..

occasionally i have done this..not that i knew it was going to be this way, before hand.

Yes I understand this deffiently don't think he would be fucking me

Again with the snappyness

Only seeking advise and people get there backs up I haven't personally asked

Just asking has anyone experienced this and how was it

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what about it? ie the snappiness im entitled to ask what youd do for me in return..right? or maybe not?? so what would you do?

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

Don't wanna put a downer on you like, just saying that a lot of people would feel like they were being used, with you, solely for your mans purposes, which is off putting for many. I hope you find what you are looking for. Fantasies should always be fulfilled were possible x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I'd like to think I'd be able to get her there

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Well I'd like to think I'd be able to get her there "
would you like to come sub for me without your man under the watchful supervision of my Dom..its ok, hell only watch and fuck me..im sure i can get you there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'd like to think I'd be able to get her there would you like to come sub for me without your man under the watchful supervision of my Dom..its ok, hell only watch and fuck me..im sure i can get you there?"

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tbh I'm into sub dom big time!

Also I've said a few time he wouldn't be fucking me

But personally I think that's sexy what u have just said

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

Mmmmmmmm that's a nice thought! I'm sure you would get her there peekaboob, but I'm sure a lot of fems would want the D too

haha x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

"
we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Tbh I'm into sub dom big time!

Also I've said a few time he wouldn't be fucking me

But personally I think that's sexy what u have just said "
i know im a damn minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing more off putting, than being the toy.

If I'm going with a girl, I like the full attention, her wanting to make me cum.

Not showing off making porn star noises, so her man can get off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

I'm only a sub for my partner atm but could be somthing I discuss with him x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

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hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I'd be up for it, but too far away sorry.

So you don't think it's out of the question to ask for a meet like this x

God no, not at all. Horses for courses and all that. "

Exactly just because it doesn't fit someone doesn't mean it doesn't sound good to someone else. Don't justify what you want to anyone!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

I'm only a sub for my partner atm but could be somthing I discuss with him x "
go for it..it its what would make you happy x

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

have you had another guy whilst he was there before peek?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd be up for it, but too far away sorry.

So you don't think it's out of the question to ask for a meet like this x

God no, not at all. Horses for courses and all that.

Exactly just because it doesn't fit someone doesn't mean it doesn't sound good to someone else. Don't justify what you want to anyone!"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x"

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

"
then you would be house trained and disciplined because thats what good owners do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have you had another guy whilst he was there before peek?"

Not I don't wanna go with another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

then you would be house trained and disciplined because thats what good owners do x"

Prrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fantastic to me - I wish I was the lucky guy!

My perfect fantasy would be an ffm where all the attention is focused on each girl's pleasure.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

then you would be house trained and disciplined because thats what good owners do x

Prrrrrrrrrr

"
geez why dont you drive..such a long way away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

then you would be house trained and disciplined because thats what good owners do x

Prrrrrrrrrr

geez why dont you drive..such a long way away

Sometime needs to move

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree and this is why I've stopped meeting couples. Always felt like I was there for their pleasure and not for my own.

Soft swap between two couples I can see why this would work but as an ffm.... nah

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By *lutwife_fantasiesCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

If you haven't been with another guy and you don't want to, and all you want is ff in front of your man with some attention for him. It's gonna be hard for people to get in the mood if they feel like you are just his fucktoy.

I think people may avoid that because it's not mutual at all. Or it would seem not. I'm not having a go because each to their own, but it seems to me whenever I see that situation (not saying yours is), that the f of the"couple" is just a toy for the m to get laid without being a cheat. That's why we usually avoid...

Hope you get what you want though.

Nothing worse than fantasising and not getting to do it x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

then you would be house trained and disciplined because thats what good owners do x

Prrrrrrrrrr

geez why dont you drive..such a long way away

Sometime needs to move

Ha ha"
i wish im stuck in outer mongolia for a bit..registered for uni near here while my kids finish college/ school x but intend to move after that ..bit of a long wait x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it, it was awful. I felt I was just there as a sex toy for his pleasure.

Now if it's just f/f I prefer there to be no observers - unless they're other women of course.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I've done it, it was awful. I felt I was just there as a sex toy for his pleasure.

Now if it's just f/f I prefer there to be no observers - unless they're other women of course."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

then you would be house trained and disciplined because thats what good owners do x

Prrrrrrrrrr

geez why dont you drive..such a long way away

Sometime needs to move

Ha hai wish im stuck in outer mongolia for a bit..registered for uni near here while my kids finish college/ school x but intend to move after that ..bit of a long wait x"

Some things/people are worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having said that, I think it's doable. Just it would be very uncomfortable for the other f essentially being used for a live porno. You can't get her wet and then send her on her way imo haha x"

You know, women are perfectly capable of getting other women off. You don't need a penis inside you in order for sex to be satisfying.

When I play with my gf I'm not 'sending her on her way' after getting her wet, she leaves happy, satisfied, and exhausted!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Wouldn't remotely interest me I'm bisexual I'd want to play with and fuck you both, for me there's no point in FFM otherwise

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

then you would be house trained and disciplined because thats what good owners do x

Prrrrrrrrrr

geez why dont you drive..such a long way away

Sometime needs to move

Ha hai wish im stuck in outer mongolia for a bit..registered for uni near here while my kids finish college/ school x but intend to move after that ..bit of a long wait x

Some things/people are worth the wait

"
ive added you to my hotlist, maybe i should take you to the dungeons of town house xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I'm in Suzy, you can get me anywhere

we are looking for someone actually

but ill make sure i know what you want as in, its an equal dynamic suited to everyone's tastes, not just ours...fancy being my kitty do you?

It's all about leaving feeling spoilt not used, prrrrrrr

hehe of course..im a sensual domme not a sadist x

I'm a naughty sub kitty, I'll bite, scratch and pee on the rug

then you would be house trained and disciplined because thats what good owners do x

Prrrrrrrrrr

geez why dont you drive..such a long way away

Sometime needs to move

Ha hai wish im stuck in outer mongolia for a bit..registered for uni near here while my kids finish college/ school x but intend to move after that ..bit of a long wait x

Some things/people are worth the wait

ive added you to my hotlist, maybe i should take you to the dungeons of town house xx"

You're already on mine

let me know when you're going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you haven't been with another guy and you don't want to, and all you want is ff in front of your man with some attention for him. It's gonna be hard for people to get in the mood if they feel like you are just his fucktoy.

Hope you get what you want though.

Nothing worse than fantasising and not getting to do it x"

Well are looking for

a female for my bI side also my partner some attention we both don't wanna sleep with anyone else

I also looking for another man to cum on me aswell as my partner

We not looking to fuck anyone else but each other just looking for a bit of fun with stuff we are comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't please all the people all the time, it seems....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one was being snappy with you they just had a different opinion to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one was being snappy with you they just had a different opinion to you.

People where replying with the backs up like I'd asked them personally to do this when I'm just asking for advise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get what you want though.

Nothing worse than fantasising and not getting to do it x

Well are looking for

a female for my bI side also my partner some attention we both don't wanna sleep with anyone else

I also looking for another man to cum on me aswell as my partner

We not looking to fuck anyone else but each other just looking for a bit of fun with stuff we are comfortable with "

Men and women are very different. No doubt you'll have men queuing to cum on you both with nothing in return but women want it all and why not, we're worth it. If this is the female of the couple writing, think if it would be an exciting offer for you? Stick to your boundaries, you only want to sleep with each other keep it that way, there will be a lady out there who will be happy with that, it'll be hard work as any couple, even full swap couples will agree, they're not called unicorns for nothing. Try clubs, build friendships, send messaged but maybe advertise it as something fulfilling for all parties rather a gift for him. You may have to compromise. Good luck and enjoy yourselves in the meantime

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over a year ago

But people are just hell no. What would be in it for her? That's not getting backs up that's asking a question.

I'm not sure how long you've been on the forums but you might not want to take it so personally

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"No one was being snappy with you they just had a different opinion to you.

People where replying with the backs up like I'd asked them personally to do this when I'm just asking for advise x "
i was trying to get you to see it from a single bi females point of view..to say i was being snappy shows how you arent willing to make changes to include others..if you want to state what you want publically and ask what other people would and would not do then you must expect the people who wouldnt do it to say so and why..the only times ive had my back up about this situtaion is when i havent been privvy to the couples choice of soft swap before playing..there fore i didnt have a choice to go no thankyou..thats been my experience. i am glad you are open about what you want...and i trust you accept why i wouldnt do it, whether you feel i was being snappy or not..x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hope you get what you want though.

Nothing worse than fantasising and not getting to do it x

Well are looking for

a female for my bI side also my partner some attention we both don't wanna sleep with anyone else

I also looking for another man to cum on me aswell as my partner

We not looking to fuck anyone else but each other just looking for a bit of fun with stuff we are comfortable with

Yes this is female of the couple

Yes and I understand but I know there will be someone wanting to help us some where and wiLloydd b into this

We have been clubs but had a brake away for a whileostomy as been very busy but need to get back to it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But people are just hell no. What would be in it for her? That's not getting backs up that's asking a question.

I'm not sure how long you've been on the forums but you might not want to take it so personally

Been on for a while just asked for advise if people have done this before didn't ask anyone to join us

And getting questioned like I have that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one was being snappy with you they just had a different opinion to you.

People where replying with the backs up like I'd asked them personally to do this when I'm just asking for advise x i was trying to get you to see it from a single bi females point of view..to say i was being snappy shows how you arent willing to make changes to include others..if you want to state what you want publically and ask what other people would and would not do then you must expect the people who wouldnt do it to say so and why..the only times ive had my back up about this situtaion is when i havent been privvy to the couples choice of soft swap before playing..there fore i didnt have a choice to go no thankyou..thats been my experience. i am glad you are open about what you want...and i trust you accept why i wouldnt do it, whether you feel i was being snappy or not..x"

Of course and I agree with your point and knew Alot of girls would feel this way

Just seeing if anyone has done this and how they found it

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By *egseleven11Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

Have to say as a local unicorn to yourself having read your profile in past. I personally would not meet reasons being and please don't think am being given offensive but it's all about what you and him want, in profile you state he may fuck you. Not many bi girls will join in this situation as it would cause conflict when she's horny as hell from playing with you.. he's horny as hell watching and ends up wanting to fuck you both. Been stuck in this situation so many times and it's awful. Good luck though hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have to say as a local unicorn to yourself having read your profile in past. I personally would not meet reasons being and please don't think am being given offensive but it's all about what you and him want, in profile you state he may fuck you. Not many bi girls will join in this situation as it would cause conflict when she's horny as hell from playing with you.. he's horny as hell watching and ends up wanting to fuck you both. Been stuck in this situation so many times and it's awful. Good luck though hope you find what you're looking for."

Fair point but we just want to be truthful and up front with people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the problem?

Some people can't answer a question without having a go at you!

Personally i would love to see my wife with another woman and she might not want to fuck the other guy. If both girls gave him a blow job that would be sexy from my point of view with me just watching, sounds like a good fit here...if only my wife would give in to it! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love ffm .... But would expect to please both of them

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over a year ago

I wouldn't enjoy that situation at all, I'd feel like it was all for show and I'd be uncomfortable.

Not everyone is like me though, I'm sure there'll be people out there who want this!

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over a year ago

"I wouldn't enjoy that situation at all, I'd feel like it was all for show and I'd be uncomfortable.

Not everyone is like me though, I'm sure there'll be people out there who want this!"

I feel the same way , when couples invite me over just for a blow job or wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we are two girls and a chap and we often get asked by couples if the two girls can meet the wife while her chap watches and out chap goes for a walk or mows the lawn on his own

It's usually no sex with her chap as well

Dirty but if we wanted to be entertainment we d join a circus

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Peekaboob, the female half, try to put yourself in this position...

You're single. You don't have a partner to go home to.

You're invited over by a couple. You play with her, but her attention is split. She's at least half, possibly more, focused on giving her man a good time rather than giving you a good time. You feel like an accessory. Even if you get off, you know you are there solely for them but they are there for each other at least as much, maybe more than they are there for you. They get your full attention, you get part of theirs.

Then you're expected to pleasure him. He may fuck her, whilst you watch feeling frustrated and like a spare part, knowing you were effectively the sex toy used to get him turned on. Even if he doesn't fuck her, you know he will after you leave.

You, on the other hand, may well go home partially fulfilled, feeling used, with nobody to relieve any remaining frustration.

She on the other hand, gets the best of both worlds, as does he. Try to imagine how you feel.

Would you be interested in that sort of situation?

As a single bi woman I wouldn't even consider the scenario you describe. My first thought was there's far more in it for you and him than for me. I don't expect there to be more in it for me than you, but I do expect it to be equal.

I think you'll have more success with a couple because then both women are getting the same thing. It's mutual.

The alternative is a club, where the woman may be more willing because she will be able to play with other people too and won't be left hanging if she wants male attention too.

Don't be surprised, however, if single women are willing to play with you but not to be a porn show for your partner.

Putting it bluntly, I expect give and take. If I'm pleasuring a man, he's damned well pleasuring me too or I'm going to be pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Say if you get have your pussy licked. You cum. Then you help get the mr. Off.

Whats wrong with that. You may like sucking cock.

"Peekaboob, the female half, try to put yourself in this position...

You're single. You don't have a partner to go home to.

You, on the other hand, may well go home partially fulfilled, feeling used, with nobody to relieve any remaining frustration.

She on the other hand, gets the best of both worlds, as does he. Try to imagine how you feel.

Would you be interested in that sort of situation?

I think you'll have more success with a couple because then both women are getting the same thing. It's mutual.

The alternative is a club, where the woman may be more willing because she will be able to play with other people too and won't be left hanging if she wants male attention too.

Don't be surprised, however, if single women are willing to play with you but not to be a porn show for your partner.

Putting it bluntly, I expect give and take. If I'm pleasuring a man, he's damned well pleasuring me too or I'm going to be pissed off."

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over a year ago

Heh as someone already said, horses for courses. There's bound to be some women out there into this, a fwb I have is into that sort of thing (had the pleasure of experiencing that a couple of ones now)

Also, there's a mm couple I meet where one of them just likes to see his partner have fun in front of him and not join in, we then "sort him out" once we're done playing

Put it as a meet or a status a few times that you're looking for that, and you'll find it soon enough when the right person comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple once just for ff while our guys watched but half way through it became apparent they too had been searching for a single fem to play with her and "help" with him, they seen the meet as 3sum rather than what it actually was! never ever again will I be drawn into a meet like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say if you get have your pussy licked. You cum. Then you help get the mr. Off.

Whats wrong with that. You may like sucking cock.

Why can't he play with her too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering would any ladies ever be interested in a meet where it was just fem fem while my partner watches and also giving him some attention with me

But no sex with him?

Just playing with me and giving him some attention with me?

Anyone ever experienced this and how was it, "

No thanks

If I give a guy some attention I expect, no insist I get some back

I ain't a free hooker

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Say if you get have your pussy licked. You cum. Then you help get the mr. Off.

Whats wrong with that. You may like sucking cock."

I told you what's wrong with it, from my perspective.

You seem to entrenched in what you want to consider it from the point of view of the single woman. That is part of the problem.

You're there to partly please her and partly please him.

He's there to be pleased.

She's supposed to be there to focus completely on pleasing both of you.

She gets a fraction of the attention you want and she's expected to give to him and expect nothing in return? Except the sheer joy of sucking his cock?

I enjoy sucking cock but if it's a one-way street it ain't happening.

I won't play with couples who can't see past what they want.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

too entrenched*

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over a year ago

I think if it's made perfectly clear what the specifics wanted are before actually meeting, and everyone is down with it. Just be clear about it from the off you're looking to fulfil that fantasy and you should be fine IMO

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over a year ago

"I think if it's made perfectly clear what the specifics wanted are before actually meeting, and everyone is down with it. Just be clear about it from the off you're looking to fulfil that fantasy and you should be fine IMO "

Yes we are trying to be up front with everyone don't want people getting the wrong idea

We have met couples before and loved it ff play and partners with own partners just hoping for this fantasy to be fulfilled

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I thought this was a "who would be interested in helping us" thread, not a "post if you are not interested and want rubbish our fantasies" thread.

Obviously this aint for everyone, but then neither is a lot of stuff posted on here. I personally don't get the whole sub domme thing and think it's a load of bollocks, but i don't go into those threads and rubbish their scenarios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a very simple rule when it come to play, we all play or no one plays. Seen far too many get jealous at parties if they are missing out, even among couples.

At the end of the day if a female joined us, then we would make damn sure she had the best time as the unicorns are hard to find, and i think most people like to give and receive pleasure in equal measure.

This is exactly why we prefer couples to singles, no one gets left out.

there are a surprising number of couples profiles that only play with female half of other couple, needless to say they only veri's they have are off single men if any at all.

We are finding that singles are best found in random encounters away from Fab. Or part of a couple that we already know, and are confident it is with permission as we already know and trust both.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I thought this was a "who would be interested in helping us" thread, not a "post if you are not interested and want rubbish our fantasies" thread.

One of the questions is whether a woman would be interested in the scenario.

A no from a single woman is as valid an answer as a yes.

Nobody is rubbishing the fantasy. We're answering the question and giving our reason.

If only single women interested in the fantasy had posted, there would be no replies on the thread. This is a discussion board. Discussion is happening and it's even stayed on topic.

Anyone posting on these fora cannot expect to get only responses that agree with them or match their way of thinking. Besides, the place would be incredibly boring if that happened.

To me, this thread epitomises the selfish attitude of some couples. Those are usually the couples that then post wondering why they can't get meets with single bi- women.

Many couples want to meet single women. Relatively few single women are comfortable meeting couples. There are a lot of potential problems in those arrangements. Of course the women that do will choose to meet those they think will treat them best and they'll have most fun with.

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over a year ago

Yes we are trying to be up front with everyone don't want people getting the wrong idea

We have met couples before and loved it ff play and partners with own partners just hoping for this fantasy to be fulfilled "

I mean. imagine you were single.

Imagine a guy messages you and says 'I'd really like it if you came to me, gave me a blow job, then fucked off'.

While some women would enjoy that, I don't think most would. And that's *essentially* what your partner is saying here.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yes we are trying to be up front with everyone don't want people getting the wrong idea

We have met couples before and loved it ff play and partners with own partners just hoping for this fantasy to be fulfilled

I mean. imagine you were single.

Imagine a guy messages you and says 'I'd really like it if you came to me, gave me a blow job, then fucked off'.

While some women would enjoy that, I don't think most would. And that's *essentially* what your partner is saying here."

But that's ok because she's already been "sorted out" by the female half of the couple.

I think the inequality of the situation and how it's possible to feel used if people want you to give much more than you're getting back, is being dismissed very lightly by some.

The woman is getting her fun from the FF so why would she mind giving the guy his jollies too?

This sounds to me a small step from the couples who talk about the gift they are giving by allowing someone into their relationship and expect the person to be grateful for the honour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds to me a small step from the couples who talk about the gift they are giving by allowing someone into their relationship and expect the person to be grateful for the honour.

*vom face*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people are just negative in life. Fuck them.

"I thought this was a "who would be interested in helping us" thread, not a "post if you are not interested and want rubbish our fantasies" thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people like the soft swap option - is how we started out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We wish to try stuff and may lead to more. Just dont want to commit to it incase were nervous.

Hopefully happen soon.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"lots of people like the soft swap option - is how we started out "

They don't want to swap though, soft or otherwise. They want a single woman.

A couple is the obvious choice but they don't want another guy involved at all.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Some people are just negative in life. Fuck them.

I thought this was a "who would be interested in helping us" thread, not a "post if you are not interested and want rubbish our fantasies" thread.

You said "would any ladies be interested...?" No is a valid response.

You're even getting feedback on why women might not be interested. And pretty much every single woman has said the same.

I absolutely wish you the best of luck though.

None of the single bi women I know would touch the scenario with a very long stick but perhaps you can find an exception.

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