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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Over the years I have met a few Swingers who also escort!! I don't know if it's something that is throwned upon within the swinging community!!! But when people arrange small gangbangs and ask for a contribution of £30 upwards isn't that paying for sex?? which I morally don't think is right for a swingers site. I may be wrong but I was wondering how others feel about it???

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Over the years I have met a few Swingers who also escort!! I don't know if it's something that is throwned upon within the swinging community!!! But when people arrange small gangbangs and ask for a contribution of £30 upwards isn't that paying for sex?? which I morally don't think is right for a swingers site. I may be wrong but I was wondering how others feel about it???"

Bit like paying a large entrance fee to gain entry to a club - is that pimping?

I'm happy to pay a contribution to a room - as I do when having a meet at a hotel.

Only you can decide if it is inappropriate

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


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Bit like paying a large entrance fee to gain entry to a club - is that pimping?

I'm happy to pay a contribution to a room - as I do when having a meet at a hotel.

Only you can decide if it is inappropriate

"

There's no guarantee of sex at a club, so no that's most certainly not "pimping". Paying for a gangbang, if participation is guaranteed then that makes it a bit questionable. Certainly if a profit is being made, then that "could" be construed as prostitution.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the years I have met a few Swingers who also escort!! I don't know if it's something that is throwned upon within the swinging community!!! But when people arrange small gangbangs and ask for a contribution of £30 upwards isn't that paying for sex?? which I morally don't think is right for a swingers site. I may be wrong but I was wondering how others feel about it???"

really depends on wether its to help cover cost involved for the event. I.e if theyve booked a exspensive hotel, got in some bits etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to be honest i dont see an issue with being paid for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people immediately mention swingers club when relating paying for sex ?? So when you go for a night in town to a night club on the pull is that paying for sex to ?? No don't be ridiculous. Clubs are an ideal way to meet like minded people there's no guarantee of sex but there is alway a good atmosphere and a good mix of people ready to socialise and have a laugh . We never go to a club looking for sex but if it happens it's a bonus if not it doesn't matter we always have a good social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people immediately mention swingers club when relating paying for sex ?? So when you go for a night in town to a night club on the pull is that paying for sex to ?? No don't be ridiculous. Clubs are an ideal way to meet like minded people there's no guarantee of sex but there is alway a good atmosphere and a good mix of people ready to socialise and have a laugh . We never go to a club looking for sex but if it happens it's a bonus if not it doesn't matter we always have a good social "

Also a club as over heads your not paying for sex your paying for use of its facilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take your point about entry fee to a Gang bang and prostitution. Totally agree

I think entry to most clubs is different as you are paying to use the facilities

As you would any night club

Clubs that are pay to play have 'hired help' i would exclude from this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do feel that clubs always promote and give people the idea they are going to be full of model like young women and cpls when reality is, they are mostly older women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they need to charge £30 a guy. Condoms and water dont come free you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a very fine line.

I stopped going to clubs years ago. But that was as a couple. I wouldn't bother going as a single guy. I can't see the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There usually is a cost to the swing scene, but that doesn't mean you are paying for sex. These costs can be the entrance fee for a club, contribution to the cost of a hotel room, the cost of travel, cost of drinks. Very few things in life that are fun are actually free. Ironically it may be cheaper to hire a prostitute and at least get guarenteed sex, but hopefully it's more fun doing it this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel that clubs always promote and give people the idea they are going to be full of model like young women and cpls when reality is, they are mostly older women?"

With your vast amounts of verification I wouldn't say you were suitably qualified to know what sort of people go to clubs , there is a very big mix of people from 19 upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant see an issue with calling an escort. Lets face it some guys really dont want a relationship or any strings, they dont want to get to know the girl to be able to have pleasure, they simply just need there pleasure we all need/have but simply just want that and nothing else from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel that clubs always promote and give people the idea they are going to be full of model like young women and cpls when reality is, they are mostly older women?

With your vast amounts of verification I wouldn't say you were suitably qualified to know what sort of people go to clubs , there is a very big mix of people from 19 upwards "

Had a couples profile for 2 years and spoke to many swingers, and attended a club ourselfs that we didnt play at because everybody was probably 30+ with the majority being 40+ but generally what we think as being a swingers club we picture young hot model like "fantasy" people when reality it isnt like that. Tell me 1 club where theres generally most under 30s hot model like? K.kittens ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clubs have licensed bars and facilities so it's obvious you will have to pay, I'm talking about couples or people advertising gangbangs for there wife/girlfriend at there home and charging £30 a single male, That is not swinging in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel that clubs always promote and give people the idea they are going to be full of model like young women and cpls when reality is, they are mostly older women?

With your vast amounts of verification I wouldn't say you were suitably qualified to know what sort of people go to clubs , there is a very big mix of people from 19 upwards

Had a couples profile for 2 years and spoke to many swingers, and attended a club ourselfs that we didnt play at because everybody was probably 30+ with the majority being 40+ but generally what we think as being a swingers club we picture young hot model like "fantasy" people when reality it isnt like that. Tell me 1 club where theres generally most under 30s hot model like? K.kittens ? Lol"

30+ is hardly old!!

But yes I guess there aren't clubs full of twenty something year old models, so there probably isn't the demand for it. There is nothing to stop swingers in their twenties starting their own exclusive parties and excluding us oldies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs have licensed bars and facilities so it's obvious you will have to pay, I'm talking about couples or people advertising gangbangs for there wife/girlfriend at there home and charging £30 a single male, That is not swinging in my eyes."

Well in my eyes your having sex with somebodies girlfriend/wife, if you like the look and sound of her and prepared to pay whats the issue? Weve thought about charging before. If your happy to pay whats the problem if not find someone who doesnt want money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs have licensed bars and facilities so it's obvious you will have to pay, I'm talking about couples or people advertising gangbangs for there wife/girlfriend at there home and charging £30 a single male, That is not swinging in my eyes.

Well in my eyes your having sex with somebodies girlfriend/wife, if you like the look and sound of her and prepared to pay whats the issue? Weve thought about charging before. If your happy to pay whats the problem if not find someone who doesnt want money"

Pimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel that clubs always promote and give people the idea they are going to be full of model like young women and cpls when reality is, they are mostly older women?

With your vast amounts of verification I wouldn't say you were suitably qualified to know what sort of people go to clubs , there is a very big mix of people from 19 upwards

Had a couples profile for 2 years and spoke to many swingers, and attended a club ourselfs that we didnt play at because everybody was probably 30+ with the majority being 40+ but generally what we think as being a swingers club we picture young hot model like "fantasy" people when reality it isnt like that. Tell me 1 club where theres generally most under 30s hot model like? K.kittens ? Lol

30+ is hardly old!!

But yes I guess there aren't clubs full of twenty something year old models, so there probably isn't the demand for it. There is nothing to stop swingers in their twenties starting their own exclusive parties and excluding us oldies."

Lol wasnt ment like that! But you know what i mean and where im coming from i do feel there isn't a demand for young girls or cpls because lets face it, (generally speaking) a 20 od year old girl really isnt going to have an issue finding a fuck buddy especially when they are probably sociable mingling in the clubs and bars why need to sign up to a swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs have licensed bars and facilities so it's obvious you will have to pay, I'm talking about couples or people advertising gangbangs for there wife/girlfriend at there home and charging £30 a single male, That is not swinging in my eyes."

I've never heard of people charging men to fuck their girlfriend/wife. Charging to cover costs yes, I've cost of hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel that clubs always promote and give people the idea they are going to be full of model like young women and cpls when reality is, they are mostly older women?"

What's wrong with older women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not want to be paid for sex, I do it for fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel that clubs always promote and give people the idea they are going to be full of model like young women and cpls when reality is, they are mostly older women?

With your vast amounts of verification I wouldn't say you were suitably qualified to know what sort of people go to clubs , there is a very big mix of people from 19 upwards

Had a couples profile for 2 years and spoke to many swingers, and attended a club ourselfs that we didnt play at because everybody was probably 30+ with the majority being 40+ but generally what we think as being a swingers club we picture young hot model like "fantasy" people when reality it isnt like that. Tell me 1 club where theres generally most under 30s hot model like? K.kittens ? Lol

30+ is hardly old!!

But yes I guess there aren't clubs full of twenty something year old models, so there probably isn't the demand for it. There is nothing to stop swingers in their twenties starting their own exclusive parties and excluding us oldies.

Lol wasnt ment like that! But you know what i mean and where im coming from i do feel there isn't a demand for young girls or cpls because lets face it, (generally speaking) a 20 od year old girl really isnt going to have an issue finding a fuck buddy especially when they are probably sociable mingling in the clubs and bars why need to sign up to a swingers site?"

Exactly. When I was in my twenties I could get sex on a normal Friday night out. I had no cause to bother with swing parties.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I do feel that clubs always promote and give people the idea they are going to be full of model like young women and cpls when reality is, they are mostly older women?"

Not sure what would give you that idea.

Yes they use young fit people in most of the professional photos, but surely you wouldn't believe that is what you will get...

Their websites also make it clear they have all ages and sizes attending.

It's rare we go to a club and nobody takes our fancy, but then we're oldies being in our 40s

Nita

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