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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are very new to hotwife lifestyle and need some advice from experience couples.

We would like to chat more private so if there is any couples who willing to share some tips please let us know.

X

Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And she is a very hot wife indeed!

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By *ugh_E_RectionMan
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle


"We are very new to hotwife lifestyle and need some advice from experience couples.

We would like to chat more private so if there is any couples who willing to share some tips please let us know.

X

Judging by the super hot pics I don't think you need any tips, looks like your doing just fine lol.

Lexi"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

Amazing hot wife x

Very nice pics and profile xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

Can't private message you x

Gutted lol

Have a read of my profile and pics x

You might like x

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Are you talking hot wife and one man = bull or are you talking a group of men mmmmf or a gang bang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to advise. What did you have in mind? How do you see it working for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in chatting too. As a guy who has both met couples for hotwife and cuckold meets and also enjoyed a hotwife relationship with a previous GF, so I guess that's a hotGF!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in the Hotwife scenario and have a couple of years experience xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

General information about potential meets fears feelings etc where did you go to find right guy ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a guy who I knew from previous meets. Few glasses of wine before he turned up. I ensured she understood that doing this made me desire her even more, it wasn't going to change how I viewed her negatively.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm well aware of my husband feelings about it...

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

Hi,

I have thoroughly embraced the Hotwife lifestyle since meeting my partner 8 months ago. I always harboured dreams of being 'glam' but was the 'quiet' plain Jane amongst my friends.

My partner, and Master (we are a fetish couple), opened my eyes to this wonderful new world, and has teased out and nurtured my dreams to the extent that I have a new found confidence that has made me so happy

My thing is PVC - I love the exhibitionism side of things - to the extent that we are thinking of setting up a website etc.

Hope this gives you confidence and that you too can blossom into the amazing Hotwife I am sure you were meant to be!

Cherie xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great story and advise I think confidence is what we need...

Thank you for good tips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a hotwife anyway...

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan


"Great story and advise I think confidence is what we need...

Thank you for good tips."

Happy to help leading you astray tee hee

Seriously though, you will find that you feel like a new person!

Maybe it is a sort of alter ego that allows you to look and behave in a way you never had the confidence to do in your 'normal' life. It is very liberating and I think the key is that it is FUN and doesn't become too 'heavy' for both of you.

Ideally you should both share the same fantasies and your partner needs to be comfortable with you attracting attention because, in some instances, this can be a bit of a shock and the partner can feel a little (or a lot) jealous. But as long as you share the same dreams he will thrive on it - who wouldn't want to be out with their fantasy woman.

We have a very simple formula that has worked so well, and has made me feel like a million dollars to be honest! We vowed that we would do all we could to be our partner's PORN! There is nothing more wonderful than knowing if either feels in the mood for a crafty wank, it will be their partner that they fantasise about, and not some impersonal unreal porn character on the web. This has been perfect for us and so empowering.

My partner had long experience of nurturing women to be whatever they want to be - he is very caring and supportive, as well as emotionally empathetic - and that is why I felt comfortable and gained the confidence to spread my wings. The net result is we have found our respective soulmates and are getting married soon

I hope my experiences provide some useful food for thought and I'm happy to chat further if you need a cheerleader to help you on your way.

C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a hotwife anyway..."

For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a hotwife anyway...

For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife."

Ok thanks for the clarity

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By *onny247Man
over a year ago

St. Albans

Always happy to participate of any couples are looking.

Scenarios can both be public and private, meaning that they can start in a bar, coffee shop whatever your fantasy is and lead from there?

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By *heer_sussexcplCouple
over a year ago

Littlehampton


"What is a hotwife anyway...

For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife."

Perfectly put, spot on

You certainly are one very Hotwife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a hotwife anyway...

For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife.

Perfectly put, spot on

You certainly are one very Hotwife! "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a hotwife anyway..."

I always wondered that. What if the wife isn't considered Hot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It still will be under the terms a hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a hotwife anyway...

I always wondered that. What if the wife isn't considered Hot? "

Not as hot as you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Happy to share experiences if you want to messages us.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our advice have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our advice have fun "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi. Happy to share experiences if you want to messages us.

Mrs x"

We will message you

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Just read your profile. We play this way also and are more than happy to conversate and share our experineces with you guys. Wecome to the lifestyle and please feel free to message with any questions.

N&N

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By *inkswithpanCouple
over a year ago

lough

Happy to answer any questions guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy to answer any questions guys xxx"

Thank you guys much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just read your profile. We play this way also and are more than happy to conversate and share our experineces with you guys. Wecome to the lifestyle and please feel free to message with any questions.

N&N"

We will happily get in touch guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy to answer any questions guys xxx"

We will be in touch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I inboxed the couple my experience's as we're in this category

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I inboxed the couple my experience's as we're in this category "

You definitely are guys x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just another question come true to our minds if there is any meeting spot for hotwife as we where thinking going to hotel and try to have go ...

But apart from that where will you go to find potential meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They go out of town met at pub to begin with but now he just picks her up lol And usually they share a hotel for fun afterwards so it's late when getting there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They go out of town met at pub to begin with but now he just picks her up lol And usually they share a hotel for fun afterwards so it's late when getting there. "

We mean where would you go for the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They go out of town met at pub to begin with but now he just picks her up lol And usually they share a hotel for fun afterwards so it's late when getting there.

We mean where would you go for the first meet "

We always meet in a pub or a bar. The three of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pub out of town where no one knows you Can talk about anything then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A pub out of town where no one knows you Can talk about anything then lol"

Great we will try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pub out of town where no one knows you Can talk about anything then lol

Great we will try it "

It's really kinky being in a pub as a trio. New guy flirting with the hotwife, and everybody wondering who she with. We used to do this in London, and you can get away with more there, but we got fed up with travelling into London. So now we tend to go to country pubs, but it's harder to be naughty in public.

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

We all met in a pub first.

First meet hubby wasn't present ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x"

You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x

You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them"

You will be surprise how hard it is most of the single guys gere are dreamesrs or time wasters no offends to a good guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I need to meet a hotwife, that kind of arrangement sounds perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x

You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them

You will be surprise how hard it is most of the single guys gere are dreamesrs or time wasters no offends to a good guys x"

No I'm not surprised. We've been using Fab for a year and a half. Before that we advertised on Craig's List, but that was even worse. I have managed to get together a Roladex of 3 off-on lovers in just over a year though, and there have been a few more that came and went. You do have to sift through a lot of trash though. I would prefer someone a bit more regular though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x

You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them

You will be surprise how hard it is most of the single guys gere are dreamesrs or time wasters no offends to a good guys x

No I'm not surprised. We've been using Fab for a year and a half. Before that we advertised on Craig's List, but that was even worse. I have managed to get together a Roladex of 3 off-on lovers in just over a year though, and there have been a few more that came and went. You do have to sift through a lot of trash though. I would prefer someone a bit more regular though."

Thank you

guys guess we need to be more patients on the way but we don't appreciate time wasters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x

You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them

You will be surprise how hard it is most of the single guys gere are dreamesrs or time wasters no offends to a good guys x

No I'm not surprised. We've been using Fab for a year and a half. Before that we advertised on Craig's List, but that was even worse. I have managed to get together a Roladex of 3 off-on lovers in just over a year though, and there have been a few more that came and went. You do have to sift through a lot of trash though. I would prefer someone a bit more regular though.

Thank you

guys guess we need to be more patients on the way but we don't appreciate time wasters x"

Actually we haven't come across timewasters as such. It's just that not many guys really understand or want what we want.

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By *ime 2 CumCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We love this lifestyle so feel free to message is if we can be of any help

If not enjoy your road and always remember it's best to regret what you haven't done and can rearrange for another time rather than what you have done which can't be changed

xx

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan


"A pub out of town where no one knows you Can talk about anything then lol

Great we will try it

It's really kinky being in a pub as a trio. New guy flirting with the hotwife, and everybody wondering who she with. We used to do this in London, and you can get away with more there, but we got fed up with travelling into London. So now we tend to go to country pubs, but it's harder to be naughty in public."

Yes it is hard to be naughty in most places and for me that is very frustrating because my normal dress is full on PVC Hotwife Slut - as per my profile pic - so we have to pick our venues carefully to avoid awkwardness.

By and large the guys are complementary though and some women applaud the fact I am prepared to be daring, but then you get a certain element who are the real tut tut brigade giving you filthy looks, possibly because they are annoyed their hubbies are stealing not very discreet glances LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A pub out of town where no one knows you Can talk about anything then lol

Great we will try it

It's really kinky being in a pub as a trio. New guy flirting with the hotwife, and everybody wondering who she with. We used to do this in London, and you can get away with more there, but we got fed up with travelling into London. So now we tend to go to country pubs, but it's harder to be naughty in public.

Yes it is hard to be naughty in most places and for me that is very frustrating because my normal dress is full on PVC Hotwife Slut - as per my profile pic - so we have to pick our venues carefully to avoid awkwardness.

By and large the guys are complementary though and some women applaud the fact I am prepared to be daring, but then you get a certain element who are the real tut tut brigade giving you filthy looks, possibly because they are annoyed their hubbies are stealing not very discreet glances LOL "

We will try this weekend some of the local pub or hotel and share our experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwife in training here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotwife in training here. "

What is the context of the term "hotwife".. new to this phrase?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotwife in training here.

What is the context of the term "hotwife".. new to this phrase? "

Your a hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotwife in training here.

What is the context of the term "hotwife".. new to this phrase?

Your a hotwife "

Im actually the hot hubby.. but thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotwife in training here.

What is the context of the term "hotwife".. new to this phrase?

Your a hotwife

Im actually the hot hubby.. but thank you "

Lol

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By *r simMan
over a year ago

dorset

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By *rs DreamweaverWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"What is a hotwife anyway...

For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife."

This perfectly sums it up...o am also a hottie and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my first proper solo hotel meet soon.

#horny

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