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"Why do guys say they are straight on their profile then when you say we looking for a bi male they reply that they are bi? Had this reply so many times " they are 'fab straight' they say straight to deceive other people to not lose out on potential meets with people who wont meet bi males. | |||
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"I had a straight guy mail me last week when I pointed out he was straight he told me he put that on his profile because he did,nt want his friends on here finding out he was bi" Cant be real friends then can they | |||
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"Have it all the time! They are straight but happy to suck my partners cock and vice versa! But still say they are straight. Just be honest with your sexuality " | |||
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"Why do guys say they are straight on their profile then when you say we looking for a bi male they reply that they are bi? Had this reply so many times " Desperation | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. " Only applys to the bi guys thou. Its game on if 2 girls get it on | |||
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"Why do guys say they are straight on their profile then when you say we looking for a bi male they reply that they are bi? Had this reply so many times " Wish we had a pound for every time we have this. We simply and politely point out that they would only be playing with A (guy on guy fun). Amazing how many suddenly aren't so bi as they initially claimed  | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. " There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. " Woow women with knowledge right hear hehe i love you ahaha | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP." Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. " I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves." Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. " yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again  I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that."Oh Hun you did. I'm not stretching at all. Remember? When you got ribbed by the rest of the thread for it? We best ask the mods for a 'fab straight' sexuality option for those that enjoy anal toys then eh. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
Oh Hun you did. I'm not stretching at all. Remember? When you got ribbed by the rest of the thread for it?
We best ask the mods for a 'fab straight' sexuality option for those that enjoy anal toys then eh.
"no you are mistaken again you mean biased people who disagreed even when gay people agreed with me. Lets just agree to disagree because I am entitled to my opinion and I think your opinion is compromised anyway. | |||
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"Why do guys say they are straight on their profile then when you say we looking for a bi male they reply that they are bi? Had this reply so many times they are 'fab straight' they say straight to deceive other people to not lose out on potential meets with people who wont meet bi males. " Or they lie to couples and hope to just fuck the wife..... OP if no interest to me if they want a bi guy....because I'm not going there. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
Oh Hun you did. I'm not stretching at all. Remember? When you got ribbed by the rest of the thread for it?
We best ask the mods for a 'fab straight' sexuality option for those that enjoy anal toys then eh.
no you are mistaken again you mean biased people who disagreed even when gay people agreed with me. Lets just agree to disagree because I am entitled to my opinion and I think your opinion is compromised anyway."Not sure how my opinion is compromised. 
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
Oh Hun you did. I'm not stretching at all. Remember? When you got ribbed by the rest of the thread for it?
We best ask the mods for a 'fab straight' sexuality option for those that enjoy anal toys then eh.
no you are mistaken again you mean biased people who disagreed even when gay people agreed with me. Lets just agree to disagree because I am entitled to my opinion and I think your opinion is compromised anyway.
Not sure how my opinion is compromised.
But oh... If you've spoken to the gay people and they agree then... "well i think it is. I didn't a couple commented on that thread agreeing with me you seem to have the memory of a gold fish | |||
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"Anal you play is gay? Haha some people need to get a grip how can it be gay to gain pleasure from a toy "Sorry anal toy play lol | |||
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"Why do guys say they are straight on their profile then when you say we looking for a bi male they reply that they are bi? Had this reply so many times Desperation" Probably just this. | |||
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"Theres allready a thread going to your question "Only one...its up every week lol sit back and enjoying my popcorn... | |||
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"Try having bi-curious! If you're not one or the other people seem reluctant to meet. But how do we know if we're more than curious until we've tried?" | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that."I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated. | |||
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"I fail to see why you can't choose bi selfish as an option . I will happily take a bj from a convincing t girl , but won't give anything back . So I'm not bi , or bi curious .... Just bi selfish "Guess we can call ourselves anything. Doesn't matter really..... | |||
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"I fail to see why you can't choose bi selfish as an option . I will happily take a bj from a convincing t girl , but won't give anything back . So I'm not bi , or bi curious .... Just bi selfish
Guess we can call ourselves anything. Doesn't matter really....."Ah , but that's my point . There isn't a bi selfish option , so we can't  | |||
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"I fail to see why you can't choose bi selfish as an option . I will happily take a bj from a convincing t girl , but won't give anything back . So I'm not bi , or bi curious .... Just bi selfish "Yes I could be accused of being biselfish too lol. Happy for a woman to go down on me but I don't return the compliment. Don't fancy women either, but I quite enjoy playing with them. What does this make me? Don't care! As long as we're all having fun | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated. "If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated.
If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock. "I agree with you here, being gay is an attraction to the same sex, it definitely is not the enjoyment of an inanimate object | |||
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"Anal you play is gay? Haha some people need to get a grip how can it be gay to gain pleasure from a toy " | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated.
If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock. "If you say so.... glad we can agree to disagree on that one.  | |||
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"Does it really matter as long as it's fun x" Sadly, it probably does matter. Too often, the bi/straight things seems to go hand in hand with deceiving partners which for many on here is a big no,no. Also if someone is genuinely bi, but on here as straight are they not playing a similar game to the fellas who say they play safe but then try and pressure women and couples to go bareback? I've met couples where the men are bi or curious, but I always make it plain it's not my thing as I don't want to disappoint. However it's a two way street and I don't want to be asked by straight hubbie half way through a meet if he can suck me off. That seems a pretty good way of ruining the fun. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated.
If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock.
If you say so.... glad we can agree to disagree on that one. "Midas no offence but you really sound like one of the people who is uncomfortable with their sexuality, are you afraid that if you liked a toy in your ass ou would all of a sudden find men attractive? | |||
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I think there are varying levels of being bi that aren't really covered by bi or bi curious, if somebody doesn't understand it ask and most people will be able clarify what they mean, personally I'm not bi, I'm certainly not curious either but I'm pretty sure my actions in the past would suggest in not exactly straight either | |||
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"Does it really matter as long as it's fun x Sadly, it probably does matter. Too often, the bi/straight things seems to go hand in hand with deceiving partners which for many on here is a big no,no. Also if someone is genuinely bi, but on here as straight are they not playing a similar game to the fellas who say they play safe but then try and pressure women and couples to go bareback? I've met couples where the men are bi or curious, but I always make it plain it's not my thing as I don't want to disappoint. However it's a two way street and I don't want to be asked by straight hubbie half way through a meet if he can suck me off. That seems a pretty good way of ruining the fun. " I guess on that basis there could be all sorts of things in someone's sexual history or fantasies that a casual sexual partner may disaprove of or be prejudiced against. Where does one draw the line on someone's right to privacy and someone else's right to information? | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated.
If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock. "so imagination and fantasy have nothing to do with sex then? you don't know whether they are fantasizing that it is man but are too scared to act out on there sexuality. Oscar wilde was married with 2 kids, do you think he wasn't imagining his wife to be a man for a while. | |||
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"Why do guys say they are straight on their profile then when you say we looking for a bi male they reply that they are bi? Had this reply so many times Wish we had a pound for every time we have this. We simply and politely point out that they would only be playing with A (guy on guy fun). Amazing how many suddenly aren't so bi as they initially claimed " | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated.
If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock.
If you say so.... glad we can agree to disagree on that one. "You best break the news to lesbians that use toys for penetration that they aren't really gay then. | |||
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I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated.
If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock.
If you say so.... glad we can agree to disagree on that one.
Midas no offence but you really sound like one of the people who is uncomfortable with their sexuality, are you afraid that if you liked a toy in your ass ou would all of a sudden find men attractive? "Hahahaha. ..nearly spat my tea out at that. ..lol I you knew me you'd know I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. What would seem more appropriate is that you're uncomfortable with someone else thinking you're not straight because you love a toy up ur arse.... may not be that long before the toy just doesn't do it for you anymore...then what? The straight has been crossed lol. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated.
If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock.
If you say so.... glad we can agree to disagree on that one.
You best break the news to lesbians that use toys for penetration that they aren't really gay then. "Sounds like some are going to call me xenophobic soon ...lmao. | |||
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Deceit is deceit whether you're lying about being bi/gay or cheating on your partner. But please don't let this stop anyone from proving their agenda. | |||
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I'd agree here. I'd see them as crossed the line whether they think it or not. Straight is straight....not slightly curved....or is the earth actually flat but just has a slight bend? Maybe I should call myself something different as straight seems to have changed its meaning. Any help on this would be much appreciated.
If a straight guy likes a dildo up his bum, he's still straight. If a gay woman likes a dildo inside her, she's still gay. It's about shapes of toys that fit in body parts. It's not that they are craving a cock.
If you say so.... glad we can agree to disagree on that one.
Midas no offence but you really sound like one of the people who is uncomfortable with their sexuality, are you afraid that if you liked a toy in your ass ou would all of a sudden find men attractive?
Hahahaha. ..nearly spat my tea out at that. ..lol I you knew me you'd know I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. What would seem more appropriate is that you're uncomfortable with someone else thinking you're not straight because you love a toy up ur arse.... may not be that long before the toy just doesn't do it for you anymore...then what? The straight has been crossed lol."yes you hit the nail on the head there, it seems he is uncomfortable himself. | |||
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Maybe you two should go educate yourselves a little on why men might actually enjoy their prostate being stimulated!!
*hint hint* it feels fucking amazing, especially when it is a hot woman doing it
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. " Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! | |||
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"I find it hilarious that I am uncomfortable because I actually understand what gay is
Maybe you two should go educate yourselves a little on why men might actually enjoy their prostate being stimulated!!
*hint hint* it feels fucking amazing, especially when it is a hot woman doing it
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! " well said | |||
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"I had a straight guy mail me last week when I pointed out he was straight he told me he put that on his profile because he did,nt want his friends on here finding out he was bi" |Yeah. i've had that also. | |||
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"Don't get us started on this subject . We get a lot of messages from guys who have straight on their profile and claim to be bi . My _iew is this is deceitful as they play with others who have no wish to play with bi men . We always have MM fun first as Mrs watches and all guys we play with are told this .....amazing how many suddenly are not interested. I personally think they have the _iew of sucking a cock is a small price to pay in orderto play with the female partners ." Our experience to a T | |||
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"I find it hilarious that I am uncomfortable because I actually understand what gay is
Maybe you two should go educate yourselves a little on why men might actually enjoy their prostate being stimulated!!
*hint hint* it feels fucking amazing, especially when it is a hot woman doing it
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. " nobody said anything about gay females, I see you dodged my question about Oscar Wilde, the sexuality isn't the main issue here it is the deception of saying something you are not. | |||
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"Have it all the time! They are straight but happy to suck my partners cock and vice versa! But still say they are straight. Just be honest with your sexuality " Now that's a meet I would like. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. nobody said anything about gay females, I see you dodged my question about Oscar Wilde, the sexuality isn't the main issue here it is the deception of saying something you are not." I haven't dodged anything. I've not spotted it on the thread. How can it be deception if they have a different classification than you? It's not their fault you're narrow minded. They don't have to rank their sexuality into what conforms to your standards. It doesn't make them a liar or deceitful or in denial. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. Once again , no one is talking about what anyone sticks up themselves alone ! But believe us , when out profile clearly states : fully bi people only please and since we first posted to this thread we have had 8 messages of straight but say they are bi men you can see the volume which you will not experience as bi couples do all the time " Yes they are talking about what toys they use alone or with other females. Hence me responding to it. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. Once again , no one is talking about what anyone sticks up themselves alone ! But believe us , when out profile clearly states : fully bi people only please and since we first posted to this thread we have had 8 messages of straight but say they are bi men you can see the volume which you will not experience as bi couples do all the time " We don't look for people who are bi, so obviously we don't know what it's like for you. But I am curious, when you say you are looking for an honest bi man. If that man has a frank and honest conversation with you, and is definately fully bi, and he is able to meet your requirements in every way, but he doesnt disclose this information on his profile, is this something that is a deal breaker for you? This is hypothetical for me, but we do find with profiles in general, that it's better to take with a pinch of salt what people say, and wait to hear what they have to say when we have a conversation. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. nobody said anything about gay females, I see you dodged my question about Oscar Wilde, the sexuality isn't the main issue here it is the deception of saying something you are not. I haven't dodged anything. I've not spotted it on the thread. How can it be deception if they have a different classification than you? It's not their fault you're narrow minded. They don't have to rank their sexuality into what conforms to your standards. It doesn't make them a liar or deceitful or in denial. pfft how can you be so obtuse? " Hehe. You do make me smile. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. nobody said anything about gay females, I see you dodged my question about Oscar Wilde, the sexuality isn't the main issue here it is the deception of saying something you are not. I haven't dodged anything. I've not spotted it on the thread. How can it be deception if they have a different classification than you? It's not their fault you're narrow minded. They don't have to rank their sexuality into what conforms to your standards. It doesn't make them a liar or deceitful or in denial. pfft how can you be so obtuse? Hehe. You do make me smile. " These guys that have straight on their profile but are actually bi tell us openly that they do it so they can still play with couples and/or women who don't want to play with bi guys. Do you think those women and couples would like being lied to? People have their preferences for various reasons, but they should still be respected! | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. nobody said anything about gay females, I see you dodged my question about Oscar Wilde, the sexuality isn't the main issue here it is the deception of saying something you are not. I haven't dodged anything. I've not spotted it on the thread. How can it be deception if they have a different classification than you? It's not their fault you're narrow minded. They don't have to rank their sexuality into what conforms to your standards. It doesn't make them a liar or deceitful or in denial. pfft how can you be so obtuse? Hehe. You do make me smile. These guys that have straight on their profile but are actually bi tell us openly that they do it so they can still play with couples and/or women who don't want to play with bi guys. Do you think those women and couples would like being lied to? People have their preferences for various reasons, but they should still be respected!" | |||
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"Another problem is that does this mean we should message guys who have "straight" on their profiles as they may actually like guys? Though if we did and they in fact don't they may not take too kindly to our contacting them. Just a thought you probably could, I am straight and specifically say on my profile as well in the text. I have still been asked by couples if I will do bi things which is annoying as apparently 'straight' on here is losing it's meaning. "Can I ask why you're so hung up on it? Doesn't really bother me either way how others label themselves, but labelling others is a waste of energy. And you're definitely joking with the guys who enjoy anal play being gay, if I rim a woman would that make them lesbian? | |||
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"Another problem is that does this mean we should message guys who have "straight" on their profiles as they may actually like guys? Though if we did and they in fact don't they may not take too kindly to our contacting them. Just a thought you probably could, I am straight and specifically say on my profile as well in the text. I have still been asked by couples if I will do bi things which is annoying as apparently 'straight' on here is losing it's meaning.
Can I ask why you're so hung up on it? Doesn't really bother me either way how others label themselves, but labelling others is a waste of energy. And you're definitely joking with the guys who enjoy anal play being gay, if I rim a woman would that make them lesbian? "I'm not hung up I was merely answering the ops question and it escalated again because people font like my honest opinion. Yeah I believe being penetrated even by a fake cock is not a straight thing to do. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. "
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"Another problem is that does this mean we should message guys who have "straight" on their profiles as they may actually like guys? Though if we did and they in fact don't they may not take too kindly to our contacting them. Just a thought you probably could, I am straight and specifically say on my profile as well in the text. I have still been asked by couples if I will do bi things which is annoying as apparently 'straight' on here is losing it's meaning.
Can I ask why you're so hung up on it? Doesn't really bother me either way how others label themselves, but labelling others is a waste of energy. And you're definitely joking with the guys who enjoy anal play being gay, if I rim a woman would that make them lesbian? I'm not hung up I was merely answering the ops question and it escalated again because people font like my honest opinion. Yeah I believe being penetrated even by a fake cock is not a straight thing to do. "I'm not getting at you or anyone, just curious - you say a guy meeting a TV is gay because it's another man. However you flip that definition for if a man meets a woman armed with a toy? Or is a tongue / finger also meaning they're gay? It just doesn't make any sense, though of course I respect your _iew, even if it's bonkers
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"Another problem is that does this mean we should message guys who have "straight" on their profiles as they may actually like guys? Though if we did and they in fact don't they may not take too kindly to our contacting them. Just a thought you probably could, I am straight and specifically say on my profile as well in the text. I have still been asked by couples if I will do bi things which is annoying as apparently 'straight' on here is losing it's meaning. "...So I ask who is trying to change the meaning of straight? Doesn't seem to be the straights guys anyway... | |||
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"Another problem is that does this mean we should message guys who have "straight" on their profiles as they may actually like guys? Though if we did and they in fact don't they may not take too kindly to our contacting them. Just a thought you probably could, I am straight and specifically say on my profile as well in the text. I have still been asked by couples if I will do bi things which is annoying as apparently 'straight' on here is losing it's meaning.
Can I ask why you're so hung up on it? Doesn't really bother me either way how others label themselves, but labelling others is a waste of energy. And you're definitely joking with the guys who enjoy anal play being gay, if I rim a woman would that make them lesbian? I'm not hung up I was merely answering the ops question and it escalated again because people font like my honest opinion. Yeah I believe being penetrated even by a fake cock is not a straight thing to do.
I'm not getting at you or anyone, just curious - you say a guy meeting a TV is gay because it's another man. However you flip that definition for if a man meets a woman armed with a toy? Or is a tongue / finger also meaning they're gay? It just doesn't make any sense, though of course I respect your _iew, even if it's bonkers
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"Another problem is that does this mean we should message guys who have "straight" on their profiles as they may actually like guys? Though if we did and they in fact don't they may not take too kindly to our contacting them. Just a thought you probably could, I am straight and specifically say on my profile as well in the text. I have still been asked by couples if I will do bi things which is annoying as apparently 'straight' on here is losing it's meaning.
Can I ask why you're so hung up on it? Doesn't really bother me either way how others label themselves, but labelling others is a waste of energy. And you're definitely joking with the guys who enjoy anal play being gay, if I rim a woman would that make them lesbian? I'm not hung up I was merely answering the ops question and it escalated again because people font like my honest opinion. Yeah I believe being penetrated even by a fake cock is not a straight thing to do. "Ever had a prostate exam? Turns you gay apparently | |||
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"I really think the guys that get so hung up on being called bi etc when there straight are really deep down just that
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"Why do guys say they are straight on their profile then when you say we looking for a bi male they reply that they are bi? Had this reply so many times Ask them? If you care that much? Or just don't message them? You miss the point here WE are not messaging straight men asking if they are actually bi . WE like most other bi couples / triples get endless messages off straight me. , whom , when we reply along the lines of : sorry we don't meet straight people , get a reply : but I'm really bi but don't say for x y z OR straight men send initial messages saying : I'm really bi . This is as nauseam ! There are some interesting points on this thread, but also some shockers too " | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. Once again , no one is talking about what anyone sticks up themselves alone ! But believe us , when out profile clearly states : fully bi people only please and since we first posted to this thread we have had 8 messages of straight but say they are bi men you can see the volume which you will not experience as bi couples do all the time We don't look for people who are bi, so obviously we don't know what it's like for you. But I am curious, when you say you are looking for an honest bi man. If that man has a frank and honest conversation with you, and is definately fully bi, and he is able to meet your requirements in every way, but he doesnt disclose this information on his profile, is this something that is a deal breaker for you? This is hypothetical for me, but we do find with profiles in general, that it's better to take with a pinch of salt what people say, and wait to hear what they have to say when we have a conversation." That's a very good question ! The answer is : Yes if someone does not sat bisexual on their profile , it is a deal breaker for us . The reason ? As a bisexual trio - 2 girls and a man . We have wasted way too much free time . Rare free time . In meeting men who's profiles are straight but claim to be bi in a message . But when you meet , the man expects to bonk both we girls in the botty , but isn't actually bi after all or will only let our chap suck him . We girls LOVE guy on guy . Full guy on guy . Our profile states what we want and is ignored YET we do want to meet single men . | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. Sorry but we disagree with you ! YOU are a single lady . WE are a bisexual trio . I doubt you get a large volume every day of messages from straight profiled men who claim to be varying degrees of bisexual in their message ! It get very wearing when all you want is an honest bi chap to meet ! Just because I'm a single female... I still don't agree with men using toys makes them gay. Or gay females using toys makes them straight. I don't believe that others can judge or categorise the sexuality or gender of another person. Once again , no one is talking about what anyone sticks up themselves alone ! But believe us , when out profile clearly states : fully bi people only please and since we first posted to this thread we have had 8 messages of straight but say they are bi men you can see the volume which you will not experience as bi couples do all the time We don't look for people who are bi, so obviously we don't know what it's like for you. But I am curious, when you say you are looking for an honest bi man. If that man has a frank and honest conversation with you, and is definately fully bi, and he is able to meet your requirements in every way, but he doesnt disclose this information on his profile, is this something that is a deal breaker for you? This is hypothetical for me, but we do find with profiles in general, that it's better to take with a pinch of salt what people say, and wait to hear what they have to say when we have a conversation. That's a very good question ! The answer is : Yes if someone does not sat bisexual on their profile , it is a deal breaker for us . The reason ? As a bisexual trio - 2 girls and a man . We have wasted way too much free time . Rare free time . In meeting men who's profiles are straight but claim to be bi in a message . But when you meet , the man expects to bonk both we girls in the botty , but isn't actually bi after all or will only let our chap suck him . We girls LOVE guy on guy . Full guy on guy . Our profile states what we want and is ignored YET we do want to meet single men . " Fair enough | |||
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God, it's not very straightforward this sex business is it? "well like I said Oscar wilde was married with 2 kids | |||
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God, it's not very straightforward this sex business is it? "
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"Isn't sexual about who you are attracted to and not about a sexual act? " I tend to think this. By and large I regard myself as straight, as I do not fancy women. However i do play with women, so I have chosen to say bicurious. I think I would be equally as accurate in saying straight. In fact more so, because if I have already played with a women I can no longer be curious. But I don't think I can ever say that I'm bisexual - I think I'd have to fancy women for that. I know straight men, who like me, have experimented with the same sex, but don't feel this changes their sexuality. Really I wish we didn't have to check a box on Fab, then we can either go with the flow, or have that honest conversation with those who feel it's important. | |||
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"Ha ha we find it funny when we get a message from a guy - we say we aren't looking for straight males. Automatically lots say they are bi and that they have another account on the sister site When we check their profile they are listed as straight and not even bi curious "Almost every time every single message we get the same | |||
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"Couples are just as guilty as this. Bi fem, straight male, yet the male is bi" Not in our experience we will say | |||
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"Couples are just as guilty as this. Bi fem, straight male, yet the male is bi Not in our experience we will say " Or ours | |||
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"Couples are just as guilty as this. Bi fem, straight male, yet the male is bi Not in our experience we will say Or ours ". Or ours either  | |||
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"Couples are just as guilty as this. Bi fem, straight male, yet the male is bi" Or the ones where the guy is bi but his fem partner doesn't know so he stealth messages for a meet on his own. Had this at least 3 times All of them multiply verified as a couple | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. " could not have put it better ourselves | |||
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"Another problem is that does this mean we should message guys who have "straight" on their profiles as they may actually like guys? Though if we did and they in fact don't they may not take too kindly to our contacting them. Just a thought you probably could, I am straight and specifically say on my profile as well in the text. I have still been asked by couples if I will do bi things which is annoying as apparently 'straight' on here is losing it's meaning.
Can I ask why you're so hung up on it? Doesn't really bother me either way how others label themselves, but labelling others is a waste of energy. And you're definitely joking with the guys who enjoy anal play being gay, if I rim a woman would that make them lesbian? I'm not hung up I was merely answering the ops question and it escalated again because people font like my honest opinion. Yeah I believe being penetrated even by a fake cock is not a straight thing to do.
Ever had a prostate exam? Turns you gay apparently " Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head. | |||
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"I had a straight guy message me, i didn't worry about it while he was swallowing my cum...greedy straight bastard. "Guess OP has their answer as what is and what isn't straight her on FB... | |||
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Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
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"were horny bi couple looking for bi mmf but if say's straight on profile no chance " But why not single bi guys | |||
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Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
"I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic. "Dont think they really want a straight man's reply unless it fits their EU straight banana criteria...... However it's a good post for many who have read it without input for fear of finger pointing. Least they can see what different people see as straight and helps them in their own selection/ avoidance. Maybe some of us who have straight in our profile will now have to think more creatively with replies to being asked ....how straight are you? Some veris might have to stay hidden too I'm guessing. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Dont think they really want a straight man's reply unless it fits their EU straight banana criteria......
However it's a good post for many who have read it without input for fear of finger pointing. Least they can see what different people see as straight and helps them in their own selection/ avoidance.
Maybe some of us who have straight in our profile will now have to think more creatively with replies to being asked ....how straight are you? Some veris might have to stay hidden too I'm guessing. " | |||
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Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic. "I can respect your opinion here. I did find it strange that you said a man getting fucked by a toy could be fantasising that it was a real cock which is why I made the comment that a guy fucking a woman anally could be fantasising it was a man's arse they were really fucking. And remember even gay men do the fucking | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
I can respect your opinion here. I did find it strange that you said a man getting fucked by a toy could be fantasising that it was a real cock which is why I made the comment that a guy fucking a woman anally could be fantasising it was a man's arse they were really fucking.
And remember even gay men do the fucking
"again it's ignorance, fantasy can have a a lot to do with sex you get this argument from guys who meet tv/ts and say they are under an 'illusion'. Of course they could be fantasizing to help stimulate themselves lots of gay men get married then come out the closet. | |||
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Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
I can respect your opinion here. I did find it strange that you said a man getting fucked by a toy could be fantasising that it was a real cock which is why I made the comment that a guy fucking a woman anally could be fantasising it was a man's arse they were really fucking.
And remember even gay men do the fucking
again it's ignorance, fantasy can have a a lot to do with sex you get this argument from guys who meet tv/ts and say they are under an 'illusion'. Of course they could be fantasizing to help stimulate themselves lots of gay men get married then come out the closet."You got to be talking out of your arse! There's no such thing as ignorance on FAB! | |||
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Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic. "Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then? By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. | |||
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Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. "it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
I can respect your opinion here. I did find it strange that you said a man getting fucked by a toy could be fantasising that it was a real cock which is why I made the comment that a guy fucking a woman anally could be fantasising it was a man's arse they were really fucking.
And remember even gay men do the fucking
again it's ignorance, fantasy can have a a lot to do with sex you get this argument from guys who meet tv/ts and say they are under an 'illusion'. Of course they could be fantasizing to help stimulate themselves lots of gay men get married then come out the closet."That's true, and I think that's because of society and I think it's very sad that they feel they have to conform. Hopefully, times are changing and they don't have to hide in any closet anymore xxx | |||
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Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question "I think the single women have just found two Straight Unicorns. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question "So a finger or tongue? That's gay too? Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that? | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?"She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read "But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?"no not into myself but that is not like being penetrated. It's possible but not really a gay act is it pointless arguing with you anyway you just want to argue with me. Sure people will disagree usually the in denial 1's aswell. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems. "again you misinterpret because you are obtuse I said how do you know they are not fantasizing? | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems. "Actually he didn't. Reread it carefully again. Your reply confirms what most sociologist, psychologist and counsellors say that most of us are formulating a reply to argue our point without reading/listening/ hearing what is 'actually' being said but rather what we think they're saying. Please reread his actual words and how he said it. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems. again you misinterpret because you are obtuse I said how do you know they are not fantasizing? "Ooooops. ..didn't see your reply. Obtuse? Not on here we have to embrace all and become one type apparently. | |||
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Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems.
Actually he didn't. Reread it carefully again. Your reply confirms what most sociologist, psychologist and counsellors say that most of us are formulating a reply to argue our point without reading/listening/ hearing what is 'actually' being said but rather what we think they're saying.
Please reread his actual words and how he said it. "she is just looking for an argument and forgets to read pathethic really | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems. again you misinterpret because you are obtuse I said how do you know they are not fantasizing?
Ooooops. ..didn't see your reply. Obtuse? Not on here we have to embrace all and become one type apparently. "I bet she had to look up what it meant | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems. again you misinterpret because you are obtuse I said how do you know they are not fantasizing? "You seem to be obsessed over people fantasising. I would have thought on Fab it was easier for a man to meet another man rather than a woman. So if a man wanted a cock up his arse, he could get the real thing rather than have an anal toy up his arse by a woman and fantasise that it was really a cock. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems.
Actually he didn't. Reread it carefully again. Your reply confirms what most sociologist, psychologist and counsellors say that most of us are formulating a reply to argue our point without reading/listening/ hearing what is 'actually' being said but rather what we think they're saying.
Please reread his actual words and how he said it. she is just looking for an argument and forgets to read pathethic really "Never . The white horse brigade have gone for tea....many look for guys with balls but don't know how to handle them when they appear. Agree to disagree and gain respect....or loose it. A long time ago I stated ill agree to disagree but they couldn't...few like to have friends with another opinion. .. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems.
Actually he didn't. Reread it carefully again. Your reply confirms what most sociologist, psychologist and counsellors say that most of us are formulating a reply to argue our point without reading/listening/ hearing what is 'actually' being said but rather what we think they're saying.
Please reread his actual words and how he said it. she is just looking for an argument and forgets to read pathethic really
Never . The white horse brigade have gone for tea....many look for guys with balls but don't know how to handle them when they appear. Agree to disagree and gain respect....or loose it. A long time ago I stated ill agree to disagree but they couldn't...few like to have friends with another opinion. .."I did try to agree to disagree ages ago, seems like a personal vendetta to try void my opinion on other things. | |||
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems.
Actually he didn't. Reread it carefully again. Your reply confirms what most sociologist, psychologist and counsellors say that most of us are formulating a reply to argue our point without reading/listening/ hearing what is 'actually' being said but rather what we think they're saying.
Please reread his actual words and how he said it. she is just looking for an argument and forgets to read pathethic really
Never . The white horse brigade have gone for tea....many look for guys with balls but don't know how to handle them when they appear. Agree to disagree and gain respect....or loose it. A long time ago I stated ill agree to disagree but they couldn't...few like to have friends with another opinion. .. I did try to agree to disagree ages ago, seems like a personal vendetta to try void my opinion on other things."I know...and I did to lol. My comment on agreeing to disagree wasn't clear but was aimed at her. | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that."A guy who enjoys/ yearns for the sexual attentions of a man is NOT STRAIGHT. A woman who yearns for or enjoys the sexual attentions from a woman is NOT STRAIGHT. How hard is that to understand? Women embrace this and are not ashamed to say. Men on the other hand ..... Mention or talk about it and you are something phobic. I will go to a gay/bi doctor. I will not be 'involved' with a gay/ bi man nor any man sexually and that is because I AM STRAIGHT. If that is pigeonholing, so be it. I am black. I am a man. I am straight. I am good looking. I have a huge sexual appetite. I like Bbws. I like huge tits. Pigeonholing, I guess.  | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
A guy who enjoys/ yearns for the sexual attentions of a man is NOT STRAIGHT. A woman who yearns for or enjoys the sexual attentions from a woman is NOT STRAIGHT.
How hard is that to understand? Women embrace this and are not ashamed to say. Men on the other hand .....
Mention or talk about it and you are something phobic. I will go to a gay/bi doctor. I will not be 'involved' with a gay/ bi man nor any man sexually and that is because I AM STRAIGHT. If that is pigeonholing, so be it. I am black. I am a man. I am straight. I am good looking. I have a huge sexual appetite. I like Bbws. I like huge tits.
Pigeonholing, I guess. "But the issue is the use of an anal toy on a man by a woman. Nothing to do with the yearning or enjoyment of the sexual attention of another man by a man. | |||
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"As a gay man and father this thread both saddens me and infuriates me. I cannot believe the ignorance total lack of comprehension of what it is to be homosexual from some posters! My god I thought the days of the Alpha male bullshit were over but clearly not Perhaps the option to state ones sexuality on profiles should be totally removed then people would have to communicate listen and understand other people.... God forbid ! " I completely agree. After reading a few of these threads I am now of the _iew that stating sexuality should be optional, then nobody can be accused of deceit. And those who find it difficult to catagorise themselves, or prefer to keep aspects of their sexuality private, are then not forced to disclose something they don't want to. But those who feel it's important to state sexuality on the profile can still do that, and choose to avoid those who don't state their preferences. | |||
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"Why do guys say they are straight on their profile then when you say we looking for a bi male they reply that they are bi? Had this reply so many times " So did you get an answer on the thread? | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
A guy who enjoys/ yearns for the sexual attentions of a man is NOT STRAIGHT. A woman who yearns for or enjoys the sexual attentions from a woman is NOT STRAIGHT.
How hard is that to understand? Women embrace this and are not ashamed to say. Men on the other hand .....
Mention or talk about it and you are something phobic. I will go to a gay/bi doctor. I will not be 'involved' with a gay/ bi man nor any man sexually and that is because I AM STRAIGHT. If that is pigeonholing, so be it. I am black. I am a man. I am straight. I am good looking. I have a huge sexual appetite. I like Bbws. I like huge tits.
Pigeonholing, I guess. "ok, now it's 3 against 100. Good luck guys | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
A guy who enjoys/ yearns for the sexual attentions of a man is NOT STRAIGHT. A woman who yearns for or enjoys the sexual attentions from a woman is NOT STRAIGHT.
How hard is that to understand? Women embrace this and are not ashamed to say. Men on the other hand .....
Mention or talk about it and you are something phobic. I will go to a gay/bi doctor. I will not be 'involved' with a gay/ bi man nor any man sexually and that is because I AM STRAIGHT. If that is pigeonholing, so be it. I am black. I am a man. I am straight. I am good looking. I have a huge sexual appetite. I like Bbws. I like huge tits.
Pigeonholing, I guess.
ok, now it's 3 against 100. Good luck guys "haha what are your thoughts? staying unusually quiet on this 1, have you been pegged? | |||
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
A guy who enjoys/ yearns for the sexual attentions of a man is NOT STRAIGHT. A woman who yearns for or enjoys the sexual attentions from a woman is NOT STRAIGHT.
How hard is that to understand? Women embrace this and are not ashamed to say. Men on the other hand .....
Mention or talk about it and you are something phobic. I will go to a gay/bi doctor. I will not be 'involved' with a gay/ bi man nor any man sexually and that is because I AM STRAIGHT. If that is pigeonholing, so be it. I am black. I am a man. I am straight. I am good looking. I have a huge sexual appetite. I like Bbws. I like huge tits.
Pigeonholing, I guess.
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
A guy who enjoys/ yearns for the sexual attentions of a man is NOT STRAIGHT. A woman who yearns for or enjoys the sexual attentions from a woman is NOT STRAIGHT.
How hard is that to understand? Women embrace this and are not ashamed to say. Men on the other hand .....
Mention or talk about it and you are something phobic. I will go to a gay/bi doctor. I will not be 'involved' with a gay/ bi man nor any man sexually and that is because I AM STRAIGHT. If that is pigeonholing, so be it. I am black. I am a man. I am straight. I am good looking. I have a huge sexual appetite. I like Bbws. I like huge tits.
Pigeonholing, I guess.
But the issue is the use of an anal toy on a man by a woman. Nothing to do with the yearning or enjoyment of the sexual attention of another man by a man."A man who enjoys his anal passage; well that's a slippery one On a more serious note, you may have a point but let's not digress from the OP's main question.
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
A guy who enjoys/ yearns for the sexual attentions of a man is NOT STRAIGHT. A woman who yearns for or enjoys the sexual attentions from a woman is NOT STRAIGHT.
How hard is that to understand? Women embrace this and are not ashamed to say. Men on the other hand .....
Mention or talk about it and you are something phobic. I will go to a gay/bi doctor. I will not be 'involved' with a gay/ bi man nor any man sexually and that is because I AM STRAIGHT. If that is pigeonholing, so be it. I am black. I am a man. I am straight. I am good looking. I have a huge sexual appetite. I like Bbws. I like huge tits.
Pigeonholing, I guess.
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"I don't understand why so many people are obsessed with pigeonholing another person's sexuality. On here, you have the option of straight, bi or gay. On other sites, there are loads more options. Stop making people define themselves to three options that probably doesn't suit their sexuality but they're picking the closest one. Doesn't mean they are being deceitful. I'm bisexual on here. I'm a fully bisexual as in would I have a relationship with a woman? Nope. Do my moods change? Yep. Just stop worrying about it all. As long as it's all clear before play... who is happy with what. Whenever I see the phrase 'Fab straight.' It tells me more about the person using it and how narrow minded they are. There is a deception in it though and it is confusing to people that's why you have a question like this by the OP. Then question the individual concerned and they can clarify their sexual orientation to see if it suits. Rather than labelling them 'fab straight' and a liar. I was merely answering the OPS question, 'fab straight' seems to be the terminology for it on here. Yes I believe they are lying to themselves. Lying to themselves? *shakes head in disbelief* I doubt they are. I would assume if they are active on the swinging scene, they are pretty aware of their own sexuality and preferences. But then, you believe that any man that enjoys any form of anal play from a woman is a closet bisexual. yes lying to themselves and others actually, I never said any Anal play you are stretching again I said I believe being penetrated by a dildo is a gay sexual practice and I stand by that.
A guy who enjoys/ yearns for the sexual attentions of a man is NOT STRAIGHT. A woman who yearns for or enjoys the sexual attentions from a woman is NOT STRAIGHT.
How hard is that to understand? Women embrace this and are not ashamed to say. Men on the other hand .....
Mention or talk about it and you are something phobic. I will go to a gay/bi doctor. I will not be 'involved' with a gay/ bi man nor any man sexually and that is because I AM STRAIGHT. If that is pigeonholing, so be it. I am black. I am a man. I am straight. I am good looking. I have a huge sexual appetite. I like Bbws. I like huge tits.
Pigeonholing, I guess.
ok, now it's 3 against 100. Good luck guys haha what are your thoughts? staying unusually quiet on this 1, have you been pegged?
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" Love how facetious people can be when others hold a different _iew and they can't give a sensible response. No need for a sensible answer to your question...may just go over your head.
Maybe you get facetious answers because you are claiming a man who receives a toy anally, from a woman, is enjoying a gay act.
Your statement is so obviously wrong, how do you expect anyone to take it seriously? Maybe if you explain what you mean by gay it might give the rest of us a chance of answering sensibly.
I don't see how a straight man would ever desire to get fucked, straight men do the fucking. It is submissive and not masculine! It is a gay sexual act. You can preach all you want but in my book it is not straight. My opinion on other things comes into question apparently because i believe this it is just my opinion. I answered the ops question in what I thought was a truthful way but this get thrown back at me again completely off topic.
Is it because a dildo is phallic that's giving you the difficulty? If it was a different shape, would you understand then?
By the way... Submissiveness or masculinity have nothing to do with sexual orientation. it's more the penetration aspect of it, no if it was a cucumber etc I would think the same. Basically you don't know whether they were wishing that they were being fucked by a man and I am more inclined to think they are not straight by getting fucked. I am fully aware about submissive and masculinity and I know you have either in any sexuality it is just my opinion and doesn't stop the relevance of my opinion to the ops question
So a finger or tongue? That's gay too?
Your theory.... You could be fucking a woman's mouth and imagining it was a man How could she trust that you weren't wishing that?
She can't! ....and this has just proved another theory....women can't mind read
But Mr Blonde can mind read? He says that all the men wanting anal are really fantasising they are being fucked by a man. Because al of the gays, bi and TGs told him. He's been conducting surveys it seems.
Actually he didn't. Reread it carefully again. Your reply confirms what most sociologist, psychologist and counsellors say that most of us are formulating a reply to argue our point without reading/listening/ hearing what is 'actually' being said but rather what we think they're saying.
Please reread his actual words and how he said it. she is just looking for an argument and forgets to read pathethic really
Never . The white horse brigade have gone for tea....many look for guys with balls but don't know how to handle them when they appear. Agree to disagree and gain respect....or loose it. A long time ago I stated ill agree to disagree but they couldn't...few like to have friends with another opinion. .. I did try to agree to disagree ages ago, seems like a personal vendetta to try void my opinion on other things."Personal vendetta? You're amusing. I think we can agree that we are opposites with _iews. And seemingly (thankfully) opposite personalities. Yet because I have a different _iew to you on every topic, you try to turn it in to me having a personal vendetta. | |||
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