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By *ottie_84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I had a guy message me who saw me in a club last week yet didn't say anything until he messaged me on here exchanged kik details and then went on "would you have done x,y & z" would you have let me join etc (was with a group) and this was all in the space of 2 min of adding him on kik.

Safe to say the people in the group I was with said they would look out for me if he was there next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did he know it was you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was seeing if he had a chance.

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By *ottie_84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"How did he know it was you? "
cause we spoke previously on here and I sent him a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did he know it was you? cause we spoke previously on here and I sent him a face pic "

So you know him already? Sounds like he's just making conversation, not a stalker.

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By *ottie_84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"How did he know it was you? cause we spoke previously on here and I sent him a face pic

So you know him already? Sounds like he's just making conversation, not a stalker. "
not really we just exchanged 1 or 2 messages and the way he was in the messages were pushy if that makes sense? Every second question was about joining the group I was with etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did he know it was you? cause we spoke previously on here and I sent him a face pic

So you know him already? Sounds like he's just making conversation, not a stalker. "

Creepy - maybe. Stalker - no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did he know it was you? cause we spoke previously on here and I sent him a face pic

So you know him already? Sounds like he's just making conversation, not a stalker.

Creepy - maybe. Stalker - no. "

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By *winny445Man
over a year ago

battersea

maybe he is just akward with conversation

as the lady above me said creepy probably yes stalker probably no.

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By *ottie_84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Just feel like he's going to make a beeline for me should we bump into each other again, it wouldn't have been so bad if he tried to make conversation at the time as well even when I walked past on my own

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Just feel like he's going to make a beeline for me should we bump into each other again, it wouldn't have been so bad if he tried to make conversation at the time as well even when I walked past on my own "

If he does and he makes you feel uncomfortable just excuse yourself politely. There is a lot to be said with us learning the value of a polite refusal.

He might be the best lay ever if you give him a chance though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just feel like he's going to make a beeline for me should we bump into each other again, it wouldn't have been so bad if he tried to make conversation at the time as well even when I walked past on my own "

That does sound creepy. Hope you know what he looks like so you can avoid him. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he wants to fuck you?

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By *ottie_84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Just feel like he's going to make a beeline for me should we bump into each other again, it wouldn't have been so bad if he tried to make conversation at the time as well even when I walked past on my own

That does sound creepy. Hope you know what he looks like so you can avoid him. x"
I do, I wouldn't have minded if we spoke more than once or twice, it was the persistence of him asking about joining our group and if I would have fucked him, if it wasn't my first visit then who knows might have been different idk x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It can be tricky at times, judging the most appropriate approach, especially if he's seen you in action, as it were.

Your response should depend on if you fancy sex with him or not.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

If you're not interested just be polite and say so. If he's a decent guy then he will back off

If he's really bugging you then block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did he know it was you? cause we spoke previously on here and I sent him a face pic

So you know him already? Sounds like he's just making conversation, not a stalker. "

No there's nothing creepy about this at all....

Word of advise; trust your own instincts and your friends, not the advise of this lot.

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By *ottie_84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"How did he know it was you? cause we spoke previously on here and I sent him a face pic

So you know him already? Sounds like he's just making conversation, not a stalker.

No there's nothing creepy about this at all....

Word of advise; trust your own instincts and your friends, not the advise of this lot. "
oh I do trust mine and theirs, even they said that he came across as creepy

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