FabSwingers.com forum: A rough blow job

By *appyjack890 OP Man
over a year ago

North loncolnshire

A few times over the years now when recieving oral, i have found more often than not women seem to get very rough giving a blow job.

Don't get me wrong i love getting ANY blow job but it can sometimes hurt when the skin is pulled right back and really roughly handled.

As i said im not complaining too much.

Do other guys say anything to girls they are with?

Girls would you want a guy telling you how to do it or do you prefer having your own style?

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I don't think my style is rough and I get told how great my oral skills are a lot. However if I was giving one that wasn't enjoyed I would want to be told as it is supposed to be enjoyable for me and the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few times over the years now when recieving oral, i have found more often than not women seem to get very rough giving a blow job.

Don't get me wrong i love getting ANY blow job but it can sometimes hurt when the skin is pulled right back and really roughly handled.

As i said im not complaining too much.

Do other guys say anything to girls they are with?

Girls would you want a guy telling you how to do it or do you prefer having your own style?"

I love my cock to be roughly and tightly squeezed but not pulled back too hard or far. Can hurt immensely if pulled too far back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite like my cock being used hard n rough but always talk to the girl n tell her how u want it sucked as I really like variation

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By *appyjack890 OP Man
over a year ago

North loncolnshire

Im always worried about spoiling the mood.

I have had a lot that have been very enjoyable and really loved them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex liked rough bjs and loved me to use my teeth on him...... what a shock that was xx

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

I'm circumscised and pretty thick so basically if a girl can't open her mouth wide there is tooth scraping. Which is awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm circumscised and pretty thick so basically if a girl can't open her mouth wide there is tooth scraping. Which is awful"

Scraping is not nice but I don't mind a bit of gentle nibbling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm circumscised and pretty thick so basically if a girl can't open her mouth wide there is tooth scraping. Which is awful"

Same here , and luckily Sabrina has a quiet word with the ladies first , saying no teeth ,and not too rough please .

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

"I'm circumscised and pretty thick so basically if a girl can't open her mouth wide there is tooth scraping. Which is awful

Same here , and luckily Sabrina has a quiet word with the ladies first , saying no teeth ,and not too rough please .

She's a keeper

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By *espectful rogueMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

I've had experiences like this to, I always communicate with the lady in question but when your in the moment your pain threshold is higher, I've had my banjo string snapped, she had to suck me off softer with blood in her mouth, I finshed my load and she swallowed, didn't seem to faze her think she was sorry she snapped my banjo any one else had there banjo snapped must be 100s

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Find hands in her hair controls things nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snapped my 1st time I had sex, was awkward, blood everywhere quite painful too

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I've had bruising under the surface on the top and round the sounds from scraping - doesn't really hurt at the time but then gets sore the next day and looks terrible!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If a man was being too rough with me I would tell him nicely (the first time

). I would expect a man to tell me too, there are ways of doing it nicely. If someone takes offence at you asking them to be more gentle they aren't respecting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy skype ?

Cherry4007

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I always ask if it feels good. Even wanking I ask how someone likes it done. Communication is the key - I want to send him wild for the right reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tighs*

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

That is how I suck dick, i feel that the whole cock needs attention not just the head, I love looking into a guys eyes while his cock is in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

That is how I suck dick, i feel that the whole cock needs attention not just the head, I love looking into a guys eyes while his cock is in my mouth "

Well that's exactly how it should be

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's how I've always done it, never needed to be rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being spoken to while I'm giving oral. I will lift mu head and ask if he likes what I'm doing and want to be told what he likes. Get to know someone first and he will feel comfortable directing if needed. People like different things,I wouldn't expect everyone to want it the same way. My favourite is how bearded described further up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

That is how I suck dick, i feel that the whole cock needs attention not just the head, I love looking into a guys eyes while his cock is in my mouth

Well that's exactly how it should be

It's how I like to do it,I find it relaxing.

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By *arker66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Love rough blow job

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

That is how I suck dick, i feel that the whole cock needs attention not just the head, I love looking into a guys eyes while his cock is in my mouth

Well that's exactly how it should be

It's how I like to do it,I find it relaxing."

It's more of a turn on for me as well doing it this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What man in hes right mind is gonna say. Hey love your shit at sucking cock when you have hes cock in hes mouth. More like thats enough time for fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like being spoken to while I'm giving oral. I will lift mu head and ask if he likes what I'm doing and want to be told what he likes. Get to know someone first and he will feel comfortable directing if needed. People like different things,I wouldn't expect everyone to want it the same way. My favourite is how bearded described further up. "

Totally agree with you, often the first time isn't the best at all, and it takes time to get know what the person is and like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

That is how I suck dick, i feel that the whole cock needs attention not just the head, I love looking into a guys eyes while his cock is in my mouth

Well that's exactly how it should be

It's how I like to do it,I find it relaxing.

It's more of a turn on for me as well doing it this way "

For me as well, I french kissing pussy exactly the same way as well... just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the wife as been known to get a little over keen she know tells guys to gently tap her on the head if she's getting to rough lol they never do though

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

That is how I suck dick, i feel that the whole cock needs attention not just the head, I love looking into a guys eyes while his cock is in my mouth

Well that's exactly how it should be

It's how I like to do it,I find it relaxing.

It's more of a turn on for me as well doing it this way

For me as well, I french kissing pussy exactly the same way as well... just saying

Proof is required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

That is how I suck dick, i feel that the whole cock needs attention not just the head, I love looking into a guys eyes while his cock is in my mouth

Well that's exactly how it should be

It's how I like to do it,I find it relaxing.

It's more of a turn on for me as well doing it this way

For me as well, I french kissing pussy exactly the same way as well... just saying

Proof is required

You'll discover it soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I give a rough blow job at all.

However, I'm happy to be directed by the guy, I want him to enjoy it too, so I want to know what he likes.

I've gone down on enough guys to know it's not a one size fits all approach but I've never been with one who wanted it particularly rough

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"The best blowjob, in my opinion must be slow and sensual, not only focusing on the head but all the lenght of the penis, without forgeting the scrotum.

French kissing the inner tights as well while running the hands on the chest ...

That is how I suck dick, i feel that the whole cock needs attention not just the head, I love looking into a guys eyes while his cock is in my mouth

Well that's exactly how it should be

It's how I like to do it,I find it relaxing.

It's more of a turn on for me as well doing it this way

For me as well, I french kissing pussy exactly the same way as well... just saying

Proof is required

You'll discover it soon enough

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

london

"A few times over the years now when recieving oral, i have found more often than not women seem to get very rough giving a blow job.

Don't get me wrong i love getting ANY blow job but it can sometimes hurt when the skin is pulled right back and really roughly handled.

As i said im not complaining too much.

Do other guys say anything to girls they are with?

Girls would you want a guy telling you how to do it or do you prefer having your own style?"

I have had the same issue, some can't open their mouth wide enough...which leads to sometimes an unpleasant time; as it's probably not the best time to criticise when someone has your cock in their mouth ??

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Some guidance can be a good thing as all guys like them slightly different, no one reads minds, maybe facial expressions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock is pretty sensitive so i like a gentle bj and will always discuss this with a fem before play begins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few times over the years now when recieving oral, i have found more often than not women seem to get very rough giving a blow job.

Don't get me wrong i love getting ANY blow job but it can sometimes hurt when the skin is pulled right back and really roughly handled.

As i said im not complaining too much.

Do other guys say anything to girls they are with?

Girls would you want a guy telling you how to do it or do you prefer having your own style?"

You should be able to tell if they are enjoying it or not

Reading somebody's body language is quite important during sex

If you are hurting them you should pick up in that and common sense tells you to try something else surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to forget keeping it well lubricated my saliva and lots of eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im always worried about spoiling the mood.

I have had a lot that have been very enjoyable and really loved them."

Talking would not necessarily spoil the mood...it would depend on what is said and how it is said

A bit of dirty talk can be the very opposite of a mood spoiler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm circumscised and pretty thick so basically if a girl can't open her mouth wide there is tooth scraping. Which is awful"

Oh dear! I'm always concerned about tooth scrapes so I always tuck my lips over my teeth to make sure and always check what I am doing is ok, gives the guy a chance to ask for something different.

As for someone else's comment about spoiling the mood, it would spoil my mood if I later found out you didn't enjoy what I was doing, it is the reason we are all here to have some enjoyment together from eachother!

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By *appyjack890 OP Man
over a year ago

North loncolnshire

Think ill start saying how i like it from now on.

Love a slow and sensual one with plenty of eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm circumscised and pretty thick so basically if a girl can't open her mouth wide there is tooth scraping. Which is awful

Oh dear! I'm always concerned about tooth scrapes so I always tuck my lips over my teeth to make sure and always check what I am doing is ok, gives the guy a chance to ask for something different.

Totally agree

I absolutely love giving head but enjoy it much more if the guy is actually enjoying what I'm doing lol

So I'm always checking for body language and love it when they tell me what they prefer as every guy is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of sandpaper would sort out a rough BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I like it soft and sensual, building up to faster and frantic. Rough is usually bad! I once met a girl who was so rough with giving head it felt like her teeth were spikes... Not that you should feel teeth much when getting sucked!!! I had to push her off and fuck her just to stay hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come try one of mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I give a rough blow job at all.

However, I'm happy to be directed by the guy, I want him to enjoy it too, so I want to know what he likes.

I've gone down on enough guys to know it's not a one size fits all approach but I've never been with one who wanted it particularly rough

You sound perfect

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