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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On our frequent visits to clubs why do so many single guys not seem equiped with condoms? they begin play and when things are really heated up you ask do you have a condom? No is generally the reply... Although we have a supply shouldn't they be taking responsibility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do the clubs not provide them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to all to take responsibility, if you ran out of your stash would you stop playing even if the people you were playing with had some?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

actually one of my biggest gripes as well... one cheeky bloke asked me if i had spare comdoms on 3 seperate visits...

the problem is that some people don't check.. or walk around with the same one on all night.... which is gross beyond belief!!!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


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or walk around with the same one on all night.... which is gross beyond belief!!!"

Yeah gross but what an achievement if they can keep it on all night without it falling off!

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


" or walk around with the same one on all night.... which is gross beyond belief!!!"

Bleughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh thats grossness

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have been asked on a number of times if i have one for him to use. I find it very annoying. If you arent prepared then your not gonna have sex. Simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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or walk around with the same one on all night.... which is gross beyond belief!!!

Yeah gross but what an achievement if they can keep it on all night without it falling off! "

very funny Brian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually one of my biggest gripes as well... one cheeky bloke asked me if i had spare comdoms on 3 seperate visits...

the problem is that some people don't check.. or walk around with the same one on all night.... which is gross beyond belief!!!"

Which makes an even better case for women actually supplying their own rather than expecting the men to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're either chancers or don't have the bottle to go into a shop and buy some.

They probably have a drawer full of combs from their aborted attempts at buying condoms.......even the baldies!

XXXX

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"They're either chancers or don't have the bottle to go into a shop and buy some.

They probably have a drawer full of combs from their aborted attempts at buying condoms.......even the baldies!

XXXX"

Comb-over heaven

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I have been asked on a number of times if i have one for him to use. I find it very annoying. If you arent prepared then your not gonna have sex. Simple really."

spot on its bang out order if you dont cover up you anit going play i have horry story from chams a few weeks ago two guys were playing with a lady in an open room she was giving one head and could not see the other guy asked you have condom on he said yes he didnt and well carried on i was going to step in and say or no but i was on my own ,for me that is just out of order and they were not swingers just scum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Partners they have a machine in the unisex toilets and it is £1 for two, so no rip-off and no excuse not to garb some if you think you might be in luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant believe what im reading!!

Thats so bad!

I guess ive been very lucky so far, ive always taken them with me, both to clubs and private meets, and so far ive never used mine!

I was starting to take it for granted that everyone carried condoms, after reading this i wont now!!!!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can only be chancers in my opinion. Put it this way, can you imagine spending a couple of hours bathing, shaving, moisturising etc, just to "not remember" to bring condoms? Sounds dumb enough, but to do this repeatedly? The fact is they want some bareback fun and when turned down on this score they have to grovel and beg for blobs. Even if they were were to ask for bareback and be turned down, you think they'd have the foresight to bring a stash with them "just in case". In my humble opinion these characters are bell-ends of the highest order....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said mr lick!

x

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"i cant believe what im reading!!

Thats so bad!

I guess ive been very lucky so far, ive always taken them with me, both to clubs and private meets, and so far ive never used mine!

I was starting to take it for granted that everyone carried condoms, after reading this i wont now!!!!

x"

it made me sick and couldnt stop it and i feel for that lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why thank you Madam! I'm not sure whether these, or the pack of gawpers that follow any boot-knockers around like they're doing the bloody conga are the highest on the complete todger scale. Its close...but I think it's the blokes who pay twenty to thirty quid in, but can't afford a quid for jimmies. Twats!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I have been asked on a number of times if i have one for him to use. I find it very annoying. If you arent prepared then your not gonna have sex. Simple really.

spot on its bang out order if you dont cover up you anit going play i have horry story from chams a few weeks ago two guys were playing with a lady in an open room she was giving one head and could not see the other guy asked you have condom on he said yes he didnt and well carried on i was going to step in and say or no but i was on my own ,for me that is just out of order and they were not swingers just scum "

She needs to learn the rach around.i love being spit roasted,but before the cock goes in i always check that it is comdom clad.

i find single men tend to understand this tho.i remember once playing on the swing,and since my head was hanging down could,nt see what was going on.Before i even had a chance to speak several of the men playing with me had told someone trying to fuck me to put a condom on.

i honestly think the number of idiots is small

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By *eatroy74Man
over a year ago

southampton

As an ex boy scout I am always prepared, also not all condoms are the same so I want a fitted comfy fit not a bin bag! Yes I'm looking at you mates condoms yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do the clubs not provide them?"

can i ask this again?

don't the clubs provide them? thought it would be in their best interest to make sure they were available...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do the clubs not provide them?

can i ask this again?

don't the clubs provide them? thought it would be in their best interest to make sure they were available..."

In answer to your question. They sell them in the clubs - but they dont issue them free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On our frequent visits to clubs why do so many single guys not seem equiped with condoms? they begin play and when things are really heated up you ask do you have a condom? No is generally the reply... Although we have a supply shouldn't they be taking responsibility?"

get up and leave the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do the clubs not provide them?

can i ask this again?

don't the clubs provide them? thought it would be in their best interest to make sure they were available...

In answer to your question. They sell them in the clubs - but they dont issue them free "

thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been asked on a number of times if i have one for him to use. I find it very annoying. If you arent prepared then your not gonna have sex. Simple really.

spot on its bang out order if you dont cover up you anit going play i have horry story from chams a few weeks ago two guys were playing with a lady in an open room she was giving one head and could not see the other guy asked you have condom on he said yes he didnt and well carried on i was going to step in and say or no but i was on my own ,for me that is just out of order and they were not swingers just scum "

Personally I hope I never find myself in a position where I've taken leave of my senses in such a way that I put my own sexual health in the hands of a complete stranger! Hardly takes a second to look and feel...silly cow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do the clubs not provide them?

can i ask this again?

don't the clubs provide them? thought it would be in their best interest to make sure they were available...

In answer to your question. They sell them in the clubs - but they dont issue them free "

At Chams you can get free condoms...available behind the bar...just ask one of the staff... x

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By *eatroy74Man
over a year ago

southampton

Would u want to be with someone who takes those risks with there health not me thanks both sets should bring them to a meet. Club or party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been asked on a number of times if i have one for him to use. I find it very annoying. If you arent prepared then your not gonna have sex. Simple really.

spot on its bang out order if you dont cover up you anit going play i have horry story from chams a few weeks ago two guys were playing with a lady in an open room she was giving one head and could not see the other guy asked you have condom on he said yes he didnt and well carried on i was going to step in and say or no but i was on my own ,for me that is just out of order and they were not swingers just scum "

users! You should report stuff like this to the staff as they note those involved watch them and if there are more complaints will ban them.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I get my condoms free from Boots health clinic so always have loads with me (I can hope lol) so I would always make sure condoms are close to hand before any fun begins and make it clear they are mandatory!.

I also know the egyptian walk with one hand behind my back...too many idiots taking chances not to check!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I want our Boots to have a clinic....bloody cool that is

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I want our Boots to have a clinic....bloody cool that is "

It's great, I always tell people about it...free condoms, lube, femidoms etc. Free testing and other advice clinics. I always ask for latex free too and they oblige.

I was a bit shy about saying I was a swinger at first but now I've said it, it's no big deal. The staff have heard it all before and they even suggested having the Hep B jab for added safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I want our Boots to have a clinic....bloody cool that is

It's great, I always tell people about it...free condoms, lube, femidoms etc. Free testing and other advice clinics. I always ask for latex free too and they oblige.

I was a bit shy about saying I was a swinger at first but now I've said it, it's no big deal. The staff have heard it all before and they even suggested having the Hep B jab for added safety. "

Im thinking of the shopping I can do at the same time

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I want our Boots to have a clinic....bloody cool that is

It's great, I always tell people about it...free condoms, lube, femidoms etc. Free testing and other advice clinics. I always ask for latex free too and they oblige.

I was a bit shy about saying I was a swinger at first but now I've said it, it's no big deal. The staff have heard it all before and they even suggested having the Hep B jab for added safety.

Im thinking of the shopping I can do at the same time "

Ironically, the sexual health department is at the back of the baby department...I think there is a subliminal message there! lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I want our Boots to have a clinic....bloody cool that is

It's great, I always tell people about it...free condoms, lube, femidoms etc. Free testing and other advice clinics. I always ask for latex free too and they oblige.

I was a bit shy about saying I was a swinger at first but now I've said it, it's no big deal. The staff have heard it all before and they even suggested having the Hep B jab for added safety.

Im thinking of the shopping I can do at the same time

Ironically, the sexual health department is at the back of the baby department...I think there is a subliminal message there! lol"

Do you get points on your Boots card too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you use the condoms for anal, you get brownie ones

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I want our Boots to have a clinic....bloody cool that is

It's great, I always tell people about it...free condoms, lube, femidoms etc. Free testing and other advice clinics. I always ask for latex free too and they oblige.

I was a bit shy about saying I was a swinger at first but now I've said it, it's no big deal. The staff have heard it all before and they even suggested having the Hep B jab for added safety.

Im thinking of the shopping I can do at the same time

Ironically, the sexual health department is at the back of the baby department...I think there is a subliminal message there! lol

Do you get points on your Boots card too?? "

Ohhh I'll have to ask next time lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At Chams you can get free condoms...available behind the bar...just ask one of the staff... x

Is this both the chams? never knew this and perhaps that then makes it worse if they can get them free!

and like an earlier post said they have just paid £30 to get in i don't think it's the money thing, just taking chances.

I always check a man before they get anywhere near but it does make you wonder how many would be so happy to bareback?

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff


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or walk around with the same one on all night.... which is gross beyond belief!!!"

Yuck!

Reminds me of the story of 2 american teenage couples in a car, one brought a condom with him. When he finished doing the deed with his g/f he gave the condom to his mate, who then turned it inside out, stuck it on and poked his girlfriend with it...impregnating her with his friends sperm in the process lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the clubs supply them but we always take our own and yes we too have had to give them out to guys who don't appear to have any!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

can't i just say the person who walked round the club with condom on all night was bollocked by everyone...

most places are actually very good at self policing.. the only time it has come up was a lady on the swing and one of the people tried it on...

i asked.. wheres ya condom? he said what business what it of mine? to which i said she was one of my best mates... she was horrified he'd tried it on and swore to cut it off if he ever came near her again....

funny enough left the room without a peep....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At Chams you can get free condoms...available behind the bar...just ask one of the staff... x

Is this both the chams? never knew this and perhaps that then makes it worse if they can get them free!

and like an earlier post said they have just paid £30 to get in i don't think it's the money thing, just taking chances.

I always check a man before they get anywhere near but it does make you wonder how many would be so happy to bareback?

"

Definately at the Darlaston one...never been to Newport so not sure...

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By *irtygirl11Couple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

It's a bit like getting a bricklayer to do you a job and then he asks if you have a trowel he could borrow. Go equiped for the job guys!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" or walk around with the same one on all night.... which is gross beyond belief!!!"

thats as bad as not wearing one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can see why ths would all piss you off, that's quite trampy to be honest, even when your skint you should at least plan ahead and go to family planning haha.

as for that guy who wore the same johnny all night, that was something funny to wake up to, what a tramp ewww!!

but reading this thread has pointed out another potential issue, should i hit a swingersclub with a fb or on my own, a guy on his own seems like more bother than hes worth from what ive read loool. I want to have a good time, so ive got the idea of safe sex (duh) but is there anything i need to know before i pluck up the courage to go to a club n try and meet people????

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

Anyone can get them free from the family planning clinic there's no excuse really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my john has pockets on the inside of his boxers .... made them to hold condoms , maybe why thay dont have them some no place to put them ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Greed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Greed...

"
what you think thay dont wish to spend there money ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Greed...

what you think thay dont wish to spend there money ?"

yup...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

for some...

others just chancing their luck for bareback.

and/or combination of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for some...

others just chancing their luck for bareback.

and/or combination of both"
YES i would think your right about some who dont have them .... maybe clubs should have free ones all over the place in bowels may help .. would not cost them loads .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"for some...

others just chancing their luck for bareback.

and/or combination of both YES i would think your right about some who dont have them .... maybe clubs should have free ones all over the place in bowels may help .. would not cost them loads .

Ohhhhh Jo, you`ve just made my day.

I`m aware of your little difference, but "bowel" is such a better option than "bowl". pmsl, your a superstar. "

Totally agree...

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over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

mind ya... to those who like a good anal fisting...

it's creative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mind ya... to those who like a good anal fisting...

it's creative "

Some "party trick", priceless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're either chancers or don't have the bottle to go into a shop and buy some.

They probably have a drawer full of combs from their aborted attempts at buying condoms.......even the baldies!

XXXX"

or have partners and don't want to be caught with condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eww, puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"eww, puts me off."
now what puts you off ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for some...

others just chancing their luck for bareback.

and/or combination of both YES i would think your right about some who dont have them .... maybe clubs should have free ones all over the place in bowels may help .. would not cost them loads .

Ohhhhh Jo, you`ve just made my day.

I`m aware of your little difference, but "bowel" is such a better option than "bowl". pmsl, your a superstar.

Totally agree... "
bowel ok bowl. what if some weird person had a hang up about condons and got a pin put holes in them , maybe not a bowl but free thing on the wall .. xx just not all there so people can get to them ?

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

when we were at a swinger club a man tryed to have sex without a condom with me twice i plainly said to him dont even try it without,so cheeky really coz they give free condoms and lube in the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think clubs should employ staff to go round and ensure the lads are rubbered up , they just need to tap em on the shoulder " oi mate, get one on". My P.E teacher was apparantly a cock watcher, i could see if he wants a job ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make a very clear point that its condom only when I play and always ask - luckily I always have Hubby with me keeping an eye out and I have always found the other single guys keep an eye out as well. There have been occasions when people waiting to join in have been told by the other guys to put one on or you are arent playing with her. Thats always reassuring.

Bizarrely, in my experience its been male halfs of couples that have tried their luck with bareback more than single guys in clubs.. they always seem to try to slip it in discreetly thinking you wont notice!!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I do so love Jo and her typo's they really make me giggle

All I can say Jo is, cant wait to taste ya Cock Soup you make with your Cock Book, am sure my tongue will be hanging out for that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I do so love Jo and her typo's they really make me giggle

All I can say Jo is, cant wait to taste ya Cock Soup you make with your Cock Book, am sure my tongue will be hanging out for that one"
lolol i make good soup and i am a good cook and will make your mouth water. its just when i get excited my spelling go to pot i do alot here. lol and if you ever see my spelling is really REALLY GOOD YOU KNOW John been here reading and putting things right only now and again xxx lolol xx xx jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I do so love Jo and her typo's they really make me giggle

All I can say Jo is, cant wait to taste ya Cock Soup you make with your Cock Book, am sure my tongue will be hanging out for that one lolol i make good soup and i am a good cook and will make your mouth water. its just when i get excited my spelling go to pot i do alot here. lol and if you ever see my spelling is really REALLY GOOD YOU KNOW John been here reading and putting things right only now and again xxx lolol xx xx jo xxx"

ah but Jo you really made me chuckle tho,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I do so love Jo and her typo's they really make me giggle

All I can say Jo is, cant wait to taste ya Cock Soup you make with your Cock Book, am sure my tongue will be hanging out for that one lolol i make good soup and i am a good cook and will make your mouth water. its just when i get excited my spelling go to pot i do alot here. lol and if you ever see my spelling is really REALLY GOOD YOU KNOW John been here reading and putting things right only now and again xxx lolol xx xx jo xxx

ah but Jo you really made me chuckle tho, "
Thats ok then xxxxx

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