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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people here have children older than you.....it may feel wrong fucking someone of that age group.

Also....if you read through forum threads etc...there are a massive number of young (but sadly immature and inexperienced) guys on here. You need to have much more about you than youth and a cock.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Listen mate you'll always be the wrong age. When your young your too young when your old your too old. That's just the way the cookie crumbles. At some point you will bump into someone who's age range you fall into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd rather a guy to be older than me, always been the same. Younger guys I find a bit more sulky, are more needy and less likely to understand I can't meet at a drop of a hat etc. I'm sure your not like that but it's just my own opinion from personal experiences X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have children older than you. That for me is a definite no no. My preference is to play with people I have something in common with. Age comes into that alot.

Don't understand why people as young as the OP are on here. Surely at that age you should be out with your mates experiencing life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I'd rather a guy to be older than me, always been the same. Younger guys I find a bit more sulky, are more needy and less likely to understand I can't meet at a drop of a hat etc. I'm sure your not like that but it's just my own opinion from personal experiences X"

I guess other peoples past experiences with younger people put them off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have children older than you. That for me is a definite no no. My preference is to play with people I have something in common with. Age comes into that alot.

Don't understand why people as young as the OP are on here. Surely at that age you should be out with your mates experiencing life. "

This is just something I like to so on spare time, surely age has no matter to that, there's time in my life to come on here Inbetween work and socialising with my friends

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's not age. It's behaviour.

Experience changes behaviours, such as expectations and reactions.

AND, young man If age shouldn't matter why does your preference stop at 60 ?

Why are you leaving me out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have children older than you. That for me is a definite no no. My preference is to play with people I have something in common with. Age comes into that alot.

Don't understand why people as young as the OP are on here. Surely at that age you should be out with your mates experiencing life. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here"

Erm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself to Grimsby mate. The Cougars there will love you. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here"

Putting down your peers isn't a great trait either

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Hello op.

Many people here have a lot of choice and are thus able to selectively indulge their preferences.

You can do the same, just filtering for people who want to meet you and where you do match their interests.

A lot of it is to do with similar ages of their kids. You can't change someone's taste but you can focus your energy just into looking for others who you are mutually matched with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here

Putting down your peers isn't a great trait either "

General assumption off what most people have said, and my own experiences, there are some amazing people and some selfish people that lack manners, which I'm sure everyone has experienced on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here"

And you're 18....

You should be down at Yates Wine Lodge learning how to flirt and chat up girls of your own age - how to take rejection

Leave this to later in life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have children older than you. That for me is a definite no no. My preference is to play with people I have something in common with. Age comes into that alot.

Don't understand why people as young as the OP are on here. Surely at that age you should be out with your mates experiencing life.

This is just something I like to so on spare time, surely age has no matter to that, there's time in my life to come on here Inbetween work and socialising with my friends "

I'll put it very bluntly. 18 is very very young. For all I know last week you could have been a child. Age is more than just a number it's about experiences, attitude and having something in common . I have nothing in common with a kid who has probably little life experience. Yes at 18 I thought I knew it all. Thought! That is why 30 plus for me. Everyone else will have their own views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally I have an 18 year old son so it's an absolute no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here

Putting down your peers isn't a great trait either

General assumption off what most people have said, and my own experiences, there are some amazing people and some selfish people that lack manners, which I'm sure everyone has experienced on here "
oh i'm sure their are plenty rude folk about but

Comparing yourself to them in am effort to make yourself look better rarely impresses. Let your own actions speak for you and let the actions of others speak for them...folk aren't stupid, they rarely need the difference pointing out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have children older than you. That for me is a definite no no. My preference is to play with people I have something in common with. Age comes into that alot.

Don't understand why people as young as the OP are on here. Surely at that age you should be out with your mates experiencing life.

This is just something I like to so on spare time, surely age has no matter to that, there's time in my life to come on here Inbetween work and socialising with my friends

I'll put it very bluntly. 18 is very very young. For all I know last week you could have been a child. Age is more than just a number it's about experiences, attitude and having something in common . I have nothing in common with a kid who has probably little life experience. Yes at 18 I thought I knew it all. Thought! That is why 30 plus for me. Everyone else will have their own views. "

Completely understand I just wanted I get to know why most people were against it

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Peoples choice and for some you could be younger than their kids.

I wouldnt meet anyone lots younger as i dont feel we would have much in common.Miss.

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

Maybe the thought of that massive cock buried in to them puts them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?"

A few reasons i wouldn't meet an 18 year old

We would have nothing in common

At 18 you would lack the experience i require

I would feel like a pervert

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?"

There are lots of young people on the swinging and fetish scene. The social events may work for you as it gives you a chance to meet other swingers and let them get to know you a bit rather than you being just a young profile on a swinging site.

Anyway, you've certainly got time on your side so no rush eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?"

For me anyone at your age wouldn't have the maturity and understanding of what the swinging lifestyle is all about. I'm not saying your not mature for your age, or running you down but when you get past your 30's and have seen life a little more you will understand

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"I have children older than you. That for me is a definite no no. My preference is to play with people I have something in common with. Age comes into that alot.

Don't understand why people as young as the OP are on here. Surely at that age you should be out with your mates experiencing life.

This is just something I like to so on spare time, surely age has no matter to that, there's time in my life to come on here Inbetween work and socialising with my friends

I'll put it very bluntly. 18 is very very young. For all I know last week you could have been a child. Age is more than just a number it's about experiences, attitude and having something in common . I have nothing in common with a kid who has probably little life experience. Yes at 18 I thought I knew it all. Thought! That is why 30 plus for me. Everyone else will have their own views. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

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over a year ago

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve"

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here"

I often wonder why young people like yourself cannot find what you are looking for in the real world..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?"

I HAVE A SON YOUR AGE!!!!! AND 18 IS TOO YOUNG FOR ME IF I DIDN'T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!"

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?"

What is it about people of over 60 that puts you off? Most people have a limit above or below which they don't want to go

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet. "

It's still a meet with someone young enough to be her son!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

It's still a meet with someone young enough to be her son!!!!"

And it's your business because .....? Did she ask for profile advice? Think you will find that's against the forum rules. Concern yourself with your own meets.

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Instead of saying you're polite and better than some of the rude folks here. Maybe prove it by having more than one picture that isn't you holding your cock

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Also whining about not getting meets because you're too young puts people off

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

It's still a meet with someone young enough to be her son!!!!

And it's your business because .....? Did she ask for profile advice? Think you will find that's against the forum rules. Concern yourself with your own meets."

What's it got to do with you? I'm entitled to comment on forums, and again it's nothing to do with you if I point out what I believe to be someone's hypocrisy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

It's still a meet with someone young enough to be her son!!!!

And it's your business because .....? Did she ask for profile advice? Think you will find that's against the forum rules. Concern yourself with your own meets.

What's it got to do with you? I'm entitled to comment on forums, and again it's nothing to do with you if I point out what I believe to be someone's hypocrisy "

As I am entitled to point out unsolicited critique of a profile is against forum rules.

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By *aughty alex 99Man
over a year ago

gosport


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here

Putting down your peers isn't a great trait either

General assumption off what most people have said, and my own experiences, there are some amazing people and some selfish people that lack manners, which I'm sure everyone has experienced on here "

For sure and more of them to come lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

It's still a meet with someone young enough to be her son!!!!

And it's your business because .....? Did she ask for profile advice? Think you will find that's against the forum rules. Concern yourself with your own meets.

What's it got to do with you? I'm entitled to comment on forums, and again it's nothing to do with you if I point out what I believe to be someone's hypocrisy "

But still against the rules, just wanted to try younger see what all the fuss was about, wouldn't meet to play as felt too uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

It's still a meet with someone young enough to be her son!!!!"

And incidentally I didn't mention that anything about not meeting due to kids that age either as it doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet. "

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today"

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

"

If the cap fits sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie"

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've met a local 18 yr old. it is kind of weird to see that he is friends with my oldest son on fb. i won't meet him again.

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just carry on fella...could be worse...you could be on the forums bickering like a toddler over some inaccuracy or other

Your only getting older and you'll be right in lots of peoples firing lines before long enjoy

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx"

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl"

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi there age only number older I get horny I get I am 54 now and my sexy drive is same has preson at 20 I just love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't feel we'd have much in common with someone that age. And what we're looking for on the swing scene does require experience and maturity. People think differently as they get older so, unless it's a quick fuck, age matters a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here"

It's great that you're polite, but that really should go without saying. All the men we meet are polite, but the reason I play with them is because they know how to excite, both psychologically and physically. Politeness on its own is not always enough when it comes to getting someone of my age into bed.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Age matters to me,I may find a teenage attractive,but the baby fresh faced look doeos really get my juices flowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

It's still a meet with someone young enough to be her son!!!!

And it's your business because .....? Did she ask for profile advice? Think you will find that's against the forum rules. Concern yourself with your own meets.

What's it got to do with you? I'm entitled to comment on forums, and again it's nothing to do with you if I point out what I believe to be someone's hypocrisy "

She's not a hypocrite. She says she prefers men her own age. That does not mean she can't go outside her preferences. Our profile says we prefer men in their mid to late thirties, but we have met men in their forties. Preferences are not hard and fast rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It appears that you can be seen as being immature no matter what age you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that you can be seen as being immature no matter what age you are "

This

As for the OP, isn't up to him if he wants to be part of this? Surely swinging is mostly defined as real sexual liberation. If he wants to swing then good luck to him. We all have our preferences and we should all tolerate and accept them, if it's not for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site"

Without wishing to inflame an already heated discussion, why can't people on a swinging site have high morals ? Just because we enjoy involving others in our sex life doesn't mean we're immoral. I think that statement says a lot about your attitude to swingers

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site

Without wishing to inflame an already heated discussion, why can't people on a swinging site have high morals ? Just because we enjoy involving others in our sex life doesn't mean we're immoral. I think that statement says a lot about your attitude to swingers "

Swinging is having sex with people other than your partner, whether married or not, this would be viewed by people not members of a shagging site as totally immoral, this is probably more than 99% of the adult population

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By *anm2009Man
over a year ago

Barrow-in-Furness

Not at all my gf loves younger men she's fifty and the youngest we have had is 21 just be yourself ang enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age wouldnt put me off solong as your wernt inmature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your to too far from me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people think young people should be out clubbing etc. And most arent interested in swinging, more in just shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old, as I don't like being hit on by teenagers on here or in the real world, and it'd make me feel too old

Though, looking at this thread being older doesn't make you more mature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I'm the other end of the scale.

Whatever age you are, you'll be wrong for somebody.

Don't worry about it, you'll have more luck than I will!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

My house is constantly filled with 17-18 yr old boys (my son n his mates), they are sooooo young, I hear the crap they come out with, see how they bahave.

Sex with an 18yr old? - God No

*shudders*

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?

There are lots of young people on the swinging and fetish scene. The social events may work for you as it gives you a chance to meet other swingers and let them get to know you a bit rather than you being just a young profile on a swinging site.

Anyway, you've certainly got time on your side so no rush eh.

"
this..enjoy the journey/ exploration and fun times..i wouldnt meet you as i have 2 children in their twenties. however you are an adult,you do what makes you happy. i know the generation of young people has completely different consciousness and attitudes towards relationships and socially ive met some very aware and mature younger people..still its not for me, but i dont think you should be criticized, for being here x be well and happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site

Without wishing to inflame an already heated discussion, why can't people on a swinging site have high morals ? Just because we enjoy involving others in our sex life doesn't mean we're immoral. I think that statement says a lot about your attitude to swingers

Swinging is having sex with people other than your partner, whether married or not, this would be viewed by people not members of a shagging site as totally immoral, this is probably more than 99% of the adult population "

Firstly , what others oitside this ligestyle think is totally irrelevant, I know for a fact we have very high morals

Secondly If you think 99.9% of the population have neither thought about swinging or actully done it you're very naive

And lastly and most importantly the fact you term this a" shagging site" and not a swinging site just proves my earlier point about your attitude to swingers. I'm assuming you think they're pieces of meat there to serve your needs ?

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site

Without wishing to inflame an already heated discussion, why can't people on a swinging site have high morals ? Just because we enjoy involving others in our sex life doesn't mean we're immoral. I think that statement says a lot about your attitude to swingers

Swinging is having sex with people other than your partner, whether married or not, this would be viewed by people not members of a shagging site as totally immoral, this is probably more than 99% of the adult population

Firstly , what others oitside this ligestyle think is totally irrelevant, I know for a fact we have very high morals

Secondly If you think 99.9% of the population have neither thought about swinging or actully done it you're very naive

And lastly and most importantly the fact you term this a" shagging site" and not a swinging site just proves my earlier point about your attitude to swingers. I'm assuming you think they're pieces of meat there to serve your needs ?

"

Some crap getting talked here, you most be the Sunday school brigade by day and the behind the curtain shag brigade by night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos it's borderline peodo x

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"It's not age. It's behaviour.

Experience changes behaviours, such as expectations and reactions.

AND, young man If age shouldn't matter why does your preference stop at 60 ?

Why are you leaving me out?"

He may be excluding you but I wouldn't dream of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here

And you're 18....

You should be down at Yates Wine Lodge learning how to flirt and chat up girls of your own age - how to take rejection

Leave this to later in life... "

Why should he leave this until later in life, is this a life style choice exclusive to older people???

It's not age, it's attitude that counts.There are females in 20's so not old enough to be his mother. XXX

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Cos it's borderline peodo x"
m

Ridiculous and unnecessary comment.

He might be seeking females his own age! Even if he's not.... He's an adult and can do as he pleases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos it's borderline peodo x"

A paedophile is somebody who engages in sex with a person under the age of 16. The is no borderline to it.

18 is 2 years past age of consent. There are 18 year old girls on here. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site

Without wishing to inflame an already heated discussion, why can't people on a swinging site have high morals ? Just because we enjoy involving others in our sex life doesn't mean we're immoral. I think that statement says a lot about your attitude to swingers

Swinging is having sex with people other than your partner, whether married or not, this would be viewed by people not members of a shagging site as totally immoral, this is probably more than 99% of the adult population

Firstly , what others oitside this ligestyle think is totally irrelevant, I know for a fact we have very high morals

Secondly If you think 99.9% of the population have neither thought about swinging or actully done it you're very naive

And lastly and most importantly the fact you term this a" shagging site" and not a swinging site just proves my earlier point about your attitude to swingers. I'm assuming you think they're pieces of meat there to serve your needs ?

Some crap getting talked here, you most be the Sunday school brigade by day and the behind the curtain shag brigade by night"

We'll if that's a new way of describing discreet then yes we are , you must get your vast swinging knowledge from your vast array of veri's and your huge friend list of , ummmmm men ?

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site

Without wishing to inflame an already heated discussion, why can't people on a swinging site have high morals ? Just because we enjoy involving others in our sex life doesn't mean we're immoral. I think that statement says a lot about your attitude to swingers

Swinging is having sex with people other than your partner, whether married or not, this would be viewed by people not members of a shagging site as totally immoral, this is probably more than 99% of the adult population

Firstly , what others oitside this ligestyle think is totally irrelevant, I know for a fact we have very high morals

Secondly If you think 99.9% of the population have neither thought about swinging or actully done it you're very naive

And lastly and most importantly the fact you term this a" shagging site" and not a swinging site just proves my earlier point about your attitude to swingers. I'm assuming you think they're pieces of meat there to serve your needs ?

Some crap getting talked here, you most be the Sunday school brigade by day and the behind the curtain shag brigade by night

We'll if that's a new way of describing discreet then yes we are , you must get your vast swinging knowledge from your vast array of veri's and your huge friend list of , ummmmm men ? "

The holier than thou brigade judging someone else's profile, maybe I should get your permission before I add friends or even chat, it's members like you that want to run this site and if people don't fall in to your pigeon hole you want to criticise them, I'll ask your permission in future, bet your goal in life it to become an admin then you'll be able to run other members life's

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?"

You have an upper age limit yet dare to question why others should have a lower one?

I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my dad.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Can some men, (two in particular on this thread), really not see the difference between meeting a 35 year old for coffee and having sex with an 18 year old?!

Really?

I know some of you don't care what you stick your dicks in and don't understand why age and attraction matter, but not everyone is so blasé.

It sounds to me as though the woman being attacked has turned a couple of the men on this thread down previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez imagine me a 58 year old with an 18 year old ,that's a 40 year age gap,wouldn't dream of it,from the rocking chair to the cradle,its very wrong,and i personaly think that 21 should be the age you can join.I am sure you are a very nice young man but you have years ahead of you to live and learn.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

It sounds to me as though the woman being attacked has turned a couple of the men on this thread down previously."

Aah...not just me then!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The holier than thou brigade judging someone else's profile, maybe I should get your permission before I add friends or even chat, it's members like you that want to run this site and if people don't fall in to your pigeon hole you want to criticise them, I'll ask your permission in future, bet your goal in life it to become an admin then you'll be able to run other members life's"

You picked through someone else's profile and verifications so you could criticise and judge her for who she'd met, so don't give us the outraged act.

You were very happy to throw the word hypocrite round earlier.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

It sounds to me as though the woman being attacked has turned a couple of the men on this thread down previously.

Aah...not just me then! "

Nope

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site"

You can have morals and be a swinger

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"The holier than thou brigade judging someone else's profile, maybe I should get your permission before I add friends or even chat, it's members like you that want to run this site and if people don't fall in to your pigeon hole you want to criticise them, I'll ask your permission in future, bet your goal in life it to become an admin then you'll be able to run other members life's

You picked through someone else's profile and verifications so you could criticise and judge her for who she'd met, so don't give us the outraged act.

You were very happy to throw the word hypocrite round earlier."

And who are you? Another one of the "this is our site and you'll fit in with what WE say" brigade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that you can be seen as being immature no matter what age you are

This

As for the OP, isn't up to him if he wants to be part of this? Surely swinging is mostly defined as real sexual liberation. If he wants to swing then good luck to him. We all have our preferences and we should all tolerate and accept them, if it's not for us"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?"

You have preferences. Why do they matter to you? It's the same thing.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here"

Maybe because you should be doing the normal stuff like dating at your age.....and you have no experience of life live a little first before you start swinging...

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Jeez imagine me a 58 year old with an 18 year old ,that's a 40 year age gap,wouldn't dream of it,from the rocking chair to the cradle,its very wrong,and i personaly think that 21 should be the age you can join.I am sure you are a very nice young man but you have years ahead of you to live and learn."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?

You have preferences. Why do they matter to you? It's the same thing. "

Agree.. works both ways.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"I understand both of you, but seems a little strange sometimes because I'm incredibly polite, well mannered and respectful unlike a few on here

I often wonder why young people like yourself cannot find what you are looking for in the real world.."

Exactly. ......then when they find a girl and she won't do certain sexual things they wonder why....very sad

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The holier than thou brigade judging someone else's profile, maybe I should get your permission before I add friends or even chat, it's members like you that want to run this site and if people don't fall in to your pigeon hole you want to criticise them, I'll ask your permission in future, bet your goal in life it to become an admin then you'll be able to run other members life's

You picked through someone else's profile and verifications so you could criticise and judge her for who she'd met, so don't give us the outraged act.

You were very happy to throw the word hypocrite round earlier.

And who are you? Another one of the "this is our site and you'll fit in with what WE say" brigade "

What have I told you to fit in with, exactly? Unlike you, I don't judge people on their preferences and who they've met.

You're a fine one to talk about anyone else being judgemental and expecting people to do things their way.

The pot called, he says you're black.

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Jeez imagine me a 58 year old with an 18 year old ,that's a 40 year age gap,wouldn't dream of it,from the rocking chair to the cradle,its very wrong,and i personaly think that 21 should be the age you can join.I am sure you are a very nice young man but you have years ahead of you to live and learn."

And 3 years from now there would still be a 40 yr age gap. What then raise the joining age to 25??

Old enough to get married and start a family at 16, old enough to vote and fight for the country at 18. Not old enough to be allowed to join a website until 21...

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Jeez imagine me a 58 year old with an 18 year old ,that's a 40 year age gap,wouldn't dream of it,from the rocking chair to the cradle,its very wrong,and i personaly think that 21 should be the age you can join.I am sure you are a very nice young man but you have years ahead of you to live and learn.

And 3 years from now there would still be a 40 yr age gap. What then raise the joining age to 25??

Old enough to get married and start a family at 16, old enough to vote and fight for the country at 18. Not old enough to be allowed to join a website until 21... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many people here have children older than you.....it may feel wrong fucking someone of that age group.

Also....if you read through forum threads etc...there are a massive number of young (but sadly immature and inexperienced) guys on here. You need to have much more about you than youth and a cock."

This....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm relatively new to the swinging scene and a lot of people are put off by my age, how come age matters to a lot of people?"

I would have nothing in common with an 18 year old and I like to have a social before sex and I'm not gonna waste my time. Basically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my own age group, its what I am attracted to and wouldn't even consider someone your age it in a club either. You and I have 37 years between us, no thanks, as someone has said, would feel like a perve

Prefer your own age group yet verified as met a 35 year old!!!

And seeing as you took so much interest you will see it was a coffee meet.

Haha another site hypocrite. Do as I say and not as I do

Pmsl

Some real pricks on here today

Haha

Name calling ??

What were the site rules u were quating ?

If the cap fits sweetie

Not worth a reply

Gotta rise above these kind of people of u end up becoming one ..xx

Amazing the amount of people with such high moral standards on a swinging site

Without wishing to inflame an already heated discussion, why can't people on a swinging site have high morals ? Just because we enjoy involving others in our sex life doesn't mean we're immoral. I think that statement says a lot about your attitude to swingers

Swinging is having sex with people other than your partner, whether married or not, this would be viewed by people not members of a shagging site as totally immoral, this is probably more than 99% of the adult population

Firstly , what others oitside this ligestyle think is totally irrelevant, I know for a fact we have very high morals

Secondly If you think 99.9% of the population have neither thought about swinging or actully done it you're very naive

And lastly and most importantly the fact you term this a" shagging site" and not a swinging site just proves my earlier point about your attitude to swingers. I'm assuming you think they're pieces of meat there to serve your needs ?

Some crap getting talked here, you most be the Sunday school brigade by day and the behind the curtain shag brigade by night

We'll if that's a new way of describing discreet then yes we are , you must get your vast swinging knowledge from your vast array of veri's and your huge friend list of , ummmmm men ?

The holier than thou brigade judging someone else's profile, maybe I should get your permission before I add friends or even chat, it's members like you that want to run this site and if people don't fall in to your pigeon hole you want to criticise them, I'll ask your permission in future, bet your goal in life it to become an admin then you'll be able to run other members life's "

Nope I have absolutely no ambitions in that area and you go ahead and post what you wish. I merely pointed out that the fact you have no veris off couples or fems and your friend list consists mainly of men may well give away the fact that have a stinking attitude and couples have spotted this a mile off and want nothing to do with you. I could be wrong of course but the general consensus of replies on this thread would indicate others feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos it's borderline peodo xm

Ridiculous and unnecessary comment.

He might be seeking females his own age! Even if he's not.... He's an adult and can do as he pleases. "

I was talking about for me lol the OP can do what he likes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm young but still get to speak/meet older women I think it just depends how you carry yourself and act, there are women that just don't want to meet younger people just like you will have you own preference on age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see what your saying OP. I think it's only woman on here that prefer someone around the same age or older me included. But I bet if a fit 18 year old girl wanted to sleep with a 40 year old man he wouldn't turn around and say your too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos it's borderline peodo x

A paedophile is somebody who engages in sex with a person under the age of 16. The is no borderline to it.

18 is 2 years past age of consent. There are 18 year old girls on here. XXX"

All the 18 year olds can do what they like. For me meeting someone who is younger than my nieces....my friends kids and close to the age of my own children doesn't sit well with me. Whatever anyone else does on this site is up to them and not for me to judge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many people here have children older than you.....it may feel wrong fucking someone of that age group.

Also....if you read through forum threads etc...there are a massive number of young (but sadly immature and inexperienced) guys on here. You need to have much more about you than youth and a cock."
I couldn't have put it better myself. This just isn't the place for an 18 year old. It just makes me feel uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not age. It's behaviour.

Experience changes behaviours, such as expectations and reactions.

AND, young man If age shouldn't matter why does your preference stop at 60 ?

Why are you leaving me out?"

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Many people here have children older than you.....it may feel wrong fucking someone of that age group.

Also....if you read through forum threads etc...there are a massive number of young (but sadly immature and inexperienced) guys on here. You need to have much more about you than youth and a cock. I couldn't have put it better myself.

This just isn't the place for an 18 year old.

It just makes me feel uncomfortable. "

But why is it not the place for an adult?

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