FabSwingers.com forum: Please be honest before a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If your profile pictures are older ,please say so.

Please tell us your true size..

It's not fair to meet someone and make them uncomfortable and have to be rude... Because of your dishonesty

I wish I could leave a true Verifaction....

Would anyone in NYC like to have brunch... I suddenly have a free afternoon

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

No one actually makes you be rude. That is personal choice. And bad parenting, no doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always straight forward in ly message, especially if they contacted me first...so after reading their profile I see that I do nt fit into their 'preferences', I'll politely ask if it is an issue for them.

And most of the time it isn't at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

Its amazing how attractive some men get after a few beers.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

Its amazing how attractive some men get after a few beers.

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lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I used to have only body pics of me in a corset. My profile blurb had my body type as large and said I was overweight with a jelly belly.

I met a couple who were disappointed because they felt my pics were misleading, because they hadn't realised I'd look much bigger without the corset :-/

I feel both terrible and as though I had been honest both at the same time.

Now I have the least flattering body pic I can find. It puts some guys off but it does mean those who do meet me are more likely to be pleasantly surprised than disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

Its amazing how attractive some men get after a few beers.

Fancy a pint Wyrd?

I've seen a profile that says " if you don't look like your profile pictures when you turn up, you're buying me vodka till you do"

Made me chuckle....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

Its amazing how attractive some men get after a few beers.

Fancy a pint Wyrd?

I've seen a profile that says " if you don't look like your profile pictures when you turn up, you're buying me vodka till you do"

Made me chuckle...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have only body pics of me in a corset. My profile blurb had my body type as large and said I was overweight with a jelly belly.

I met a couple who were disappointed because they felt my pics were misleading, because they hadn't realised I'd look much bigger without the corset :-/

I feel both terrible and as though I had been honest both at the same time.

Now I have the least flattering body pic I can find. It puts some guys off but it does mean those who do meet me are more likely to be pleasantly surprised than disappointed."

I just breath in for pictures and when meeting someone

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I used to have only body pics of me in a corset. My profile blurb had my body type as large and said I was overweight with a jelly belly.

I met a couple who were disappointed because they felt my pics were misleading, because they hadn't realised I'd look much bigger without the corset :-/

I feel both terrible and as though I had been honest both at the same time.

Now I have the least flattering body pic I can find. It puts some guys off but it does mean those who do meet me are more likely to be pleasantly surprised than disappointed.

I just breath in for pictures and when meeting someone

My corser is s tight lacing one. I couldn't breathe in that much!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

Its amazing how attractive some men get after a few beers.

Fancy a pint Wyrd?

I've seen a profile that says " if you don't look like your profile pictures when you turn up, you're buying me vodka till you do"

Made me chuckle...."

With you? Make that three...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"If your profile pictures are older ,please say so.

Please tell us your true size..

It's not fair to meet someone and make them uncomfortable and have to be rude... Because of your dishonesty

I wish I could leave a true Verifaction....

Would anyone in NYC like to have brunch... I suddenly have a free afternoon

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this is the problem with anything online its deceptive and its why I prefer clubs you know what your getting in the flesh and if your not interested you can find somebody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have only body pics of me in a corset. My profile blurb had my body type as large and said I was overweight with a jelly belly.

I met a couple who were disappointed because they felt my pics were misleading, because they hadn't realised I'd look much bigger without the corset :-/

I feel both terrible and as though I had been honest both at the same time.

Now I have the least flattering body pic I can find. It puts some guys off but it does mean those who do meet me are more likely to be pleasantly surprised than disappointed."

You still look great to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would rather play our profile down so hopefully all would be good on a arranged meet.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always honest before I arrange anything. More than happy to send live pics on kik too so they can see for themselves that I look like my pictures

Shame everyone can't be though but that says a lot about them as a person tbh

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

I tell it the way it is. I take a fresh pic every week/month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our pics are as honest as they can be , and are updated weekly

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Honesty is always the best policy.....

Anyway got to go to work, I'm a pilot for Top Gun and also a part-time dolphin trainer......

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

My pics are honest And I'm I'm looking for mets I usually take some recent ones and upload around the same time as I'm currently loosing weight so my body is changing all the time. Around 2 months ago I uploaded new pics and I've lost another 1.5 stone since then

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

"If your profile pictures are older ,please say so.

Please tell us your true size..

It's not fair to meet someone and make them uncomfortable and have to be rude... Because of your dishonesty

I wish I could leave a true Verifaction....

Would anyone in NYC like to have brunch... I suddenly have a free afternoon

this is the problem with anything online its deceptive and its why I prefer clubs you know what your getting in the flesh and if your not interested you can find somebody else."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

Its amazing how attractive some men get after a few beers.

Fancy a pint Wyrd?

I've seen a profile that says " if you don't look like your profile pictures when you turn up, you're buying me vodka till you do"

Made me chuckle....

With you? Make that three...

Bars open, what's your poison?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

I don't find it that my expectations are too high , if all I'm asking for is for you to look like your pics. I'm no super model but I do look like my pics...

I just hate the fact I had to be rude... I'm really a nice person but I just felt angry

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

It may seem obvious to you but I have photos up in which I definitely don't look my best.

I'd rather lose potential meets but have people be pleasantly surprised than disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't verify them if they aren't as their profile describes. it's not rude not to do that because verification is to verify they are who they are showing themselves as on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done

Plenty guys economical with the truth about age,weight,appearance. Happened much too often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My photos are an honest reflection of me, I get told I look better in real life so they've obviously not OTT in the flattery stakes

I also have a no make up selfie which I can send to people, what you see is what you get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My photos are accurate & untouched - my least flattering/most honest about my body shape is my satin shorts photo and I even get compliments on that anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics are deffinatly untouched I mean who the hell would touch up pic to look like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

Its amazing how attractive some men get after a few beers.

Really well now I know where I went wrong. I stopped drinking and lost my looks. thank you now off to buy some beers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

I don't find it that my expectations are too high , if all I'm asking for is for you to look like your pics. I'm no super model but I do look like my pics...

I just hate the fact I had to be rude... I'm really a nice person but I just felt angry "

Why be rude though ?

You could be honest but it doesn't need to be rude !

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"This is why I keep my expectations low and my shandy goggles handy

Its amazing how attractive some men get after a few beers.

Being an ugly fucker, I bring a bottle of scotch with me on meets, just so the woman can take a few slugs before we do the deed

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"My pics are deffinatly untouched I mean who the hell would touch up pic to look like that

The latest ones of yours definitely need no touching up and are only recent so not out of date!

As for profile pic honesty - ok I admit it maybe 14inches was exaggeration a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

I don't find it that my expectations are too high , if all I'm asking for is for you to look like your pics. I'm no super model but I do look like my pics...

I just hate the fact I had to be rude... I'm really a nice person but I just felt angry

Why be rude though ?

You could be honest but it doesn't need to be rude !"

I was rude because I was conned. It's not a nice feeling to make a reservation at your favorite restaurant , take a shower, shave my nose and ears hairs. To have Alice the goon show up... I wasted a Sunday . She got what see deserved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

I don't find it that my expectations are too high , if all I'm asking for is for you to look like your pics. I'm no super model but I do look like my pics...

I just hate the fact I had to be rude... I'm really a nice person but I just felt angry

Why be rude though ?

You could be honest but it doesn't need to be rude !

To be honest I have to agree

If somebody deliberately lied to me to get me to meet them why should I be polite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My photos are accurate & untouched - my least flattering/most honest about my body shape is my satin shorts photo and I even get compliments on that anyway.

And very nice satin shorts they are too

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By *tyoursCouple
over a year ago

southampton

My photos are of me and who i am, if people don't like them just move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

I don't find it that my expectations are too high , if all I'm asking for is for you to look like your pics. I'm no super model but I do look like my pics...

I just hate the fact I had to be rude... I'm really a nice person but I just felt angry

Why be rude though ?

You could be honest but it doesn't need to be rude !

To be honest I have to agree

If somebody deliberately lied to me to get me to meet them why should I be polite?

I agree. I don't have much free time and don't meet socially so I'd be mightily pissed off and would struggle to be polite. Luckily i seem to have good judgement in my meet choices so I've never encountered this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

I don't find it that my expectations are too high , if all I'm asking for is for you to look like your pics. I'm no super model but I do look like my pics...

I just hate the fact I had to be rude... I'm really a nice person but I just felt angry

Why be rude though ?

You could be honest but it doesn't need to be rude !

To be honest I have to agree

If somebody deliberately lied to me to get me to meet them why should I be polite?

No you just have low standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in case you're wondering, dear reader....yes my pics are of me looking my best. Yes they are flattering...but they are still me and represent the amount of effort i put into my appearance when meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are photos misleading? A picture is worth a thousand words!!??

Or maybe not it seems.

It seems obvious (to me) that the photos posted on here are ones in which the user feels they look at their absolute best.

This may not necessarily be the case on the day you meet, working hard, hangover, ill etc..

Unless the photos have been doctored or are actually fake don't blame the poster, the responsibility for the disappointment rests equally with your expectations..

I don't find it that my expectations are too high , if all I'm asking for is for you to look like your pics. I'm no super model but I do look like my pics...

I just hate the fact I had to be rude... I'm really a nice person but I just felt angry

Why be rude though ?

You could be honest but it doesn't need to be rude !

To be honest I have to agree

If somebody deliberately lied to me to get me to meet them why should I be polite?

No you just have low standards

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

What you see is what you get with us.

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By *iss_hotasfukWoman
over a year ago

Newport

I wouldn't know how to touch my photos,,, they come out as they come out, I think I look better in my photos than in person, people who meet me say I look better in the flesh, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and attraction comes in all shapes and sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more ! Everyone has so little free time to potentially waste it this way

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