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Are the forums a good place to get a meet?

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Are the forums a good place to get a meet? I have never used them that way because compared to the number of profiles, only a very small percentage actually use the forums, and they are spread all over the country.

Often people post threads trying to get a meet, and are then frustrated when it doesn't work, so would you ever try?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never try, purely because as a single man I would be overlooked and dismissed as a fake/tease/time waster... etc etc.

A meet require that personal touch and some effort to make the man/woman/couple/tvts feel as though they are wanted.

Pete X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few from the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more responses from forum ads to what I've had message replies

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I have met a few from here - I have become good friends with lovely lady Spanish B and I chat online as friends to others.

I also have a meet planned with a VERY delicious forumite next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are the forums a good place to get a meet? I have never used them that way because compared to the number of profiles, only a very small percentage actually use the forums, and they are spread all over the country.

Often people post threads trying to get a meet, and are then frustrated when it doesn't work, so would you ever try? "
...you've answered you're own question?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are a good place to make friends and then you can meet of the feeling takes you.

Don't focus on the meet and focus on just talking to people and you never know what can happen.

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

a lot of people openly admit they only come on here for the banter and don't actually meet. It's a way of passing time to some. Make that most actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work in progress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never considered a meet from the forums- just use it to express our opinions or have a laugh really but I can see your point as you can get to know a person through the forums

Having said that it's not been that long since we have started getting addicted to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met a few people through the forums, great way to make friends and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a lot of people openly admit they only come on here for the banter and don't actually meet. It's a way of passing time to some. Make that most actually "

I don't agree that it's most.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I met jack on the forums so they can be.Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I've met a few people from the forums, mostly (though not always) for social meets and I like that because most of my friends are in the US. But would I ever use it for the express purpose of getting a meet? No. I think the meet forum is not the best way of arranging private meets and the rest of the forums are more for chatting than anything else.

But if someone catches my eye, you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through the forum I have met some awesome people I would never have come across on here otherwise.

It's a bit more effort than fab locally but ultimately more rewarding in my experience.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

For me, yes. The only way in fact as it turns out. Not that I come on here for that sole purpose. These things just seem to happen by chance.

The chilled out, fun atmosphere of the forums can make it easier to develop some kind of rapport with someone. It just gives you the time and space to be able to get your personality across. This can be useful for some of us. Though it's not that contrived of course. Some are here purely for the banter.

The messaging a random woman, flobbing your cock out and shouting "fancy a fuck?" method just doesn't work for some of us.

I'm very thankful for the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met people from the forums but only for socials...

However, the forums are also great filters to show me who I would not meet either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are the forums a good place to get a meet? I have never used them that way because compared to the number of profiles, only a very small percentage actually use the forums, and they are spread all over the country.

Often people post threads trying to get a meet, and are then frustrated when it doesn't work, so would you ever try? "

We've never tried as such , but have met a few as a direct result of the forum .

We also hope to meet a few more as time goes by ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I've only ever a met a couple of rare contributors to the forum. And that's the way i like it.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Mmm don't do hunting grounds, however I like fun grounds that develop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet via the forums now as I can get a better idea of their personality with reading their responses here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're gonna start using the forums from now. Most of the profiles are fake

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Are the forums a good place to get a meet? I have never used them that way because compared to the number of profiles, only a very small percentage actually use the forums, and they are spread all over the country.

Often people post threads trying to get a meet, and are then frustrated when it doesn't work, so would you ever try? "

Good god no, we are all bloody awful here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I only go on them to read the views and put my view in!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Met a couple of regular forum ladies at clubs but not arranged meets all attractive lovely ladies. There is some I would like to meet but distance etc prevents. I imagine for women the forum wouldn't be good because it is usually the desperate men who cant get meets try using the forums as a tool. A lot of them unverified, looking for attention and whinging looking for a pity fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to just be yourself and have a laugh in the forums. Worst that can happen is someone notices you who might not have otherwise. Best that can happen is they get in touch...

I've not tried advertising for meets in the forums though, that just seems a little tacky and spammy? Saying that I'll probably be doing it by next week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my very favourite meet ups have been as a result of forum flirtations.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Met a couple of regular forum ladies at clubs but not arranged meets all attractive lovely ladies. There is some I would like to meet but distance etc prevents. I imagine for women the forum wouldn't be good because it is usually the desperate men who cant get meets try using the forums as a tool. A lot of them unverified, looking for attention and whinging looking for a pity fuck "

Ouch!! Say it like it is boy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But would I ever use it for the express purpose of getting a meet? No."

We were promised a hot tub and 5 books.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've met a few from the forums and had a great time. More often than not most people are miles away from me However there is one chap who is local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet from the forums, virtually exclusively. Happily none of mine have been pity fucks and I'm doing great without the need for desperation or whinging thanks for the concern

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

You don't no what you missing till you there it x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Met a couple of regular forum ladies at clubs but not arranged meets all attractive lovely ladies. There is some I would like to meet but distance etc prevents. I imagine for women the forum wouldn't be good because it is usually the desperate men who cant get meets try using the forums as a tool. A lot of them unverified, looking for attention and whinging looking for a pity fuck

Ouch!! Say it like it is boy! "
I always tell it like it is best way at least people know where they stand with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't really use fab for meets. I just use the forum, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But would I ever use it for the express purpose of getting a meet? No.

We were promised a hot tub and 5 books. "

I make exceptions

And we get 5 books each!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just on to chat and make friends. If a meet comes out of it, its a bonus. But not the be all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never got a meet off the forums, clubs are your best bet of fun xx

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I've met someone in the past off the dating thread and also met some forumites at a local club. I find the threads good fun and interesting. If you get a meet from it, that's just a bonus.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I Have met folk from the forums .. The site has many tools, the forums are one such tool and offer another avenue for me to make connections , if they lead to a meeting fantastic if not they've introduced me to folk I wouldn't have had a chance to acquaint myself with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, most of my meets have been via the forums.

Does that make me the forum hussy

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I do have a couple of guilty pleasures that I would love to get my hands on (they know this too) I dread to think how I come across on the forum especially before having morning coffee lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, no meets. I don't chat to anyone though so my profile is very very very low beneath the radar of men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are, most of my meets are through the forums

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Yes they are, most of my meets are through the forums "

That's because you're a tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they are, most of my meets are through the forums

That's because you're a tart "

Or a bullshitter

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Yes they are, most of my meets are through the forums

That's because you're a tart

Or a bullshitter "

I was trying to be nice geekboy

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have had some lovely meets with a few forumites in the past, the best thing about it was I already had some idea of their personality so it was like meeting a friend you hadn't seen for a long time

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