FabSwingers.com forum: Secrets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am surprised to learn how many people are on this site without their wives/husbands knowing. Surely couples would want to enjoy the swinging scene together? If not together, surely they deserve to know the truth?

Thoughts on this............... as I don't get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the whole internet is a giant fuck site basically. the social sites are anyway.

plus people are opportunists these days ,so it seems. loyalty means nothing to a lot of people. whole generations of psychopaths have been created.

imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon most have braced the subject with their partner and realise they are not gonna get anywhere .

So they join up anyway , regardless .

Don't blame them to be honest , it's a great lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOADS of 'marrieds' threads have discussed this to death, the search function will show them.

In summary:

Some think its black and white - marrieds are the scum of the earth, why don't they just divorce

Others will say you don't know the reasons why they're here and their journey

Others will think it's none of anyone else's business and let people live their lives how they wish (those in glass houses etc)

There will be talk about having no morals (which is a subjective thing - others would say swinging isn't very moralistic) and it'll all end in a slanging match and name calling.

Watch as the thread evolves and unravels : it always does ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am surprised to learn how many people are on this site without their wives/husbands knowing. Surely couples would want to enjoy the swinging scene together? If not together, surely they deserve to know the truth?

Thoughts on this............... as I don't get it!"

Do you mean husbands messaging you from a couples profile, asking to meet alone?

Just a married single male playing without his wife permission ?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

what others do holds no interest to me.

they do their thing, I do mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This subject has been brought up time and again. People cheat.. its life. This is a swinger site in name only. Its a sex site like any other. Turn a blind eye and let people go about their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what others do holds no interest to me.

they do their thing, I do mine."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOADS of 'marrieds' threads have discussed this to death, the search function will show them.

In summary:

Some think its black and white - marrieds are the scum of the earth, why don't they just divorce

Others will say you don't know the reasons why they're here and their journey

Others will think it's none of anyone else's business and let people live their lives how they wish (those in glass houses etc)

There will be talk about having no morals (which is a subjective thing - others would say swinging isn't very moralistic) and it'll all end in a slanging match and name calling.

Watch as the thread evolves and unravels : it always does ..

Definitely this. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOADS of 'marrieds' threads have discussed this to death, the search function will show them.

In summary:

Some think its black and white - marrieds are the scum of the earth, why don't they just divorce

Others will say you don't know the reasons why they're here and their journey

Others will think it's none of anyone else's business and let people live their lives how they wish (those in glass houses etc)

There will be talk about having no morals (which is a subjective thing - others would say swinging isn't very moralistic) and it'll all end in a slanging match and name calling.

Watch as the thread evolves and unravels : it always does ..

Basically this.

I prefer to know if the person I'm involved with is married. I've unintentionally been on the receiving end of a very cross wife before now. That's wasn't the highlight of my life tbh!

at least if I know then I can make my own choice.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't care just so long as they stay away from me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thoughts on this............... as I don't get it!

Do you mean husbands messaging you from a couples profile, asking to meet alone?

Just a married single male playing without his wife permission ?

Men and women with single profiles who are already in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what others do holds no interest to me.

they do their thing, I do mine."

I'm not judging anyone lol each to their own.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"what others do holds no interest to me.

they do their thing, I do mine.

I'm not judging anyone lol each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This subject has been brought up time and again. People cheat.. its life. This is a swinger site in name only. Its a sex site like any other. Turn a blind eye and let people go about their business. "

I am surprised that's all. Naive to lots of goings on. Again it is none of my business x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your thoughts I was just curious ...................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care just so long as they stay away from me!"

Even if they're honest with you about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your thoughts I was just curious ..................."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't like the thought of being part of someone's affair. We don't look for 'singles' but if we did we would do everything possible to worm out the married ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughts on this............... as I don't get it!"

Not a lot of action at home maybe? Why else do ppl do things without their partners knowing? Usually down to sex. We've had a few attached guys message us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to know if the person I'm involved with is married. I've unintentionally been on the receiving end of a very cross wife before now. That's wasn't the highlight of my life tbh!

at least if I know then I can make my own choice."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughts on this............... as I don't get it!

Do you mean husbands messaging you from a couples profile, asking to meet alone?

Just a married single male playing without his wife permission ?

I read it as your second option. My own, totally non-scientific, observations would put probably at least half of the "single" guts on here as not actually this.

But I feel that is their decision. I don't judge as it doesn't affect me. As to if couples/women suss them out....again, it is their choice if to play or not.

It will ever be the same!

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By *jxxxxCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We do our best to try to identify the real single members but are realistic enough to know that if someone really wants to lie to you then there isn't much you can do. For us so much of swinging is about trust so you just have to go with your gut.

We'd always prefer to be best informed so that if we did ever have an angry partner 'knocking on our door' at least we could say...really sorry, we didn't know either, we were lied to as well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always does make me chuckle how someone is honest about telling someone they're married but isn't honest with their partner. It's the kids I feel sorry for.

To answer though, everyone has differing _iews

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