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Age/Comfort zone...... damn, damn, damn!!!

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester

*him* I really don't like getting bloody older! Just been contacted by a GORGEOUS couple, tick all our boxes.... except they're mid twenties, around the same age as my eldest kid! Bugger, bugger, bugger!

Sigh... I did the 'right' thing, said, lovely of you, ta, but you're too young and wished them well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the fact you highlight the word "right" suggests you think its the socially acceptable "right" thing to do..but are thinking why... :D

you were attracted, they were, all adults... and lets face it. is swapping partners socially acceptable.. :D

Katie. x

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester


"the fact you highlight the word "right" suggests you think its the socially acceptable "right" thing to do..but are thinking why... :D

you were attracted, they were, all adults... and lets face it. is swapping partners socially acceptable.. :D

Katie. x"

I agree in principle, Katie, and I love the human form, younger and older, but it's just easier (for me/us, not for everyone, granted) playing with people who aren't the same age as my kids and who don't have the capacity to make either of us wish we could shift that last couple of pounds from here or there...

If they'd only lied and said theyw ere 30....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol.. it could be worse.. I keep coming across my sons friends on here...

Katie, with her Masters consent.

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Just pretend they are...or that you two are (you look fit & hot enough to be anyway!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol.. it could be worse.. I keep coming across my sons friends on here...

Katie, with her Masters consent."

Thats not so good....! Or is it....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol.. it could be worse.. I keep coming across my sons friends on here...

Katie, with her Masters consent.

Thats not so good....! Or is it....?"

no its terrible.. lol I have limits, my sons friends are one of them.. :D

Katie.x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"*him* I really don't like getting bloody older! Just been contacted by a GORGEOUS couple, tick all our boxes.... except they're mid twenties, around the same age as my eldest kid! Bugger, bugger, bugger!

Sigh... I did the 'right' thing, said, lovely of you, ta, but you're too young and wished them well.... "
dam fool !! lol

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester


"*him* I really don't like getting bloody older! Just been contacted by a GORGEOUS couple, tick all our boxes.... except they're mid twenties, around the same age as my eldest kid! Bugger, bugger, bugger!

Sigh... I did the 'right' thing, said, lovely of you, ta, but you're too young and wished them well.... dam fool !! lol"

.. lol!! I know.. sigh... but they've replied again, really like our profile etc... so I've asked them to our party! I reckon if I just watch, then I won't be breaching my principles.. will I?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"*him* I really don't like getting bloody older! Just been contacted by a GORGEOUS couple, tick all our boxes.... except they're mid twenties, around the same age as my eldest kid! Bugger, bugger, bugger!

Sigh... I did the 'right' thing, said, lovely of you, ta, but you're too young and wished them well.... dam fool !! lol

.. lol!! I know.. sigh... but they've replied again, really like our profile etc... so I've asked them to our party! I reckon if I just watch, then I won't be breaching my principles.. will I? "
bugger principles where a gorgeous young girl is asking you to play, Are you totaly mad

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"lol.. it could be worse.. I keep coming across my sons friends on here...

Katie, with her Masters consent."

I suspect it may be the other way around too

And to the OP, you may find principles go out the window when underclothes do the same

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester


" bugger principles where a gorgeous young girl is asking you to play, Are you totaly mad"

probably! Well, we'll see what happens!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


" bugger principles where a gorgeous young girl is asking you to play, Are you totaly mad

probably! Well, we'll see what happens! "

My principles will let me watch if i am allowed _

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds as if you do want to play but decided to decline a foursome because its feels socially unacceptable. They may be the same age as your child, but they're not your child are they? They are adults. We said a similar thing, we have made friends that are in their 20s, well the female is and she is half my partners age. They have a mature outlook and are perfect for us. If you want to go for it, the only rules you follow are whats right for the two of you at the time, doesnt matter a fig what anyone else says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The operative words for me in your post are "comfort zone". When we play we need to feel relaxed and comfortable with our playmates or it's not going to happen.

I daresay it's every middle aged man's fantasy to bed a nubile young girl, but going by the no-shows on this site when offered the opportunity I'd say it's just that: fantasy.

If the "angst" you're displaying in this post is anything to go by, would it really be a fun meet for all?

We all have our "comfort zone". However, we all like to push our own boundaries. My playmate of nearly four years has bought a Hitachi Magic Wand and wants to restrain and blindfold me and use it on me. There's a part of me horrified to the core, but there's a part of me that wants to know if I could really trust him as he does me.

I suppose what I'm saying in a convoluted way is go for it: if it's fun whoo hoo, if not, you don't do it again as you'll reaffirm your own comfort zone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol.. it could be worse.. I keep coming across my sons friends on here...

Katie, with her Masters consent."

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No way, as you don't look old enough to have a son that is over 18!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol.. it could be worse.. I keep coming across my sons friends on here...

Katie, with her Masters consent.

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No way, as you don't look old enough to have a son that is over 18! "

thats what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently accepted that age is just a number, and if young gents find me attractive enough to want to play with me, I am not going to say no!

Perhaps not having kids makes a difference.

In some ways, I prefer the younger gents as they have less hang ups and are usually fitter and more pleasing to the eyes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no issue with age. Fun is fun, and in the end thats what we are all meant to be getting from this isnt it!

25... 45.... 65... 75... does it really matter? I have a preference for maturer women, but I have ever since I was about 14. But it doesn mean I cant have fun with someone half my own age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as you can see netty is alot younger than me but we think age makes no differance at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol.. it could be worse.. I keep coming across my sons friends on here...

Katie, with her Masters consent."

iv met a freinds mum,off here wihout knowing until i turned up at her house and his,pic was there ha also meet a old school teacher regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is for any one who like me is to old, and wandering if to bother with the site,or just go off, and to never come back like i have been doing for the past few years off,then on mmmmmmmm

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By *orsecover59Couple
over a year ago

Jersey

Hope your eyesight is good otherwise you may end up "cockeyed" whilst watching and who knows where ol`willy will go then...........lol

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Think the same couple contacted us but we just made sure they knew our age and they said they were fine with it......so we are lol

Might make us feel young again or really really old ...1 or the other lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same thing about not playing with anyone my youngest sons age and below, until someone pointed out to me that I would have to raise my age limit every year as my son got older, so now I stopped it at 25 but could be persuaded a bit lower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always felt age was just a number. if the spark is there, then should enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the issue with it.

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