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Anybody have sex without condoms and are on the pill?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody have regular sex without a condom whos on the pill and havnt got pregnant?

Hear so many people saying its very easy to get pregnant still anf some say 99% not but hey so many girls get pregnant who claim to have taken the pill lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Ok... I think I know what you mean.

Yes I am sure many couples have bareback sex with the only contraception being the pill.

There is no contraception method that is 100% guaranteed not to result in pregnancy... apart from abstinence.

The pill is very reliable these days, as long as it is taken as prescribed. However, it's effectiveness can be reduced if she is ill, and should use additional precautions then.

You do get all the info from the GP prescribing and there is a handy leaflet enclosed

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well its more the fact that we have had a few occasions where we havnt used a condom and the sex has been totally amazing.

I/we just don't really want a baby at this point but enjoy the sex without. So, taking into account she takes it ontime daily, isnt ill etc surely the chances are still very very very slim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Well its more the fact that we have had a few occasions where we havnt used a condom and the sex has been totally amazing.

I/we just don't really want a baby at this point but enjoy the sex without. So, taking into account she takes it ontime daily, isnt ill etc surely the chances are still very very very slim?"

Yes it is...

With both of my long term partners I only used the pill once I was happy it was safe to do so and only got pregnant once.... as planned.

However, you do have to accept that there is always a risk.

Nita

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Well its more the fact that we have had a few occasions where we havnt used a condom and the sex has been totally amazing.

I/we just don't really want a baby at this point but enjoy the sex without. So, taking into account she takes it ontime daily, isnt ill etc surely the chances are still very very very slim?"

Slim, yes, but not impossible.

We got caught out twice on the pill in two years and now have two beautiful Bubbahs (don't ask!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got pregnant on the pill

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Well its more the fact that we have had a few occasions where we havnt used a condom and the sex has been totally amazing.

I/we just don't really want a baby at this point but enjoy the sex without. So, taking into account she takes it ontime daily, isnt ill etc surely the chances are still very very very slim?

Slim, yes, but not impossible.

We got caught out twice on the pill in two years and now have two beautiful Bubbahs (don't ask!)."

And I took it religiously every day at the same time after breakfast.

- Amy. x

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By *antieThiefMan
over a year ago

Aldershot

Was with my ex 8 years she was on the pill and we had no hiccups going bareback. If she was ill or missed a pill for whatever reason I wore a condom to be on the safe side if we had sex.

Like Nita says though nothing is 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Higher chance of getting pregnant on the mini pill rather than combination pill

I get pregnant at merely mentioning the word (pregnant)

So I'm usually sceptical when a woman says she took her pill without fail and still got pregnant :-/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isnt there a test she can do to see when shes most fertile so we can use a condom during that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are you with a long term partner

or

Asking in general for woman you may meet on fab ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Long term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt there a test she can do to see when shes most fertile so we can use a condom during that time"

It won't work as works with hormones and the pill is hormone based . If you don't want to get her pregnant then don't have sex , or at least use condims too. Pill is a good choice but have to trust her etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the general norm is when your with a long term person you trust you tend to

eventually stop using condoms as you are confident your sti free...

Why are you using condoms when your partner is on the pill

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well the general norm is when your with a long term person you trust you tend to

eventually stop using condoms as you are confident your sti free...

Why are you using condoms when your partner is on the pill "

We are 100% free of sti. We have only ever done anything with eachother. And because we dont want to get pregnant just yet lol too young

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

I have been on the pill for years and never had any problems. If I have been ill we always use condoms to be on the safe side. No contraceptive is 100% though. I myself am the result of a ripped condom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the one subject I can not really comment on as I don't have a snatch, can not get pregnant so don't have any use for the pill......... So I will just make some random shit up instead them and say during the war I once ate a full tea bag all to my self as there was no cups, sugar, or milk you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you both on Fab or just yourself ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt there a test she can do to see when shes most fertile so we can use a condom during that time"

it wont work if she is on the pill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on the pill for years and was told to come off it at least 6 months before I wanted to try for a baby, so I stopped and 1 week later I conceived ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on the pill for years and was told to come off it at least 6 months before I wanted to try for a baby, so I stopped and 1 week later I conceived ... "

Me too, but didn't fall pregnant when I was on the pill

so always sceptical when I hear

"But I was on the pill"

You never hear

" But I was on the pill, but yeah I forgot to take it a few or more times"

Which is probably the accurate phrase to use

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill"

Every woman has different bodies

I'm not a doctor !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill"

I got pregnant on the pill .

Yes you can. But it's a reliable contraception . Get the coil fitted then you know she won't forget to take one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill

Every woman has different bodies

I'm not a doctor !!

"

I am no gynocologist luv but I will have a feckin good inspection of yours some time for you if you like

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill"

Of course you can, she's just saying it never happened to HER.

It can and does happen.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I fel pregnant with fraternal twins on the implant, so it failed me not once but twice in one pregnancy in my previous relationship

The most common reason for falling pregnant on the pill is when taking antibiotics certain ones counteract it

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

You can fall pregnant on any contraception, none of them are 100% and 25 is the average age to have kids I had my 3 at 21,23 & 28

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"This is the one subject I can not really comment on as I don't have a snatch, can not get pregnant so don't have any use for the pill......... So I will just make some random shit up instead them and say during the war I once ate a full tea bag all to my self as there was no cups, sugar, or milk you see"

And yet you still managed to comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill

Every woman has different bodies

I'm not a doctor !!

I am no gynocologist luv but I will have a feckin good inspection of yours some time for you if you like"

oh I had a gynecologist called

Doctor Love

No joke !!

Used to make me giggle when I went to see her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill

Every woman has different bodies

I'm not a doctor !!

I am no gynocologist luv but I will have a feckin good inspection of yours some time for you if you like

oh I had a gynecologist called

Doctor Love

No joke !!

Used to make me giggle when I went to see her "

Hahahaha

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP you and your girlfriend should go and visit her GP. Before you go read the NHS pages about contraception, you can find out more about the pill, coil, injections etc. and then chose which method is right for you.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill

I got pregnant on the pill .

Yes you can. But it's a reliable contraception . Get the coil fitted then you know she won't forget to take one "

You can still get pregnant on the coil my friends little one was actually holding hers in his tiny little hand when he was born.

Even sterilisation and vasectomies can reverse themselves the only two full proof ways of not getting a lady pregnant it if she's had a full hysterectomy (so has no internal lady baby making parts left) or you abstain from sex altogether.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill

Every woman has different bodies

I'm not a doctor !!

I am no gynocologist luv but I will have a feckin good inspection of yours some time for you if you like

oh I had a gynecologist called

Doctor Love

No joke !!

Used to make me giggle when I went to see her "

I've got a Dr Arsey at the moment! Well its spelt Ah-See, but I dont let that spoil my fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill"

basically we are saying there are different pills and different women...

use a condom if you are not sure..

always the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody have regular sex without a condom whos on the pill and havnt got pregnant?

Hear so many people saying its very easy to get pregnant still anf some say 99% not but hey so many girls get pregnant who claim to have taken the pill lol "

There's a difference between taking the pill and taking the pill correctly

It's amazing how many women forget and take the tablet 8 hours late or two the next day and still expect it to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill

Every woman has different bodies

I'm not a doctor !!

I am no gynocologist luv but I will have a feckin good inspection of yours some time for you if you like

oh I had a gynecologist called

Doctor Love

No joke !!

Used to make me giggle when I went to see her

I've got a Dr Arsey at the moment! Well its spelt Ah-See, but I dont let that spoil my fun! "

Now that would be great if they were an eye specialist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your basically saying you csnt get pregnant on the pill

Every woman has different bodies

I'm not a doctor !!

I am no gynocologist luv but I will have a feckin good inspection of yours some time for you if you like

oh I had a gynecologist called

Doctor Love

No joke !!

Used to make me giggle when I went to see her

I've got a Dr Arsey at the moment! Well its spelt Ah-See, but I dont let that spoil my fun! "

oh Dr Arsey is much more fun

or

It could be Dr aaaaah I seeeeeeee

Come on its what all doctors say as you explain what's wrong with you

They nod their heads looking all serious then interject with

" AH I SEE"

Then let you babble on a little more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was "on the pill" but was rubbish with it and fell pregnant..so was bound to happen..

went on the injection but when I wanted our 2nd took 2 years for all to go right..

went on the coil as don't want any more.. well that was horrible I ended up having a operation due to it giving me internal problems. so now ended up back on the injection as only thing that works for me personally..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was "on the pill" but was rubbish with it and fell pregnant..so was bound to happen..

went on the injection but when I wanted our 2nd took 2 years for all to go right..

went on the coil as don't want any more.. well that was horrible I ended up having a operation due to it giving me internal problems. so now ended up back on the injection as only thing that works for me personally.. "

I've been on depo for 15 years, best thing invented in my opinion

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I was "on the pill" but was rubbish with it and fell pregnant..so was bound to happen..

went on the injection but when I wanted our 2nd took 2 years for all to go right..

went on the coil as don't want any more.. well that was horrible I ended up having a operation due to it giving me internal problems. so now ended up back on the injection as only thing that works for me personally..

I've been on depo for 15 years, best thing invented in my opinion "

Just be careful my friend has been on Depo for the same time frame and it's degraded her bone density and caused other health problems, it happened in a lot of cases many docs now recommend it under the guidance that it's not designed for long term usuage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was "on the pill" but was rubbish with it and fell pregnant..so was bound to happen..

went on the injection but when I wanted our 2nd took 2 years for all to go right..

went on the coil as don't want any more.. well that was horrible I ended up having a operation due to it giving me internal problems. so now ended up back on the injection as only thing that works for me personally..

I've been on depo for 15 years, best thing invented in my opinion

Just be careful my friend has been on Depo for the same time frame and it's degraded her bone density and caused other health problems, it happened in a lot of cases many docs now recommend it under the guidance that it's not designed for long term usuage "

I've always been fine on it

I know some people have problems but you can say that about any birth control but it's never given me a days problem and I've never felt ill on it

I am a bit of a rhino though, I'm never ill nothing seems to affect me

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I was "on the pill" but was rubbish with it and fell pregnant..so was bound to happen..

went on the injection but when I wanted our 2nd took 2 years for all to go right..

went on the coil as don't want any more.. well that was horrible I ended up having a operation due to it giving me internal problems. so now ended up back on the injection as only thing that works for me personally..

I've been on depo for 15 years, best thing invented in my opinion

Just be careful my friend has been on Depo for the same time frame and it's degraded her bone density and caused other health problems, it happened in a lot of cases many docs now recommend it under the guidance that it's not designed for long term usuage

I've always been fine on it

I know some people have problems but you can say that about any birth control but it's never given me a days problem and I've never felt ill on it

I am a bit of a rhino though, I'm never ill nothing seems to affect me "

Wish I had that constitution I have a white blood cell deficiency so my immune system is rubbish I get sick often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on the pill for a year and the patch for 6month, never fell pregnant then took me 6months to actually fall pregnant off of contraception. It's different for everyone, I know a lass who's fallen pregnant on the pill, patch and implant. She's on the non hormonal coil now and on a different type of pill to double up. 3 kids under 5 on her own she says it's hard going but wouldn't put them back!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

B got pregnant 3 times while on the pill and she never missed taking any of them, I know because I used to check she had taken them.

In her case however it was due to other medication reducing the efficency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why was she ever prescribed it if the gp had her on meds that would stop it from working?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I was on the pill for years and was told to come off it at least 6 months before I wanted to try for a baby, so I stopped and 1 week later I conceived ...

Me too, but didn't fall pregnant when I was on the pill

so always sceptical when I hear

"

From what I can gather this is quite common.

I came off the pill before Xmas and conceived on New Years Eve

My sister and best mate also got pregnant really quickly after stopping the pill.

A friend in the USA reckons her midwife says women are often more fertile the first month or so after stopping taking the pill...

You have been warned

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is 100%

I managed to knock a girl up while she was on the pills and I was using test. Should have been damn near impossible, but if you throw enough material up there eventually one of the little bastards is going to stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you both on Fab or just yourself ?"

I can see where this is going so I'm off...

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