FabSwingers.com forum: Repeater or long stayer?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As someone who can't really repeat but who can last several hours (or longer) before cumming i am just curious if women prefer a man who is a long stayer or a repeater?

I know this will be personal preference but wonder if one tips the balance and by how much?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes i get that but long stayers don't have to last hours it's just something that you are able to do when it suits.

I certainly don't like just banging away for hours, variety is the key, plenty of variety can make it an interesting session where lots of things can be experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long stayers are usually 'helped with blue pills' no offence bud, just saying!!

If i think that, im sure im not the only one

In my experinence repeat is prefered....as long lasting suggests they lady isnt doing it for you.....please dont take offence it really isnt intended that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The closest i have ever got to a blue pill is a smarty! lol

You should check out the term "cruiser". A long stayer is usually able to take themselves to the point of cumming and then just before they do (or even as they start) they bring themselves back from the edge to experience the build up again.

Cumming is great but it's the getting there that's the most sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

Nice...so you are not keen on a guy cumming into the condom then? You normally end a meet with the guy giving you a mouthful of cum?

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

I'm a bit like OP..I'm a stayer and have learnt how to control when I come. If I do come it takes me 10 to 15 mins to be ready again (probably age )!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The reason i don't repeat is that when i have cum i have given and had all the pleasure that's wanted.

I don't think i have ever met a girl who wanted to carry on past my limit, i just time when i cum to suit how long she's comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a repeater I get more pleasure from it. If a guy takes ages to finish I would think I was doing something wrong

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

Nice...so you are not keen on a guy cumming into the condom then? You normally end a meet with the guy giving you a mouthful of cum?

The great thing about repeaters is that after they have cum they can, with encouragement, get hard again....so it's not necessarily the end of a meet

I would be disappointed if I met with a guy and at the end of the meet he hadn't cum....it can dent a girls confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't worry...People who like to last are having plenty of fun getting there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not sure why you assume a long stayer might not cum? Plenty of long stayers can cum quickly but they chose to make it last.

Those better at it mix the two by spending plenty of time having fun, giving the female all the "hardness" she wants followed by cumming within minutes or even seconds of her.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I'm not sure why you assume a long stayer might not cum? Plenty of long stayers can cum quickly but they chose to make it last.

Those better at it mix the two by spending plenty of time having fun, giving the female all the "hardness" she wants followed by cumming within minutes or even seconds of her."

Well that's fine then because I cum very easily and I do it loads of times in a meet so as long as you matched me cum for cum we would both be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

Sandie you're gorgeous

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

I always like to see the lady cum once or twice before I do. Once they have been satisfied then i will cum.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

Sandie you're gorgeous

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always let the lady cum first, as many times as she wants but i save mine for the end. To me it's kind of crossing the finish line and the sex comes to an end.

I'm not bothered about cumming more than once, i'm quite happy to tell her how much fun i'm having while i'm fucking so she knows i'm happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

Sandie you're gorgeous

Thank you

You're very welcome

I inboxed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a repeater I get more pleasure from it. If a guy takes ages to finish I would think I was doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeater

I love the act of cumming

Plus it gives you a wee break!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had different opinions, some girls like a long session others like repeating. I'm fortunate in that if I with a sexy girl my cock stays rock hard a lot of the time. As has been suggested a long stayer can cum plenty or go for the long session, I personally like to do both although a long session had to be mixed up & I need to know she's enjoying herself.

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By *exiliciousmeMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I am defo a repeater, cum relatively quickly first time but can keep going a number of times. I much rather prefer it this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As someone who can't really repeat but who can last several hours (or longer) before cumming i am just curious if women prefer a man who is a long stayer or a repeater?

I know this will be personal preference but wonder if one tips the balance and by how much?"

Preferably one of each!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

Nice...so you are not keen on a guy cumming into the condom then? You normally end a meet with the guy giving you a mouthful of cum?

The great thing about repeaters is that after they have cum they can, with encouragement, get hard again....so it's not necessarily the end of a meet

I would be disappointed if I met with a guy and at the end of the meet he hadn't cum....it can dent a girls confidence "

What makes you think we need encouragement to get hard again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long stayers are usually 'helped with blue pills' no offence bud, just saying!!

If i think that, im sure im not the only one

In my experinence repeat is prefered....as long lasting suggests they lady isnt doing it for you.....please dont take offence it really isnt intended that way

Taking the little blue doesn't help you last longer, it can yes but not most of the time,but they can help you get hard again faster than you normally would, mainly with a little help lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeater, I can't last for hours when I am with a beautiful lady.

Nonetheless it depends on the act in itself, I can last a lit bit longer depending on the position, yet no way I can last more than 20 mins ! (Foreplay not included)

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

Nice...so you are not keen on a guy cumming into the condom then? You normally end a meet with the guy giving you a mouthful of cum?

The great thing about repeaters is that after they have cum they can, with encouragement, get hard again....so it's not necessarily the end of a meet

I would be disappointed if I met with a guy and at the end of the meet he hadn't cum....it can dent a girls confidence

What makes you think we need encouragement to get hard again

Well maybe not encouragement but this girl struggles to keep her hands and mouth to herself

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Repeater, I can't last for hours when I am with a beautiful lady.

Nonetheless it depends on the act in itself, I can last a lit bit longer depending on the position, yet no way I can last more than 20 mins ! (Foreplay not included)

Love this

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

Well I'm a repeater but wish I could last for hours.. its the hair trigger thats the problem.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer repeater I am not a fan of banging away for hours and I do like to get my mouthful so not keen on meeting someone who doesn't cum

Nice...so you are not keen on a guy cumming into the condom then? You normally end a meet with the guy giving you a mouthful of cum?

The great thing about repeaters is that after they have cum they can, with encouragement, get hard again....so it's not necessarily the end of a meet

I would be disappointed if I met with a guy and at the end of the meet he hadn't cum....it can dent a girls confidence

What makes you think we need encouragement to get hard again

Well maybe not encouragement but this girl struggles to keep her hands and mouth to herself

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Repeater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I can't think of anything worse than a long stayer

When it gets to the point your just going through the motion thinking for gods sake will you bloody cum its time to pack up and go

I don't like a two minute wonder but I'm not really that keen on penatrive sex, I can spend all night doing the oral/foreplay but when it comes to penatration I like it over quick

Then

Back to the oral

so a repeater is good

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Well I'm a repeater but wish I could last for hours.. its the hair trigger thats the problem.. lol "

It sounds to me that you have got it exactly right......most women on this thread prefer a repeater over a long stayer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of both. Over the years it has often taken me a long time to cum, but I think that may have been to do with nerves. These days I'm able to finish whenever suits

And as for repeating, give me half an hour or so after orgasm and I'll be able to get going again, so it's all good. My personal best is 3 orgasms in one meet... I was drained after that! I'm sure there are plenty here who will say that's standard for them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting. The comments so far seem to lean towards repeater.

Can many blokes stay hard for a lengthy foreplay session before penetration? Do women like a lot of foreplay, how much is right?

I find it odd that so many people think long staying guys are not as good, doesn't it depend on the size of your repertoire and how well you can keep a girl entertained?

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Im a repeat performer, just don't expect much to come out after round 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting. The comments so far seem to lean towards repeater.

Can many blokes stay hard for a lengthy foreplay session before penetration? Do women like a lot of foreplay, how much is right?

I find it odd that so many people think long staying guys are not as good, doesn't it depend on the size of your repertoire and how well you can keep a girl entertained?"

Are you doing a survey ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeater for me. I like lots of shorter sessions and a laugh and a joke and a carry between gos. I get pretty numb downstairs being fucked for hours and then I find myself leaning over the edge of the bed to read a magazine on my floor.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not sure i get the having a laugh and a joke bit but whatever floats your boat.

I think the repeaters have it on the whole though and as such thanks for the feedback.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Repeater...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes repeater every time. cant beat getting two or three loads,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally both but if l had to pick one, which I luckily don't, repeater

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why would a repeater be wasting their time on a swinging site when they could be down at the clinic donating sperm earning a decent wage doing a fun job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would a repeater be wasting their time on a swinging site when they could be down at the clinic donating sperm earning a decent wage doing a fun job?"

I'll ask and let you know

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By *veabigun37Man
over a year ago

Northwich

I can do both. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am for sure a repeater not sure if that's a good thing or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure i get the having a laugh and a joke bit but whatever floats your boat.

I think the repeaters have it on the whole though and as such thanks for the feedback."

You don't get the laugh and a joke thing? Isnt the point of all this to have fun? Or are you a serious fucker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer repeaters as well, cum really gets me going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure i get the having a laugh and a joke bit but whatever floats your boat.

I think the repeaters have it on the whole though and as such thanks for the feedback.

You don't get the laugh and a joke thing? Isnt the point of all this to have fun? Or are you a serious fucker?

Oh and i forgot to answer the question, repeaters for me too, seeing a man cum is a huge turn on for me, so more often has to be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm easy and go with the flow. If I get tired and want a rest I say something. I can't see any man being able to fuck constantly for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm easy and go with the flow. If I get tired and want a rest I say something. I can't see any man being able to fuck constantly for hours."
but many will say they can lol

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Shit do we get to choose???

I'll try a stayer please.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

For me it depends on the guy and the situation.

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

quick and just the once.... is that good for you ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"quick and just the once.... is that good for you ladies

lol, no it is not.

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"quick and just the once.... is that good for you ladies

lol, no it is not.

is it not? may need to up my game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"quick and just the once.... is that good for you ladies

lol, no it is not.

is it not? may need to up my game!

might be a good idea.

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"quick and just the once.... is that good for you ladies

lol, no it is not.

is it not? may need to up my game!

might be a good idea.

although, i could be lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"quick and just the once.... is that good for you ladies

lol, no it is not.

is it not? may need to up my game!

might be a good idea.

although, i could be lying

i've met enough guys like this to know you could be telling the truth.

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"quick and just the once.... is that good for you ladies

lol, no it is not.

is it not? may need to up my game!

might be a good idea.

although, i could be lying

i've met enough guys like this to know you could be telling the truth.

maybe this is a ploy for me to get to speak to more ladies!

PS. how do i prove that I'm lying to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"quick and just the once.... is that good for you ladies

lol, no it is not.

is it not? may need to up my game!

might be a good idea.

although, i could be lying

i've met enough guys like this to know you could be telling the truth.

maybe this is a ploy for me to get to speak to more ladies!

PS. how do i prove that I'm lying to you

well, if it was then it worked now didn't it.

no need to prove anything to me anyway. i'm waiting until i find my own guy to cuckold.

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

Eat slee fuck repeat

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

It really depends on the person I am with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stayer, repeater and giver...not a banger!...I like variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs: Repeater, if we have time to really have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs: Repeater, if we have time to really have fun

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By *estMidsHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Malvern

Repeater, ideally heavy repeater. That way more cum inside me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Repeater, ideally heavy repeater. That way more cum inside me xxx"

I think looking at your sexy photos that repeating would never be an issue!

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