FabSwingers.com forum: Presents

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have any guys / ladies / couples ever gave you a present on your meet...i.e. flowers etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any guys / ladies / couples ever gave you a present on your meet...i.e. flowers etc..."

does a face full of spunk count?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's just a bonus lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any guys / ladies / couples ever gave you a present on your meet...i.e. flowers etc...

does a face full of spunk count?"

Whatabout Herpes?..it's the present that keeps giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never turned up to meet without summat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely but have had wine,a mini vibe,anal beads,batteries chocolates,oh and condoms so upon reflection not bad in one year.lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

SexySuffolk you certainly get some interesting presents.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Ohh my god, never got any presents, but guess then again we get most of our meets now from our local swingers club.

But for any single guys out there we may meet i just love flowers LOL xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes..flowers..or a bottle of wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now only accept diamonds from my intended meets.

No I havent had any presents, neither do I expect any. I think if you were going to a party then taking a bottle is a nice gesture. But swinging is very different from going on a date where some guys may feel it nice to take the lady a bunch of flowers. You have to be careful on misinterpretation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually on most meets presents are exchanged from what we've experienced. Think it's kind of the same as having a dinner party the guests usually bring a bottle of wine or flowers etc.. That's our experience on it anyway.

We've also exchanged birthday gifts too for our regular friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the nice little touches are acceptable, the kind of thing that we would do with our friends, flowers / wine etc, nothing expensive.

Asking for lingerie to be bought by men so that it can be modelled during the meet by the female is, in my opinion, wrong. Or wanting a hotel meet at The Savoy in London.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

We always take a small token...usually a box of chocholates...just seems respectful really? We always take a bottle of red and a bottle of white....one of us has to drive so no booze for them....usually one bottle remains un opened but again its the thought and respect aspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a present from a meet... and to be fair would not accept one if offered..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not even flowers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not even flowers?"

nope.. :D

Katie.x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i have had the odd bottle of wine from random meets etc

i have had 2 regular guys buy me toys, glass dildo, flogger, inflateable dildo etc which was very nice of them, hog tie set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not even flowers?

nope.. :D

Katie.x"

I havent either, but I dont think couples do get presents, unless they are having a house party and its a bottle of wine etc.

Im a cynical old bugger and if I was a single woman swinging and a guy turned up with presents (a) i might feel obliged to play, even the first time of meeting him and (b) is it a ploy to increase the chances of a re-meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can understand you been cynical but some guys just think its a nice gesture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not even flowers?

nope.. :D

Katie.x

I havent either, but I dont think couples do get presents, unless they are having a house party and its a bottle of wine etc.

We rarely play as a couple.. :D its normally me and the single guy/guys.. :D

I always meet socially first.. and yes I do expect them to buy my drink... but thats just good manners.. ( a man should always buy for a lady.. ) If they were crap in bed they wouldnt get invited back even if they brought me a gift.

Katie.x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"yes!!!"

Given the opportunity for a meet

I'd give you one

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ive accumulated a few pressies along the way,nothing major, although the champagne is always welcome

I have never had floweres though and to be honest I would'nt want them

So lets go over this again to make things clear....

Champagne........always welcome

Flowers........no thanks they don't bubble or fizz or make a great pop when you open them

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap, I've had champers and also wine, I think it is only manners, as my meets always tend to be at mine, I shouldn't be expected to lay on all the refreshments now should I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeap, I've had champers and also wine, I think it is only manners, as my meets always tend to be at mine, I shouldn't be expected to lay on all the refreshments now should I?

you lay on refreshments ???

lol

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can understand you been cynical but some guys just think its a nice gesture."

Oh I agree it is a lovely gesture, but a token item, nothing expensive or over the top and certainly a token that comes without any hidden agenda

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Flowers, beer, wine usually. I think its a nice gesture. Wouldnt feel comfortable accepting anything expensive from a meet.

Best "haul" i got for want of a better word from one guy was 2 bottles of champagne, bottle of baileys, bottle of vodka, think it was four boxes of chocolate loads of fruit and half ounce of cocaine lol. Not that i wanted the drugs. But thats what he brought over all on one meet lol

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

"Flowers, beer, wine usually. I think its a nice gesture. Wouldnt feel comfortable accepting anything expensive from a meet.

When's he leaving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flowers, beer, wine usually. I think its a nice gesture. Wouldnt feel comfortable accepting anything expensive from a meet.

And you actually had time to "play". If someone had brought 4 boxes of chocolates and two bottles of champagne, Im not sure Id want the sex. Well I guess it would be ok if I was in the doggy position, could still carry on eating and drinking then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never turned up to meet without summat xx

ur dick in ur hand dont count

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea i have i think its nice

an repectfull tho i dont look

for anything from anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flowers, beer, wine usually. I think its a nice gesture. Wouldnt feel comfortable accepting anything expensive from a meet.

When's he leaving?"

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every week for the last three years: flowers, home and office. I've received a gold rose, plane tickets to Italy, tickets to West End shows, wine, champagne, chocolates, ear rings, lube (I'm stingy with it apparently)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

champers, fruit, that's it so far.

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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago

sea

"I now only accept diamonds from my intended meets.

So a pearl necklace wouldn't be an alternative then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every week for the last three years: flowers, home and office. I've received a gold rose, plane tickets to Italy, tickets to West End shows, wine, champagne, chocolates, ear rings, lube (I'm stingy with it apparently)!

bloody hell, lol, right im out to buy my whips and floggers tomorrow and take up your line of business tomorrow - Madame Feebs, be great. So if any guy wants me to flog his bottom in a hotel room overlooking Central Park in New York City then mail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely turn up empty handed, flowers wine champagne.....but that's just the way I was brought up, even a packet of biscuits or cakes or soup and rolls during the day. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any guys / ladies / couples ever gave you a present on your meet...i.e. flowers etc..."

Always take something - just as you would when visiting anyone. The fact it's a swing meet is no excuse for forgetting your manners.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

if we go to other peoples houses, swinging or not.we always take flowers.

it's just manners,to give something.is'nt it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes wine, sometimes flowers or chocolates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They only get coffee, fresh towels, hot shower and toothbrush. Imagine my haul if I fed them too!

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Never had anything - feeling deprived now!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Awww sending you a big hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if we go to other peoples houses, swinging or not.we always take flowers.

it's just manners,to give something.is'nt it.

O once turned up to a lady with some flowers and she said... "wow I suppose now you want me to open my legs !!"

I said " why don't you have a vase !?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had chocltes wine flowers perfume a gorgeous pair of shoes ooh and one guy insisted on bringing wadges of cash and showering me with it "a la george best and miss world " i didnt ask him to(and so never would) but it was all part of his fantasy ...would have been rude not to accept !!!

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

A bottle of Pino Grigio every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its only manners to take something if your going to someones home, normally I will take flowers or a bottle of wine.

I have had flowers, wine, vodka, chocolates, ice lollies, a couple of books.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it is good manners to take a bottle of wine, flowers etc if you have been invited to someone's home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never have been given a pressie on a meet until last time and i got lovely boots from the lady!

Always bring wine or vodka or something to meets.

Would love a meet to buy me something.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shame your so far away.

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