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Not all pretty folk are a great meet

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By *olfRomeo OP   Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Just throwing it out there but we have had some pretty people some not so pretty people inside and out but our best friends are genuine pretty people in the mind and a sense of humour is for us THE most important and attractive wouldn't you agree?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

would deffo agree, there does however also need to be some attraction for us too but this isnt based on "pretty looks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just throwing it out there but we have had some pretty people some not so pretty people inside and out but our best friends are genuine pretty people in the mind and a sense of humour is for us THE most important and attractive wouldn't you agree?

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I can see where you're going wrong, you've had pretty things

What you need is dirrtyprettythings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more handsome the guy is the more shy I am, have to put his hand over my mouth so he doesn't see my cum/look like I'm having a shit face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Not all folk are a great meet. 'Pretty' don't come into it as a prerequisite for or against for me; attraction is based on a lot more than that. I am aware that that may not be the viewpoint for all but that's the joy of fab. I look for like-minded folk and luckily there are plenty so it's all good.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"The more handsome the guy is the more shy I am, have to put his hand over my mouth so he doesn't see my cum/look like I'm having a shit face. "

Lmao this made me laugh!! (I go for a pillow myself!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more handsome the guy is the more shy I am, have to put his hand over my mouth so he doesn't see my cum/look like I'm having a shit face. "

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Agree also.

If it's about looks, posturing and what we consider to be 'cosmetic', then it's going to be a cold sort of a meet for us, one which we wouldn't entertain. Much prefer the grounded and humble yet quietly confident types of people for our meets.

Absolutely not critising anyone who looks for what we don't, that's the great thing about fab, something for everyone.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"The more handsome the guy is the more shy I am, have to put his hand over my mouth so he doesn't see my cum/look like I'm having a shit face. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more handsome the guy is the more shy I am, have to put his hand over my mouth so he doesn't see my cum/look like I'm having a shit face. "

Wear a blindfold, heightens the senses and it gives you a bit of security, if you can't see him he can't see you, works a treat for shyness, believe me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This can go both ways. I've always discounted a certain type but recently had to rethink this. ??

Very glad I did too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more handsome the guy is the more shy I am, have to put his hand over my mouth so he doesn't see my cum/look like I'm having a shit face. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would deffo agree, there does however also need to be some attraction for us too but this isnt based on "pretty looks" "

Exactly! Attractions aren't, for us anyway, purely based on looks alone. We look for the whole package, including personality, fun factor and openness.

Having played with some 'pretties' who ended up being holiday and selfish, we now know what we want and looks is actually quite low on the priority list...

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"The more handsome the guy is the more shy I am, have to put his hand over my mouth so he doesn't see my cum/look like I'm having a shit face. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is the big problem with Fab. People on here go by the photo and dismiss someone without even trying to get to know the personality. The amount of times ive sent a msg and photos.. nothing back apart from not for me or not my type. How do you know without chatting. You cant go on looks alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would deffo agree, there does however also need to be some attraction for us too but this isnt based on "pretty looks"

Exactly! Attractions aren't, for us anyway, purely based on looks alone. We look for the whole package, including personality, fun factor and openness.

Having played with some 'pretties' who ended up being holiday and selfish, we now know what we want and looks is actually quite low on the priority list... "

Well you'd love me... lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks aren't everything unless you are shallow, For me there has to be an attraction yes but it's also about personality to,no point having a gorgeous partner if there personality is as dull as dishwater and as lively as roadkill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks aren't everything unless you are shallow, For me there has to be an attraction yes but it's also about personality to,no point having a gorgeous partner if there personality is as dull as dishwater and as lively as roadkill "

This.

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By *issnwtyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

Looks do help tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all people in general are great for a meet, especially the ones who generalise from the off!!

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By *an Holo-Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire Dales

Maybe their is hope for me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just throwing it out there but we have had some pretty people some not so pretty people inside and out but our best friends are genuine pretty people in the mind and a sense of humour is for us THE most important and attractive wouldn't you agree?

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I prefer them pretty on the inside and more of a personality ands a sense of humour tbh...

having said that whilst I dont go for pretty boys, I don't go for mingers either...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Attraction is only the starting point, there also has to be a meeting of minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i agree looks arent everything it does annoy me at times the amount of profiles that say good looking only or blocked i had one girl who after i sent my face pic say "eww you should go kill yourself your not good looking enough to be on a place like this" safe to say she was blocked fair enough everyone has their choice but not every person is model material lol

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"And this is the big problem with Fab. People on here go by the photo and dismiss someone without even trying to get to know the personality. The amount of times ive sent a msg and photos.. nothing back apart from not for me or not my type. How do you know without chatting. You cant go on looks alone. "

Hear what you're saying but what if the profile after reading it and looking at the pictures don't appeal when the message is opened? Can't see it changing our opinion if we decided to chat a little as that involves time and we don't know how much time that's going to take or if it's going to work at all. It just makes sense to us to stick to initial pic and profile attraction and take it from there. Hope that helps.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

But you can't define what pretty is. For example, I find Adele incredibly striking but not in the least bit pretty whereas Annie Lennox is very pretty.

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By *olfRomeo OP   Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe


"Just throwing it out there but we have had some pretty people some not so pretty people inside and out but our best friends are genuine pretty people in the mind and a sense of humour is for us THE most important and attractive wouldn't you agree?

I can see where you're going wrong, you've had pretty things

Boom nailed it

What you need is dirrtyprettythings "

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By *olfRomeo OP   Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe


"The more handsome the guy is the more shy I am, have to put his hand over my mouth so he doesn't see my cum/look like I'm having a shit face. "

Hilarious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all people in general are great for a meet, especially the ones who generalise from the off!! "
Have you read your own profile???

Fortunately we do not tuck a y off your boxes, so will never gave to be disappointed by a meet with you...

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