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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Chatting to a couple, everything going well until I ask about playing safe as couldn't see any condoms in their pictures.

Next thing they've unfriended and blocked me... Find it a bit pathetic but would rather that than take the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The unfriending is automatic when you block someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The unfriending is automatic when you block someone "

Ah ok, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they read it as you were hoping it would be BB as thier pics dont show condoms.

I have a bunch of tect being called a nazi and a dictator and a cunt for saying j only play safe and saying "ah I'll pass then thanks if it's only Bb" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem bitter for being blocked and are jumping to conclusions about them without knowing why they blocked you which you will never know. Probably best just to forget it rather than start a thread calling people pathetic.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Chatting to a couple, everything going well until I ask about playing safe as couldn't see any condoms in their pictures.

Next thing they've unfriended and blocked me... Find it a bit pathetic but would rather that than take the risk "

Not pathetic, you weren't compatible. You play your way, they play theirs.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You seem bitter for being blocked and are jumping to conclusions about them without knowing why they blocked you which you will never know. Probably best just to forget it rather than start a thread calling people pathetic. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look after yourself mate. Let others do as they want. Don't take it personally and follow your beliefs. You did the right thing in my opinion.....but that's all it is....someone else's opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there pictures were of them both playing together. Aint couples allowed to bb in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to them whether they want to play bb or not; obviously you didn't suit their needs and wants so they blocked. .kind of done you a favour to be honest !one less couple for you to message hun x

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

If it is just pics of them as a couple fucking I would assume they wouldn't use a condom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be clear, the pics were of them and multiple partners. They approached me stating they liked my pics and having read my profile (which says nsa safe fun) were interested in meeting.

I'm not bitter as some have suggested but I do find it pathetic that given the nature of the how the chat was going they chose to block. Maybe I'm just more honest and polite than some people and would rather say thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although it's not something we're in favour of, I've noticed that some people block when they decide that someone is not for them.

With regards to bareback, did you comment on their photos being bareback photos? If so, I wonder if it came across as a bit judgemental. The norm is to assume and expect safe sex, unless discussed otherwise. If they had not broached the subject of going bare with you, then they should have no reason to assume that to be the case. I personally would not have commented on someone's photos or previous habits regarding safe sex - I would simply use a condom and that would be that, no discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever thought that they could be a genuine man/wife couple and wouldn't be using condoms? I dpnt use them wth my partner! I never assume anything and remember things aren't always what they seem!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ever thought that they could be a genuine man/wife couple and wouldn't be using condoms? I dpnt use them wth my partner! I never assume anything and remember things aren't always what they seem!"

As I said in my previous message, there were multiple people in the photos. Each to their own, you live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wasnt for them. End of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be clear, the pics were of them and multiple partners. They approached me stating they liked my pics and having read my profile (which says nsa safe fun) were interested in meeting.

I'm not bitter as some have suggested but I do find it pathetic that given the nature of the how the chat was going they chose to block. Maybe I'm just more honest and polite than some people and would rather say thanks but no thanks. "

Why did you even get into a conversation with them if you were put off by the photos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Why did you even get into a conversation with them if you were put off by the photos? "

Friends only pics, I didn't know prior to that point. As I say, it's a lesson learnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Why did you even get into a conversation with them if you were put off by the photos?

Friends only pics, I didn't know prior to that point. As I say, it's a lesson learnt. "

What lesson did you learn? You chatted and found you weren't compatible. They then blocked you so as not to bother you again and cut you out of their searches. Calling people pathetic because of how they choose to live their lives is in itself pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatting to a couple, everything going well until I ask about playing safe as couldn't see any condoms in their pictures.

Next thing they've unfriended and blocked me... Find it a bit pathetic but would rather that than take the risk "
messers everywhere!! The world is full of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What lesson did you learn? "

Lesson 1. Never, ever open a thread on fab!

Lesson 2. If you're looking for sympathy, it's between shit and syphilis in the dictionary, but not on fab forums!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Is it pathetic to block and move on or pathetic to strop and post a thread?! Hmm..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


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What lesson did you learn?

Lesson 1. Never, ever open a thread on fab!

Lesson 2. If you're looking for sympathy, it's between shit and syphilis in the dictionary, but not on fab forums!

"

Unless you have tits and a foof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatting to a couple, everything going well until I ask about playing safe as couldn't see any condoms in their pictures.

Next thing they've unfriended and blocked me... Find it a bit pathetic but would rather that than take the risk messers everywhere!! The world is full of them "

How have they messed him about? They chatted and found they weren't compatible so blocked to waste no more of his and their time. Some people are so sensitive about being blocked by a complete stranger they will never meet, who gives a shit? I couldn't care less if someone blocked me, its their prerogative as it is mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if you are blocked, does that stop you appearing in a search, if so, they have just 'filtered' you out of their search results. Maybe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you are blocked, does that stop you appearing in a search, if so, they have just 'filtered' you out of their search results. Maybe..."

Yes that is absalutely correct. We don't like to block people unless they offend us, but I do believe that is the reason some people use the block button more liberally - to save wasting time in searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly any photos have condoms in,best thing is to ask straight away if they do safe sex or bareback. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not pathetic of them to block you, everyone has different preferences. It's a bit pathetic of you to call them pathetic really, just move on XXX

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