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Sex drive going mad as I get older

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or has anyone else found that there sex

Drive is going mad (getting higher) as they get older..I want and think about it more now than I did in my twenties and I turn 41 this year....

Just thought I would put that out there...

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Same here...I think it is because I am free from kids, I am financially independent and happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or has anyone else found that there sex

Drive is going mad (getting higher) as they get older..I want and think about it more now than I did in my twenties and I turn 41 this year....

Just thought I would put that out there..."

This is the same for me! I once said when I was about 21-22 I could live without sex and I genuinely meant it haha....well I could go back in time and give my 21 year old self a good talking too! No idea what I was thinking because now there's no way I could live without sex regularly x

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

wait until you get to your 50's...lol if you think the 40's are horny..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am glad I am not alone with this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup 40s and super horney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup 40s and super horney"

Oh yes....nice pic by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i am

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By *etsgoallthewayMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Well I'm 50 now and it's amazing I want it more now than ever and when it happens it feels so goooood I seem to get harder now to

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By *etsgoallthewayMan
over a year ago

nottingham

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

Totally agree

And so much more adventurous

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Yes and I love it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wait until you get to your 50's...lol if you think the 40's are horny.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because you are now no longer a novice at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP completely agree. I was told you men are at their peak in late teens through twenties. Lately, I can't stop thinking about it, and want to try new things. I now see sex as more enjoyment for her as much as me . (I know, is true gent)

But yes, sex drives can rise apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate!

I'm like a horny teenager!

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"wait until you get to your 50's...lol if you think the 40's are horny.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hated sex in my 20's only had 2 partners right up until 2012 so sex was something I could quite easily avoid and not miss at all....then along comes a guy who knows what he's doing.....hello sexual appetite nice to meet you..... I'm 50 and randy as.....

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

It's all very well having a high sex drive but once you get past 40 the offers to relieve it tend to dry up a little ????

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think the mind opens and the ego dissipates. You don't have to strut, because it takes the energy out of doing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are always horny buggers .

But after speaking to so many ladies what they say about there sexual peak being around the 40 mark and beyond is so true .

How its always on there mind and how the cravings are so strong

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"It's all very well having a high sex drive but once you get past 40 the offers to relieve it tend to dry up a little ????"

You are taking the p*** aren't you?

I've had more offers and been more "active" since I turned 55 than I ever had before.

I surely can't be the only one on this site who has "good time" more than 4 times a week. (Can I?)

But then again I don't limit my options by age restrictions.

Man up fella!

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Men are always horny buggers .

But after speaking to so many ladies what they say about there sexual peak being around the 40 mark and beyond is so true .

How its always on there mind and how the cravings are so strong "

Just read this and have to agree that in my experience from late 40s the ladies seem to want to have more "recreational" sex and spend a more relaxed time doing it rather than trying to fit it in to a tight schedule of work and family life.

(....and that suits me fine! I'm here to oblige!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned 40 then started the menopause and HRT and oh my god I'm a rampant teenager again!

Multiple orgasms finally and I can squirt!

Thank you 40!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 40 then started the menopause and HRT and oh my god I'm a rampant teenager again!

Multiple orgasms finally and I can squirt!

Thank you 40! "

I shall look forward to HRT then

10 years to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 40 then started the menopause and HRT and oh my god I'm a rampant teenager again!

Multiple orgasms finally and I can squirt!

Thank you 40!

I shall look forward to HRT then

10 years to go "

The HRT years are the best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex has just got better and better for us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 40 then started the menopause and HRT and oh my god I'm a rampant teenager again!

Multiple orgasms finally and I can squirt!

Thank you 40!

I shall look forward to HRT then

10 years to go

The HRT years are the best! "

I am 51 and post menopause..,

I didn't do the HRT thing, I rode it out naturally and I have to say my sex drive is through the roof these days compared to how it was pre menopause

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've both had more new sex-partners since we turned 50 and began swinging, than we had before, and that was a lot for both! Kids have left home, we're old enough to acknowledge that we have high sex-drives and no reluctance to fulfil our needs. We've met many people who feel exactly the same and see sex as a delicious game, with more people involved equalling more fun.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

So true op.. Luckily I'm a wanker...lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or has anyone else found that there sex

Drive is going mad (getting higher) as they get older..I want and think about it more now than I did in my twenties and I turn 41 this year....

Just thought I would put that out there..."

Haha. Yes. It's always been high with me but as I get older even more so I think, and also a little bit kinkier maybe as well. Long may it continue as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite being post menopausal, when the libido is supposed to disappear, I have found I'm hornier than I have ever been, and long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a high sex drive. I guess as I spend to much time in the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a herbal remedy I took called Black Cohosh is amazing for an alternative to HRT

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm in my late 50's now,& if I don't have sex at least 4 times a week you don't want to be anywhere near me

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

My sex drive switch got turned on at 46, just when the rest of the body thinks about slowing down

Tried more new things in the last 5 years then the 30 before.

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