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"I totally get that but my point is why lie about your age as obviously some do" And if they are lieing about the age what else they lieing about | |||
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"And if they are lieing about the age what else they lieing about " Precisely! True, you don't have to put every single detail of your life out there to Swing, but we may as well be honest! -JD | |||
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"I know a few people with a 'Fab Age', it absolutely never occurred to me to fib. One of the common things on Planet Fab that confuddles me regularly, I just don't see the point " As a way of getting around filters and being able to message. I know of several forum users who have dropped their age considerably | |||
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"I know a few people with a 'Fab Age', it absolutely never occurred to me to fib. One of the common things on Planet Fab that confuddles me regularly, I just don't see the point " Confuddles That's my word of the day, thank you | |||
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"I know a few people with a 'Fab Age', it absolutely never occurred to me to fib. One of the common things on Planet Fab that confuddles me regularly, I just don't see the point As a way of getting around filters and being able to message. I know of several forum users who have dropped their age considerably " These are the ones I mean eg. Had a msg yesterday and he said he was 41 but looked 61 | |||
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"I was once told that if you lie about your age, you should always say you are 5 or so years older. That way, you look younger for your age. That said, I think it's just silly to lie about your age, your weight, or just whatever. If the person is interested in you, how can you pull it off when you meet in person? Lying just gives the other person a horrible first impression. What is the other person going to say? "Wow. I see that you are 6 inches shorter, and about 20 pounds heavier than you said. You're a liar. Want to shag?" -JD" | |||
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"End of the day it comes down to attraction not age. If you don't like the pics then there is no obligation to meet heck there is never an obligation " | |||
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"I reckon alot of younger guys lie about there age to get around alot of peoples age restictions " I think a lot of people lie about a lot of things. Age, height, weight, sexual orientation, all for the purpose of keeping their chances of meeting higher. Personally I can't see the point in it as you can't hide once you meet | |||
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"Sometimes when we get msgs and the profile says it's a 41yr old person and you see their pic- I think either they've had a very tough life or they are not 41!!! Anyone else had the same thoughts?" A lot of people lie about everything on here. Hence a picture paints a thousand words and you decide for yourself if they had a hard paper round or stretching the limits of "curvy". | |||
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"Yes people don't believe my wife really is 70" It has to be said, your wife looks incredible for her age! An amazing figure! Whatever she is taking, we all want some! Lol | |||
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"Sometimes when we get msgs and the profile says it's a 41yr old person and you see their pic- I think either they've had a very tough life or they are not 41!!! Anyone else had the same thoughts?" yes....they have their real age and then they have their 'fab' age... obviously never a good idea to use if you are a BOBFOC and no matter how much you squint you just cannot imagine them ever looking that young | |||
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"I totally get that but my point is why lie about your age as obviously some do And if they are lieing about the age what else they lieing about " Being able to spell?? | |||
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"Sometimes when we get msgs and the profile says it's a 41yr old person and you see their pic- I think either they've had a very tough life or they are not 41!!! Anyone else had the same thoughts?" i am very proud of being 55 I am fit healthy and can still go the distance | |||
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"Sometimes when we get msgs and the profile says it's a 41yr old person and you see their pic- I think either they've had a very tough life or they are not 41!!! Anyone else had the same thoughts?" Funny I always get that, you can't be that age, you look much older. | |||
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"I am dreading my 50th birthday because somehow I feel that no matter what I will look like, people will look at my age and won't bother further. That's why it will be better to meet in clubs and parties because guys my age generally want younger women and younger guys want cougars (which isn't my thing).." You have nothing to worry about the white knights will always hunt you down at any age... But to get better quality meets .. Just stop looking for exceptional males | |||
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"I am dreading my 50th birthday because somehow I feel that no matter what I will look like, people will look at my age and won't bother further. That's why it will be better to meet in clubs and parties because guys my age generally want younger women and younger guys want cougars (which isn't my thing).. You have nothing to worry about the white knights will always hunt you down at any age... But to get better quality meets .. Just stop looking for exceptional males " this guy is good | |||
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"Well said! I think most guys under 50 are probably honest but I have lost count of the guys I have met supposedly in their early 50s who look as if they have had their free bus pass for years.... It happens all the time" Like the famous 49 year old swinger here ? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3537635/Accountant-sues-organisers-sex-festival-bar-entry-didn-t-references-swingers.html | |||
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"And if they are lieing about the age what else they lieing about Precisely! True, you don't have to put every single detail of your life out there to Swing, but we may as well be honest! -JD" Why? I really do look younger than my age due to my sweet life | |||
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"Well said! I think most guys under 50 are probably honest but I have lost count of the guys I have met supposedly in their early 50s who look as if they have had their free bus pass for years.... It happens all the time Like the famous 49 year old swinger here ? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3537635/Accountant-sues-organisers-sex-festival-bar-entry-didn-t-references-swingers.html" 49 my armpit! | |||
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"I've been here for 7 years and when I first joined some men were older than me, now they are younger can the age fairy please visit me " Im sure there's a few magic wands you could use | |||
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"I totally get that but my point is why lie about your age as obviously some do" We don't , and to be fair we aren't bothered too much by those who do . If they turn up and look nothing like they did in their pics we just say no | |||
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"Am 44 years young so lol and people say I look about 37 of which am glad I look younger then my real age of 44...." Really | |||
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"Am 44 years young so lol and people say I look about 37 of which am glad I look younger then my real age of 44.... Really " yes really | |||
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"Am 44 years young so lol and people say I look about 37 of which am glad I look younger then my real age of 44.... Really yes really " Oooooookyyyyy | |||
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"Am 44 years young so lol and people say I look about 37 of which am glad I look younger then my real age of 44.... Really yes really Oooooookyyyyy " lol yesssssssss | |||
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"Am 44 years young so lol and people say I look about 37 of which am glad I look younger then my real age of 44.... Really yes really Oooooookyyyyy lol yesssssssss" Did they owe you money or something lol | |||
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"I know you hear all this guff about how age is just a number (usually spouted by younger men ) but reaching 50 really was not a big deal... but I suppose it helps that I don't and have never looked my age... I could get away with knocking 5 years off but tbh why should I bother " And you look great | |||
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"Am 44 years young so lol and people say I look about 37 of which am glad I look younger then my real age of 44.... Really yes really Oooooookyyyyy lol yesssssssss Yer for my cab ride home lol Did they owe you money or something lol " | |||
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"I know you hear all this guff about how age is just a number (usually spouted by younger men ) but reaching 50 really was not a big deal... but I suppose it helps that I don't and have never looked my age... I could get away with knocking 5 years off but tbh why should I bother " theys no way your 51 you look about 43! | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it" I find it funny that so many people think they look younger than they are. Surely then if that many people look younger then they must just look their age? | |||
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" You don't look a day over 93. " Now he could easily knock 10 years off | |||
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"Loads of people lie about they age " And loads of people tell lies about how old someone looks like | |||
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"Loads of people lie about they age And loads of people tell lies about how old someone looks like " i don't tell lies just being honest I don't have to lie what would I really gain? | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it I find it funny that so many people think they look younger than they are. Surely then if that many people look younger then they must just look their age? " It's just your peer group isn't it? When you're in your 20's and so are your mates anyone in their 40's looks old. When you're that age so are your peers, you can't see the change. Go and ask a 20 year old if you look old... | |||
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"Loads of people lie about they age And loads of people tell lies about how old someone looks like i don't tell lies just being honest I don't have to lie what would I really gain?" Lol not saying you lied,think maybe somebody lied to you hehe | |||
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"Then when people reach a certain age they begin to brag about it... " I'm 76 you know" lol" thats when the happy clapping starts when people start to clap your age | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it I find it funny that so many people think they look younger than they are. Surely then if that many people look younger then they must just look their age? It's just your peer group isn't it? When you're in your 20's and so are your mates anyone in their 40's looks old. When you're that age so are your peers, you can't see the change. Go and ask a 20 year old if you look old..." That's why I hang out with pensioners. | |||
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"Loads of people lie about they age And loads of people tell lies about how old someone looks like i don't tell lies just being honest I don't have to lie what would I really gain? Lol not saying you lied,think maybe somebody lied to you hehe " great pics by the way | |||
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"Well said! I think most guys under 50 are probably honest but I have lost count of the guys I have met supposedly in their early 50s who look as if they have had their free bus pass for years.... It happens all the time Like the famous 49 year old swinger here ? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3537635/Accountant-sues-organisers-sex-festival-bar-entry-didn-t-references-swingers.html" If this guy is 49 , I'm 14 | |||
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"Loads of people lie about they age And loads of people tell lies about how old someone looks like i don't tell lies just being honest I don't have to lie what would I really gain? Lol not saying you lied,think maybe somebody lied to you hehe " | |||
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"I was once told that if you lie about your age, you should always say you are 5 or so years older. That way, you look younger for your age. That said, I think it's just silly to lie about your age, your weight, or just whatever. If the person is interested in you, how can you pull it off when you meet in person? Lying just gives the other person a horrible first impression. What is the other person going to say? "Wow. I see that you are 6 inches shorter, and about 20 pounds heavier than you said. You're a liar. Want to shag?" -JD" Anyone want to meet a 77 yo guy? | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it" why? | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why?" being vain | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain " what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth | |||
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"It was so tempting to lie about my age when I set up my account as I look younger and I am being excluded from some people's search results due to age. Still I am glad that I was honest. Charles Alexander, crown prince of Luxembourg. " No one likes a liar | |||
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"I totally get that but my point is why lie about your age as obviously some do" filters and yes I was just having the same thoughts some must have hard life's | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth " You said it though...."whatever a 51 year old looks like".....who says 51 year olds have wrinkles? My mum doesn't have wrinkles and she's 70 next year. | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth You said it though...."whatever a 51 year old looks like".....who says 51 year olds have wrinkles? My mum doesn't have wrinkles and she's 70 next year. " a lot of my peers do though...but my mum didn't either (right up to her death at 82), so it must be in the genes | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth You said it though...."whatever a 51 year old looks like".....who says 51 year olds have wrinkles? My mum doesn't have wrinkles and she's 70 next year. " | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth You said it though...."whatever a 51 year old looks like".....who says 51 year olds have wrinkles? My mum doesn't have wrinkles and she's 70 next year. a lot of my peers do though...but my mum didn't either (right up to her death at 82), so it must be in the genes" Well i still find it laughable when people claim to look younger than their age because it always makes me ask what someone of their age should look like....where is that model average 20/30/40/50/60 etc year old that we are all supposed to look like? | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth You said it though...."whatever a 51 year old looks like".....who says 51 year olds have wrinkles? My mum doesn't have wrinkles and she's 70 next year. a lot of my peers do though...but my mum didn't either (right up to her death at 82), so it must be in the genes Well i still find it laughable when people claim to look younger than their age because it always makes me ask what someone of their age should look like....where is that model average 20/30/40/50/60 etc year old that we are all supposed to look like?" Oh I don't know, I know I have a preconceived idea of what I think a certain age looks like, whether I'm correct or not is a different matter. I look like a woman in my 40's, do I look like a woman edging 50, maybe to some yes maybe to others no. One game I never play is guess how old I am ~ errrrr no thanks as I'll always be way out! | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth You said it though...."whatever a 51 year old looks like".....who says 51 year olds have wrinkles? My mum doesn't have wrinkles and she's 70 next year. a lot of my peers do though...but my mum didn't either (right up to her death at 82), so it must be in the genes Well i still find it laughable when people claim to look younger than their age because it always makes me ask what someone of their age should look like....where is that model average 20/30/40/50/60 etc year old that we are all supposed to look like? Oh I don't know, I know I have a preconceived idea of what I think a certain age looks like, whether I'm correct or not is a different matter. I look like a woman in my 40's, do I look like a woman edging 50, maybe to some yes maybe to others no. One game I never play is guess how old I am ~ errrrr no thanks as I'll always be way out! " Exactly. I can never guess as i have no idea.....i always think i look like my age because that's the age i am! I guess being one of the older mum's at school helps me | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth " same here - i used to have overly sensitive skin to allsorts so stay away from make-up - im sure over my life time that not covering it and dragging it off at the end of the day (or not as the case may be) has helped | |||
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"I alway's find it funny when people say they could quite easily knock years off and get away with it why? being vain what a load of tosh... I don't look 51, whatever 51 looks like, but I don't hide my wrinkles by slapping loads of make up on ... but that's because I don't have any wrinkles that's not vanity, that's truth same here - i used to have overly sensitive skin to allsorts so stay away from make-up - im sure over my life time that not covering it and dragging it off at the end of the day (or not as the case may be) has helped" A lot is down to genetics too. My mum had amazing skin & I've been lucky enough to have it too. | |||
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"I started off on here year's ago by knocking 10 years off, didn't have any advantage for me. Now I just think, fuck it, nearly 60, if they want me they'll be in touch! " You look very fit for (nearly) 60. Congratulation. | |||
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