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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???"

Unless it's a sackable offence, I'd block and move on. Depends how friendly you are?

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By *tonercouple24Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

Depends how close are you and your colleague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good body on you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say hi. Get chatting. Talk about work and so OH!!!

Then see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???

Unless it's a sackable offence, I'd block and move on. Depends how friendly you are?"

I did block her. As she lives a few miles away from me I do t often bump into her anyway but prefer to be cautious!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge "

Ouch!! No need for that! As you don't know the job I have I have a right to be cautious about face pics...thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge

Ouch!! No need for that! As you don't know the job I have I have a right to be cautious about face pics...thank you"

Maybe she knows you are on here too and wanted you to spot her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge

Ouch!! No need for that! As you don't know the job I have I have a right to be cautious about face pics...thank you"

So does she, but she chooses to display them.

Maybe she doesn't realise it's such a small world, if I was you I'd let her know anonymously then it's her choice to continue or not but at least she will now that it's quite possible to bump into someone you know on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???"

My opinion on this is in the nicest possible way , mind your own business, I'm not being funny when I say that but she is an adult and can do what she likes, she obviously knows what she is doing and that she might be recognised, let her get on with it, I don't understand why people feel the need to get involved in things that don't really concern them.

Don't worry about what others are/aren't doing enjoy your life and focus on the things that bring you happiness

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge

Ouch!! No need for that! As you don't know the job I have I have a right to be cautious about face pics...thank you"

lol no need for the ouch comment it's a public forum and you asked what others think or did i miss something?

Yes i don't know the job but the person in question certainly does and still decided to put up pictures it's her personal life and her choice at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge

Ouch!! No need for that! As you don't know the job I have I have a right to be cautious about face pics...thank you

lol no need for the ouch comment it's a public forum and you asked what others think or did i miss something?

Yes i don't know the job but the person in question certainly does and still decided to put up pictures it's her personal life and her choice at the end of the day"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???"

personally i think she knows the risks and she took them

you can only assume she is happy with her pics public or she wouldnt have put them there

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

As you say each to their own. Leave well alone op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge

Ouch!! No need for that! As you don't know the job I have I have a right to be cautious about face pics...thank you"

the thing is some people dont care if others know what they do

i was at work once and looking on fab on my phone on a break and unknown to me a collegue was nosing over my shoulder and just openly started talking to me about the site, telling me she met her fella on here and they have a couples profile etc

i was thinking WTF piss off your nosey cow as if i want to talk about fab with you

i work for the NHS so some discretion is required but she was happy just talking away to me about it because some people just dont care who knows

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By *ity Slickers PartiesCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Milan, Italy


"Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???

My opinion on this is in the nicest possible way , mind your own business, I'm not being funny when I say that but she is an adult and can do what she likes, she obviously knows what she is doing and that she might be recognised, let her get on with it, I don't understand why people feel the need to get involved in things that don't really concern them.

Don't worry about what others are/aren't doing enjoy your life and focus on the things that bring you happiness "

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By *ity Slickers PartiesCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Milan, Italy


"Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge

Ouch!! No need for that! As you don't know the job I have I have a right to be cautious about face pics...thank you

lol no need for the ouch comment it's a public forum and you asked what others think or did i miss something?

Yes i don't know the job but the person in question certainly does and still decided to put up pictures it's her personal life and her choice at the end of the day"

Be proud to be a 'Swinger' and/or a Highly Sexual Minority... There is absolutely nothing wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well maybe I am just being ultra cautious... I must admit I am surprised how many don't seem to share the same view as regards protecting ones privacy. I get asked a lot for my face PIC but always refuse. It certainly has not reduced my chances of meeting folk significantly.

But no need to be rude in the forums... They are not there for that reason. Manners costs nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well maybe I am just being ultra cautious... I must admit I am surprised how many don't seem to share the same view as regards protecting ones privacy. I get asked a lot for my face PIC but always refuse. It certainly has not reduced my chances of meeting folk significantly.

But no need to be rude in the forums... They are not there for that reason. Manners costs nothing"

"Ones privacy" exsctly! It's her private business so stop getting involved in it! So if you're worried about people's privacy id suggest you practice what you preach and let their business remain private!

No ones being rude, if you don't like people's opinions when they don't agree with you, I'd kindly (notice manners!) suggest you don't post on forums

Good afternoon and good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well maybe I am just being ultra cautious... I must admit I am surprised how many don't seem to share the same view as regards protecting ones privacy. I get asked a lot for my face PIC but always refuse. It certainly has not reduced my chances of meeting folk significantly.

But no need to be rude in the forums... They are not there for that reason. Manners costs nothing

"Ones privacy" exsctly! It's her private business so stop getting involved in it! So if you're worried about people's privacy id suggest you practice what you preach and let their business remain private!

No ones being rude, if you don't like people's opinions when they don't agree with you, I'd kindly (notice manners!) suggest you don't post on forums

Good afternoon and good day "

can i just add to that

nice arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well maybe I am just being ultra cautious... I must admit I am surprised how many don't seem to share the same view as regards protecting ones privacy. I get asked a lot for my face PIC but always refuse. It certainly has not reduced my chances of meeting folk significantly.

But no need to be rude in the forums... They are not there for that reason. Manners costs nothing

"Ones privacy" exsctly! It's her private business so stop getting involved in it! So if you're worried about people's privacy id suggest you practice what you preach and let their business remain private!

No ones being rude, if you don't like people's opinions when they don't agree with you, I'd kindly (notice manners!) suggest you don't post on forums

Good afternoon and good day

can i just add to that

nice arse "

Me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you should mind your own business if she wants face pics up then who are you or anybody else to judge

Ouch!! No need for that! As you don't know the job I have I have a right to be cautious about face pics...thank you"

Why is she showing yourmface as well then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to her what she does with her profile and any consequences are for her to deal with. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???"

Keep dropping hints...what a fab day,had a fab weekend etc etc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???"

Reading back the OP's post I interpreted it as coming from an angle of concern for a colleague. I know I made a mistake once and had a face pic on show in error. Only realised when it was pointed out to me.

So OP do what you feel is right.

Some of the comments on this thread are totally uncalled for and just show people in a bad light. No wonder people are saying the forums are nasty and cliquey. Jeez you can't post anything.

And before I'm shot down I don't give a flying fuck what you think so waste your precious time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops....not sure she should have put her face pics on her pics which were public! I partly feel tempted to tell her due to nature of the job, but question is should I? Each to their own has always been my motto but I think face pics on public display are risky. What do others think???

Reading back the OP's post I interpreted it as coming from an angle of concern for a colleague. I know I made a mistake once and had a face pic on show in error. Only realised when it was pointed out to me.

So OP do what you feel is right.

Some of the comments on this thread are totally uncalled for and just show people in a bad light. No wonder people are saying the forums are nasty and cliquey. Jeez you can't post anything.

And before I'm shot down I don't give a flying fuck what you think so waste your precious time."

Well said!!

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