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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sadly it seems when a guy passes 40 he's no longer considered for meets well that's my feeling anyway, what does everyone else think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. If a 47 year old looks good I'd pick him over a 25 year old any day. That's just my preference tho. It's all down to his outlook and how kinky he is too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few over 40s. I'd consider a few in their 50s too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ageist here either, would far rather meet guys my own age

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Sadly it seems when a guy passes 40 he's no longer considered for meets well that's my feeling anyway, what does everyone else think? "

Just a fact of life, some humans are quite shallow and sex brings out some rather bad behaviour from both sexes.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Not for me. If a 47 year old looks good I'd pick him over a 25 year old any day. That's just my preference tho. It's all down to his outlook and how kinky he is too! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute utter bollocks!! Give me a gorgeous 40 plus fella over a 25 year old numpty any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolute utter bollocks!! Give me a gorgeous 40 plus fella over a 25 year old numpty any day. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Echoing the other girls, would definitely meet someone over 40 if we got along and I liked his looks, with age comes experience so they say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly it seems when a guy passes 40 he's no longer considered for meets well that's my feeling anyway, what does everyone else think? "

is this a generic guy passing 40 thread, or you in particular?

I would say you get out of this place what you put in so more effort needed on your part...

personally I wont meet anyone under 41 and a lot of women are the same...its not all about cougars and toy boys you know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly it seems when a guy passes 40 he's no longer considered for meets well that's my feeling anyway, what does everyone else think? "
There are many couples and single women that are meeting men over 40. Unfortunately they are not meeting you.

Don't worry in 9 years , you can post this again when you're 50

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Oh age definitely matters... I'd never go with anyone under 21.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a few over 40s. I'd consider a few in their 50s too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind a HOF!

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by the river)

We have received a few "You are a tad too old for us" responses, but we have had considerably more "Hmmm, I do like an older man" replies that have led to some interesting meets and friendships!

Might be that the age thing is just an excuse in the OP's case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol i have had more meets after o turned 40 than before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the others - absolute bollocks. I was over 40 when I joined this site and not had any problem. OP are you blaming your age when it might be something else for not getting what you would like from this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probs gona get abuse for this post lol i have no pronlem with over 40's my ex was 13 years older than me i find i get on with older blokes. I just find that was ive agreed to the meet their just a bit more pushy about having sex and pushy in the bedroom lol.

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By *abydollxxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham - Selly oak

My partner is 45. I much prefer older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a younger guy, always have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet guys in their mid 40s and upwards. Younger guys don't interest us at all. We like guys around our ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had more meets in my 40's than I did my 30's.

I'll let the know about my 50's in eight years and twenty eight days time!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Sadly it seems when a guy passes 40 he's no longer considered for meets well that's my feeling anyway, what does everyone else think? "

I think you are very, very wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs: Silver foxes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly it seems when a guy passes 40 he's no longer considered for meets well that's my feeling anyway, what does everyone else think?

I think you are very, very wrong. "

Very very very wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn 25 in 6 months and will suddenly become a numpty

I can't wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probs gona get abuse for this post lol i have no pronlem with over 40's my ex was 13 years older than me i find i get on with older blokes. I just find that was ive agreed to the meet their just a bit more pushy about having sex and pushy in the bedroom lol."

Well you do know that most older guys are using Viagra/Cialis .... They have to be a little pushy in the bedroom. The hard on isn't going to last forever..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't agree

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Absolute utter bollocks!! Give me a gorgeous 40 plus fella over a 25 year old numpty any day. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't change your age but you can change your attitude about it OP

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I prefer close to my age ,so its not too old for me;)miss.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Yes age matters but WHAT age is up to the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't consider anyone under about 35. Older guys generally know what I want and don't mind if I do have to tell them.

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By *irtydaddyfor youMan
over a year ago

corby

op i didnt think that and 30 years later still doing ok, just have to accept different people like a certain age

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Note to self.

Remember you are over 40, silvering hair, on fab with other men younger than yourself. Consider yourself very lucky you have been picked

OP get along to a group social in your area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the extreme of a guy in his mid twenties and a guy in his late fifties...as long as there is mutual respect and fun age makes no difference to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older guys. They understand the psychology of this game so much more. But they have to be good-looking and they have to be smooth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it matters I hope as long as there is somthing there then I don't see what the problem is

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's more to do with the individual person than their age...if I like them then I like them...simple

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By *aughty alex 99Man
over a year ago

gosport


"Absolute utter bollocks!! Give me a gorgeous 40 plus fella over a 25 year old numpty any day. "

Im taking it he is a numpty cause he only 25 right? So im 22 just cause we youngish why are we judged? Can't a decent lad ever get a look in let alone a chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolute utter bollocks!! Give me a gorgeous 40 plus fella over a 25 year old numpty any day.

Im taking it he is a numpty cause he only 25 right? So im 22 just cause we youngish why are we judged? Can't a decent lad ever get a look in let alone a chance?"

Depends what someone is looking for.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

O nooes I'm doomed I tell you doooomed

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By *aughty alex 99Man
over a year ago

gosport

Yeah suppose so aha but still so judged and jus causes a negative affect towards us

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

I get that it's all down to personal preference and I have no problem with that, I have preferences. Thing is I have found if you try something you would not normally try it's amazing what you find you have been missing out on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like a man who knows his way round a woman's body and they are often...gasp...over 40 like me.

Get over it and get out there I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance would I choose a youngster over Lucifer.

Experience doesn't come with youth

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Sadly it seems when a guy passes 40 he's no longer considered for meets well that's my feeling anyway, what does everyone else think? "

For me age definitely does matter.

I'm not interested in the younger guys. My preferred age range is 35-50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah suppose so aha but still so judged and jus causes a negative affect towards us"

Don't worry, young men can look forward to getting older and being in women's optimum age group. But with older men, it's too late. Also young men, can pick up quite easily in a normal bar or nightclub.

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By *aughty alex 99Man
over a year ago

gosport


"Yeah suppose so aha but still so judged and jus causes a negative affect towards us

Don't worry, young men can look forward to getting older and being in women's optimum age group. But with older men, it's too late. Also young men, can pick up quite easily in a normal bar or nightclub."
yeahhh i guess soo. Gotany years of experience to experience ahaha yhh but sometimes thats great but better to connect abit 1st rather than being pissed and hooking up ahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally like a man who knows his way round a woman's body and they are often...gasp...over 40 like me.

Get over it and get out there I say

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Yes isn't it ironic that by the time a man reaches sexual expertise his body may be on decline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go for the man in his 40s over one in 20s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I don't have an attitude about it, reaching my 40s has been good for me in so many ways.

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