FabSwingers.com forum: Why am I only attracting blokes?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As the title suggests, I'm not having much luck on here. I don't mind that, but what I don't understand is the amount of messages I get from blokes on a daily basis.

My profile doesn't say I want to meet men but I still get a few a week. It's nice to get messages, but they're not really me target audience haha

If anyone could shed some light on the matter I'd appreciate it

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them then they can't message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can stop men messaging you if u apply ur filters properly

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Block them then they can't message you "

Simples..or is the case that you are intrigued?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not so much the messages, I just don't get what I'm doing to attract blokes, but somehow attract no women

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"It's not so much the messages, I just don't get what I'm doing to attract blokes, but somehow attract no women "

Hmmm ask any of your gay male friends..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've put that you are open minded and looking for new experiences, maybe they are testing your statement

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young (tick)

Good looking (tick)

Decent cock (tick)

Nice ass (tick)

Purdy Mouth (tick)

I'm baffled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be the way you hold your penis

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Young (tick)

Good looking (tick)

Decent cock (tick)

Nice ass (tick)

Purdy Mouth (tick)

I'm baffled!

Nail on head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the way it is on here. Get the filters on lol I did as I was bored with the countless messages from "straight" guys every day

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

As a newbie said on status wanted a fb. Big mistake

Then found filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block them then they can't message you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can stop men messaging you if u apply ur filters properly "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Must be the way you hold your penis

Nearly spat my tea out hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the compliments, but if that's the case would that not attract women too?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Got another thing coming if you expect the women to message you first you have to become an exceptional single male for that to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its simple most guys on here are NOT STRAIGHT

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's not so much the messages, I just don't get what I'm doing to attract blokes, but somehow attract no women "

There are lots and lots of men here and relatively few women. Some of the men are desperate. Very few of the women are.

Men tend to look for people and message whereas a lot of women don't look and wait to be messaged. Of the relatively few women, even fewer will actively look for men they fancy and message them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not so much the messages, I just don't get what I'm doing to attract blokes, but somehow attract no women

There are lots and lots of men here and relatively few women. Some of the men are desperate. Very few of the women are.

Men tend to look for people and message whereas a lot of women don't look and wait to be messaged. Of the relatively few women, even fewer will actively look for men they fancy and message them."

Good point, cheers

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"its simple most guys on here are NOT STRAIGHT"
yes true there are some genuine straight straight like myself but you get fab straight which is very hard to define.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 100% straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the plucked eyebrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got another thing coming if you expect the women to message you first you have to become an exceptional single male for that to happen

I must be exceptional then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be the way you hold your penis

Nearly spat my tea out hahaha"

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

"As the title suggests, I'm not having much luck on here. I don't mind that, but what I don't understand is the amount of messages I get from blokes on a daily basis.

My profile doesn't say I want to meet men but I still get a few a week. It's nice to get messages, but they're not really me target audience haha

If anyone could shed some light on the matter I'd appreciate it

Cheers

"
really dont know sorry but MR D wants you to come around and suck his cock

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Young (tick)

Good looking (tick)

Decent cock (tick)

Nice ass (tick)

Purdy Mouth (tick)

I'm baffled!

Err how do you know he has a nice ass?? But 4 outta 5 ain't bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't stress about it, take it as a compliment. I would be surprised if any fella, straight or otherwise, didn't get unwanted messages without the filters on. You won't get bothered once you set your male filters

Also, you can use it as an insight into to what the ladies on here have to put up with from a lot of fellas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look corruptible, you have a cock and you're young. That's all it takes.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"You look corruptible, you have a cock and you're young. That's all it takes."

Totally agree...celebrate and endorse it...It will pass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's cos there's only blokes on here. Actual women have got better things to do than hang around on here with a bunch of heavy breathing freaks. Any female profiles are guy's pretending.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You look corruptible, you have a cock and you're young. That's all it takes."

No ones ever told me I look corruptible before haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's that pretty mouth you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its simple most guys on here are NOT STRAIGHT yes true there are some genuine straight straight like myself but you get fab straight which is very hard to define."

so your hard to define then?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"I am 100% straight.

Yes we know.

you have told us many times and yr profile makes it very clear..

I must not wink at you or fab yr pics..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Young (tick)

Good looking (tick)

Decent cock (tick)

Nice ass (tick)

Purdy Mouth (tick)

I'm baffled!

Err how do you know he has a nice ass?? But 4 outta 5 ain't bad

Educated guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its simple most guys on here are NOT STRAIGHT"

Exactly this!

Careful if you stay on here too long you'll catch "the ghey"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it maybe the box in the back ground saying life`s good........ No one can be that excited about having a wank..... Either that or it is your finger nails ....... I don't look at things in FINE detail, HONEST

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the title suggests, I'm not having much luck on here. I don't mind that, but what I don't understand is the amount of messages I get from blokes on a daily basis.

My profile doesn't say I want to meet men but I still get a few a week. It's nice to get messages, but they're not really me target audience haha

If anyone could shed some light on the matter I'd appreciate it

Cheers

set

your

filters

simples

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"As the title suggests, I'm not having much luck on here. I don't mind that, but what I don't understand is the amount of messages I get from blokes on a daily basis.

My profile doesn't say I want to meet men but I still get a few a week. It's nice to get messages, but they're not really me target audience haha

If anyone could shed some light on the matter I'd appreciate it

Cheers

set

your

filters

simples

"
already been said like 5 times

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"As the title suggests, I'm not having much luck on here. I don't mind that, but what I don't understand is the amount of messages I get from blokes on a daily basis.

My profile doesn't say I want to meet men but I still get a few a week. It's nice to get messages, but they're not really me target audience haha

If anyone could shed some light on the matter I'd appreciate it

Cheers

set

your

filters

simples

already been said like 5 times

Give the poor lad a chance..FYI he has already set his filters..

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By *lue-eyed italianMan
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I get alot of messages from guys, I just politely reply no thanks. I think about blocking men but I had one guy ask me to come fuck his misses, I mean I wasn't going to pass it up she was

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