FabSwingers.com forum: Exception males

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a trap!

If you don't think you're exceptional then you're probably not.

If you do, you've probably got an oversized ego / opinion of yourself ..

So you can't win.

Me? I skip past those profiles. Their loss (except it isn't, as I'm not what they're after anyway - but I'll keep saying it to kid myself and make myself feel better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually unexceptional ppl that say that

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Why did "lay back and think of England" pop into my head.

Damn forgot, where are those hoops again.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I am becoming 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are exceptional idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

It's usually a warning sign that the lady of the couple is not into it. She sets the standard so high that no normal male can attain it. I've noticed this often when I'm rejected for sex after a social meet.

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those women need to come down to earth lol.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps ladies who expect it have really low standards thus making exceptional quite average

Positive thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a trap!

If you don't think you're exceptional then you're probably not.

If you do, you've probably got an oversized ego / opinion of yourself ..

So you can't win.

Me? I skip past those profiles. Their loss (except it isn't, as I'm not what they're after anyway - but I'll keep saying it to kid myself and make myself feel better!

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a trap!

If you don't think you're exceptional then you're probably not.

If you do, you've probably got an oversized ego / opinion of yourself ..

So you can't win.

Me? I skip past those profiles. Their loss (except it isn't, as I'm not what they're after anyway - but I'll keep saying it to kid myself and make myself feel better!

This.. Everyone is unique and therefore exceptional in their own way. I also agree with what was said above. It could be a warning sign for a woman in a couple whom really isn't into it.

What they mean to say is "only men I deem to be perfect" which is a crock.. You're on a swingers site and going on like you're part of high society. Pull that dick out of your ass and put a smile on your face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps ladies who expect it have really low standards thus making exceptional quite average

Positive thinking "

Nah they're usually stuck up and want a 10/10 every time. No problem with that. But making others feel like shit as a result of your rude attitude and lack of manners makes you a cunt by proxy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't use the term on our profile but for me, it's not them who decide that they're exceptional, it's us. As in they are someone for whom we're prepared to make an exception to our not being interested in single men rule for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Sparticus

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Im Sparticus"

*Spartacus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im Sparticus

*Spartacus"

Tomatoe, tomatta, who cares

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't use the term on our profile but for me, it's not them who decide that they're exceptional, it's us. As in they are someone for whom we're prepared to make an exception to our not being interested in single men rule for."

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I like an anomalous deviant. Which makes them exceptional in the truest sense of the word but not in the fab sense. It's an etymological minefield!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of those words you see on some profiles......exceptional / professional & the Sydney Uni bollox

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's one of those words you see on some profiles......exceptional / professional & the Sydney Uni bollox

Welllll......

Professional tells me they want the guy to not be a chav. No problem with that

Exceptional says. We are soooo precious

Sydney makes the tea

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I know it when I see it.

It's just another version of "quality over quantity" and "I'm not looking to meet every woman/man on the site".

It means they're looking for a few meets with people they click strongly with rather than meeting more often with people who they like but who don't particularly stand out.

It doesn't necessarily indicate an over-inflated ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's one of those words you see on some profiles......exceptional / professional & the Sydney Uni bollox

Welllll......

Professional tells me they want the guy to not be a chav. No problem with that

Exceptional says. We are soooo precious

Sydney makes the tea "

Are they being precious by having exceptional as a preference?

Better than saying ~ dross don't message me....

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

someone a bit special.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's one of those words you see on some profiles......exceptional / professional & the Sydney Uni bollox

Welllll......

Professional tells me they want the guy to not be a chav. No problem with that

Exceptional says. We are soooo precious

Sydney makes the tea

Are they being precious by having exceptional as a preference?

Better than saying ~ dross don't message me...."

Like I said above, it's like "quality over quantity", and nobody seems to take issue with that on a profile.

They don't want lots of meets just a few with people who really excite them.

I don't see the problem.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Im Sparticus

*Spartacus

Tomatoe, tomatta, who cares"

Spartacus probably cared.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?"

She doesn't have to be though, its what shes looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

She doesn't have to be though, its what shes looking for."

So champagne taste with beer money

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

She doesn't have to be though, its what shes looking for.

So champagne taste with beer money

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haha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?"

I don't say we are and if you read my answer you'll see that actually I say the exact opposite. We don't ask that anyone considers themselves exceptional-in fact I take exception to the word...what it means to us is that it's someone WE will make an exception for...or was that too difficult for you to understand?

...but then perhaps I was being deliberately provocative because having seen your previous posts, I knew you'd probably misinterpret what I said in order to get on your high horse...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

...but then perhaps I was being deliberately provocative because having seen your previous posts, I knew you'd probably misinterpret what I said in order to get on your high horse..."

Bless ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

She doesn't have to be though, its what shes looking for.

So champagne taste with beer money

I have a taste for both...it all depends on my mood...

Whatever you drink always tastes better without the hard done by taste in your mouth though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptional males on here... any man that can communicate in language more complicated than a grunt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

...but then perhaps I was being deliberately provocative because having seen your previous posts, I knew you'd probably misinterpret what I said in order to get on your high horse..."

Do you look at the light hearted stuff?

Or choose just to look at the negative stuff

Kick someone off their high horse and jump on yourself???

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Exceptional males on here... any man that can communicate in language more complicated than a grunt.

Or doesn't get his panties in a wad when told no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exceptional males on here... any man that can communicate in language more complicated than a grunt.

Or doesn't get his panties in a wad when told no thanks

"
I'm finally exceptional

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Exceptional males on here... any man that can communicate in language more complicated than a grunt.

Or doesn't get his panties in a wad when told no thanks

Or tells the single girls no thanks because they're not exceptional enough.

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

"Its usually unexceptional ppl that say that

Disagree!

When we use 'exceptional' we mean don't be Dull and 'alright Live wanna see my Cock'

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

...but then perhaps I was being deliberately provocative because having seen your previous posts, I knew you'd probably misinterpret what I said in order to get on your high horse...

Do you look at the light hearted stuff?

Or choose just to look at the negative stuff

Kick someone off their high horse and jump on yourself???"

Whatever they looked at they were right and you did get on your high horse.

Why does it matter to you what anyone is looking for, even if you think they don't deserve it, (and that's just your opinion, based on your values. Other opinions, based on other values are available)?

Why does it matter if someone does think they are special? Not that looking for someone who stands out to them suggests they are.

You clearly think you are special in that you think you can decide what other people should be looking for. How does that work exactly?

Are you part of the bringing women down a peg or two police? Or maybe the unrealistic expectations police? Do they work from the same station as the grammar police?

If you perceive that someone thinks they are special and that makes you not want to meet them, let them get on with it and be happy they probably wouldn't want to meet you either.

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

Good physique, intelligent, charismatic, handsome, good sized penis, experienced in bed, generally finesse and style.

Rules out about 95% of men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

...but then perhaps I was being deliberately provocative because having seen your previous posts, I knew you'd probably misinterpret what I said in order to get on your high horse...

Do you look at the light hearted stuff?

Or choose just to look at the negative stuff

Kick someone off their high horse and jump on yourself???

Whatever they looked at they were right and you did get on your high horse.

Why does it matter if someone does think they are special? Not that looking for someone who stands out to them suggests they are.

You clearly think you are special in that you think you can decide what other people should be looking for. How does that work exactly?

Are you part of the bringing women down a peg or two police? Or maybe the unrealistic expectations police? Do they work from the same station as the grammar police?

If you perceive that someone thinks they are special and that makes you not want to meet them, let them get on with it and be happy they probably wouldn't want to meet you either."

Fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good physique, intelligent, charismatic, handsome, good sized penis, experienced in bed, generally finesse and style.

Rules out about 95% of men."

I have at least one of these traits ! I spend every night in bed so I'd say i was experienced in that department

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

...but then perhaps I was being deliberately provocative because having seen your previous posts, I knew you'd probably misinterpret what I said in order to get on your high horse...

Do you look at the light hearted stuff?

Or choose just to look at the negative stuff

Kick someone off their high horse and jump on yourself???

Whatever they looked at they were right and you did get on your high horse.

Why does it matter if someone does think they are special? Not that looking for someone who stands out to them suggests they are.

You clearly think you are special in that you think you can decide what other people should be looking for. How does that work exactly?

Are you part of the bringing women down a peg or two police? Or maybe the unrealistic expectations police? Do they work from the same station as the grammar police?

If you perceive that someone thinks they are special and that makes you not want to meet them, let them get on with it and be happy they probably wouldn't want to meet you either."

I've just started to read your profile

Gave up

I can see why you got so upset now

I've only asked questions here

Opinions and points of view

You choose to get irate

That's upto you

I'm smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good physique, intelligent, charismatic, handsome, good sized penis, experienced in bed, generally finesse and style.

Rules out about 95% of men."
The gym is my 2nd home

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fish"

Alarmingly, that's the most intelligent, sensible thing you've posted on this thread.

I'm actually wondering if any woman on here _doesn't_ feel sufficiently special to only meet the men she most wants to meet.

If not, if any of them actually believe any of the bitter bilge spewed by the men who think they are entitled to meets and think they are entitled to dictate who anyone else should meet, that's pretty sad. I really hope every woman values herself more highly than that.

Every person on here, male, female or other, is special enough to decide who they want to meet and decline to meet anyone they don't want to meet. That is the case even if someone else - a random stranger from the internet no less - believes what they want to be unrealistic.

People can look for exactly what they want, even if they'll rarely, if ever, find it. That's their issue and theirs alone.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Good physique, intelligent, charismatic, handsome, good sized penis, experienced in bed, generally finesse and style.

Rules out about 95% of men."
yes I fit the bill

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fish

Alarmingly, that's the most intelligent, sensible thing you've posted on this thread.

I'm actually wondering if any woman on here _doesn't_ feel sufficiently special to only meet the men she most wants to meet.

People can look for exactly what they want, even if they'll rarely, if ever, find it. That's their issue and theirs alone."

I'm not arguing

I don't see why your getting so shitty

Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Now cheer up

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance"

Irony.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

...but then perhaps I was being deliberately provocative because having seen your previous posts, I knew you'd probably misinterpret what I said in order to get on your high horse...

Do you look at the light hearted stuff?

Or choose just to look at the negative stuff

Kick someone off their high horse and jump on yourself???

Whatever they looked at they were right and you did get on your high horse.

Why does it matter if someone does think they are special? Not that looking for someone who stands out to them suggests they are.

You clearly think you are special in that you think you can decide what other people should be looking for. How does that work exactly?

Are you part of the bringing women down a peg or two police? Or maybe the unrealistic expectations police? Do they work from the same station as the grammar police?

If you perceive that someone thinks they are special and that makes you not want to meet them, let them get on with it and be happy they probably wouldn't want to meet you either.

I've just started to read your profile

Gave up

I can see why you got so upset now

I've only asked questions here

Opinions and points of view

You choose to get irate

That's upto you

I'm smiling "

I'm not irate at all.

As for my profile, it states what I'm looking for. If someone can't be arsed to spend a minute or two reading it, they aren't really that interested in meeting me. In that way I start to filter out those unexceptional to me.

If they don't care what I'm looking for or won't respect my preferences, they won't respect me. More filtering.

It works pretty well. And I'm offered a fair bit of champagne. But then, whatever anyone else thinks, (usually without knowing me at all), I am worthy of holding out for champagne, if that's what I decide I want.

There's not a single person with the right to tell me who I should or shouldn't share my body with. And if there were, it wouldn't be a stranger on the internet.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony."

Enough to make a scrap man salivate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony."

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

For me it has to be someone who can spell check their forum post titles

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony.

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????"

As well as you know the women you're calling arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony.

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????

As well as you know the women you're calling arrogant."

Please forward me the part where I called her arrogant

Please please please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's one of those words you see on some profiles......exceptional / professional & the Sydney Uni bollox

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony.

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????

As well as you know the women you're calling arrogant.

Please forward me the part where I called her arrogant

Please please please "

Raise your eyes a smidge to the part of your post I quoted where you said that a woman wanting an exceptional male smacks of arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony.

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????

As well as you know the women you're calling arrogant.

Please forward me the part where I called her arrogant

Please please please

Raise your eyes a smidge to the part of your post I quoted where you said that a woman wanting an exceptional male smacks of arrogance."

So I didn't actually call anyone arrogant

Generalisation and 'smacks of'

You see what you want to see

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

She doesn't have to be though, its what shes looking for.

So champagne taste with beer money

Take it or leave it. If its not what you really want go without.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony.

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????

As well as you know the women you're calling arrogant.

Please forward me the part where I called her arrogant

Please please please

Raise your eyes a smidge to the part of your post I quoted where you said that a woman wanting an exceptional male smacks of arrogance.

So I didn't actually call anyone arrogant

Generalisation and 'smacks of'

You see what you want to see "

And when I stated your post was ironic, you were the one who thought I was calling you arrogant.

You see what you want to see indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony.

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????

As well as you know the women you're calling arrogant.

Please forward me the part where I called her arrogant

Please please please

Raise your eyes a smidge to the part of your post I quoted where you said that a woman wanting an exceptional male smacks of arrogance.

So I didn't actually call anyone arrogant

Generalisation and 'smacks of'

You see what you want to see

And when I stated your post was ironic, you were the one who thought I was calling you arrogant.

You see what you want to see indeed."

Weren't you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a normal kinky Dom. I think they must be expectational because I can't find one. Maybe I should advertise x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony.

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????

As well as you know the women you're calling arrogant.

Please forward me the part where I called her arrogant

Please please please

Raise your eyes a smidge to the part of your post I quoted where you said that a woman wanting an exceptional male smacks of arrogance.

So I didn't actually call anyone arrogant

Generalisation and 'smacks of'

You see what you want to see

And when I stated your post was ironic, you were the one who thought I was calling you arrogant.

You see what you want to see indeed."

x 1 meeeeellion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like a normal kinky Dom. I think they must be expectational because I can't find one. Maybe I should advertise x"

I can play the spoons !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a normal kinky Dom. I think they must be expectational because I can't find one. Maybe I should advertise x

I can play the spoons !!!!"

Ooh you spoon exceptionally?? If not you won't be for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course it's about choice

But you can be specific in your choice without demanding 'exceptional'

Smacks of arrogance

Irony.

Really hope your not saying I'm arrogant

Coz you know me well don't you ????

As well as you know the women you're calling arrogant.

Please forward me the part where I called her arrogant

Please please please

Raise your eyes a smidge to the part of your post I quoted where you said that a woman wanting an exceptional male smacks of arrogance.

So I didn't actually call anyone arrogant

Generalisation and 'smacks of'

You see what you want to see

And when I stated your post was ironic, you were the one who thought I was calling you arrogant.

You see what you want to see indeed.

x 1 meeeeellion."

Fancy a shag

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

"Good physique, intelligent, charismatic, handsome, good sized penis, experienced in bed, generally finesse and style.

Rules out about 95% of men.The gym is my 2nd home

The library should be your second home and the gym your third home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chances are the female isn't interested or so boring she needs the fella to do all the 'work'.

They normally have the Sydney University thing attached too.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Good physique, intelligent, charismatic, handsome, good sized penis, experienced in bed, generally finesse and style.

Rules out about 95% of men.The gym is my 2nd home

Mine too, but like one that i rent out and never actually go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does make you laugh the exceptional male craic. The reason in my opinion, is because sex is the the commodity on this site and women rule the roost so some think they are suddenly superstars. The reality is that the ones that are so far up themselves are the most insecure and try to compensate for that by thinking they are desirable to the 'exceptional male'.

For me it's purely an ego thing rather than the attraction. I've found that also as a man on here, success is a combination of opportunity, timing and mindset of the female. If one of those things is off you've got little to no chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It does make you laugh the exceptional male craic. The reason in my opinion, is because sex is the the commodity on this site and women rule the roost so some think they are suddenly superstars. The reality is that the ones that are so far up themselves are the most insecure and try to compensate for that by thinking they are desirable to the 'exceptional male'.

Now you see

I'm on board with this completely

Now I'm curious to see if this gets the kind of 'string him up by the bollocks' reaction I got last night

Possibly not

Well said that man

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If this thread teaches anyone anything it is further evidence of the folly of giving people a keyboard to hide behind and allowing them to post whatever bullshit they can think up without having any comeback from whatever utterly reprehensible childish shite they dream up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If this thread teaches anyone anything it is further evidence of the folly of giving people a keyboard to hide behind and allowing them to post whatever bullshit they can think up without having any comeback from whatever utterly reprehensible childish shite they dream up.

Or it's a giggle

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

And yet plenty of people, many of them men, have "quality over quantity" or "I'm not looking to shag the whole site", which are expressing exactly the same sentiment and there's no bitching about that at all.

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

Men who aren't bitter misogynists who think that just being here, slapping their cock out and sending "wanna fuck" messages will get them meets are pretty fucking rare on this site so maybe that's what these uppity women mean by exceptional.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

That the irony of men being so arrogant they think women should be falling over themselves to meet them, and get bitter (and uppity) when they're declined, painting those women as arrogant is both hysterical and very wearing.

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

If you're so full of yourself that you think you can decree that your opinion of someone is the one true opinion and that you can decide who that person is "worthy" of meeting, you are the one with ego and self-importance issues.

Get over yourselves already.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a trap!"

Can we have a vote for fab to make an admiral ackbar emoticon?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think this needs to end now

It was supposed to be a question

But it kinda turned into something else.

Whilst by definition the exceptional is what it is.

Most people ask for what they are seeking and we all must respect that

I know I do

Let's be friends

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I think this needs to end now

It was supposed to be a question

But it kinda turned into something else.

Whilst by definition the exceptional is what it is.

Most people ask for what they are seeking and we all must respect that

I know I do

Let's be friends "

Any yet you continued it with the comment about being on board with another insulting criticism of women being picky and saying well said that man.

We can agree to disagree, of course, but I'm going to continue to react badly to posts insulting women for only wanting to meet the men who appeal most to them.

It's not like men don't do this whenever they get the chance. I give you Mr. Hefner and Mr. Stringfellow as examples. The male reaction to that is "good on him" and "lucky bastard", not insults and accusations of them being up themselves for not sticking to women those men think are Mr. Stringfellow's and Mr. Hefner's equals in terms of looks.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Why wouldn't some men think they are exceptional though, quite a few of them think they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so what makes you so special that you can make such demands ?

...but then perhaps I was being deliberately provocative because having seen your previous posts, I knew you'd probably misinterpret what I said in order to get on your high horse...

Do you look at the light hearted stuff?

Or choose just to look at the negative stuff

Kick someone off their high horse and jump on yourself???

Whatever they looked at they were right and you did get on your high horse.

Why does it matter if someone does think they are special? Not that looking for someone who stands out to them suggests they are.

You clearly think you are special in that you think you can decide what other people should be looking for. How does that work exactly?

Are you part of the bringing women down a peg or two police? Or maybe the unrealistic expectations police? Do they work from the same station as the grammar police?

If you perceive that someone thinks they are special and that makes you not want to meet them, let them get on with it and be happy they probably wouldn't want to meet you either."
This x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"And yet plenty of people, many of them men, have "quality over quantity" or "I'm not looking to shag the whole site", which are expressing exactly the same sentiment and there's no bitching about that at all.

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already."
It is kind of double standards though, I imagine if someone is an exceptional male they would only play with ladies there attracted to as they would have high standards. This site gives a lot of women a false sense of worth even if they do hold all the cards because meeting nsa compared to dating is vastly different. A quote springs to mind ' your ego is trying to write cheques that your body can't cash'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think this needs to end now

It was supposed to be a question

But it kinda turned into something else.

Whilst by definition the exceptional is what it is.

Most people ask for what they are seeking and we all must respect that

I know I do

Let's be friends

Any yet you continued it with the comment about being on board with another insulting criticism of women being picky and saying well said that man.

We can agree to disagree, of course, but I'm going to continue to react badly to posts insulting women for only wanting to meet the men who appeal most to them.

I give up

Your not listening to anyone but the people who agree with you

It's a debate

A discussion

Points of view

I'm not right

It's how I feel

I've tried to make peace

I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are exceptional idiots."
and few exceptionally lush couples...just saying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

They are usually written by the deluded or the confused. whenever I see this on a profile I allways send them a polite message asking them what makes them exceptional, I havent had many suitable replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't agree more, spot on

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

You can't blame them though if they can get what they want, just find it amusing when they get too carried away that's all. Already been deemed 'fab-itis'

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

That last paragraph pretty much sums up your ego then!!!!! She met you and she decided she didn't want to shag you ....and you think the problem is hers??? Lol!!!! I think the problem is most definately yours !!!! You are the one left with the redundant stiffy! !!

))))

Maybe....just maybe if she isn't willing to shag you...it's because she doesn't fancy you? Doesn't like you? Thinks you are a dick? ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

))))

Maybe....just maybe if she isn't willing to shag you...it's because she doesn't fancy you? Doesn't like you? Thinks you are a dick? ????

Do you have a sense of humour??

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

))))

Maybe....just maybe if she isn't willing to shag you...it's because she doesn't fancy you? Doesn't like you? Thinks you are a dick? ????

"
I think he was saying that tongue in cheek being sarcastic an not literal

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I don't think there is anything wrong with believing I am exceptional. I have high standards and I know what I like. It's about healthy self esteem. Not to be confused with arrogant egotists! Some days I don't feel so confident like most people. I am human. But overall I believe I am worth the effort and time to get to know me.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

))))

Maybe....just maybe if she isn't willing to shag you...it's because she doesn't fancy you? Doesn't like you? Thinks you are a dick? ????

I think he was saying that tongue in cheek being sarcastic an not literal

You think??? Lol.... ah no.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

))))

Maybe....just maybe if she isn't willing to shag you...it's because she doesn't fancy you? Doesn't like you? Thinks you are a dick? ????

Do you have a sense of humour??"

None whatsoever! !!

You don't read my stuff much do you! Most know I am a joker!!!

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already.

It is kind of double standards though, I imagine if someone is an exceptional male they would only play with ladies there attracted to as they would have high standards. This site gives a lot of women a false sense of worth even if they do hold all the cards because meeting nsa compared to dating is vastly different. A quote springs to mind ' your ego is trying to write cheques that your body can't cash'."

You are, as most men do, assume that exceptional refers to looks.

It doesn't. Women can find men exceptional for lots of different reasons.

It's exactly the same as "quality over quantity" which loads of men write. I've not seen a man criticised or told he thinks too much for himself for saying it though.

Women are here, usually, for something particular; something exceptional (whatever exceptional means to them). We can get average in the pub with a damned sight less hassle and abuse than we get here.

We know we'll get fewer meets if we look for what really appeals to us and that we risk having no meets at all, and we accept that.

Nobody has any right to tell anyone they shouldn't be looking for what they want, even if they are panning for gold. And they certainly shouldn't be insulting anyone for it.

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over a year ago

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already. It is kind of double standards though, I imagine if someone is an exceptional male they would only play with ladies there attracted to as they would have high standards. This site gives a lot of women a false sense of worth even if they do hold all the cards because meeting nsa compared to dating is vastly different. A quote springs to mind ' your ego is trying to write cheques that your body can't cash'."
so what? Surely that's their problem, as they wont get any meets

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already.

You are, as most men do, assume that exceptional refers to looks.

It doesn't. Women can find men exceptional for lots of different reasons.

It's exactly the same as "quality over quantity" which loads of men write. I've not seen a man criticised or told he thinks too much for himself for saying it though.

We know we'll get fewer meets if we look for what really appeals to us and that we risk having no meets at all, and we accept that.

Nobody has any right to tell anyone they shouldn't be looking for what they want, even if they are panning for gold. And they certainly shouldn't be insulting anyone for it."
I know what your saying but I think on a sex site aesthetic appearance counts a lot I mean you can be charming motherfucker but if they don't find you attractive it doesn't matter. Like I said fair play if people can get what they want on here you can't blame them, I'm just playing devils advocate I can see why some men get frustrated by so called double standards not myself personally though.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I don't think there is anything wrong with believing I am exceptional. I have high standards and I know what I like. It's about healthy self esteem. Not to be confused with arrogant egotists! Some days I don't feel so confident like most people. I am human. But overall I believe I am worth the effort and time to get to know me. "

^ this!

Yeah, I'm fat and average looking but I have plenty of other things going for me. Some guys appreciate them and some rule me out because the aesthetic factors are more important to them.

I also have low confidence days (or months!) but overall I believe I am worth knowing and meeting. I'm certainly worthy of the right to meet only the guys who stand out to me for whatever reason, (i.e. the exceptional ones). Everyone has that right.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already. It is kind of double standards though, I imagine if someone is an exceptional male they would only play with ladies there attracted to as they would have high standards. This site gives a lot of women a false sense of worth even if they do hold all the cards because meeting nsa compared to dating is vastly different. A quote springs to mind ' your ego is trying to write cheques that your body can't cash'. so what? Surely that's their problem, as they wont get any meets"
I know doesn't it bother me man as my standards are quite high. Just like seeing the big picture from all perspectives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth is one of those?

I've seen many a lady need one.

Not sure what baffles me more

The request or the guy reading it thinking 'yes I'm exceptional I must message her'

I always think if she isn't willing to shag me. God help the next guy

))))

Maybe....just maybe if she isn't willing to shag you...it's because she doesn't fancy you? Doesn't like you? Thinks you are a dick? ????

Do you have a sense of humour??

None whatsoever! !!

You don't read my stuff much do you! Most know I am a joker!!!"

Hilarious

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

^ this!

Yeah, I'm fat and average looking but I have plenty of other things going for me. Some guys appreciate them and some rule me out because the aesthetic factors are more important to them.

Totally!!!!! However despite popular myth that guys prefer slim petite women like me, I have found a large percentage prefer the more curvaceous ladies.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already.

You are, as most men do, assume that exceptional refers to looks.

It doesn't. Women can find men exceptional for lots of different reasons.

It's exactly the same as "quality over quantity" which loads of men write. I've not seen a man criticised or told he thinks too much for himself for saying it though.

We know we'll get fewer meets if we look for what really appeals to us and that we risk having no meets at all, and we accept that.

Nobody has any right to tell anyone they shouldn't be looking for what they want, even if they are panning for gold. And they certainly shouldn't be insulting anyone for it. I know what your saying but I think on a sex site aesthetic appearance counts a lot I mean you can be charming motherfucker but if they don't find you attractive it doesn't matter. Like I said fair play if people can get what they want on here you can't blame them, I'm just playing devils advocate I can see why some men get frustrated by so called double standards not myself personally though. "

Yes aestetics count but they aren't all there is to it.

I'm here looking for guys I click with on a mental level. Sure, if they look like male models that's great but I'd rather have an average bloke who I click with than a male model I don't.

Because you think it's all about aestetics doesn't mean everyone thinks the same way.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean exceptional in terms of looks. It might, but it doesn't have to. In my case it doesn't.

To a guy into strap-on play a woman who enjoys strap-on play might be exceptional, because they share his kink. The same goes for someone into watersports or any other kink. To a crossdresser a woman who enjoys and supports his crossdressing would be exceptional.

To me, aestetics are important but they are not the most important factor.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs."

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

To say that we don't have the right to say one thing or another is a dangerous slide towards fascism and fundamentalism. Let's not make that mistake just because someone said something we didn't like reading.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already. It is kind of double standards though, I imagine if someone is an exceptional male they would only play with ladies there attracted to as they would have high standards. This site gives a lot of women a false sense of worth even if they do hold all the cards because meeting nsa compared to dating is vastly different. A quote springs to mind ' your ego is trying to write cheques that your body can't cash'. so what? Surely that's their problem, as they wont get any meets I know doesn't it bother me man as my standards are quite high. Just like seeing the big picture from all perspectives."

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Beautifully put

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Hahaha complaints of misandry on a thread full of misogyny from bitchy, entitled men! Hilarious!

And no, nobody has a right to tell other people what they should be looking for or who they should be allowed to meet.

A lot of men take it as read that they have a right to be straight (which the obviously do) because they aren't attracted to other men but woe betide a woman who has any sort of preference that might exclude them!

The degree of snivelling and malicious whining from men not getting their own way on here is incredible.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Beautifully put "

Ah yes, I can see just how you're trying to end this and make peace!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Obviously a woman who only wants to shag the very few men who really appeal to her is arrogant and up herself. How very dare she not fuck anyone and everyone who asks.

Exceptional doesn't necessarily mean male model material, it just means rare. It doesn't have to mean gorgeous. What each person finds exceptional will be an individual thing.

The degree of entitlement of a lot of men, particularly on the fora, is astounding. Big shock, women are here for what we want, not to service you!

Most of you need to realise that you also aren't quite as wonderful as you think and the women you're bitching about have every right to turn you down.

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

Get over yourselves already. It is kind of double standards though, I imagine if someone is an exceptional male they would only play with ladies there attracted to as they would have high standards. This site gives a lot of women a false sense of worth even if they do hold all the cards because meeting nsa compared to dating is vastly different. A quote springs to mind ' your ego is trying to write cheques that your body can't cash'. so what? Surely that's their problem, as they wont get any meets I know doesn't it bother me man as my standards are quite high. Just like seeing the big picture from all perspectives.

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same."
no I don't believe that at all I think exceptional is having more qualities than that such as being a gentleman, charming, having good social skills, intelligence and the list could go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Hahaha complaints of misandry on a thread full of misogyny from bitchy, entitled men! Hilarious!

And no, nobody has a right to tell other people what they should be looking for or who they should be allowed to meet.

The degree of snivelling and malicious whining from men not getting their own way on here is incredible."

Why do you come on here??

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Beautifully put

Ah yes, I can see just how you're trying to end this and make peace!

I gave up when you shoved it back in my face

Lots of people don't agree with you

Give up

Life's too short

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same."

This is important and is quite right.

The meaning of exceptional differs from person to person and those who have made up meanings which they don't like generally have done so in a manner to satisfy their own insecurities and reassure themselves that those people are worse than they are. Both men and women are guilty of this so the sexist ramblings of the antagonists in this thread of both sexes is irrelevant. Exceptional is basically useless apart from to signal that the author thinks the person they are willing to accept is in the vast minority amongst the audience they are writing to. Anything else added to that meaning seems generally to have been added by the paranoia of the reader. Whatever sex they are.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Hahaha complaints of misandry on a thread full of misogyny from bitchy, entitled men! Hilarious!

And no, nobody has a right to tell other people what they should be looking for or who they should be allowed to meet.

The degree of snivelling and malicious whining from men not getting their own way on here is incredible."

I have had nothing to do with any of the pathetic ranting and you also don't know what sex I am as this is a couple's profile. So don't bother trying to cast gender stereotypes in favour of your argument. As you can see I have just posted a comment in favour of something you said so whilst I understand that you are somewhat angry and you are sniping at anyone who disagrees with you or supports something someone you don't like has said, but don't bother suggesting that because some people are sexist against women that sexism against men should be condoned. That is hypocrisy of the most boring and pathetic order and does not do anything to stop sexism. All comments like that do are make sexism more rife by giving braindead idiots an excuse to have a dig,

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Beautifully put

Ah yes, I can see just how you're trying to end this and make peace!

I gave up when you shoved it back in my face

Lots of people don't agree with you

Give up

Life's too short "

And plenty don't agree with you too.

Give up you say, as you continue to perpetuate it?

As for resorting to being rude because you aren't getting your own way, (and as you well know I don't mean on this thread), it fits very well with your attitude and that of those you're agreeing with so I'm not in the least surprised by it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Beautifully put

Ah yes, I can see just how you're trying to end this and make peace!

I gave up when you shoved it back in my face

Lots of people don't agree with you

Give up

Life's too short

And plenty don't agree with you too.

Give up you say, as you continue to perpetuate it?

I think I've found ' the one'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Beautifully put

Ah yes, I can see just how you're trying to end this and make peace!

I gave up when you shoved it back in my face

Lots of people don't agree with you

Give up

Life's too short

And plenty don't agree with you too.

Give up you say, as you continue to perpetuate it?

So,why do you come on here, you don't come across as a being happy

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

This is important and is quite right.

Exactly. It's the same as quality over quantity. It means they're looking for a few great meets. There's nothing wrong with that.

The sexism comes in because it's only women who are criticised and insulted for it. The OP itself is specifically about women.

Everyone has the right to be "picky", male or female.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

And no, nobody has a right to tell other people what they should be looking for or who they should be allowed to meet.

So you would ban certain speech or have people punished for speaking in ways you disagree with?

That is pretty fucking mental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

This is important and is quite right.

Exactly. It's the same as quality over quantity. It means they're looking for a few great meets. There's nothing wrong with that.

The sexism comes in because it's only women who are criticised and insulted for it. The OP itself is specifically about women.

Everyone has the right to be "picky", male or female."

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Beautifully put

Ah yes, I can see just how you're trying to end this and make peace!

I gave up when you shoved it back in my face

Lots of people don't agree with you

Give up

Life's too short

And plenty don't agree with you too.

Give up you say, as you continue to perpetuate it?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

This is important and is quite right.

Exactly. It's the same as quality over quantity. It means they're looking for a few great meets. There's nothing wrong with that.

The sexism comes in because it's only women who are criticised and insulted for it. The OP itself is specifically about women.

Everyone has the right to be "picky", male or female."

It is not ONLY women who are criticised. Men are subjected to constant criticism on this and a wide range of different topics. You may choose to overlook this but that is a reflection on your personal bias as opposed to reality.

Everyone has a right to be picky. Yes. But everyone has a right to criticise everyone else, and to be criticised in turn. You do not ban or prevent people from speaking. You argue with them if you disagree.

Otherwise we start to get into really really bad territory with banning free speech. That is not somewhere we want to go. Even if it does suit you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Beautifully put

Ah yes, I can see just how you're trying to end this and make peace!

I gave up when you shoved it back in my face

Lots of people don't agree with you

Give up

Life's too short

And plenty don't agree with you too.

Give up you say, as you continue to perpetuate it?

So,why do you come on here, you don't come across as a being happy "

The site? Because I get great meets with some amazing people.

The fora? I frequently leave for long periods of time. I've been back for a few days following weeks away.

I'm perfectly happy, thanks, I just dislike seeing people bitching about others and I'll often react to it.

Don't mistake strong opinions for unhappiness.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

This is important and is quite right.

Exactly. It's the same as quality over quantity. It means they're looking for a few great meets. There's nothing wrong with that.

The sexism comes in because it's only women who are criticised and insulted for it. The OP itself is specifically about women.

Everyone has the right to be "picky", male or female.

Otherwise we start to get into really really bad territory with banning free speech. That is not somewhere we want to go. Even if it does suit you."
true again I think I wouldn't be allowed to post on here again if that happens

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/forum

Sorry, really pedantic I know, but it is doing my tits in.

Fora are buildings. Forums are what we are using now.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

This is important and is quite right.

Exactly. It's the same as quality over quantity. It means they're looking for a few great meets. There's nothing wrong with that.

The sexism comes in because it's only women who are criticised and insulted for it. The OP itself is specifically about women.

Everyone has the right to be "picky", male or female.

Otherwise we start to get into really really bad territory with banning free speech. That is not somewhere we want to go. Even if it does suit you."

On this thread as well as many others, only women are being criticised for being picky.

I don't recall a thread criticising men for turning people down or for saying quality over quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done guys you have sussed out the arrogant women and thanks for the laugh

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

This is important and is quite right.

Exactly. It's the same as quality over quantity. It means they're looking for a few great meets. There's nothing wrong with that.

The sexism comes in because it's only women who are criticised and insulted for it. The OP itself is specifically about women.

Everyone has the right to be "picky", male or female.

Otherwise we start to get into really really bad territory with banning free speech. That is not somewhere we want to go. Even if it does suit you.

On this thread as well as many others, only women are being criticised for being picky.

I don't recall a thread criticising men for turning people down or for saying quality over quantity."

Yes, and on many many other threads men are being similarly criticised.

Just because this thread is one sided (to an extent) does not mean that it is all one sided.

Women are criticised for a variety of things which are not justifiable and men are criticised for a variety of other things which are not justifiable.

This site is full of sexist pricks, male and female.

Of course women can be picky. Everyone can be. The op was not about them being picky, it was about them being, in the eyes of the OP arrogant and haughty.

Agree or disagree all you want, on this i think we are close to agreement, but you cannot sit and spit your dummy and claim that it is all a horrid conspiracy against women. That fails entirely to show any perspective whatsoever.

These forums are full of keyboard warrior tossers. What do you expect?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

None of you have any right to criticise what anyone else is looking for. You have your preferences, they have theirs.

I have no comment to make on the thinly veiled mysandry which makes up much of the rest of your post but the above needs to be discussed.

Everyone has the right to criticise other people's thoughts, preferences and opinions. That is the most basic right we all have.

We also have, then, to accept that other people will criticise and disagree with our thoughts etc. And we have to be grown up enough to take that criticism in return.

Hahaha complaints of misandry on a thread full of misogyny from bitchy, entitled men! Hilarious!

And no, nobody has a right to tell other people what they should be looking for or who they should be allowed to meet.

The degree of snivelling and malicious whining from men not getting their own way on here is incredible.

Nothing I've said has anything to do with your sex. It's irrelevant.

I found it funny to be accused of misandry on a thread absolutely dripping with misogyny.

Incidentally, I disagree with your claim of misandry. This entire thread started with an observation about women by a man, and was followed by insulting comments about women from men. That's where the gender bias if my comments comes from because I am replying to a thread that was gender biased from the start.

I believe everyone has the same right to their own preferences and to be picky.

I'd say the same to any woman accusing a man of being arrogant for turning them down or for having preferences. Oddly though threads complaining men are picky and unrealistic are rare.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

This is important and is quite right.

Exactly. It's the same as quality over quantity. It means they're looking for a few great meets. There's nothing wrong with that.

The sexism comes in because it's only women who are criticised and insulted for it. The OP itself is specifically about women.

Everyone has the right to be "picky", male or female.

Otherwise we start to get into really really bad territory with banning free speech. That is not somewhere we want to go. Even if it does suit you. true again I think I wouldn't be allowed to post on here again if that happens

Given some of the shite you speak, you would probably be in the jail.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/forum

Sorry, really pedantic I know, but it is doing my tits in.

Fora are buildings. Forums are what we are using now."

I disagree with you on that too but I'm not arguing that one on here. I'll stick to arguing on the topic of the thread.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

You aren't though. You're stuck in the idea that exceptional means good looking with a great body.

It may be all about aestetics to you but not everybody is the same.

This is important and is quite right.

Exactly. It's the same as quality over quantity. It means they're looking for a few great meets. There's nothing wrong with that.

The sexism comes in because it's only women who are criticised and insulted for it. The OP itself is specifically about women.

Everyone has the right to be "picky", male or female.

Given some of the shite you speak, you would probably be in the jail."
another 1 doesn't appreciate my honesty

Ill have you know I'm a law abiding citizen