FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people swing?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bored or just not happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing largely because it's in my nature to have multiple partners. My husband swings because he loves group sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Just the two choices? I think that there's a whole rainbow of reasons, usually because people want to enjoy and share a wider sexual experience with their partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Neither of the above !

Because it's bloody good fun

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

So that I can indulge my voyeur tendencies and my liking of group sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Those 2 options probably say far more about you than the vast majority of swingers

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By *otaweirdoMan
over a year ago

medway

Because we can!

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

Cause I can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz i love it

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

To make new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Because i like bukkake and group sex.. and love to watch and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was born to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy

Because i like bukkake and group sex.. and love to watch and enjoy "

pity I'm outside your age range love your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have everything I want in life at the moment, except regular sex. I do not want to become a 'couple' again, to achieve sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Oh dear.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

"Bored or just not happy "
Why, which are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

to add an extra dimension to their already fantastic sex life?

that's just a guess btw

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By *eniceandromeCouple
over a year ago

Brighouse

Neither of those are reasons to swing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we never explain, never justify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither of those are reasons to swing."

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By *otblaze999Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I swing because I enjoy being intimate with different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

I'm neither bored or Un happy I swing because I love sex love men and women and don't like drama.

All that I live without any hassle

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Because DP with a toy and a cock doesn't feel any where near as good as DP with two cocks and that's before you start bringing the bi fun into the mix

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By *thletic Fella!!Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I'd say it's because people want variety and excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we like the excitement it adds to our already amazing sex life

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Bored or just not happy "

Which one are you?

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By *hynot5642Man
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *hynot5642Man
over a year ago

Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the roundabout squeaks and the slide is rusty

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

To indulge my exhibitionist side and live out a few fantasies, without scaring people off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I enjoy sex and everyone does it slightly differently, which makes it fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from the sex one in one it's the amazingly liberated feeling I get from being in a room full of others at a club all doing the same. I think that will always stay with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More to the point why do some people not swing? Repressed or inhibited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because they want to forefill their fantasies and sex ambitions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we love sex and the excitement of it.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Bored or just not happy "

Sounds like reasons people cheat not swing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Think you will find that couples who swing are in a very trusting and loving relationship and are probably the happiest people around . They are very rarely bored to , swinging is not all about sex real swingers have a fantastic social life to . Sex when and with whoever you choose is just an added bonus

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We are very happily married, and we started swinging a few weeks after we first met. Both of us are highly sexed, so sex with just one partner has never been enough. Swinging allows us to fulfil our needs without deceitful affairs, as we both had during our last marriages. Our previous extramarital sex was one-on-one, but now it is almost always group sex, which we love. We're certainly not bored of our own sexual relationship!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To keep their partner in check and as well this will prevent cheating as they can see others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...because hubby and I have different sex drives....and we don't like the idea of cheating....prefer to be open about it.....also I like variety and excitement (Mrs) x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both voyeuristic exhibitionists, so we get to perv and show off at the same time. And the people you meet are usually much more fun than vanilla friends.

Oh and sex. Oh yes we like sex.

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By *hynot5642Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"I'd say it's because people want variety and excitement. "

This was what my earlier post was giving the thumbs up to, not the OP, but I pressed the wrong tab. Doh

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By *khotcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Because I love licking a pussy but I could never be without cock... Jenna xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we both love watching each other fuck other people and then have our own fuckathon in the afterglow! And, because rules are made to be broken!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Both

I'm bored of having no sex

I'm not happy being single and sexless

So I come on here

Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see myself as a swinger..just single and happend to be on various sites including a sex site

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I don't see myself as a swinger..just single and happend to be on various sites including a sex site "

Bingo.

Define "swinger" and we'll go from there

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I don't see myself as a swinger..just single and happend to be on various sites including a sex site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the variety ??

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Because you're a long time dead

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Promiscuity by proxy lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Bored or just not happy

Neither of the above !

Because it's bloody good fun

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Because it gets OUR rocks off!! We've always had an edgy side to our sex life and this compliments it just nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy

Neither of the above !

Because it's bloody good fun

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh cos their dangling from somthing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I have everything I want in life at the moment, except regular sex. I do not want to become a 'couple' again, to achieve sex. "

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We swing because we are horny fuckers

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By *eanne4funWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

I swing to meet new people who,are open minded to sex like me and to have a good time and not take life so seriously x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swing to meet new people who,are open minded to sex like me and to have a good time and not take life so seriously x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

No because Jools love's cock and I love watching her enjoy said cock.

We have both lead very sheltered lives until recently and enjoying the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I have everything I want in life at the moment, except regular sex. I do not want to become a 'couple' again, to achieve sex. "

I'm exactly with Sophie here. I love the freedom and potential for sexual adventures. I don't want or need a significant other. Quite plainly it's suits me well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the wife is a shit annual shag.

(Not a typo.)

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

"Bored or just not happy

Just the two choices? I think that there's a whole rainbow of reasons, usually because people want to enjoy and share a wider sexual experience with their partner"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Boredom yes overall until I meet with a man I'm very Compatible with and love's me unconditionally as I do him Fab has to do me for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always thought that singles do this for sex and couples do it for better sex .

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By *hangovCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

For us it it is because Chango likes g/g and sex with strangers, same for me come to think about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fun and exciting pushing boundaries etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we get to do different things and we like threesomes, foursomes, fivesomes etc.

Sarah

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Bored or just not happy "

Which one are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "
haha!! To please the hubby and get some peace and quiet

haha!! Drops the bomb and out the door......

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Bored or just not happy "

Neither.

We have a great sex life and are very happy.

Swinging allows us to indulge in our fantasies and do things that just two can't.

It's also loads of fun and we get to meet lots of interesting people

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jus love the thrill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do it because enjoying lily having fun with another guy

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

"Bored or just not happy

Couldn't agree more, we have a good strong trusting relationship, love the social, flirting and sex is an extra.

Swinging is a lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

Cos it's more fun than the slide.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

In my case, I enjoy variety and have never been monogamous. Simply is not in my nature.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"Bored or just not happy "

We do not out of boredom.i've been with 8years and i still cant get enough of her.We swing because we love watching each other;i love watching Cath take on loads of guys in mmmf etc,and Cath gets off watxhing me with girls.Its worked out well for the both of us.

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By *ackwithabang2000Couple
over a year ago

Stoke

"Bored or just not happy "
neither we just love the fun and excitement swinging brings

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Bored or just not happy "

More like Adventurous AND Happy.

Swinging in an unhappy relationship is a recipe for disaster.

Cal

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Because we want to

Because we can

Because we can separate making love from sex

Because we love watching each other giving and receiving pleasure

Because it's bloody good fun

Definitely nothing to do with boredom or being unhappy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it started as hubby cheated on me then we finished and I told him about the one night stand I had.

Then he kept asking me about it and said it turned him on so we started having sex in car etc...

Then it went further as in flirting when out to sneaky playing with others

Now full swing/steam ahead and it boosts our sex life through the roof ??

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Because we both enjoy it and are both total tarts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

I'm bored

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

Because I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I like having sex with loads different people and hubby encourages it without judgment. (He also gets to have sex with lots of others)

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Bored or just not happy "

Neither of the above....we do it to add to our enjoyment of each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy

Neither of the above !

Because it's bloody good fun

Exactly what she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than playing away when you re over sexed and get that itch

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It is certainly not boredom. I've been with my wife almost 19 years, and she still excites me.

But neither of us is monogamous, nor could we be. A monogamous relationship would not suit us and would leave us both very unhappy simply because that is the way we are wired.

So we swing, we "play away" with consent, we sometimes form connections with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its strange i swing with my missus and with my reasons to mainly socialise and create great friendships. Best life choice i ever made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy

Neither of the above !

Because it's bloody good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of answers are coming from singles.. are they swingers, or just people who are sexually active with multiple partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of good fun - made some sexy friends - keeps me out of mischief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "
because the football season has finished lol or the Mrs is on and the hubby is horny so they head to a club and she watches lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't swing

I just use the site for sex

Why?

Because I'm a single women with a sex drive and it's the easiest way to find somebody for sex where we both know what's what and the guy isn't going to want to call me the next day

Shagging people in your personal life just causes complications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy "

I have been a Swinger even before I had even heard of the word. I have always enjoyed sex and with multiple partners. Everyone does it differently and I enjoy that, it is great to find someone who is extra good at oral, then someone who has a similar kink or whatever. I remember having a bf when I was a teen and wanting to have sex with both him and his mate, and then I did! After a party all three of us ended up in bed. The mate was really sweet, but the bf, once sober, wasn't overly impressed. But I Swing because I.Just.Love.Sex. Not coz I am bored nor unhappy.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

No hurt! no drama!

You can remain polite, respectful and kind and still have some memorable experiences and everyone different!

Yet still have your own life!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i dont expect one person to be able to fulfil all my sexual needs and desires. i dont expect the swinging scene to do that either so i have a foot in the BDSM scene too.

im not unhappy or bored and wasnt when i joined either..

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By *rkcplCouple
over a year ago

Queens

To fulfill our fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 2 reasons given at the top is probably how you feel about yourself n your partner unfortunately.. As we do it coz I'm bi n love the way a girl makes me feel as well as a man.my hubby is my best friend and my partner in one so the comment about being unhappy is bull crap xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy

Neither of the above !

Because it's bloody good fun

I couldn't have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored or just not happy

Just the two choices? I think that there's a whole rainbow of reasons, usually because people want to enjoy and share a wider sexual experience with their partner"

this is the exact reason why I'm into the swinging scene

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By *elly totsCouple
over a year ago

teesside

"The 2 reasons given at the top is probably how you feel about yourself n your partner unfortunately.. As we do it coz I'm bi n love the way a girl makes me feel as well as a man.my hubby is my best friend and my partner in one so the comment about being unhappy is bull crap xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The turn on of the unknown for me

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"i dont expect one person to be able to fulfil all my sexual needs and desires. i dont expect the swinging scene to do that either so i have a foot in the BDSM scene too.

im not unhappy or bored and wasnt when i joined either.."

Very well put and this describes myself too.

If anyone turns to swinging becauae they are unhappy or bored within a relationship then there are issues that should be dealt with outside of Fab or the swinging scene.

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By *parkle LoungeWoman
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm single and I love sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there was nowt on telly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need to ask you're in the wrong place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We swing because it's a thrill for us together. The thought of doing it alone does nothing for either of us.

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