FabSwingers.com forum: BI Curious

By *owdoueatyours OP Man
over a year ago

Swale

I have been a straight man up to this point in my life. I do however find it a turn on when I see pictures of a man having his cock sucked by another. It does make me curious, but really don't know if it is something I would like to do or not. Has anyone else been in this situation and if so, what did you do about it?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I sucked a cock,then another and another... 40 years on..... I am still sucking

Wish he would hurry up and shoot

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good luck and enjoy

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By *owdoueatyours OP Man
over a year ago

Swale

Thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would try and arrange a meet with a couple with a curious guy, then when he makes advances to you, decide if you are ok with that. Then If you are turned on by his erect cock, start by just feeling the warm hardness of it.

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By *owdoueatyours OP Man
over a year ago

Swale

Thanks for that advice. That does seem to make sense.

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By *owdoueatyours OP Man
over a year ago

Swale

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By *owdoueatyours OP Man
over a year ago

Swale

Thanks for your messages with your thoughts and opinions

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By *exycouple.xCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Once you suck a hard cock you will want more ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that want happen to you

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

i thought i was straight until our special friend turned his attention from the lady onto me .. and i felt his lips around me ... it felt nice ..

later when sweet lady was giving head to another friend , i joined her .. he didnt complain either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this post....

Just what we're looking to do ..

I can't wait to watch my hubby suck on a cock with me....

Yum yum..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once u try it u will want more trust me

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By *limaxinnylonCouple
over a year ago

CHESTER

I love to watch Jon sucking a hard cock and sharing with him, it's a great turn on and a mouth is a mouth as they say! Ha! Plus a guy probably knows what a guy wants just like when I lick pussy I know what she wants

Jayne xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I know where your coming from there.

I had a meet with a lovely older couple last year. He was curious like me. He wanked me with her, then sucked me with her. I felt my first other hard cock that night. Very liberating feeling.

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

OP I'm with you on this one. This is how we ended up on here the wife's fantasy is to see me with a guy and then her joining in afterwards. Never been with or touch a guy before don't find them or cocks especially attractive other than mine ha ha, so not sure what to expect

only agreed to go along with it as its her fantasy and I'm all about keeping my lady happy at all costs even if it's losing my anal cherry. We have been watching a bit of mmf porn while playing with each other and she is telling me that's the sort of thing that she would like to see happen between me and the guy, must admit it gets me very turned on so what does that make me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucked on a couple....a bit degrading, very intense. Lots of guilt and self loathing followed me. I'm pretty cool with it now. You may enjoy it a lot! Lol

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By *exycouple.xCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys are curious and sexuality isn't fixed. It ebbs & flows and there was a recent report that said as guys approach their mid 40's, they often start to experience bisexual curiosity.

With sexuality, there are no rules. Chemistry, pheromones, porn, visual appeal can all play a part in the game of attraction.

I've met guys fascinated by a cock but with absolutely no attraction to men.

Go with your feelings, explore at your own pace. You may be pleasantly surprised!

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Finding a couple with a bi male is certainly your best bet, as you can just ease into touching/sucking for the first time by following the lead of the fem when your comfortable and ready. If the couple know that this is your first time, they will be understanding and not force things.

The issue with meeting with a single man is that all the attention and expectation to play is on you, there is no one else around to take the pressure off.

Most of all enjoy yourself, we certainly do.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Give it a go,if you don't like it then don't do it again,well maybe one more time just to make sure! I've had a fair few messages from men wanting to try it and people pulling out at the last minute. You men who want to try it get some balls and try it!

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Mandy and I love to share a cock..

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Give it a go,if you don't like it then don't do it again,well maybe one more time just to make sure! I've had a fair few messages from men wanting to try it and people pulling out at the last minute. You men who want to try it get some balls and try it!"

I'm not a man by the way

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By *uddy and hollyCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Once you suck a hard cock you will want more ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a guy with experience. Tell him straight, the thought turns you on but don't know the reality. If he accepts that, great, you'll find out.

Good luck, hope it works out for you.

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By *owdoueatyours OP Man
over a year ago

Swale

Wow thought the thread had died and just logged in to see all the posts. Thanks everyone for your comments, I think it has helped me make up my mind!!!@

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop asking pointless questions and worrying about labels...

Just be yourself, and try the things that feel natural - enjoy yourself!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is Faversham?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will get a few be funny about it. Even ppl youve met in the past but thats there preference. Just do as you please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then ..... when you,ve felt a nice hard cock in your hand, next you,ll just want to see what it feels and tastes like in your mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be NO going back once you've enjoyed the delights of sucking cock ! Well,if my experience is anything to go by !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great forum I'm in exactly the same position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how I started OP. I found it strange and confusing at first, guilt played a part in that. After a while I found myself wanting to do it again, things slowly progressed until I eventually had a one on one meet with a guy.

I've now learned to listen to my body and what I find sexual, somethings surprise me still but I don't get caught up in the emotion of why or how anymore. Sexuality is fluid and so long as you're not hurting anyone then why get hung up on feeling bad for what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt the same, I'm married but always got turned on liking at guys cocks, I never fancied men thou, just their cocks lol

So about 2 year ago I decided to just go for it and met a guy in hotel room and sucked his cock, I loved it and never had any regrets, I've sucked 5 other guys since, so I would go for it If I were you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I felt the same, I'm married but always got turned on liking at guys cocks, I never fancied men thou, just their cocks lol

"I never fancied men thou, just their cocks lol" - I think that's likely to be true of many of us bi guys. I just love to play with cocks. Sometimes, if it's a guy with a really great, fit body I do find myself 'fancying' more than his cock. But to be honest, mostly, it's just that lovely cock I enjoy getting to grips with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I'm with you on this one. This is how we ended up on here the wife's fantasy is to see me with a guy and then her joining in afterwards. Never been with or touch a guy before don't find them or cocks especially attractive other than mine ha ha, so not sure what to expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i watch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been a straight man up to this point in my life. I do however find it a turn on when I see pictures of a man having his cock sucked by another. It does make me curious, but really don't know if it is something I would like to do or not. Has anyone else been in this situation and if so, what did you do about it?"

Popped a frock on and knelt down

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Once you suck a hard cock you will want more ??"

That is what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love this post....

Just what we're looking to do ..

I can't wait to watch my hubby suck on a cock with me....

Yum yum..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love this post....

Just what we're looking to do ..

I can't wait to watch my hubby suck on a cock with me....

Yum yum..xx

He's a lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I've learned about swinging is that human beings can be hugely complex in their sexuality. A desire to experiment with the opposite sex is perfectly normal, and doesn't necesarily change your sexuality. I have met a number of straight men who might sometimes enjoy sucking a cock, although they are not really attracted to men. I (female) am straight - I don't fancy women in the least, and I have no interest in women's bodies as such. But there is nothing that turns me on more than the thought of playing with huge breasts. I suppose the term bicurious is often for used for people who want to experiment. Just enjoy the swing scene for the rich diversity of experiences it provides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then...... when you have that cock in your mouth, felt how much he was enjoying it! You'll think what would it be like to feel him cum in your mouth, taste his sweet warm thick cream, you'll just have to find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with curious - chat about it and act on it if you want - then see how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nothing wrong with curious - chat about it and act on it if you want - then see how you feel "

Totally agree. As long as all are happy and always good to push boundaries and try new things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then.... You just might want to know whats it like to have a guy hold your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go ahead and give it a go ... If you don't like it and never want to do it again then fine but on the other hand if you really enjoy it and want to try more then happy days .

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By *owdoueatyours OP Man
over a year ago

Swale

Thanks everyone for your continued thoughts and advice. It's been much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lot of fun, can't leave all the same sex fun to the ladies

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