FabSwingers.com forum: Possible to be too nice?

By *poolGent OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this? "

there is no such thing as being too nice...

as for being respectful, that seems to have gone by the wayside in recent years

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't think so

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By *poolGent OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

The whole being a 'gentleman' seems to have gone to the wayside long ago as well, which is a shame!

I suppose looks are the most important for a lot of people, meaning personality comes second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this? "

I think ppl can be overly polite but what bugs me most is when they send first message with there job title that gets an instant delete eg- hi im a sales manager from wherever. dont need to know its not a cv we dont want anything selling leave the titles at work guys.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The whole being a 'gentleman' seems to have gone to the wayside long ago as well, which is a shame!

I suppose looks are the most important for a lot of people, meaning personality comes second"

Are you saying that nice men get ignored in favour of good looking men? Do you mean to imply that good looks and good personality are mutually exclusive?

If I'm going to have sex with a man on a no strings basis I'm not ashamed to say that I want him to be good looking and nice. If that's wrong I'll happily own up to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny, I remember us getting a message from a guy some time back, asking us if amongst all the dross (or words of that effect, can't quite remember), we would be interested in a respectful well mannered man. He said it as though he thought he was a rarity on this site, and we would be pleased with such a find. Don't get me wrong, I'm not knocking politeness. But I thought at the time, what he was offering should go without saying, but what I really want is a man who can turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this? "

Not in my book, I read messages from those people. It's the rude, pushy and disrespectful ones who get the delete and block combo....sadly, some people don't even realise how rude they are being. If you call them out on it, they get all "Whatdafukutalkinabaht"?

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By *poolGent OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

That's one way to boost commission and/or ego, try your luck with a shag or a sale!

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Thumbs up for being overly nice and respectful

. Don't think it's a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our book it is impossible to be too polite or too respectful. Until the play starts anyway lol. But till then politeness and respect are paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The whole being a 'gentleman' seems to have gone to the wayside long ago as well, which is a shame!

I suppose looks are the most important for a lot of people, meaning personality comes second"

On a site like this, looks are always going to matter a bit. You want to have sex with people you are attracted to but don't underestimate the attraction of being nice.

I do okay on here based mostly on the fact that I'm nice to people.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this? "

No, why wouldn't you be?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, i only meet nice respectable guys others can meet arseholes if they want

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By *poolGent OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this?

No, why wouldn't you be? "

I've no idea why you wouldn't be, but woman do seem to have their fair share of horrors on here!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this?

No, why wouldn't you be?

I've no idea why you wouldn't be, but woman do seem to have their fair share of horrors on here!! "

Women have their fair share of horrors in life. It isn't only on fab that a minority of men behave in a rude and disrespectful way towards women. Ask any one of us and we could give you plenty of examples. Thank goodness most men aren't like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The whole being a 'gentleman' seems to have gone to the wayside long ago as well, which is a shame!

I suppose looks are the most important for a lot of people, meaning personality comes second

On a site like this, looks are always going to matter a bit. You want to have sex with people you are attracted to but don't underestimate the attraction of being nice.

I do okay on here based mostly on the fact that I'm nice to people. "

Same here for me, being nice seems to pay off

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By *iddieCouple
over a year ago

Pontefract

I'm beginning to think it is. We'll always be respectful but had enough of folk who can't reciprocate that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's fake and insincere yes

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

It isn't possible to be too 'nice'. Although being nice isn't a guarantee of a meet. Nothing is.

I think the men that always behave politely are probably a little rankled by the threads not only criticising the behaviour of all men. And bewildered by the requests by women looking for 'chav/scallies/bad boys' etc.

The golden rule (for me) is to treat everyone with the same degree of respect as you would face to face. This goes in any form of communication, phone, text or in person. The fact that this website necessitates an initial online message does not excuse a poor attitude.

I have never made any derogatory remark whatsoever. Be the better (nicer) person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say yes its important to start with as you engage in conversation and trust and friendship builds

Then the dirty chat commences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this? "

Ever hear the saying "there's being nice then there's being stupid nice" don't walk on eggshells for anyone

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

"So, is it possible to be to 'nice' and respectful on a site like this? "

Hello,

In my case yes!I'm well trained in by my Master/Sir.

I have impeccable manners. My life is structured & moulded by he'

Years of learning and mastering the art of how to be a lady

So yes you should always be respectful.

B x

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

"The whole being a 'gentleman' seems to have gone to the wayside long ago as well, which is a shame!

I suppose looks are the most important for a lot of people, meaning personality comes second"

I have to agree with this, fed up hearing not my type

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