FabSwingers.com forum: Being 41 sucks! lol

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just turned 41 which seems to be a benchmark for swingers. I now can't email half the couples I used to chat to as they have an upper age limit of 40!

I still feel the same as I did a few weeks ago, this ageism!!

Eddie

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

If you have had previous contact with them, you can still have contact with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have had previous contact with them, you can still have contact with them. "

That's what i thought...maybe they just blocked you, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore being 41!

.... you can always chAnge your DOB on your profile .... or is that cheating ?!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

But in a few years you'll be old enough for the young ladies who have daddy fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till you turn 60. Makes us suck it even better!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think you need to be friends to over come the age restrictions. So it's those I have occassional chats with that I'm now outside of.

All good fun though, I'm coming to terms with my veteran status!

Eddie

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you need to be friends to over come the age restrictions. So it's those I have occassional chats with that I'm now outside of.

All good fun though, I'm coming to terms with my veteran status!

Eddie

From the message filter section.....

"Filters don't apply and people can message if you've mailed someone before (if you message someone you have filtered, they can reply), you have winked at someone, or you are friends."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came into my own in my 40s!

Best sex of my life!!!

40 is the new 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't seem to have problems at 49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nor us at 50+ !!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

41 is young you're probably not even half way through your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive noticed this aswell. And even if you have chatted before it says not the age there looking for. Must just apply to single guys

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Think you need to be friends to over come the age restrictions. So it's those I have occassional chats with that I'm now outside of.

All good fun though, I'm coming to terms with my veteran status!

Eddie

I recently changed mine from 30-48 to 32-48... And 30 year olds I have had contact with can still mail me. We are not friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 41 one I just find the older I get the younger the guys who mail me get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait til you hit 50

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wait til you hit 50

Wait until til you hit 59

fab pariah or what!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex life took a massive turn for the better when I turned 40. Enjoy this new era and take heart from all those older than you who are having a ball!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I know this is a tongue in cheek thread and the op is just joking but quite a few people complain that their age is holding them back not just here but in all walks of life. That's a shame because it's something you can't change (well, we all know some do

) and you will never be any younger than you are now. Learn from the past, look to the future, live in the present.

Here endeth the sermon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone is telling me sex will be great now I'm 40 but none of you lot are offering it to me!

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

The over 40 thing seem to affect men and women differently

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

Speaking as a 41 year old.... I've never been happier or more active.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm 43 today. I'm still getting as many messages as when I was in my 30's.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I do wonder why I get so many messages from 20-somethings though. What's the huge fascination with older women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I change my age ranges every so often,just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do wonder why I get so many messages from 20-somethings though. What's the huge fascination with older women?"

Always wondered the same myself I find very few guys my age or older have any interest in me but I get hundreds of mail from young guys

It's really hard to find meets when 99% of the guys who mail you aren't what your looking for and the guy you do like and mail don't mail you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just turned 41 which seems to be a benchmark for swingers. I now can't email half the couples I used to chat to as they have an upper age limit of 40!

I still feel the same as I did a few weeks ago, this ageism!!

Eddie

If you've mailed them in the past then you still can.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I know this is a tongue in cheek thread and the op is just joking but quite a few people complain that their age is holding them back not just here but in all walks of life. That's a shame because it's something you can't change (well, we all know some do

) and you will never be any younger than you are now. Learn from the past, look to the future, live in the present.

Here endeth the sermon

I actually forget how old I am sometimes. Always a surprise when I come up against age filters.

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By *edhead OneWoman
over a year ago

croydon

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By *edhead OneWoman
over a year ago

croydon

Anyone under 40 stay in bed you don't exsist yet, life does begin at 40 & just gets better in my experience, draw on the past & live the future! Smiles to all.

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By *onlyshowWoman
over a year ago

your dreams

Hey sexy bum..

Well they don't know what they're missing then, being in my 40s has been the best time of my life..

Old enough to know better young enough not to care..

Us old people don't have hangups about age..

Just start searching for a more mature fabber

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We didn't start swinging until we were over 40. Not having any problems meeting people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all!

I'm going to set my age lower age limit so these 40 year kids can't bother me anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 40 was pretty good. Being 41 is so far also rather marvellous.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm absolutely loving my 40's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say we noticed any real transition from 40 to 41, just carried on meeting people, having fun and generally enjoying life

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I join fabs in 2013 - so mine start to suck at 42.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great to hear everyone else is ok and it's just me!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"If you have had previous contact with them, you can still have contact with them.

That's what i thought...maybe they just blocked you, OP?"

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Life begins at 40 it's true , I'm 2 years in and loving it , although on the run up I dreaded it

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

"I do wonder why I get so many messages from 20-somethings though. What's the huge fascination with older women?

Always wondered the same myself I find very few guys my age or older have any interest in me but I get hundreds of mail from young guys

It's really hard to find meets when 99% of the guys who mail you aren't what your looking for and the guy you do like and mail don't mail you back

well you haven't mailed me yet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey don't knock us 41 year olds we've still got it and with experience haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive noticed this aswell. And even if you have chatted before it says not the age there looking for. Must just apply to single guys "

I agree with this. The age thing affects guys more than it does couples or fems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus you people (women) just arent listening to him are you?? Hes not asking how good sex is after 40 or amazing your life got after 40 etc. He cant get a meet for love nor money cos you all dont wanna meet a guy over 40! So how about addressing that instead of wandering off on irrelevant tangents??

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Jesus you people (women) just arent listening to him are you?? Hes not asking how good sex is after 40 or amazing your life got after 40 etc. He cant get a meet for love nor money cos you all dont wanna meet a guy over 40! So how about addressing that instead of wandering off on irrelevant tangents??"

Oooooh get you!

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By *wicethepleasureCouple
over a year ago

falkirk

Never performed better and I've just turned 42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha welcome to old age... You want to try being our age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to hear everyone else is ok and it's just me!

yeah..it's definitely you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hitting 40 scares the F out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha welcome to old age... You want to try being our age lol"

looking at your verifications, I'm guessing the OP would love to try being your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im staying 35 forever

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By *J2123Man
over a year ago

Try being 23 when people's age ranges start at 24 or 25 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what age you are you'll find someone here you think is perfect for you... But they won't look at you because of your age

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've just turned 41 which seems to be a benchmark for swingers. I now can't email half the couples I used to chat to as they have an upper age limit of 40!

I still feel the same as I did a few weeks ago, this ageism!!

Eddie

If you've mailed them in the past then you still can."

As long as the recipient replied to you you can still message those folk again unless they block you.

I'm 52 tomorrow , ..I'm always surprised how many folk seem to focus on those who exclude them .. .age excludes me along with other factors that I can't control , look for those who includeyou in their preferences..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try being 23 when people's age ranges start at 24 or 25 lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame for you OP. I'm about to fall out of the scope of some age preferences too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a preference for guys around my age so have never had a problem until today when I went to message a couple age 39 and 41 and found I was 11 years too old hehe

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

40 is the new 30"

It didn't quite work in my favor last time I've sent this reply when got a speeding ticket

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"Try being 23 when people's age ranges start at 24 or 25 lol"

Things to look forward to then

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I'm nearly 41 and not short of offeres

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think you need to be friends to over come the age restrictions. So it's those I have occassional chats with that I'm now outside of.

All good fun though, I'm coming to terms with my veteran status!

Eddie

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no they dont have to be friends just people that youve spoke to in tge past

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I luv to suck 41 year olds xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I luv to suck 41 year olds xxxxx Suzi

I'll be right over!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

38 in just over a week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait till you turn 60. Makes us suck it even better!"

Is that because you have no teeth??

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Im 41 (Mrs) and my oh is 45, sex only gets better and we have never found age a problem on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

less than a month into my 51st year and I have to say things are certainly looking up

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Well 41 that really is completely past your prime all down hill from here on..

But for me each year that is added to my age seems to ensure more enjoyment.

Ignore the number, it's only that a number, it's how you live your life that defines you, think young, keep active, make others smile (hopefully they will return the favour)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wait until u hit 45 it's worse than as it's harder lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wait until u hit 45 it's worse than as it's harder lol "

I'll make the most of the next 4 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just turned 41 which seems to be a benchmark for swingers. I now can't email half the couples I used to chat to as they have an upper age limit of 40!

I still feel the same as I did a few weeks ago, this ageism!!

Eddie

We only meet 35plus guys

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

It's Ageism that's what it is! Quick call the 'Umin Roights Lawyers we should sue.

Seriously age is just a number, if you are in shape, got your own teeth and hair (extensions notwithstanding) and have a lovely smile and personality we are all good with that. Good conversation would be a bonus!

p.s A is 50 and B is stunning at 21+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came into my own in my 40s!

Best sex of my life!!!

40 is the new 30"

Yes .....yes it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh to be 41 again lol ,I've just turned 49

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm hotter at 43 than I was at 42 and I intend to be hotter, slimmer and fitter at 45 than I am today.

I'm certainly having more fun this year than I did last year, or in the last 5 years.

A lot of that is down to my attitude.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Just wait until u hit 45 it's worse than as it's harder lol

I'll make the most of the next 4 years!"

Nah, there will still be loads of couples/women that meet 45 year olds.

Wait til I've lost a couple more stone and I'll message you begging for a shag. I'll even wear latex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

41!? You're a mere pup. If only I could turn back the clock 3 years and be 41 again ..

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