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unread equals No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So if a sent message goes unread how long before deleting from sent box assuming recipient is saying no thanks?

Is deleting from sent box too soon, which is visible to recipient, a sign of shallow and only mild interest?

And can you assume unread equals no, or for ladies in particular who receive so much mail was it lost amongst the masses? So do you try again and give up after two attempts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The recipient can't see when you delete sent messages. I would delete as soon as you send so that you don't end up constantly monitoring your sent items.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can see I got that bit wrong so yes, maybe a good strategy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The recipient can't see when you delete sent messages. I would delete as soon as you send so that you don't end up constantly monitoring your sent items."

Oh, and thanks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You can't really assume anything, the best thing as said above is to delete if you want to. Trying to second guess others intentions will drive you crazy.

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

If it's unread just send another message every couple of hours

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Assume as much as you want to, it won't make any difference to the outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's unread just send another message every couple of hours "

Yes that's exactly what you should do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Assume as much as you want to, it won't make any difference to the outcome. "

Some logic there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send and forget. Only think about them again if they reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a site supporter so just keep your Sent folder empty, that way you wont go mad

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